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QuarkJets posted:The guy's girlfriend mentioned it, but the guy said that he was the one put off by it. Not her. The only person in that story being made uncomfortable by a woman bringing makeup on the trip is a dude Exactly, and we don't even know why she brought it up. But some certain people in the thread decided a woman mentioning it meant she has a problem with it, therefore "hey, a woman agrees with me that it's odd."
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QuarkJets posted:Christianity and American conservatism have done a real number on millions of youths. No one in their right mind should want to be a single parent unless you're "well I guess I can afford to retire right now while still supporting a kid" wealthy, but for whatever reason people still decide that nah it's cool to not only gently caress up your own life but also your future child's life, no need to wait There's always the single mothers who couldn't get a legal abortion and had to follow through, because all lives are special except for the ones that threaten our government. Ghost Leviathan posted:It's going to have to get in line. Oh I'm not saying it's the defining factor, but it's becoming increasingly accessible and normalized...it's become acceptable to read porn in public and some people even watch it in public too.
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AITA for calling my pregnant cousin a breeder?quote:Okay so a little context, I’m 23 in a serious relationship and have a whole host of medical issues. I’ve never wanted a kid, even at age 5 I found the idea of baby dolls etc just ugh. This idea evolved and changed as I did and eventually developed into where I am now which is even if I wanted one having one with my medical issues would just be dumb and dangerous for everyone involved.
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Haifisch posted:AITA for calling my pregnant cousin a breeder? Yes, you're an rear end in a top hat when you group your cousin in with people that you actively look for reasons to hate. Then again I am assuming you found that on r/childfree
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My parents always said they dont like “gay people shoving it in our face” even though i'm gay. (14f) It made me mad enough to say it back about straight couples, and now im in trouble ok so i’m gay and i came out to my parents a few years ago, and they always said this one thing I absolutely hate, how “gay people don’t have to shove it in our faces”… Like if they see a couple in public, or on tv or whatever. They’ll call it gross or not good to do in public. They also think the GSA club I’m in at school is unnecessary and tacky and for people who want to “push it in your face” I got really mad about it recently, and for the last couple weeks I’ve been saying “ew, you don’t have to shove that nasty straight poo poo in my face” all the time. Or “ew that’s not something I wanna see in public” if I see other people who are obviosly straight in public. there's a lot of them haha. Basically, when my parents kiss or hold hands or say sappy things to each other, or when someone introduces someone else as their husband or wife, or when I see a couple on a date… Or if I see a couple holding hands. Or if there’s a relationship on TV. I'll start saying the same stuff my parents said nasty stuff about, regarding gay couples. Not because i really mean it or hate anyone, I just thought they'd see how nasty it was to say, once it was turnt around on them. And they’ve started to get really mad because it comes up a lot, like every time we leave the house a few times. And I decided for myself to not stop till my parents agree they’ll not say that poo poo about me or my friends or anyone else again… But its not really worked like that, they’re furious at me for disrespecting people in public and disrespecting them and the fact that it’s disrespectful for me to do, so it must also be disrespectful for them to do has just missed them??? IDK I’m grounded now and I can’t go see my friends after school or do theater or GSA club this spring and IDK if I should apologize even though I don’t mean it or what. it makes me so mad to be in trouble for doing the SAME EXACT THING they’ve done for years. Like I literally quote the things they said word for word, but replace the word "gay" or "lesbian" with "straight" Also my brother got annoyed at me enough that he hit me and my parents were cool with that and he’s not even in trouble, and its so crappy he gets away with every drat thing. TLDR - Ive started to say “ew straight people shoving it in my face” as a response to how my parents always said that about gay people and me and my friends. I’m in trouble and IDK if I should apologize even if I don’t mean it.
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Haifisch posted:AITA for calling my pregnant cousin a breeder? You are both the rear end in a top hat, but it was still a pretty good burn.
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FireWorksWell posted:Yes, you're an rear end in a top hat when you group your cousin in with people that you actively look for reasons to hate. Although her post history shows OP has some...pre-existing issues: I want a better relationship with my sister. (self.Advice) quote:So it’s just the two of us and I’m the oldest by 5 years. We have never really had a great relationship as we’ve always been into different things and she’s never been an open person and full disclosure I’ve been an awful sister. I was a teachers pet at secondary school so she always got compared to me and I got really sick and became disabled when I was 16 which took a lot of attention away from her.
