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CheesyDog posted:r/legaladvice Woof I mean, it’s totally her prerogative to not want to care for the baby, but it’s kind of lovely to dump your 15 year old to fend for herself, even if she’s being a dumbass.
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areyoucontagious posted:Woof i mean, nah. you decided to have a child, you need to help them, to the detriment of yourself if necessary. thats being a good parent. its gonna take more than she wanted to give, tough poo poo, thems the breaks, c'est la vie, etc. dont have kids if you aren't willing to prioritize them above everything else in your life
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Mar 26, 2019 16:30
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:we did this 3000 pages ago Yeah, like my YouTube channel where I review fast food menu items.
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Mar 26, 2019 16:35
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I understand not wanting to deal with the situation of your literal child's child, but the way she says "I made it very clear to my kids that if they decide to have children in the future, it will be their responsibility, and I will only step in during times of dire need" indicates to me that she is actually a huge rear end in a top hat. Dire need is probably "I'm in the hospital" as a minimum threshold.
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Mar 26, 2019 16:36
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i mean, nah. you decided to have a child, you need to help them, to the detriment of yourself if necessary. thats being a good parent. its gonna take more than she wanted to give, tough poo poo, thems the breaks, c'est la vie, etc. dont have kids if you aren't willing to prioritize them above everything else in your life My daughter is getting the shot every 3 months.
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Mar 26, 2019 16:37
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My pastime is making reaction videos of me watching anime for people whose hobby is watching other people watch anime.
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Mar 26, 2019 16:40
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do they sell anime at hobby lobby
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Mar 26, 2019 16:42
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Leon Einstein posted:Are you talking about the 15 year old here? If so, yeah, I agree. Same rules apply. also, you know, the whole consent thing . . .
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Mar 26, 2019 16:44
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i mean, nah. you decided to have a child, you need to help them, to the detriment of yourself if necessary. thats being a good parent. its gonna take more than she wanted to give, tough poo poo, thems the breaks, c'est la vie, etc. dont have kids if you aren't willing to prioritize them above everything else in your life I agree that there’s a middle ground there. She absolutely should be taking her daughter to her appointments and getting vitamins and stuff and booting her out of the house likely isn’t an option, but she doesn’t have to take care of or watch this baby. It’s cold hearted but well within her rights. Edit: she’s totally a huge rear end in a top hat, don’t get me wrong. Gargantuan rear end in a top hat.
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areyoucontagious posted:I agree that there’s a middle ground there. She absolutely should be taking her daughter to her appointments and getting vitamins and stuff and booting her out of the house likely isn’t an option, but she doesn’t have to take care of or watch this baby. It’s cold hearted but well within her rights. Pretty much this. 100% Godzilla sized rear end in a top hat of a mom. I'm sure she's legally required to do more than she expressed interest in doing in the OP, but she is allowed to be heartless for many things and watch her daughter sink for 3 years before booting her out.
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areyoucontagious posted:I agree that there’s a middle ground there. She absolutely should be taking her daughter to her appointments and getting vitamins and stuff and booting her out of the house likely isn’t an option, but she doesn’t have to take care of or watch this baby. It’s cold hearted but well within her rights. legal rights sure, morally shes a wasteland if she does this
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Mar 26, 2019 16:50
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Anne Whateley posted:Do more research. The shot has a bunch of side effects, including a black box warning not to use it for more than 2 years because of bone loss. If you have lovely side effects, you also can't undo it, it affects you for up to 18 months after stopping. The side effects of pregnancy are much worse.
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Mar 26, 2019 16:51
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Yes, but luckily that's not a binary choice, there are a shitload of other birth control options
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Mar 26, 2019 16:52
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:legal rights sure, morally shes a wasteland if she does this Part of me would hope that once the baby is born she has a 180 change of heart but c’mon, this r/relationships we’re talking about
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Mar 26, 2019 16:53
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:do they sell anime at hobby lobby They sell those DeviantArt-quality "How to Draw Anime" books!
