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What kind of monster uses reconstituted potatoes for Thanksgiving e. I am thankful for my abilities.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:19 |
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phasmid posted:What kind of monster uses reconstituted potatoes for Thanksgiving Flyover states
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:22 |
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Roasted potatoes over mashed all the time, every time.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:23 |
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binge crotching posted:Flyover states That's even less of an excuse! We're the drat breadbasket! Universe Master posted:Roasted potatoes over mashed all the time, every time.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:28 |
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gently caress Your Website posted:I'd refer them to that 'estraged parents forums' link shared earlier in this thread (https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/) and tell them "Here you go, this should explain everything" Taima posted:Rich malaise is real and a lot of these people live the most unfulfilling and genuinely unpleasant lives that you can imagine. Sometimes the only thing that comforts me when I read estranged parents forums is that they're more miserable than me and can't/won't do anything about it. Anyway, it's Thanksgiving time in the US so they're going more nuts than usual because they want that picture-perfect family and their kids aren't cooperating. quote:Although I read this site daily, looking for ways to go on with life, I don’t often write anything because like others I feel what I write is stupid. But I am so down and feel no one cares I need to write my feelings. Our estrangement with our son is going on 20 months. “We” is only because his father is married to me. It’s all me . His wife feels I am a rude bitch, he feels I am a bully. There was never a problem until he married, but whatever. We no longer see our son, have not seen our grandson in 20 months. Nothing is better. I pretend that life is good. It is not. I know if it weren’t for our daughter I would have called it quits. I know this isn’t what I should be writing on this forum. I know I should be saying things like stay strong, learn to move on, this is not what you deserve but I can’t. I hate what had happened! No matter what my Dil and Es believe I did nothing to have our grandson taken from us. Thanks for listening. Sorry for being so negative.[/b] quote:For my son’s whole life he had a normal, healthy diet. He had a large appetite from the beginning and I always cooked at home, limiting fast food and eating at restaurants for special occasions. quote:I remember my mother saying things that sounded like a warning to me and yet, time and time again she was proven right. I never questioned her comments, she was older, more experienced in life and I was not. I respected what she had to say. She was, I felt, teaching me. Her “mark my words” were usually followed with a brief lecture about what was right. I used to get so annoyed because she was seldom wrong. But kids today don’t like ‘being told’ what to do, they don’t like any criticism, by a concerned parent, either. If I opened my mouth to my kids, they would disappear off the landscape of my life for awhile. My daughter did it permanently. My husband, like yours, makes humorous comments which my daughter said her daughter at a young age, took offence to. one time. Grandpa ‘scared’ her with his comments. I tried to explain to my small granddaughter that Grandpa grew up in a family of three boys and maybe didn’t know how little girls felt because of that…boys are different I explained…Seems you just have to button your lips and say nothing. Maybe these kids are overly sensitive. One thing I do know is that when your child decides to pick a bone with you, it’s a slippery slope before they resent everything you do or say. Just my experience. At some point though, where do they consider other people’s feelings or allowances for other people’s opinions. They sure don’t mind sharing theirs. quote:I honestly don’t even know where to begin, as my estrangement from my son has been in progress for the past 2 years. I am to the point now that I will be the one walking away for my own sanity, health, and emotional healing. I’m tired of the lies, the deceit, the double standards, being blamed for everything and the constant excuses. My ES is someone I no longer recognize and has become cold and callous. He stands in constant judgement of not only my husband and I, but other people as well. After meeting his wife (our DIL), he has gone from a caring and family-oriented person to a complete stranger. His wife is a devious and manipulative liar who has hated me and my husband since meeting us for the first time. quote:Way back in 1970 when my soon to be husband (the one who turned into a nightmare and the one I left almost four years ago – the parental alienator) and I went to see my parents to tell them we wanted to get married and we were there to talk about the wedding, my mother was full of excitement. She was even planning the cake and bridesmaid dresses and which church we should be married in. She whipped my 11 year old sister into a state of sheer excitement at the thought of being my bridesmaid and then enthusiastically sent us out to tell to tell my grandma (widowed the year before) and two aunts & uncles and cousins. We spent the whole afternoon doing as instructed, inviting them all to our wedding,. These people are NUTS. trickybiscuits fucked around with this message at 07:37 on Nov 22, 2018 |
# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:32 |
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Baked potatoes when I'm lazy, roasted or pan fried potatoes when I'm not, mashed potatoes when my wife cooks, and French fries when I go out to eat at a diner. Potatoes are just good.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:33 |
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Potatoes are not all that exciting to me. Yams, now.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:35 |
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Most people love their grandma's cooking mostly out of nostalgia, simply because it's their grandma's cooking. And it seems like the Great Depression combined with wartime rationing and probably also the American Protestant ideas that everything remotely interesting is probably Satan's handiwork destroyed regional American food.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:36 |
