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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean why care like in general. Unless you think his background is as a super villain it doesn’t really matter. Alternatively: break up with him because if you're going to make up a lie about where you're from it shouldn't fall apart from someone asking you expected questions like where in the city you lived or what school you went too. Plan your lies well and thoroughly if you're going to do it, that half-assed poo poo isn't worth respecting.
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loquacius posted:Having sex with a man in his 50s to own the exes Bragging rights.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [30F] friendship with a neighbor [42M] soured, and he’s suddenly become aggressive. I have no idea why this dude might be mad, like, not even the slightest inkling, so either (a) OP did some serious glossing-over, or (b) he's got some kind of psychotic issue developing My first reaction was maybe roid-rage since he's a trainer but a couple google searches reveal that's not an actual thing so  Khazar-khum posted:Bragging rights. Yeah I got most of the way through "why would he go through with it if he knew she was just trying to mess with his nephew" and then I realized that was kind of a dumb question depending on the uncle's personal life
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loquacius posted:I have no idea why this dude might be mad, like, not even the slightest inkling Because he was trying to smash using personal training as an excuse and flipped out when he realised she wasn't into him e: there is probably a real good reason the lady gym manager doesn't want this guy training clients at her gym bell jar fucked around with this message at 23:50 on Nov 12, 2018 |
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Nov 12, 2018 23:47
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bell jar posted:Because he was trying to smash using personal training as an excuse and flipped out when he realised she wasn't into him I was going out of my way to look for hints of that in the post but it was basically just "then one day he went loving crazy for no discernible reason", as far as the OP can tell anyway It is a distinct possibility that he was just reading into things a lot more than she was, though, so I'll give 50% odds to that vs "dude needs psych meds"
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Nov 12, 2018 23:51
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The dude was being poo poo to his girlfriend in the chat or whatever. He's probably just a raging misogynist. They don't need any reason beyond the lack of deference
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Nov 12, 2018 23:54
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loquacius posted:It is a distinct possibility that he was just reading into things a lot more than she was, though, so I'll give 50% odds to that vs "dude needs psych meds" It's probably a bit of both tbh
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Nov 12, 2018 23:57
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loquacius posted:My first reaction was maybe roid-rage since he's a trainer but a couple google searches reveal that's not an actual thing so Roid-rage isn't a thing? Chris Benoit's family will be so relieved...
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Traumatic brain injury is a thing
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Can you get CTE from just like regular working out if you do it a lot for decades? Maybe it's a boxing gym or something?
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loquacius posted:Can you get CTE from just like regular working out if you do it a lot for decades? Maybe it's a boxing gym or something? Just regular working out no but I have no doubt that going heavy can. I watched an interview with one of the strong man winners and he said he got a concussion from his like 900lb Deadlift or whatever it was.
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Nov 13, 2018 00:10
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Does crossfit cause brain injuries or do brain injuries cause crossfit? It's a chicken and egg problem
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My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop?quote:Yes I know this sounds extremely weird. If I've learned anything in the last few months it's that my friend is an extremely weird and probably sociopathic guy.
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CharlestheHammer posted:Why do any of you care. That'd be a pretty good sitcom premise so now I do, sure
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 I know we joked about Mirror Universe Pete before but god dratAlso lol "he never insulted me so I want to stay friends with him" is up there in the most pathetic sentences I've read in this thread
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Danaru posted:
You can keep joking because, like every other post in this subreddit that follows a clear narrative arc, is well-composed, and does not go on irrelevant tangents, it's fake
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Nov 13, 2018 01:25
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Haifisch posted:My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop? So... pretty slim odds these people aren’t getting off from this, yeah?
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Well... that's one way to go about finding a third with a humiliation fetish.Pirate Radar posted:So... pretty slim odds these people aren’t getting off from this, yeah? It's the internet - of course they're are getting off on it.
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Haifisch posted:My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop? These people are going to turn into Natural Born Killers
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Yes, but they never murdered ME so maybe we can still be fwiends?
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To be fair I am in full support of Madame Nega-Pete going out and hardcore dunking on PUAs
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13Pandora13 posted:These people are going to turn into Natural Born Killers Nah, just an upper middle class couple whose children will have stories of different "aunts" being in their lives for a few years at a time, and of the "aunts" being forced to do chores and housework while mommy and daddy yelled at them and called them mean names, and then took them to their bedroom to be punished for being bad at night. Rod Hoofhearted fucked around with this message at 04:14 on Nov 13, 2018 |
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Haifisch posted:My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop? Um... he is a loser and you should tell all of your friends.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (21M) friend (21M) keeps warning me about my new gf's (19F) kpop hobby. I hope to god someone showed this OP the 'jumin's pussy' tweet to show how crazy those fetishizing kpop girls are. Soft and fluffy!
