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Haifisch posted:My Husband (22M) Settled For Me (F21) "We got a house on base" is where the sled was pushed to start flying downhill. Baronjutter posted:Don't date fats, smokers, or military. CannonFodder fucked around with this message at 19:31 on Sep 15, 2018 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Why would you deprive your cats of this buffet? I find enough heads and butts on my porch as it is. Chipmunks, moles, mice, lizards and those weird adorable kangaroo rat things.
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[20F] Student Extremely Depressed and Codependent on Toxic Ex [21M] (Together 3.5 Years); Just Want to Talk and Vent (WARNING: LONG)quote:Hi Reddit
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LadyPictureShow posted:[20F] Student Extremely Depressed and Codependent on Toxic Ex [21M] (Together 3.5 Years); Just Want to Talk and Vent (WARNING: LONG) Talk about sunk cost fallacy (what got me through that post)
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Hey guys, I have BPD and the way people talk about people with BPD here is really poo poo sometimes. That's all.
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moosetoucher posted:Hey guys, I have BPD and the way people talk about people with BPD here is really poo poo sometimes. That's all. I know it's annoying, but BPD is much like Autism, as most people know it from lovely people using it as an excuse to be a total rear end in a top hat. It's a terrible bias, but understandable. A very vocal minority
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Miserable Maid posted:I know it's annoying, but BPD is much like Autism, as most people know it from lovely people using it as an excuse to be a total rear end in a top hat. It's a terrible bias, but understandable. A very vocal minority That's not actually a good reason to talk about an entire group of people like they don't deserve human rights. You don't exactly get a choice whether you have Autism/BPD or not.
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endlessmonotony posted:That's not actually a good reason to talk about an entire group of people like they don't deserve human rights. You don't exactly get a choice whether you have Autism/BPD or not. drat dog, they're just saying they shouldn't be dated, not rounding them up and putting them in camps
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the UN has roundly rejected proposals to recognize a human right to my dilz
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Miserable Maid posted:I know it's annoying, but BPD is much like Autism, as most people know it from lovely people using it as an excuse to be a total rear end in a top hat. It's a terrible bias, but understandable. A very vocal minority Thank you. People still say a lot of lovely things about BPD here though. tactlessbastard posted:drat dog, they're just saying they shouldn't be dated, not rounding them up and putting them in camps
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endlessmonotony posted:That's not actually a good reason to talk about an entire group of people like they don't deserve human rights. You don't exactly get a choice whether you have Autism/BPD or not. This goon gets it
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moosetoucher posted:Thank you. People still say a lot of lovely things about BPD here though. Don't touch mooses! Mooses are angry, angry creatures. Like hippos. Don't touch hippos! Boyfriend (30M) is slowly becoming more and more possessive of me (28F) because of the sudden influx of cheating wives in his immediate circle of friends quote:We have been dating about 6 months now. He is in the army and I live about 15 minutes away from a military base. I was initially attracted to him because of his uniform and career. I have always thought a man in uniform is attractive! And I'm sure many other people do. But I have gotten to know him slowly and I really enjoy being with him. We have amazing romantic moments together. He is always respectful towards me, sometimes even borderline cautious about treating me perfectly and like a princess.
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My Imaginary GF posted:Don't touch mooses! Mooses are angry, angry creatures. Like hippos. Don't touch hippos! Never marry military.
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Yeah, what's with people here claiming all BPD sufferers derail threads to complain about their perceived slights? That's just not true.My Imaginary GF posted:Boyfriend (30M) is slowly becoming more and more possessive of me (28F) because of the sudden influx of cheating wives in his immediate circle of friends Or... is he becoming more possessive of you because he's cheating? Drunk Nerds fucked around with this message at 22:33 on Sep 15, 2018 |
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she needs to get the gently caress out of there immediately
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Drunk Nerds posted:Yeah, what's with people here claiming all BPD sufferers derail threads to complain about their perceived slights? That's just not true. It doesn’t really matter. The only thing that matters is, “I’d have never let you out of the house...” Unless he was playfully tickling you when he said it, and you were both laughing and knew it was just some pre-hump horseplay, that’s breakup time.
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YeahTubaMike posted:she needs to get the gently caress out of there immediately She needs to
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Drunk Nerds posted:Yeah, what's with people here claiming all BPD sufferers derail threads to complain about their perceived slights? That's just not true. Lol weak
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Never marry military. My parents were married when Dad was in the Navy. They were married for 53 years. OTOH my sister's marriage to a guy in the Air Force was a disaster. YMMV, I guess.
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Khazar-khum posted:My parents were married when Dad was in the Navy. They were married for 53 years. OTOH my sister's marriage to a guy in the Air Force was a disaster. YMMV, I guess. they said military not navy
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lol but seriously I posted:they said military not navy Look on the bright side: at least it's not cost guard
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My husband (25m) plans to quit to be a stay at home dad/game designer or a minister as soon as I (24f) finish school.quote:We have a 1.5 year old son. Yeah they're unequally yoked all right.
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My Imaginary GF posted:Don't touch mooses! Mooses are angry, angry creatures. Like hippos. Don't touch hippos! Boyfriend cheating so what. quote:He is always respectful towards me, sometimes even borderline cautious about treating me perfectly and like a princess.
