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waah posted:What if we had like smart bullets, that would only hit the bad guys. Or smart bullets that tweet when they kill! @copgun292 Another unarmed civilian down, 2/2 this week!
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Haifisch posted:My (22M) boyfriend (34M) spends all of his time with his ex-wife (34F) and children (11F/9M) quote:The time he spends with his children already goes way beyond his allocated parenting time, though. Also, age gap, come on.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:24 |
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Rubellavator posted:Also, age gap, come on. That type of mild age gap is so common in the gay community that I just automatically gloss over it. Although that's probably a lovely and dumb attitude but you see so many worse age gaps constantly that this one seems downright tame. It does help to explain why the poster might not have a very clear idea about the responsibilities of being a father, and feels that he has to compare himself to his boyfriend's family in terms of how much attention they each get
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:28 |
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Hard to say what the cops would have told anybody for legal or CYA reasons. But while “career is ruined” sounds over the top (and maybe an exaggeration?) it doesn’t seem like she was necessarily out of line calling the cops even given the usual American situation that calling 911 on someone isn’t far removed from pointing a gun at them yourself.Barudak posted:They usually just ask for a copy of the license if its needed for any reason so they can make a note in their system. You could not show it to canada to hide it from them, but given Canadas relationship with the US I wouldnt assume some system of the two wont gab behind your back about it. I bet they could try to just not inform the Canadian government, and probably get away with it, at least for a while, but the consequences of ever getting caught in that lie would be pretty frustrating. Ytlaya posted:This reminds me of something that happened with my cousin, only without the tax fraud. After failing out of college (where he stayed in a dorm), he basically carried on a charade of going to community college classes. My aunt finally ended up finding out somehow, but he kept up the act for a really long time. My mom’s generation, in her family, were often the first to go to college, so their parents didn’t necessarily know that much about how this whole college thing worked. Her cousin went to college in the small city near the family farm and everything seemed to be fine until she’s a junior, when she’s eating dinner with her parents and it comes up that she’s going to finish college the next year. She gets a little embarrassed but explains that things actually haven’t gone exactly to plan, and the next year won’t be her last. Her parents are surprised, but loving and supportive, and tell her that’s fine. Everything seems dandy again for another twelve months, when she’s talking to her parents near the end of her fourth year and they bring up, again, that she’s going to be finished at school at the end of another year, and again, embarrassed, she says that well, maybe things still haven’t gone quite as well as she’d hoped, but she was making progress and hoped to be done after two more. Now, still supportive, but curious, her dad says he’d like to stop by and visit her and see how things are going. He gets in his truck and drives into the city. He goes and sees her apartment, which he pays the rent on, and she’s fine, she’s happy, she just explains that college is tougher than she expected, and that’s why she’s not getting through it as quickly as she’d hoped. He says that’s fine, but asks if she can help him understand this with a report card or something. She tells him she doesn’t have a transcript with her, but if he goes to the admin office and asks for one, they’ll show him, since he pays the tuition fees. So he gets in his car and drives down to the admin building, where they politely explain that his daughter has been showing up to no more than a handful of classes each semester and is nowhere near graduating. By the time he gets back to her apartment to give her a piece of his mind, the place is completely empty. They don’t hear from her again for five years. Turned out she moved to LA, got married, and had a kid.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:30 |
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Pirate Radar posted:
Honestly they could never inform the Canadian government and it would never get found out. There is no system in place for the feds in the US or Canada that notifies them when someone gets married. Like when the county files the paperwork it just stays with the county and doesn’t go anywhere and it’s on the people that got married to notify the feds ( by filling taxes together or doing a name change). Long story short they shouldn’t worry about it and just get real married in Canada when they are ready.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:35 |
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All formatting OP's. My [23F] boss' [40'sF] housemate [40'sM] swerved his car towards me as a joke, and I'm the only one not laughing. quote:Recently, one of my boss' in-laws moved out to our area; they've all been spending time together, and I got to meet them, which was great. I think they're all very pleasant people. Three months later: [Update] My [23F] boss' [40'sF] housemate [40'sM] swerved his car towards me as a joke, and I'm the only one not laughing. quote:Wanted to start off by saying thank you to everyone who gave me very helpful advice when I posted the first time. Really, truly, thank you. I felt so supported and so validated, and very much so wished I could show the thread to my bosses.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:51 |
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Ask A Manager posted:I work in a small office (about 20 people at this branch of our company) and we have two individual restrooms (as opposed to stalls) in our central hallway. There is certainly a smell situation because the hallway leads to all major sections of the office, but in general, people try to control this with air fresheners, PooPourri products, etc. Sometimes a book of matches is left there, which seems to help the most.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:56 |
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orrrrrr next time he goes in there you break down the door and spray him with a fire extinguisher
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 02:59 |
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Doc Hawkins posted:orrrrrr next time he goes in there you break down the door and spray him with a fire extinguisher This is the correct response. The other alternative is to sit there and send a company wide email about lighting poop on fire in the bathrooms is a bad idea and grounds to get fired if caught.