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Danaru posted:
My exact thought, but man this dude is pretty merciless. He's just mean for the sake of mean.
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Danaru posted:
I feel like this is more "evil twin" than mirror universe. Wouldn't Mirror Pete insist his gf go on vacations with various built dudes without suspecting a thing?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Sister is neck deep into the Lula Roe pyramid scheme. She thinks she's making money when she is really isn't. Will the divorce court judge believe her verbal statements about her "income" or will the court want real/actual financial statements? I love this. Loses alimony for being a cheater. Has to pay alimony for lying about income (because they're in a pyramid scheme the husband had to pay for)
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Drunk Nerds posted:I love this. Loses alimony for being a cheater. Has to pay alimony for lying about income (because they're in a pyramid scheme the husband had to pay for) I missed this the first time around, but yeah, the alimony detail makes it clear that it's actually to her advantage for the court to realize she got duped by an MLM scheme I earnestly, desperately want to know if this person turned out to be so committed to the idea that Lularoe is not a grift that she committed herself to paying alimony she couldn't afford rather than admitting it is
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Haifisch posted:My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop? I don't really believe this one either but I can't shake the feeling that naming him Pete was intentional
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Her parents knew, but neglected to mention it before they left on their vacation. That's the classic respite care art of the deal: underplay the severity of disability and level of care required, and neglect to mention undesirable behaviors that would actually be very easy to handle if the carers were made aware of them. Finally, don't answer your phone or respond to any attempts at communication until you pick them up at the end of their stay. Then blame the respite providers for any increase in behaviours or increased occurrence of their common health problems. But doing it to a family member rather than a service provider is a dumb move since they are likely to talk about what happened with the rest of the family, immediately closing off your free support network. loquacius posted:I have no idea why this dude might be mad, like, not even the slightest inkling, so either (a) OP did some serious glossing-over, or (b) he's got some kind of psychotic issue developing He is just an rear end in a top hat. Him having unspecified problems with a gym owner in addition to the OP is key to understanding that story. While this interaction is unusual and upsetting for the OP it is very likely a recurring pattern for him, which he fails to recognize as his problem rather than everyone else being wrong. There are people that go through life perceiving everything other people do as an offence against them, requiring others to be constantly apologetic and alert to their insanely demanding standards of interaction. At the same time they will have absolutely no awareness of their own behaviour, being rude or moody and aggressive frequently.
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Moon Atari posted:There are people that go through life perceiving everything other people do as an offence against them, requiring others to be constantly apologetic and alert to their insanely demanding standards of interaction. At the same time they will have absolutely no awareness of their own behaviour, being rude or moody and aggressive frequently. Yeah, they all post in this thread
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Haifisch posted:My [23M] friend [22M] of 3 years has a weird hobby of asking out women just to turn them down. How do I convince him to stop? Someday, in a bit of cosmic justice, he'll run into a dangerous, unhinged stalker who hunts him down and shoots him.
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bell jar posted:Yeah, they all post in this thread lmao
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Khazar-khum posted:Someday, in a bit of cosmic justice, he'll run into a dangerous, unhinged stalker who hunts him down and shoots him. Personally I'm hoping either the boyfriend or girlfriend gets tired of their relationship and dumps the other in a spectacularly cruel and publically humiliating fashion.