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quote:So when I first got out of high school I went directly into “game design” with Full Sail Uni. Oh honey, no... Surprised she came out of that and decided that she and her dude weren't suited for game design and not that game school is bullshit
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband (25m) plans to quit to be a stay at home dad/game designer or a minister as soon as I (24f) finish school. Hahaha this is a pro read all the way through.
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My Imaginary GF posted:Don't touch mooses! Mooses are angry, angry creatures. Like hippos. Don't touch hippos! She needs to leave him because this kind of insecurity means the end of a relationship, but to be fair, I don't think he's necessarily cheating or a garbage monster for the insecurity itself Honestly, unless you've been in the military, it's really difficult to describe how prevalent the infidelity thing is, there, along with the constant reinforcement of "Jodie is banging your girlfriend right now, idiot." It's still not right to be paranoid or constantly on edge like that, but you're being disingenuous if you're gonna insist that you have a trust in your girlfriend so ironclad that your coworkers constantly telling you she's cheating on you while everyone else's wives cheat on them wouldn't make you at least somewhat wary of this stuff (I got around this by just refusing to have any relationship longer than a month while in the military, a choice that I made which was 100% my choice and not because that's how long it took women to get tired of me, and which continues now due to, uh, a witch's curse)
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almightyerin posted:I find enough heads and butts on my porch as it is. Chipmunks, moles, mice, lizards and those weird adorable kangaroo rat things. That wouldn't happen if you kept them inside.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband (25m) plans to quit to be a stay at home dad/game designer or a minister as soon as I (24f) finish school. Your husband is a ditz, and you’re right to be concerned, but just maybe your patronization and obvious lack of faith and respect are part of the problem. Husband describes his dreams. “I don’t mind financing his little hobby while he stays home with the babies. Anyway, I know him, and he’s not capable of actually achieving anything. I love him!”
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Can I sue my boyfriend for fake rent that he took from me? My boyfriend and I moved into a house together a year ago. My boyfriend told me to deposit $1k/month for rent into an account for our "landlord." Turns out his parents own the house and they haven't been charging either of us rent. Turns out he has been saving this money to give to me as a gift later (I've seen a bank statement.) He will not give me the money right now because he says I'll take it and leave him. During the last year, my boyfriend has helped me out a couple times financially and he says he can just keep all the money, although he's probably spent about $1k on me, not the full $13k. I know I probably hosed up by sending the money directly into the account. Is there a way to legally get that money back? Update I figured this merited an update: I told my ex boyfriend I was moving out with or without the money and he told me that if I left him, he could keep the "gift" for himself. I told him whatever and called his mother and told her I was leaving. She asked why and I told her the whole story. She asked me to give her a few minutes and then she would get back to me. I heard her call my ex in the other room and could hear her yelling at him through the phone. She called me back and told me to take pictures of the rooms. I sent them to her and she gave me the all clear over text. She also sent me an apology for my ex's behavior. I left and thought that was that. A few days later, I got a check in the mail for $15k from my ex's mom! Not exactly justice (because the original money was indeed probably gone), but I walked away feeling pretty good about the whole thing.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My husband (25m) plans to quit to be a stay at home dad/game designer or a minister as soon as I (24f) finish school. God, I wish I could be a full time dad. Knock a chick up 5 or 6 times, have lots of babies to raise and a home to take care of. Unfortunately, being a full time dad makes ya a 'pussy' in the eyes of many folk
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They're quasi-feral. They were born and grew up in the woods around my house. I bring them in when it gets super cold but they don't like it one bit. They absolutely will not use a litter box, preferring to piss on my stove and countertops and they terrorize my two strictly indoor cats. They DID live in my barn but a tree took it out last winter. We have a disgustingly bad feral cat problem around here. Packs of wild dogs too. People either can't afford, are too ignorant, or just plain don't care to neuter their animals here. Our "low-cost" programs are a joke and we have no animal control. The town did away with it because it was "too expensive". It's lovely.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Can I sue my boyfriend for fake rent that he took from me? This is a good update. Glad she got the money one way or another.
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I went from this postMy Imaginary GF posted:God, I wish I could be a full time dad. Knock a chick up 5 or 6 times, have lots of babies to raise and a home to take care of. To this post almightyerin posted:They're quasi-feral. They were born and grew up in the woods around my house. I bring them in when it gets super cold but they don't like it one bit. They absolutely will not use a litter box, preferring to piss on my stove and countertops and they terrorize my two strictly indoor cats. They DID live in my barn but a tree took it out last winter. I was very confused for several moments.
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quote:Dear Prudence,
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What’s the response?!?
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quote:Dear Other,
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Haifisch posted:Not as vicious as you'd hope. drat. You’re right. It wasn’t exactly nice either? but I would’ve preferred scathing condemnation to the mildly disapproving “everyone gets old...” stuff.
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If the writer was real, obviously she was expecting to be screamed at. It's not like she doesn't know that's most people's opinion. So because she was expecting it, it would've been easy for her to tune it out. This at least had a small chance of getting through.
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Well, absolutely. It’s how I would’ve responded if that were my job and pretty well done. But it’s less fun to read!
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I work on a military base with primarily military wives and the Zaurg divorce gif flashes through my mind daily.
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