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Mar 26, 2019 17:02
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well this seems extremely bad Me (29m) fiance (27f) her disabled friend (24m) problems. Advice needed quote:Me and my fiance have been together for 4 years, engaged for 6 months. On the whole i would say our relationship is very good. We have lived together for 2 years. We spend a lot of time together and rarely have arguments, when we do they are resolved quickly.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:14
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the thought of my parent(s) forcing me to get Depo as a kid is giving me massive heebie jeebies just raise a daughter with too much social anxiety to ever have a boyfriend she'll be fine but yeah seriously Anne Whateley posted:there are a shitload of other birth control options
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Mar 26, 2019 17:17
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/r/relationships: i think its asbergers and a few other things
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Mar 26, 2019 17:25
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I never said I'd force it, you weirdos. You guys are acting like there's no reason to ever use the shot. I guess you forgot how dumb teenagers can be.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:27
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:well this seems extremely bad Most volunteer programs and all professional programs have policies prohibiting doing exactly this thing. You can see why. She is feeding into the very social skill deficits that keep Harold isolated because it makes her feel good. Terrible volunteer all around.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:28
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She clearly enjoys being obsessed over.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:29
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SpaceSDoorGunner posted:AITA - Parents gave ultimatum about not inviting brother to graduation your parents are assholes and your brother is an rear end in a top hat. you should walk anyways.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:29
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Leon Einstein posted:I never said I'd force it, you weirdos. I mean it's really only the teenage dudes having weak pullout game. In the entire history of the world ever, there has never been an instance of teenage lesbians getting preggers.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:32
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Like what does she think the guy is going to do at the wedding? He's going to charge down the aisle and stand between her and the groom during the ceremony as her pet man keeps trying to bat away the groom's hand while he offers the ring.
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Mar 26, 2019 17:35
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CheesyDog posted:r/legaladvice Father of the year right here 
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:well this seems extremely bad Your fiancee is even dumber than you are which is going quite a ways considering the first four words of your post contained multiple grammatical errors. Set boundaries and keep to them, even if it means this woman elects to be out of your life, or get used to the idea of ending up a skinsuit.
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Another Bill posted:Father of the year right here Another gender misread! Everyone drink!
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She's probably giving Harold handies to keep him at bay.
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Another Bill posted:Father of the year right here u/disappointedmom1003
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Mar 26, 2019 17:38
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I get the feeling the fiance hasn't told Harold she's engaged to op.
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zakharov posted:Another gender misread! Everyone drink! Sandwich Anarchist posted:u/disappointedmom1003 Ooph
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Mar 26, 2019 17:42
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zakharov posted:Another gender misread! Everyone drink! That could be a really dangerous drinking game.
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Leon Einstein posted:You guys are acting like there's no reason to ever use the shot. I guess you forgot how dumb teenagers can be.
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therobit posted:That could be a really dangerous drinking game. another good one would be "drink every time i get confused about which fuckin cat is posting"
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aren't IUDs intensely painful? jfc just ensure they get a decent sex education and trust your kid, the vast majority of teenagers come out without having gotten themselves/anyone pregnant
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Involuntary Grandma is going to be very surprised at the amount of CPS attention a 15-year-old mom and newborn receiving zero family support will draw
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Anne Whateley posted:There isn't. Like I said, you need to do more research. I would understand if you'd never heard of the arm implant, but hello IUDs? Or are you worried your kid would try DIY removal? ...in which case it seems forced. My daughter is young. There may be a special BC with no side effects by the time she's old enough. Leon Einstein fucked around with this message at 18:01 on Mar 26, 2019 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Are you a doctor or do you just pretend to be one online? The wording from your first post makes it sound like your daughter is being forced to get the bc shot. That + the health risks of the shot’s protracted use probably makes it look iffy. And remember, this is the thread where we categorize people like LLJSilk who beats his kids because they resemble his ex wife. If your daughter is cool with the shot and you’re both cool with the health risks and how they could affect her in the future than there’s nothing to discuss. When I was discussing bc options with my doctor I didn’t want the shot because I didn’t want the risks and pills were easier but you know, you do you.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i mean, nah. you decided to have a child, you need to help them, to the detriment of yourself if necessary. thats being a good parent. its gonna take more than she wanted to give, tough poo poo, thems the breaks, c'est la vie, etc. dont have kids if you aren't willing to prioritize them above everything else in your life I agree with this to a point but like what's the limit here If the kid got into drugs, what then Also, to head this off: drugs would probably gently caress her life up slightly less than getting pregnant at 15 so
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zakharov posted:Another gender misread! Everyone drink! I'm still at work 
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