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Sometimes the post history just reveals so much. I don’t get the best of my (35) wife (35) My wife is amazing. She is smart, professonal, beautiful, a great mom and a great person. We contribute similarly to our household in income, chores, and parenting. She gets up early with the kids, goes to work, comes home. Then it’s dinner, entertain kids, get ready for the next day. Now her responsibilites are done for the day. She can relax. Now I can spend some time with her. No - not usually. She is tired, needs her own time, or wants to vent and is generally negative. This is understandable. I do my own thing or listen/talk - whatever she prefers. Give her a kiss and say I love her - goodnight. But that’s not what I want. I wish I got the same energy her work and our kids get. She always impresses me when interacting with others. Maybe there isnt enough energy left for me. Or maybe it is a squeaky wheel gets the grease type thing. If I make plans I can “book” her and usually we have a good time. But often she is negative. It makes me sad since I look forward to these day. Often these dates turn into talks about her insecurities. I listen and say nice things but nothing I say seems to help. We probably talk about her insecurites once a month for about two hours pretty regularly for the last 10 years. She seems to stay sad until she makes me sad/frustrated. Then she is sad she made me feel that way and can start to be more positive to make me happy. I dunno what I expect. Just feel a little sad about this and wanted to tell someone. I wish I got to go home to what everybody else thinks I go home to. I guess the TLDR is my wife is amazing bright and cheerful everywhere but usually not when it is just me. But wait, what’s that behind the curtain? My relationship and drugs Super excited for my date with my wife tomorrow! Going to get away and spend a night together doing Molly for our 3rd time. This is a secret but I wanted to share my story annon so here goes! I grew up in a conservative house (so did she.) Drugs are bad - fry your brain - don’t want to be a druggy etc. I tried pot a couple times in HS/college but that was it. I believed drugs were harmful. In my mid 20s I met some new friends. Great people - still friends. They were/are what I would call responsible users. Over the years my ideas about drugs started to change. At 32 I tried mushrooms/acid. Had a blast! Just felt so positive and right. Was almost spiritual. But I kept it secret from my wife. I knew she wouldnt approve. We were/are conventional. We have small children. What would people think? For a year or so I would trip once a month. Maybe a little less. Loved it. Started to appreciate music more. Decided to go to a concert. Planned 2 months in advance. Week before wife wakes me up in the middle of the night. She is worried. I had been a good husband/father. Drugs had not negatively affected our life. But shes smart. She is worried. She asks “hey…just wanted to ask…your new interest in EDM is fine but you have never been interested in concerts…you aren’t doing drugs or anything right?” Uhh… yeah…sorry. We talked/fought for a couple hours. She didnt understand and I kept a big secret from her. I didn’t go. Told her I liked doing drugs but would stop for now at least. I did. We would talk again about drugs once a month or so. Why did I need them? Why wasnt this life enough? Took a long time. She started to come around. I was responsible. It was a powerful enjoyable experience. This summer she smoked pot with me. It was great. We laughed and chatted. A month later we did mushrooms together. Was great! And then we tried molly. Oh my. Was just amazing. We booked a room. Had great sex. Took our Molly. Talked for a couple hours. We were so open and honest. Completely unguarded with the person we love the most. I had never heard my wife laugh so freely. Like she smiles and laughs a lot normally but she reins it in. That laugh was genuine and a little awkward but it was the best. We talked about everything great about our lives and eachother. Our kids of course. Our wonderful kids. Then we had sex again for about an hour. Went to a small show/fest for a few hours. Came back to the room and had sex again. Our relationship is so great now. We talk more. We plan ahead. Once a month or so grandma and grandpa take the kids overnight. That is tomorrow! I love my life and my wife. I love that we make this special time for just us together. I really look forward to it. The drugs help. I don’t even really feel like Molly is necessary, but I love it and it adds to the experience. The month cooldown is a good thing to plan around and make sure we get together as often as we can. I know it won’t always be this intense but god drat I am looking forward to tomorrow! “Reddit, I hid my drug hobby from my exhausted wife and then slowly pressured her into trying more and more drugs. Now she’s no fun unless we’re on MDMA together. She always talks about how sad and tired she is from watching our kids, but fortunately this weekend Grandpa’s watching the kids so we can rave! But can someone tell me why she never has any energy for me?”
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So like correct me if I am wrong but isn’t that one of the downsides to doing that poo poo?? Lol
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holy lol stop taking molly all the time you absolute loving idiot in all the times i've taken it, there's only been 2 instances where i didn't have that low energy vibe/dark cloud around me the next day.
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 I thought it was going to be a standard "ughh why does my wife expect me to be a partner and emotional pillar" post but he really went the extra mile
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (21M) friend (21M) keeps warning me about my new gf's (19F) kpop hobby. The twist here is that his friend is a kpop idol and has to deal with overly obsessed fans all the time.
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LOL at the molly dude. Suicide Tuesday is a thing with that and you're not that young so bouncing back to being responsible parents after raving all weekend is a joke. Lets not forget that you're chilling while the wife is doing the chores and looking after the kids so she's going to be burned out on your sorry rear end even without the post high doldrums.
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