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Also, a lot of traditional Thanksgiving food requires more work to make properly than people are willing to put in. I know good turkey exists because I've had it exactly once, but every other time was soul-crushingly dry and flavorless. At least my family's always made mashed potatoes from scratch and avoided depressing casseroles.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:42 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Potatoes are not all that exciting to me. Yams and sweet potatoes are good too.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:47 |
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Haifisch posted:At least my family's always made mashed potatoes from scratch and avoided depressing casseroles. Same here. Extended family used to do casseroles at big gatherings but younger me knew that way lies great fatness. therobit posted:Yams and sweet potatoes are good too. Sweet potato fries > french fries
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:49 |
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Haifisch posted:Also, a lot of traditional Thanksgiving food requires more work to make properly than people are willing to put in. I'm sorry everyone you know is bad at cooking, unable to access quality ingredients, or lazy. Living on the west coast is awesome because we have access to great food.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:51 |
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phasmid posted:Same here. Extended family used to do casseroles at big gatherings but younger me knew that way lies great fatness. As long as the don't add sugar to them, I will agree. The last couple times I have tried some at a rather they were sweetened with sugar and I was super disappointed.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:53 |
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therobit posted:As long as the don't add sugar to them, I will agree. The last couple times I have tried some at a rather they were sweetened with sugar and I was super disappointed. Blech. No. Lightly salted. No sugar.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 07:55 |
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therobit posted:I'm sorry everyone you know is bad at cooking, unable to access quality ingredients, or lazy. I'd say more but honestly that explains most of it.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:04 |
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My boyfriend [28M] called another woman a "sexy little temptress" when she tried to get him to cheat on me. So the other night my boyfriend of 2 years left my phone in my car. I brought it to him the next morning and a woman who had a history of texting him inappropriately in the beginning of our relationship happened to text him that night, which I didn't see because his phone had died. He accused me of texting her. He said it was weird that he hadn't talked to her in over a year and she texts him the night his phone is with me. I'm annoyed he would accuse me of that (he did apologize) but also somewhat upset he still had her contact info. I should point out that he has cheated on me in the past. The next day I saw he had texted her after I dropped his phone off asking if he had texted her the night before (trying to figure out if I did,) saying it's weird that she texted him out of nowhere. She said no, and the conversation continued. She asked if she got him in trouble and offered to "help." He asked how she could help, and she responded by saying she'd give him a blowjob. He said he thought she didn't give blowjobs and when she said she'd make an exception, he said that she's the only person who didn't love blowing him. He then followed that with saying he loves his girlfriend and that if he was single maybe. I thought that would be the end of the conversation but it followed with something like this: Him: Such a sexy little temptress Her: You know you want to Him: I'd love to Her: Saturday? Him: Where are you staying? Her: My friend's place, you could come over. Him: Thanks but I really love my girlfriend possibly soon fiance so thanks but no thanks. I found the entire conversation to be weird and really disrespectful, even if he denied her. I thought back to how after I dropped his phone off he texted me "You didn't install some spying software on my phone did you lol" It was a joke obviously, but the conversation was so bizarre it makes me feel like maybe he thought I could see the conversation somehow? He was engaging and flirting with her, but said "I have a girlfriend sorry" twice. Why tell another woman you'd "love to" hook up with her without bad intentions? I'm not sure how seriously to take this. He denied her, but who's to say he wouldn't deny someone else? After all we have been through after him cheating, I'm shocked he would even take the chance of talking to another woman like this. Is this worth ending the relationship over? tldr; Boyfriend was flirting sexually with another woman via text and even though he denied her when she asked to hook up, I still found the conversation to be inappropriate and disrespectful, especially since he has cheated on me in the past.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:09 |
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The only appropriate time to use the phrase "sexy little temptress" is when you are down to the last donut in a box of a dozen.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:14 |
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I always feel bad for these late-teen/early-20's people who feel compelled to stay with lovely partners due to inexperience. You'll find someone way better than this fuckboy.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:23 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Better yet: look up DWIL Nation. The people there are loving crazy but they can see a DHS visit coming from a mile away. I really wonder what the real story is behind a lot of these. I suppose it's possible that a few of them had sociopathic children. I have no loving idea what's supposed to have happened in the last story. Did the dad just veto for some reason between the morning and the night?