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FireWorksWell posted:'He doesn't watch it while I'm in the room anymore thanks to an incident on Christmas eve' On the contrary pornography helps separate the wheat from the chaff in so many ways, it's a real godsend. Not only does it make it easier to identify the weirdo losers but it also lets dudes figure out what bizarre kinks their into early on, so you don't get situations like the one where after a year the husband is like "I can only get erect if I'm stuffing your face full of food, and I don't believe in divorce"
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[US/MA] My ex has been blackmailing me to be a shut-in for years. Oldest daughter: 14 Youngest daughter: 11 So, I totally hosed up my life. Fourteen years ago I met a woman with a 4 month old daughter. We started dating and were together for 10 years. During that time they moved in with me and a few years into the relationship we had another daughter. Our relationship was never good, but I was dealing with depression and social issues and this was my first real relationship, so I didn't want to give up on it. After my youngest daughter was born, I was kicked out the bedroom to sleep in the semi-finished basement. This is where I stayed sleeping for the next six years. After trying couples counseling for over a year, I eventually decided that there was no salvaging this. Unfortunately, during the 10 years of our relationship she never worked. She was in school going for her masters, so she was unable to support herself or the kids in any way. She had absolutely no income and refused to get a job while she went to school. So she and the girls got to live in the house I owned while I went back to live with my parents down the street. This was supposed to be only temporary until she got her Masters and could find a job. Well, she decided that if I want to have any contact with our oldest daughter (who isn't biologically mine), that she got to continue living there rent free for as long as she wants. I pay child support for both girls and I pay for the mortgage and all her living expenses. Over the last three years, new rules for my behavior have been added. I'm not allowed to date I'm not allowed to socialize I'm not allowed to be anywhere outside of the house if it isn't for a reason relating to the girls Breaking these rules results in access to my oldest daughter being revoked. Pushing things further results in her mentally and emotionally torturing the girls to the point where she's pushed my oldest to self-harm. Meanwhile she's gotten a job in her field. She's a social worker for DSS. So if I attempt to change any of this or report her or anything, she already has things in place with her friends in DSS to make sure I get hosed. So yeah, I'm a bit depressed. I work from home, so aside from the days I do have my girls, I don't have any contact with anyone. I've met with lawyers, multiple of them. In this state, I have absolutely ZERO rights as far as my oldest is concerned. She can withhold visitation any time she likes. At this point, I've pretty much given up on fixing this or changing anything. My only hope at this point is to get through the next 7 years somewhat sane and with healthy semi-well adjusted daughters. tldr; crazy ex, blackmailing me to be a shut-in
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My parents always said they dont like “gay people shoving it in our face” even though i'm gay. (14f) It made me mad enough to say it back about straight couples, and now im in trouble This is just sad.
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Haifisch posted:AITA for calling my pregnant cousin a breeder? no further reading necessary, using the term "breeder" unironically makes you a smug rear end in a top hat
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My parents always said they dont like “gay people shoving it in our face” even though i'm gay. (14f) It made me mad enough to say it back about straight couples, and now im in trouble My lord, I hope she can get help and work on these anger issues. It's always the people who CAPITALIZE for emphasis that seem to say so little in so many words. Gay or straight, any sane human being would probably stay away from the girl who gets angry and commentates on every single PDA between straight people.
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QuarkJets posted:On the contrary pornography helps separate the wheat from the chaff in so many ways, it's a real godsend.
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FireWorksWell posted:'He doesn't watch it while I'm in the room anymore thanks to an incident on Christmas eve' With luck, ubiquitous porn and advanced sextoys will lead to nobody having sex any more and fertility rates plummetting until the earth is devoid of human life.
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QuarkJets posted:On the contrary pornography helps separate the wheat from the chaff in so many ways, it's a real godsend. When you put it that way, you're right, stimulation only works on people who are inclined to seek it out. On the other hand, with how easy it is to find and discuss porn online, it's becoming easier than ever for children to become prey for the real deviants out there. Ever since I discovered deviantArt I've had this fear of inflation fetishism becoming the norm in our society.
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Anne Whateley posted:It makes them develop these baroque kinks earlier but that doesn't do anything to help relationships. The guy in that story didn't suddenly discover his kink. He had had it and known about it forever, he just waited until the honeymoon to reveal it so she was stuck. Are we sure that's how it went? I'm recalling a couple that was married for some time and then the husband read some poo poo on the internet and was like "oh, yeah that's what I'm into"
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FireWorksWell posted:Yes, you're an rear end in a top hat when you group your cousin in with people that you actively look for reasons to hate. otoh quote:“Honestly [my name] you’re so stubborn, believe me in a few years all your “opinions” will change then that job of yours won’t matter. I just hope it’s not to late and you don’t end up alone and bitter. Honestly having a kid is the best thing a woman can do and nothing can compare” is one of the most condescending things I've seen itt and I dunno if i would consider someone an rear end in a top hat for literally beating the person who said that to death. Like that's not some sort of mundane extended family asking when you're gonna have kids things that's literally disparaging your entire career and saying you'd be better off with your hips up in stirrups shooting out some kids. It's so bad it feels too (hopefully) on the nose stdh level of sexism.
