LadyPictureShow posted:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/a2jnt6/my_41f_son_17m_walked_in_on_me_and_his_father_42m/

It's deleted, and the comments section wasn't too wild.

loquacius posted:

The swinger parents' views-of-sexuality house is super thin glass on this one, but if he walked in on his parents having a threeway and decided his dad was a cuck because he was in the incorrect orifice for Prime Alpha Sex Partner, yeah he's a little warped too

I blame the alt-right personally

Zzulu posted:

Do these peoples dicks really smell so horrid that you'd be able to discern "cock stench" on a person because they did a blowjob hours ago?

Barudak posted:

I mean, the kid is right the dad is a cuckold. Cuckolds definition doesnt care if youre into it.

loquacius posted:

The swinger parents' views-of-sexuality house is super thin glass on this one, but if he walked in on his parents having a threeway and decided his dad was a cuck because he was in the incorrect orifice for Prime Alpha Sex Partner, yeah he's a little warped too

I blame the alt-right personally

Blade Runner posted:

ah yes, the known secret to happiness, marrying someone rich who you despise

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Background:

his rejection happened 4.5 - 5 years ago. I'm 21 now (he's 22), and at the time that it happened, we were both 17. He was a guy friend I worked with at a summer camp one summer. We knew each other in middle school but weren't friends. He was "out of my league." He was blonde with blue eyes, but had bad teeth. He had an extremely positive, radiant personality which of course drew me to him like a moth to a flame.

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I am a half black, half asian girl who had low self esteem, was socially awkward and had a bit of a 'victim' personality. This guy, Isaac, was like a big brother to me and here and there, he helped me to change my attitude for the better. He had a crush on my best friend (Jean, who has blonde hair, blue eyes and straight teeth from braces). We talk about Jean a lot and I fall in love with him (without realizing I'd fallen in love). He's open minded, philosophical and genuinely cares about people. We went to different high schools and didn't see each other anymore. He dated Jean briefly but they broke up.

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The Rejection:

Despite 2.5 - 3 years of distance, I still couldn't stop thinking about Isaac both sexually and for his positive, caring personality. Jean and I got into a massive, devastating fight. 3 months after the fight, I realized Isaac wasn't "Jean's" anymore, so I decided to ask him to hook up via fb messenger... He was shocked and said he would pretend I'd never said that. A couple months later, I asked again and he said maybe. He was wishy-washy all summer...I begged him to meet me for a bj at starbucks and he never responded...the year passed and we never met. I was upset...I knew the sex between us would be amazing and I didn't know why he didn't want to explore that with me...I cried a lot. He was a sincere, genuine person, one of those friends that lasts a lifetime, and I knew that deep down his rejecting me and hurting my feelings was just as painful for him as it was for me.

He would lie to me and say I was sexy just to not hurt my feelings... After we graduated high school, he blocked me on facebook (I started sending him messages non stop with a "nothing to lose" mentality). A year later he unblocked me, apologized, said I was sexy again and said we should meet up. We made plans for Christmas time. I became SUPER excited...I bought a cute outfit, bought him a birthday/Christmas gift (his birthday and Christmas are only 6 days apart), learned a sexy lap dance for him, watched massage videos on youtube, and...he stood me up. My sister knew how excited I was and...I felt like some stupid, naive girl...getting my hopes up like that, spending all that money for nothing... I got out of the Navy the following year (I only did 2 years) and moved to Oregon to be closer to the brothel I started working at in NV.

I moved to the same city as him, NOT to stalk him, but because I knew that one of two things would happen: 1) We would meet up finally and get everything resolved. 2) We wouldn't meet up, and I would be forced to realize that he doesn't want me and would be forced to move on. He never *actually* rejected me (never said "I don't want you" or "I'm not attracted to you" etc. probably to not ever hurt my feelings, however, I was clinging to this for hope and I desperately wanted to get over him and NEEDED to prove to myself there was NO HOPE. It worked.

He didn't want to meet with me and I knew that even though he never verbally rejected me, he didn't want me. At all. Or else he would meet me for 5 minutes for coffee or something. Nope. I wasn't even worth 5 minutes of his day. This coming from a guy who's ground I stupidly worshipped...I adopted his positive attitude in high school and it changed my life for the better, I felt eternally grateful to him and thought he was the only guy who would ever deserve me (LOL, doesn't mean anything if he doesn't want me). I sent him some messages when I arrived in Oregon...he didn't respond to them. I asked him if he was gay (horrible, I know) and he blocked me for 3 months.

After 10 months of not being friends on facebook, he sent me a friend request out of the blue in September. I accepted. I became obsessed with him again, he didn't like my exciting Africa vacation pics, and I discovered that although friends, he had blocked me on messenger. I felt sad. He wasn't really a friend. How could he be a friend if he was afraid of me? I didn't blame him for blocking me on messenger, but we weren't friends and I didn't like the "fake illusion" that we were. So, I unfriended him a month later.