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Chomp8645 posted:If there is one thing we could unironically use 1000% more of in this country it's people calling police when someone with guns starts talking like a lunatic. Definitely, I have zero tolerance for people who go off like that threatening suicide or killing someone else. I get that people run into tough situations but gently caress it, if they want to act like a psychopath, I'd rather be the one calling the cops than not doing anything.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 03:07 |
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Haifisch posted:My (22M) boyfriend (34M) spends all of his time with his ex-wife (34F) and children (11F/9M) Dude seems pretty immature and not really prepared to be with someone that has baggage. I don't know why at 22 he wants to get into a situation like this, just go out and find someone without all the attachments. Maybe the older guy came out at the end of the marriage and the wife is trying to be really supportive of it.
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Boyfriends Ex wife moved back in?? My (40f) boyfriend (40m) and I have been together about six months . Ive never been to his house because he has 3 children, he is a full time single dad. I have not met his children yet as we decided to wait until after the six month mark. I do know where he lives because he told me where and I drive by his house almost every day because he live right by my child’s school. In the last two months or so I’ve noticed a vehicle that’s not his but obviously is someone in his family (vanity plates) parked in front of his house and varying times of day. A few weeks ago I drove by to drop my kid off at school around 730 am and I saw a woman walk out of my boyfriends house, get in the car, and drive off. Neither of his children were with her. Ive never actually seen a picture of his ex wife but given the plates on her car have his last name on them I’m assuming that’s who she is. So Then I became super suspicious and I KNOW I should have just asked and confronted him but I just didn’t know how. I thought maybe she’s just helping out with the kids or something, they do co parent after all. A friend suggested I drive by later in the evening when it would be a time she probably wouldn’t be there. So I did. I know stalker status I know it’s wrong. But she WAS there.... 9pm, 10pm, midnight. Weeknights and weekends. The car was there. So now I know I need to say something and I’m ashamed of my suspicious stalking behavior. My mind is spinning about why he wouldn’t just tell me. He always swore he’d never get back with her because she cheated on him and she was mentally abusive and horrible. He’s even complained to me about their struggle to coparent at times. Part of me thinks he’s not telling me what’s going on because he is actually back together with her which makes me I don’t know what. Can I feel cheated on when it’s his wife??? Part of me thinks it’s something else but he’s afraid to tell me what’s really going on because I’d be upset if she’s living with him even platonically. It’s hard for me to imagine him being he type to cheat and lie this way. He’s more the type to not tell me something because he’s afraid to upset me. any advice on how to approach this? I know I need to confront him and come clean about my spying. I just feel so horrible and sad. I love him so much and have always trusted him completely. Now I can barely look at him and I’m consumed with doubt and jealousy which makes me act in ways I normally never would (like stalking his house). Tl;dr Boyfriends ex appears to be living with him again. How do I confront him?
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I shot and killed an attacking dog, what next? (North Carolina) Yesterday evening I was leaving my house to walk my dog when I was attacked by 2 large pit bulls in my driveway. As they charged at me I yelled "someone come get your dogs!", but nobody came to help. I received a quick snap on my arm, but was wearing long sleeves and suffered no broken skin or real injury. My dog was bit up some, but nothing too serious. Although the attacking dogs seemed more interested in killing my dog than hurting me I was in fear of serious injury, especially because the ~160 pounds of dogfight at my feet was knocking me off balance into my car, and if I fell I would be very vulnerable to being bitten on the head or neck. I was able to draw my legally carried handgun and shoot the larger and more aggressive dog once. After the shot, both dogs stopped attacking and ran off. My dog and I went back inside, where I made sure neither of us were seriously injured, and called 911. I went back outside while on the phone with the dispatcher to search my yard and my neighbors' yards to try to render aid to the dog if possible. A neighbor ran around the corner asking "was that a gunshot?" and "where are my dogs?" I pointed the direction the dogs ran and told her where they went, but didn't say anything about the gunshot. My gun was still on my hip, and emotions were clearly high for everyone, so I didn't want to be in a conversation with an angry dog owner about why I shot her dog. An animal control deputy (in my county they are actually sworn LEOs who work for the Sheriff) responded to the call, asked for a written report, and took photos showing the saliva left on my sleeve from the bite. As I was in the driveway speaking to the deputy the woman drove up and yelled at me, asking why I shot her dog. The deputy took the woman's information and told her to get the dog to the vet. The deputy told me that the shooting was, as far as his criminal investigation goes, entirely justified and that he would be filing his report as a response to a "dangerous/potentially dangerous domestic animal." The deputy called me a few hours later to tell me that the dog had, unfortunately, died. He told me that that doesn't change anything in regards to his investigation, but to be aware that the owner could attempt to file for warrants herself or sue me. TLDR- Got attacked by 2 dogs in my driveway, felt that I was in danger of having my face eaten, shot and killed one of the dogs. Sorry for the long rambling post, but what do I need to do to protect myself here? Thanks
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I shot and killed an attacking dog, what next? (North Carolina) At least the neighbor gets to bury the dog rather than it getting hit by a car while loose like that and left to rot. E: Oh even worse, they were pit bulls. They get such a bad rap because their owners neglect/beat them into being aggressive so they can feel tough for having a mentally ill dog that snaps at the mailman. FAUXTON fucked around with this message at 03:36 on Feb 27, 2019 |
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"yeah a dog slobbered on me so i shot it" a normal person
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 03:49 |
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bell jar posted:"yeah a dog slobbered on me so i shot it" a normal person You're a better troll than that.
