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Haifisch posted:I [21M] am uncomfortable with gf [21F] of two years's music choices during sex You both sound very immature, OP, so think of it this way: after you break up, you will associate music you never liked anyway with her, which will ease your time moving on. Yay! Good ending!
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:15 |
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# ? May 30, 2024 14:13 |
Haifisch posted:I [21M] am uncomfortable with gf [21F] of two years's music choices during sex Both of them have very boring sex music taste.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:15 |
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Blade Runner posted:The issue is that she utterly lacks interest in sex Otoh she refers to "asexuality in its different forms" and "I’m not sure fully where I fit in on that [asexuality] spectrum." If you look at this asexuality community on the internet, like she's been doing, literally anything short of "I want to gently caress strangers the moment I see them" is on "the asexuality spectrum," so no kidding she sees herself there now that she's looking for it. I think they're incompatible for sure, but I think her actual issue is just having a somewhat lower sex drive than he does (which is so common it's addressed in every women's magazine), not actually being asexual as non-Tumblr people would understand it.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:15 |
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Haifisch posted:I [21M] am uncomfortable with gf [21F] of two years's music choices during sex Dude needs to play crazy frog to get into groove, imo.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:16 |
Get some dark electronica up in that business.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:18 |
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hawowanlawow posted:If you're asexual, find another asexual person to be with. Otherwise you're an rear end in a top hat This is literally the beginning and end of this whole conversation lol If you're not into sex that's completely cool. For a lot of people, however, sex is a pretty big part of a romantic relationship, and you shouldn't be shocked that people want to date people they're romantically compatible with. You can have meaningful relationships with people without fuckin them, that's called "being friends"
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:18 |
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Haifisch posted:I [21M] am uncomfortable with gf [21F] of two years's music choices during sex People that need music on to get anything done drive me loving bananas.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:20 |
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Anne Whateley posted:The issue is that she doesn't initiate. Which again can be a legit relationship problem, but if she were what most people recognize as asexual, she would turn him down when he initiated, she wouldn't be okay with it, she might think it's gross and be upset about it, she would want never to have sex again. None of those things show up in what she wrote. Just a couple months ago we had a story with an asexual girl who didn't have any interest in sex whatsoever, with anyone, and never had, but she noted she was basically fine with having sex with her boyfriend but just treating it as a boring chore in the same way someone would treat washing dishes or vacuuming She does not have a "lower" sex drive, she has not been interested in sex for 18 months (He was not alright with this, to note. She was surprised.)
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:21 |
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tactlessbastard posted:People that need music on to get anyone done drive my loving banana.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:22 |
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I figured the music is more to cover over the sound of loving to be less rude to your neighbors/flatmates.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:24 |
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Let’s start with something light I (25/f) am considering not spending the night at my boyfriend’s (25/m) house anymore because his mom won’t let us sleep in the same room quote:u/flounder19601953
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:26 |
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chitoryu12 posted:Both of them have very boring sex music taste. Agreed. Weird Al Yankovic or GTFO!
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:29 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I figured the music is more to cover over the sound of loving to be less rude to your neighbors/flatmates. I had upstairs neighbors once that I could hear having sex frequently and it was absolutely hilarious to me every single time. But I figure this couple just think if they don't have music playing then it's "less romantic".
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:30 |
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It’s amazing the rubicons people will construct for themselves. [NSFW] let boyfriend [24M] do something in bed while I [21F] was drunk and I really regret it quote:u/throwawayequalsnull I think you’re going to have to torch the relationship, and see if there’s a ceremony to do recreate your anal virginity.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:31 |
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Milotic posted:Let’s start with something light So for years my dad said my partners weren't permitted to sleep in the same room as me, regardless of how old I was, when I came to visit their home. He always said, "My house, my rules", that sort of deal. When I started dating my husband, after we'd been together for about 8 months, I took him to my parents to introduce them and when my dad tried to pull his shtick, I said no, and if he didn't like it, we'd go to a motel. He caved immediately. This dude is a loving weenie.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:33 |
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Araenna posted:Most asexual people do feel romantic attraction, and want to be in loving relationships for the same reason everyone else does. I'm not sure why you'd assume that someone not wanting or liking sex means they can't fall in love. I thought the point of asexual was that they didn't feel attraction to anyone? Otherwise you're just gay/straight/bi with no sex drive? Maybe I'm just misunderstanding asexuals.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:33 |
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Milotic posted:
Men only get married so they can buttfuck their wives. She knows the secret.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:35 |
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Milotic posted:I just feel so bummed out over the whole ordeal.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:36 |
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[quote="Milotic" post=""487414137"] I think you’re going to have to torch the relationship, and see if there’s a ceremony to do recreate your anal virginity. [/quote] Madonna’s followup song to like a virgin was not well recieved
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:36 |
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I didnt catch that the first time
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:37 |
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tactlessbastard posted:People that need music on to get anything done drive me loving bananas. Exceptions made for that track that loops in the anarch bar in vampire bloodlines
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:38 |
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Milotic posted:Let’s start with something light You fool! People spend money on hormone treatments to feel like horny teenagers again, and all you have to do is go visit your boyfriend's Mom?!
