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Shifty Pony posted:I have no idea how hard it would be and my first thought was that the surgeon would just see extremely easy to get dollar signs, but I trust jbt's opinion re: surgeons much more than my own. yeah that's my concern. especially in Florida
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spankmeister posted:Lol nice figured it might be time for a new one as an aside anyone know how to go about getting a us birth cert unfucked when you were born overseas to us citizens on military duty? this seems like a particularly niche clusterfuck and i'm trying to gather some information for a friend who's in the process of getting her name and marker corrected
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I’ve always followed quiltbag threads out of not wanting to be an rear end around quiltbag peeps and now it turns out one of our best friends’ kid might potentially be trans/uncertain and I’m SO grateful for how well their educators/parents have been handling it (aka let them figure it out). Kid’s such a sweetheart too. so thanks everyone for sharing your experiences <3
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I’m glad I got an orchi and I dont have to worry about balls showing up against my pants crotch but im still paranoid about dingus doing the same so Im constantly hyper aware of my crotchal region that would be the WORST way to get outed
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just tell them it's your pet venomous snake who hates nosy assholes who don't mind their own loving business
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there's lots of reasons one might have a conspicuous bulge
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Yeah, dating sucks. (Hugs offered in Toronto once I'm set up here!)
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Improbable Lobster posted:i wish i could skip straight to the "being in a relationship" part of being in a relationship  I keep thinking about firing up some dating app again but the prospect of setting one up again is tiring and also I don't have a Facebook anymore
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closeness however can’t be gone without
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I think I met half my friends through tinder. Being upfront about being ace probably makes the conversations different though
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i'm not ace cause i'm definitely into women but i'm also not really inclined to go for a relationship or FWB or something right now, partly because it's stressful, partly because i have no idea how to do it, partly because i have 0 confidence and am a huge loving goon it's also something i just wanna avoid, so i guess volcel????????????? Pollyanna fucked around with this message at 20:13 on Dec 2, 2018 |
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that is a cursed word, even if it is descriptive I am not sure you want to self identify as that
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Pollyanna posted:i'm not ace cause i'm definitely into women but i'm also not really inclined to go for a relationship or FWB or something right now, partly because it's stressful, partly because i have no idea how to do it, partly because i have 0 confidence and am a huge loving goon sounds like tumblr would call that gray-romantic
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OldAlias posted:that is a cursed word, even if it is descriptive I am not sure you want to self identify as that good point Silver Alicorn posted:sounds like tumblr would call that gray-romantic i guess i would also call it "please get therapy and let yourself be vulnerable you loser"
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Pollyanna posted:good point It sounds like you do want a romantic relationship or some kind of similar closeness, but you don't feel like you can do that right now, so you're choosing not to pursue it. I want to affirm that that's an okay choice to make, because you sound like you're beating yourself up about it - I remember some of what you've said about your reasons for not pursuing relationships further back in the thread. It's completely okay not to pursue something right now, even if you know you want it. But I also know sometimes it feels weird as hell to want something and not be working towards it - I see you poo poo-talking yourself from time to time on this topic. A lot of us have that habit; my therapist still calls me out on it from time to time even though I've been working on it. It's not easy - those negative thought patterns can be hard to get rid of - but if you do decide to, y'know, Pollyanna posted:"get therapy and let yourself be vulnerable" then that's another thing your therapist might be able to help you with.
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i'm just glad that my (close) friends are the type who're cool with physical contact. it's nice to give and be given hugs, or to just be able to lean over on them on the couch or whatever the weird modern state where non-sexual physical contact like that is reserved only for like, deep relationships or partners or whatever, is weird SENSUAL DAD KISS posted:being ace? if you don't know what this is, ace = asexual, someone who has no interest in sex. there's also aro (aromantic) for someone who has no interest in romantic relationships either everyone's definition of asexualism is different but as far as i'm concerned if you have no sexual desire then it fits. i'm still romantically interested in women (or at least, my partner) but i have no interest or desire to ever have sex and find it kinda gross tbh sexuality, orientation, and gender are all way too complex to describe well e: aro people arent necessarily aromatic and if they are they may want to consider a shower
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quote:On December 17, 2018, our Community Guidelines will change and adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr.
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Ciaphas posted:what went down with tumblr, I lost track shortly after the apple app got taken down they decided adult content of any kind isn't allowed, so they're basically going to instantly cease to exist on december 17th
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Banned content includes photos, videos, and GIFs of human genitalia, female-presenting nipples, and any media involving sex acts, including illustrations. female-presenting nipples female-presenting nipples
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Synthbuttrange posted:Banned content includes photos, videos, and GIFs of human genitalia, female-presenting nipples, and any media involving sex acts, including illustrations. basically at some point my tits became illegal and no one can tell me when
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jit bull transpile posted:basically at some point my tits became illegal and no one can tell me when https://twitter.com/garblefart/status/1069645031055732737
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Shifty Pony posted:their auto-flagging will probably end up banning everything. Some of the false positives are wild.  jit bull transpile posted:is it only images? or will they fall down the YouTube rabbit hole of any queer discussion being adult content? It's pretty much everything right now and it's hard to tell how much is whatever new auto-flagging they put in place being set to scorched earth and how much is people gaming the system in rage. Some artist friends of mine are getting only their most tame images hit and actual titty untouched, a few people were thinking it was searching for skin tone colors but that seems to have been disproven, one of the waves is hitting text-focused blogs... You should probably presume at the moment that it's gonna slam hard on queers, yes, given that it's not really striking me as a "let's give the benefit of the doubt" policy on any level
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fishmech posted:content filters will always reflect an angry midwestern senile conservative grandma's views corrected for tumblr
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Zamujasa posted:corrected for tumblr don't add redundancy
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END ME SCOOB posted:a few people were thinking it was searching for skin tone colors would have been funny if that were indeed the case and only the furry porn blogs were left standing.
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