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FireWorksWell posted:My lord, I hope she can get help and work on these anger issues. It's always the people who CAPITALIZE for emphasis that seem to say so little in so many words. no the girl is cool and it is a shame her parents are bigots
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Dienes posted:I'm mad at this man for making me side with someone who's into ~*~organic~*~*~ food. Hell, even if she is Earth-Mother level organic, once he first said 'our food budget's still the same' I wouldn't have cared if she ate poached dodo eggs every day. She footed 100%+ (and his car payments) for him, now he's at ~70% and maybe can't buy Kingdom Hearts 3 on release. We know who the true victim is here 
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QuarkJets posted:Are we sure that's how it went? I'm recalling a couple that was married for some time and then the husband read some poo poo on the internet and was like "oh, yeah that's what I'm into"
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My parents always said they dont like “gay people shoving it in our face” even though i'm gay. (14f) It made me mad enough to say it back about straight couples, and now im in trouble Not really cool to say poo poo to unrelated parties but gently caress those parents and when it is just them and you then no, you are not the rear end in a top hat.
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ArbitraryC posted:otoh This just comes off as two assholes trying to convince each other their poo poo doesn't stink. They can argue and argue but the real issue isn't about kids, it's that two people are insufferable and one person can dish it out worse. JFairfax posted:no the girl is cool and it is a shame her parents are bigots I agree about the latter but she needs to learn better coping skills quickly, because she's gonna became a hardcore heterophobe (is that even a term yet?) therobit posted:Not really cool to say poo poo to unrelated parties but gently caress those parents and when it is just them and you then no, you are not the rear end in a top hat. Yeah, I agree with this, she believes it's okay to project her anger at her parents towards strangers and it's easy to get stuck in that mindset. FireWorksWell fucked around with this message at 06:30 on Jan 23, 2019 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:[US/MA] My ex has been blackmailing me to be a shut-in for years. Murder.
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QuarkJets posted:Are we sure that's how it went? I'm recalling a couple that was married for some time and then the husband read some poo poo on the internet and was like "oh, yeah that's what I'm into" The story I’m thinking of was where the couple waited until they got married to have sex. Then the husband immediately starts bringing cake and chicken legs into bed and the woman’s just like “I didn’t know it would be like this  “ But there’s probably endless variations of this situation.
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Anne Whateley posted:I'm sure that's happened plenty, but the mashed potato feeder honeymoon guy was notable for the honeymoon aspect
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therobit posted:Murder. But then the daughters won't have any parental figures because the father will be in jail
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FireWorksWell posted:This just comes off as two assholes trying to convince each other their poo poo doesn't stink. They can argue and argue but the real issue isn't about kids, it's that two people are insufferable and one person can dish it out worse.
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean we can argue about the truthfulness of the childfree OP which is prolly fair considering the background of reddit but if what she said was accurate I'd honestly be in support of her if she folded up a steel chair and went to town wwf style. That seems like an overreaction to me
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chitoryu12 posted:I [21M] want to ask my really good friend [21F] to take my virginity. I had a friend who told me and my then-wife that he was going to do this exact thing, only he was 24 at the time. We both knew the girl he was going to ask and we both told him in no uncertain terms that we both thought it was a bad idea. He immediately got super defensive and accusatory, saying we didn’t know what we were talking about, that we didn’t know how she’d react, that etc etc etc As anyone who is on page 400X of this thread already knows, he did ask her and it did not go well. I don’t think we ever again hung out with the two of them at the same time.
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FireWorksWell posted:That seems like an overreaction to me
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Husband[30M] broke the new bathtub while on acid. He somewhat buried it in the backyard, bought a new one, and is trying to cover it up. that sounds like one hell of a weekend. also I love the idea of this guy trying to gaslight her over a tub, which she must have seen at least three times a day. Anne Whateley posted:Saying "having kids is the best thing a woman can do," not just to a woman who doesn't want kids, but to a woman whose disability means she physically can't have kids? Chair time I missed the part about her medical issues, that's horrible...yeah, cousin can get a chair the face or gut. FireWorksWell fucked around with this message at 06:54 on Jan 23, 2019 |
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ArbitraryC posted:otoh otoh someone who uses the term "breeder" may be an unreliable narrator
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:The story I’m thinking of was where the couple waited until they got married to have sex. Then the husband immediately starts bringing cake and chicken legs into bed and the woman’s just like “I didn’t know it would be like this oh man that's even worse, all of that buildup and now you either live out the rest of your days unfulfilled or give up your core christian beliefs
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Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [27 F] of 6 months, I snooped and found flirty text she sent to another guy during our island vacation.quote:I need help coming to terms with this situation. I'm totally in love with this woman and very tempted to forgive her. Is that the right move?
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Pirate Radar posted:I see the bathtub post is an old one but that’s loving amazing The only thing that could have possibly made it better was if they managed to get the old tub on the roof of the house, and the girlfriend found out while using Google Earth or whatever for shits and giggles. Edit for old-new content: Haifisch posted:Me [16 F] with my boyfriend [21 M] of 5 months, he's always had some odd quirks, but this one is just plain stupid Special Mention comment posted:I'll just throw this in here, even of it gets downvoted. If there was an '/r/relationships' bingo, Free Space would be "Besides __, he/she's perfect!" FireWorksWell fucked around with this message at 07:13 on Jan 23, 2019 |
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FireWorksWell posted:My lord, I hope she can get help and work on these anger issues. It's always the people who CAPITALIZE for emphasis that seem to say so little in so many words. She's 14.
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