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The Present:

I've spent the past year and a half teaching myself algebra 2 and trig so I can go to school for electrical engineering next fall (and start in Calculus so I'm not behind). I did electrical in the military and LOVED the circuit work, I never knew I had such a strong passion for electronics. I am fit, pretty, dress well, bring in over $90k/year working at the brothel in Nevada, am saving money for school, straightened my teeth with Invisalign, am getting a breast augmentation in a couple months (for myself, I have A cups and have always dreamed of having a chest that actually "jiggles"), I did a vacation to Africa last month and have another vacation to South America in March, I have my own car and apartment, and overall I'm really happy. Except...that I still love him deep down.

He had such a profound effect on my life. My parents kicked me out after high school and if it weren't for the positivity he taught me to adopt, I might not have made it out on the other side. I love him and feel proud of him and his achievements...but...he doesn't want me. And at this point, I think I've screwed things up SO BAD that I don't think he ever will. I realized sadly, that the nicest thing I could do for him, is leave him alone. For the rest of his life. Let him be. And not disturb him ever again unless he disturbs me first. Which...I doubt he will.

He was my "first love" (although we didn't have a relationship besides a friendship). I sadly think that although I could love another man, it wouldn't be the same way that I love Isaac. I'm very attractive now and guys are always drawn to me for my looks first which doesn't impress me nor make me feel safe like the way Isaac made me feel. If I marry anyone but him, I feel that I will be settling...Isaac is the only person who I feel is worth my putting in my 110% in a relationship for. Other guys don't seem worth it to me because it's just SOO easy for them to like me these days. But they had no effect on me. Isaac taught me something and I feel extremely devoted and loyal to him. I would be willing to go to the end of the world for him because of what he's done for me.

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I'm finally, finally, finally after a year of actively trying to move on, am making headway in letting go. However, the way that I disrespected and embarrassed myself still haunts me. The way I became SO needy and begged him for sex was just so pathetic...it's just so pathetic that the person I was trying to win over and impress the most ended up being the person who saw the ugliest, most embarrassing side of me. A side I don't even tell my close sister about because I'm so ashamed. How could ANY man want a woman after she acted that way???!! I don't even blame him for having not wanted me...

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These days, I understand men SO much better and would never act so desperately and foolishly! Men like a tease...a woman they can chase, not a girl who's just already there. I feel so stupid, thinking about the whole thing with Isaac still never fails to bring tears to my eyes. The rejections still hurt. The times he stood me up hurts. Him lying to not hurt my feelings. The fact that in his mind, if he ever did meet up with me, it would be because I'm a pitiable charity case and not because he actually wants to meet me. I am SUCH a beautiful woman now, I turn heads all the time and it doesn't even matter because Isaac doesn't want me and it doesn't matter how beautiful I become. To him I'm ruined.

An apple that's rotten inside, no matter how shiny the surface. The rejection from him hurts the most because he KNOWS me. He used to see the best in me and used to give me the benefit of the doubt, always. And he used to really like me. But nope. I'm not worth giving a chance to because I'm too pathetic and crazy. I can't even blame him for not wanting to give me a chance. Just thinking about it now I'm starting to get sniffles, teary eyed and my gut feels sick... I made such a pathetic fool of myself, and the the only person that knows, is the one who matters most.

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Even if I did meet with him these days, I don't know if I could handle the judgement that would be in his eyes. The coldness when there used to be nothing but warmth. The skepticism, the mistrust, the disappointment. I was very selfish in the past and I don't think he'll ever give me a second chance. He thinks I haven't changed and you're not required to give anyone a second chance (or a first). I've had sex with hundreds of men, but he's the only one I actually want. He's the only made that made me feel safe, secure and at home.

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God, after all these years, I still think of him everyday (passively as opposed to obsessively in the past) and I'll never get to be with him, ever, ever, ever. Not even a date. Not even one date. Not even just coffee as friends. Not as anything. He wants me gone, gone, gone....I'm crying right now, HAHA!! I'm so embarrassed, it hurts so much. No other guy will ever impress me the way he did. As long as a guy is interested in me for my looks first, I won't be impressed. I'll just know I'm a piece of meat to him. A woman he desires, not respects. I'd rather be alone than married to someone I don't actually want. Wearing my heart on my sleeve and falling in love with Isaac was the worse mistake of my life.

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I don't think anyone has a rejection story more painful, embarrassing or drawn out than mine.

Any advice/consolation/related experiences would help...thank you, I'm sorry this was ungodly long!!

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TLDR: (Because the situation so complex, this TLDR is missing a lot but I did the best I could to make it 'short.') I fell in love with teenage friend who showed me how to be positive and turn my attitude around. This great impacted and improved my life. I kept my feelings to myself to years. We went to different high schools. I messaged him asking to hook up, he was shocked and was wishy washy for a year. We never met up. He blocked me for a year. Came back and made plans to meet with me. Stood me up.