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bell jar posted:"yeah a dog slobbered on me so i shot it" a normal person This never would have happened if the dog had a gun
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 03:51 |
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jobson groeth posted:
say what you will but the dog "bit" her in a way that didn't puncture clothes or skin and could only be identified by leftover saliva, and she could have fired the gun into the air to spook the dogs before straight up shooting one
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jobson groeth posted:
He really isn't.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:04 |
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My [26F] boyfriend [26M] is getting obese and he doesn't do anything about it. I'm worried about his health, it's starting to impact our sex life and I don't know how to approach this without hurting him (I have edited in pounds for you Americans) quote:Hey everyone, I'm having an issue I think many people have been facing over time.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:04 |
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bell jar posted:she could have fired the gun into the air to spook the dogs before straight up shooting one This is worse and may result in some random innocent death. I just looked it up, and in the US (depending on state), it's a felony or can land you in prison for 25 years.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:08 |
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Husband's (35M) friend (33M) is dating a teen (19F). I (32F) don't know how to navigate my discomfort.quote:This is about Brian, who was best man in my wedding. He's a good looking guy, but Brian has always had terrible taste in women. It's crazy because he is the flirtiest guy I have ever met. It's been nearly 10 years that I've known him and he has yet to date someone who my husband or I actually like. We often double date with him and his long string of women I would never have otherwise interacted with. I don't generally enjoy it, but do it out of love for the guys. When we go out, they tend to talk to each other about their shared interests, leaving it up to me to entertain the other woman. I've voiced my displeasure in the past but it doesn't get better for long.
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Haifisch posted:All formatting OP's. hey reddit i'm a spineless worm, a wibbledy wobbledy weepworm and if you trod on me I shan't do a thing but squorsh. i am not taking any advice that involves action or words and there is no help you can actually provide, this is merely a public service announcement
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My wife suddenly says I [30M] don't love her and thinking of divorce. Help.quote:I thought everything was going smoothly. We have our dates, we shop for groceries and do chores together. The last few months I've been particularly happy about us spending more time together on a shared hobby. And from the comments: Op posted:My only issue is she killed our sex life (once in a few months) and I just stopped initiating for fear of rejection. quote:How long have you been together and how long ago did she "kill" sex? Have you ever talked about this with her, about how you feel? If so, what did she say? Op posted:11 years. Died about 4 years ago, but it was never very high. she just says she has a low drive. Also what is it with so many people on reddit having a hard on for the love language thing? poo poo is embarrassing. quote:OK. So we have a code red. There's no magic bullet here. Back to basics friend.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:18 |
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how could they not, it's an advice that's also a Harry Potter house
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:20 |
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AITA My friend thinks I'm a spoiled bitch, I think she's a jealous one. We've been friends forever. I come from a pretty well off family, she does not. However, she's like a sister to me. She comes on all family vacations, gets all kinds of gifts, my parents even bought her a new car. My life has been significantly easier than hers. School came easy to me, and I graduated without any debt- my great-grandpa paid for school as long as I maintained a 3.8GPA. I moved out at 18, whereas she still lives with her parents at 26 She's always struggled in classroom settings. She's over $50k in debt. Her parents want her to move out, but she can't afford it. I offered to clear out a room in my place so she could live with me paying whatever she could, but she turned me down (she has a dog that I'm very allergic to, and she won't leave him with her parents). Now, I work for the family business that has been passed down 4 generations. I run the front office, managing customers, contracts, etc. When she graduated she couldn't find a well paying job anywhere My parents offered her a job working for them in their warehouse, paying twice what they were looking to hire someone for. She accepted, and since she started working here, our relationship has fallen apart. I've been going through some serious personal and medical issues and have depression - I haven't been the most active friend, but I'm doing my best. We stopped hanging out on the weekends, only talking and catching up at work. At work she makes a lot of mistakes, and my parents get frustrated with her. I always try to come to her defense because her intentions are good. She wants to quit working in the warehouse and get an office job, but she's angered every customer she's spoken to, and there are no current openings. She's starting to blame her mistakes on me not giving her orders quick enough. I have slowed down on getting orders entered in due to said medical condition, but it's only ever an extra 30 minutes or so. It's never long enough to impact what she does. She has started to get very resentful of me. She told my parents that I'm not depressed, I'm just an attention-seeker because I have nothing to be sad about. She told my boyfriend that I was a life-sucking leech and he should break up with me because I'm spoiled and will ruin his life. She has been trash talking me to everyone we know. The only reason I know this is because everyone keeps confronting me over how much of a bitch I've become. All this while she pretends to be nice to my face. At this point I no longer want to be friends with her. I know that I'm in a very fortunate position compared to her, but with her attitude I'm just done with her. I know that if I stop being her friend, my parents will not support her the same way they have been - she'll just be an employee who makes a lot of costly errors and owes them a lot of money, and will probably be fired in weeks. Knowing that, AITA if I stop being her friend anyway?