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:40 |
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Another asexual story.quote:My (19F) boyfriend (20M) threatened to break up when I asked him to stop making sexual remarks. Let us compromise and meet in the middle so we can both be unhappy.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:43 |
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failing forward posted:So for years my dad said my partners weren't permitted to sleep in the same room as me, regardless of how old I was, when I came to visit their home. He always said, "My house, my rules", that sort of deal. When I started dating my husband, after we'd been together for about 8 months, I took him to my parents to introduce them and when my dad tried to pull his shtick, I said no, and if he didn't like it, we'd go to a motel. He caved immediately. This dude is a loving weenie. Yeah my dad tried this when my girlfriend came to start at our house for a week when I was 21. I said no, he didn't care enough to torch our relationship over it, which was the right call by him.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:43 |
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quote:I wanted to save my backdoor virginity until marriage.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:43 |
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Boyfriend (25m) of 1 year wants to travel to Thailand with his primary schoolmates (5f5m)quote:u/cactusclaz
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:46 |
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My mom also tried that "you can't sleep in the same room as your long term live in boyfriend!" game but dropped it pretty much as soon as she realized that we'd just stay with my dad then when we visited town.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:49 |
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You can kind of tell even the olds don't actually believe in the "no premarital sex" thing anymore. It's this weird bit of zombie morality that fits in with nothing nowadays.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:50 |
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A lot of them never believed in it at the first place, it was just lip service.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 17:56 |
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I don't know how you'd ever stop teenagers loving eachother all the time unless you had some kind of invasive theocracy that would hack you to pieces if you erred. I was told much later in life that my family didn't "approve" of some of my choices (living in sin and so forth) and I couldn't contain my disbelieving laughter. A bunch of old people who got just as sticky as anyone before and after them trying to police behavior.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:01 |
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quote:I am not asking whether I should let him go. The problem is, I already told him my concern in a very serious one-on-one fashion, and I have even warned him that if he decides to go eventually, he shall also expect a downturn of our relationship as well after he comes back. "if you go on this trip you can expect me to be a petty bitch for at least a couple of months when you get back, and it's going to be super awkward" This form of ultimatum is the the weakest, shittiest and least binding form of ultimatum. Effectively, you are just being a whiny turd.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:02 |
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That said if I ever had high school aged kids bringing their bfs/gfs over I'd tell them to go gently caress in the bushes.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:02 |
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edit: didn't refresh
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:03 |
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Wasn't there a summer movie all about a bunch of parents trying to stop their teenagers from having an orgy?
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:07 |
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1) A good chunk of the subreddits problems would have been solved by no pre-marital sex 2) it’s great training for when you have little ones!
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:08 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Wasn't there a summer movie all about a bunch of parents trying to stop their teenagers from having an orgy? I bet I know how it ended. Everyone chickens out and decides that being with one partner is sometimes plenty.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:08 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Wasn't there a summer movie all about a bunch of parents trying to stop their teenagers from having an orgy? Yeah we just watched it, it was ok I guess but it wasn't about an orgy. The kids were just all gonna *eggplant emoji* *peach emoji* after prom. Get it, because kids do the emojis? That was an actual joke in the movie. There were numerous jokes based on emojis, i would say roughly 10 emoji jokes for the parents to laugh at, ya know? Just good clean fun.
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:31 |
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Who said romance is dead No one is going to buttfuck the cow if they can buttfuck the milk
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# ? Aug 27, 2018 18:36 |
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Taima posted:Yeah we just watched it, it was ok I guess but it wasn't about an orgy. that sounds like it'll age real well
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I browsed the Wikipedia summary and it sounds not only bad, but boring. And also bad.
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