I moved to the same city as him to be closer to a brothel I worked at in NV AND to either 1) Meet with him finally and resolve things or 2) Prove to myself that he didn't want me and move on finally (I did NOT move here to stalk him, I already know people are going to take the low hanging fruit and jump to that conclusion). I messaged him, he didn't respond, I asked if he was gay (I know, it sounds crappy but I was desperate for a way to move on), he blocked me.

We weren't friends on fb for 10 months, then he sent me a friend request a 2 months ago. I accepted it, but unfriended him a month ago when I discovered he had me blocked on messenger. I don't want to be friends if he's afraid of me I'm doing amazingly right now, I'm about to start school for engineering, am beautiful, vibrant, and even though guys want me now, he's the only one I really want.

Guys these days only want me for my looks and I don't like that. Isaac liked me before I was pretty, but Isaac doesn't want me. At all. It hurts. I'm embarrassed immensely because of how pathetic I acted (begging him for bjs, sex, etc.) and I cried a lot typing this. No matter how beautiful/ successful I become, he'll never want me because I acted a fool and made myself look like a pathetic charity case. Thank you so much for reading, any consolation/advice/related stories would be helpful and appreciated!

Adar posted:

(Very Long): How do I (F21) get over an extremely embarrassing rejection that still haunts me 4.5 years later?


just pretend I bolded the whole thing

Adar posted:

(Very Long): How do I (F21) get over an extremely embarrassing rejection that still haunts me 4.5 years later?


just pretend I bolded the whole thing

LadyPictureShow posted:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/a2jnt6/my_41f_son_17m_walked_in_on_me_and_his_father_42m/

It's deleted, and the comments section wasn't too wild.

Adar posted:

(Very Long): How do I (F21) get over an extremely embarrassing rejection that still haunts me 4.5 years later?


just pretend I bolded the whole thing

MightyJoe36 posted:

drat, the tl;dr is almost too long to read.

LadyPictureShow posted:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/a2jnt6/my_41f_son_17m_walked_in_on_me_and_his_father_42m/

It's deleted, and the comments section wasn't too wild.

quote:

I'm 25M, and my girlfriend is 23F. We got together a year ago and we have been tight on money. We've been able to live fine, but we have limited goods such as a "great" TV or computer. We live fine, with OK Internet/TV and we're happy. But my girlfriend really wanted a Nintendo Switch, but we didn't have the money. Well we DID, but we didn't want to spend it on a game console. I told her not to buy it. But my GF had a very good "plan" to get it for free AND not let me know about it.

She created a fake Amazon account in our neighbors name, using his credit card info. I don't know how she got it, I suppose she was over at his house and got the info. Then she ordered the Switch in his name, to his address. A few days later a package came addressed to him at his house that looked like a Switch box, and she stole it. The neighbor was in town when it came, so he couldn't take that package. I believe UPS delivered it. She brought it home and opened and hid it in the basement.

Then she complained to Amazon that the package never came to the neighbor's house, and they refunded her money, hardly no questions asked. She basically shoplifted. Amazon didn't say they would investigate, but I really don't believe them; this seems like a very rare thing to happen, to have a package not be delivered.

Fast forward to today, I found the Switch last night, asked my GF why she didn't listen to me, and she told me everything about what she did. I'm afraid the neighbor will find out and call the police. What action should I take to protect myself and my GF when the cops come knocking? I'll return the Switch if needed.



tl;dr My girlfriend stole my neighbors credit card to steal from Amazon; what to do know?

Straight White Shark posted:

[25M] [23F] My girlfriend stole from Amazon using fake information

Amazon didn't say they would investigate, but I really don't believe them; this seems like a very rare thing to happen, to have a package not be delivered. posted:

Straight White Shark posted:

[25M] [23F] My girlfriend stole from Amazon using fake information

loquacius posted:

Jeff Bezos could buy a Nintendo Switch for every human being on Earth, and if I could make him do it I would

Adar posted:

(Very Long): How do I (F21) get over an extremely embarrassing rejection that still haunts me 4.5 years later?

big dyke energy posted:

I'm lollin at the mental image of some British dude carefully lowering his dong into a beaker of cold water bc his girlfriend won't share the bathroom

Blade Runner posted:

Dick so good it ruined her life by its mere proximity, through athletic shorts

blarzgh posted:

It's why I'm legally required to wear jean shorts at all times.

Straight White Shark posted:

[25M] [23F] My girlfriend stole from Amazon using fake information

blarzgh posted:

It's why I'm legally required to wear jean shorts at all times.

blarzgh posted:

It's why I'm legally required to wear jean shorts at all times.

blarzgh posted:

drat, I only committed one felony to get my Nintendo switch

blarzgh posted:

drat, I only committed one felony to get my Nintendo switch

Hellblazer187 posted:

Lol at stole from Amazon. The bigger problem is the ID theft of the neighbor. That could end up coming back to bite her if the neighbor looks through his statements and sees a surprise charge and refund.