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AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? First I just want to say that I'm not the kind of person who demands expensive gifts but we do gift each other a lot of things. I and my boyfriend have been together for 10 years. We live together, and we have a 4yo daughter. I was waiting forever for him to propose. So I was really excited when my sister told me that my boyfriend asked her which kind of ring would suit me and he sent her some pics from Tiffany's. I was super excited and hyped and I kind of guessed that he wanted to propose on our anniversary. The day comes and I'm really excited. We went out for a romantic dinner, got back and when we were watching a movie he suddenly got down on his knees and asked me if I wanted to marry him. I said yes and then he showed me the ring. It was not even a new one. It looked old and the stones looked average at best. When I asked him about that he told me that his mother gave him her ring. He told me that it had a great sentimental value since his father was the only man his mother ever truly loved and I'm the only woman he'll ever love. His father is no more, and his mother gave it to him. It's all sweet and cheesy but it doesn't look great. Also, I don't want the begining of my new life to start with a second hand ring. When I told him this, he was very upset and told me that he never thought I was so materialistic and he just left. He's not even answering any of my messages or calls. Was I wrong? AITA?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? Oh, that's a nice one!
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Xik posted:My wife suddenly says I [30M] don't love her and thinking of divorce. Help. She is doing you a favor by divorcing you. Why do people want to stay married to someone that won't have sex with them instead of jettisoning the deadweight from their bedroom?
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:53 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? OP posted:I know. But why do I have to wear something someone wore for my entire life? OP posted:Thus sounds like the item description of something in Skyrim. Jokes apart, I never meant to to snub it's sentimental value only it's aesthetic value.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? Yes yes yes right into my veins.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 04:57 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? The noises I made while reading this: Uff. Ohhh! Aaaah! What the hell! Edit: In the comments at least she's owned up to it secondhandring • 200 points • submitted 20 hours ago posted:I hosed up big time. Serephina fucked around with this message at 05:04 on Feb 27, 2019 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? Maybe he spent most of his budget on your child.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? You're dodging a bullet here. What piece of sentimental garbage would you have to suffer next? Maybe a child gives you a subpar drawing in which people only have 3 fingers? Maybe your boyfriend tells you he will always love you, an obvious lie motivated by chemicals and drugs? No, you made the right choice. That ring is trash and was worn by trash and bought by trash. Leave this loser in his dump of sentimentality and move on to a better life before you get leprosy.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:01 |
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A commenter says:quote:Yeah YTA, I’d advise not marrying someone who who have these instant feelings about. If my mother gave a me a ring that sentimental and special I would expect the live of my life to appreciate it and not question if I was being “cheap”. I hope you find someone who can meet your rich taste. Don’t settle for average. She responds: "Duude that was harsh. I didn't mean it in that way."
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:07 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:A commenter says: Lol I didn’t mean it that way I just totally said it that way.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:08 |
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I don't get why rings are so sentimental, is it because (presumably) they have years of your parents cum all over them?
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:13 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for being mad at my(29f) boyfriend(28m) for proposing with his mother's ring? yeah I was all set up to get mad at her for being awful but! in a shocking twist! quote:We don't even have tight finances. He's an investment banker in a renowned company. they're actually perfect for each other
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:14 |
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It would be loving hilarious if this ring was like worth 50k or some poo poo but she was just too much of a moron to realize it.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:16 |
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I do have to caution both myself and my fellow goons that there is an important corollary to any complaining-about-rings story. If the OP provides photographic proof that the ring is really that loving ugly – as in the legendary heart ring story – then all our previous judgment is rendered null and void.
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# ? Feb 27, 2019 05:18 |