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:31 |
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Beachcomber posted:I really wonder what the real story is behind a lot of these. I suppose it's possible that a few of them had sociopathic children. They counted the silver and came up short.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 08:40 |
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Beachcomber posted:I really wonder what the real story is behind a lot of these. I suppose it's possible that a few of them had sociopathic children. Yeah it's so bizarre. Worth the read. The whole "shock of not being my bridesmaid made my sister deaf for 6 months" really smacks of someone who is just making things up to gain sympathy. Who wouldn't push the parents to tell them why the heel-turn happened? I'm betting the narrator has some kind of persecution complex and doesn't really think about plot holes when she's spinning 50-year-old anecdotes to make her and her sister look as put-upon as possible
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 09:22 |
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therobit posted:As long as the don't add sugar to them, I will agree. The last couple times I have tried some at a rather they were sweetened with sugar and I was super disappointed. What the hell is with the sugar. Splicer fucked around with this message at 09:28 on Nov 22, 2018 |
# ? Nov 22, 2018 09:25 |
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I think my boyfriend raped me! Help me understand!quote:Hello all, I'm asking for some advice and guidance... This is a long one I do apologize in advance... loving scum that walks this Earth
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 09:28 |
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He roofied his girlfriend just so he could have anal sex?
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 09:41 |
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Please can we avoid harrowing depictions of rape and/or domestic abuse in the thread? It’s not fun to read or discuss, beyond “Lock him up”. Boyfriend has really concerning sexual fantasies quote:u/quasiquarter
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 10:01 |
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Splicer posted:I've spent the past page or so trying to work out why you all have a problem with vegetables and potatoes oven cooked in a pan. After I found out what these people do to iced tea I should have known the answer was sugar. I blame the 1950s for spawning all of the "popular" culinary abortions that we still have today After WW2 sugar became a prevalent commodity again and people just went nuts. Everything had to have extra sugar, mayo, and gelatin. Oh what a nice slice of beef you have there ready to go in your oven but you know what'd make it better some loving meringue and pineapple rings all over it, let's turn that roast into CAKE. Savory is not a word that I understand, everything has to be sweet and possibly encased in gelatin or else it's not Cooking I mean look at this poo poo: This is "Perfection Salad". Someone took the ingredients of a common tossed salad and said "I'm going to encase this in sugar and gelatin and then put some lettuce on top so people know it's healthy". This was a common dish in the 1960s
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 10:13 |
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QuarkJets posted:I blame the 1950s for spawning all of the "popular" culinary abortions that we still have today Ah yes, The Midwest.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 10:17 |
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Milotic posted:Please can we avoid harrowing depictions of rape and/or domestic abuse in the thread? It’s not fun to read or discuss, beyond “Lock him up”. Yeah, I kind of thought we’d decided not to post those ones.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 10:22 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Yeah, I kind of thought we’d decided not to post those ones. They're incredibly un-fun but that said I hope some people in this thread have gained some empathy based on learning what life is like for a lot of people you pass by on the street and don't normally think about
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 10:44 |
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QuarkJets posted:I blame the 1950s for spawning all of the "popular" culinary abortions that we still have today i mean i'm pretty sure nobody actually ate those* they were meant to be centerpieces that were showing off your newfound middle class wealth because you could afford the refrigeration necessary to make one *some poor probably people did actually eat them because they were showing off more than they had
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 11:41 |
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If it was just a centerpiece then the recipe would be very simple; gelatin mix with water, add vegetables, refrigerate. But that recipe has lemon juice, apple juice, and a cup of sugar added to it in an attempt to make it palatable. People were meant to actually eat these things
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 11:58 |
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What is it with Americans and gelatin They tried to do Jello here in my, much better, country but it didn't stick
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 12:04 |
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Like did we already forget what we were talking about? Sugar on roasted yams. People make and then eat all sorts of stupid poo poo. You ever have Reuben Chowder? It is foul. e: ^^^ Gelatin fell out of fashion in America sometime in the 70s-80s, thank god. But so many other terrible things continue to exist
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 12:05 |
QuarkJets posted:I blame the 1950s for spawning all of the "popular" culinary abortions that we still have today I will never believe these were commonly eaten. It's not possible. These are transdimensional artifacts that came through when we hit the hellworld timeline. These are foods of the damned.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 12:20 |
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At some point my sister and I told our Mom we didn't really like a big roasted turkey, so she started to do a big Virginia ham instead and bring that to our family's get together. Pretty sure by this point everyone enjoys the ham more, but a turkey is still done for tradition.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 12:47 |
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Ham, I think, is harder to gently caress up than turkey.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 13:19 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Ham, I think, is harder to gently caress up than turkey. Oh, would that it was so.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 13:26 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Ham, I think, is harder to gently caress up than turkey. You can gently caress both with ease.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 13:35 |
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Beachcomber posted:I really wonder what the real story is behind a lot of these. I suppose it's possible that a few of them had sociopathic children. The tendency for non-sociopathic parents of sociopathic children is to read a few of the posts at places like that, and then slowly back away. Milotic posted:Boyfriend has really concerning sexual fantasies I'm pretty sure it's not necrophilia if you want to be the corpse.
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 14:11 |
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Roast pork with crackling is better than ham anyway
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# ? Nov 22, 2018 14:36 |