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Yeah, teens can go through a drug-phase and get over it after a few years and recover and live a good life. 15 year old teen moms, not quite so easy to move past that.
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HIJK posted:The wording from your first post makes it sound like your daughter is being forced to get the bc shot. That + the health risks of the shot’s protracted use probably makes it look iffy. And remember, this is the thread where we categorize people like LLJSilk who beats his kids because they resemble his ex wife. The fact that you guys think I'm going to forcibly sterilize my daughter is ridiculous.
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Mar 26, 2019 18:02
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tactlessbastard posted:I'm still at work pitiful americans
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Mar 26, 2019 18:05
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Don't the major risks show up at higher than typical doses? Like the normal shot every few months presents fewer risks than oral contraceptives under their typical regimes (vascular poo poo mainly)?
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Mar 26, 2019 18:06
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Leon Einstein posted:The fact that you guys think I'm going to forcibly sterilize my daughter is ridiculous. Right. Obviously that would be a job for her mother and the appropriate religious authority.
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Mar 26, 2019 18:10
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CheesyDog posted:r/legaladvice A lot of people wonder "oh what if my kid is a monster or murderer or something" but very few consider"what if my kid is just a regular gently caress up?" Sorry lady, your kid is just kinda dumb. Nothing out of the ordinary, just a regular idiot teen. You rolled the dice and lost. edit: God drat. quote:[–]Inoit quote:[–]disappointedmom1003 Admiral Ray fucked around with this message at 18:27 on Mar 26, 2019 |
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Mar 26, 2019 18:15
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Leon Einstein posted:I'll discuss it with her and an actual professional when the time comes. "I just said I wanted to give my daughter a shot every three minutes, why are you guys being weird about this?"
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Mar 26, 2019 18:31
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Willfrey posted:That is bipolar heading right into delusions. Give it time and the auditory hallucinations (Shawn speaking to her) and full blown visuals. I'm bipolar myself with delusions etc, and one of my biggest fears is breaking down like that. I've always had that fear, but had sort of gotten over the fear of schizophrenia once I started getting into my 30s with no real delusions or hallucinations for years. Then, not long after I actually diagnosed last year, due to a mostly heavy cycling, not really psychotic, break, a friend had a sudden, frightening, afraid he's going to attack, kill, or rape one of us break. Going from thinking we had all turned on him because he had memories of conversations that didn't happen, to talking about mind control and obsessing over one of the women in the friend group sexually in a couple of months at most. We had to cut ties completely because of it, not just because of the threats, but also since no matter what we did or said, we couldn't get him help while living two hours away, with his wife was in denial and vouching for his sanity. He's in his mid-thirties, with no previous signs that I know of*. The whole thing got me so stressed about something like that happening to me like that to me, and reintroduced the fear that I'm schizophrenic and it's just waiting, insidiously, to catch me off guard. So I just tell myself that having such classic bipolar symptoms, being self aware in general, and being already taken care of by a psychiatrist means I'm probably bipolar, and won't have another bad episode or break of any kind. Being paranoid about your paranoia is fun tho *There is a family history of his dad having a drastic personally shift relatively later in life, but that could be a coincidence. Also he got really, really into Star Citizen the summer before all this, but he also was never that brought to begin with
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Mar 26, 2019 18:33
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Killingyouguy! posted:aren't IUDs intensely painful? jfc just ensure they get a decent sex education and trust your kid, the vast majority of teenagers come out without having gotten themselves/anyone pregnant Leon Einstein posted:Are you a doctor or do you just pretend to be one online? FAUXTON posted:Don't the major risks show up at higher than typical doses? Like the normal shot every few months presents fewer risks than oral contraceptives under their typical regimes (vascular poo poo mainly)?
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Mar 26, 2019 18:40
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Araenna posted:I'm bipolar myself with delusions etc, and one of my biggest fears is breaking down like that. I've always had that fear, but had sort of gotten over the fear of schizophrenia once I started getting into my 30s with no real delusions or hallucinations for years. Then, not long after I actually diagnosed last year, That's frightening about your friend, but glad to hear you're managing yourself. I had a manic phase once where I was awake so long I started hearing poo poo and got really paranoid (especially after getting serotonin syndrome from meds previously), and it was some truly scary poo poo. I've since calmed down about 'I'm just gonna completely lose my poo poo someday and end up like my crazy uncle'. Of course, that was the point that my doctor finally got my DX right. But knowing what I know from my own experiences, I've been able to get a friend of a friend some help from his family. He'd post these long, rambling rants that sounded exactly like my uncle; they just thought he was on something or into some heavy conspiracy theory stuff. My friend showed me some of his posts and I was like 'gently caress no; call his mom, he's delusional'
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Mar 26, 2019 18:47
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tactlessbastard posted:I'm still at work Why would that stop you
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Killingyouguy! posted:aren't IUDs intensely painful? Getting it inserted was abysmal but I've had mine for 7ish years and aside from that first day, I've never felt a thing. That said, women's experiences vary wildly.
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Mar 26, 2019 18:51
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Midnight Voyager posted:"I just said I wanted to give my daughter a shot every three minutes, why are you guys being weird about this?" Yes, this is definitely what I said. 
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Mar 26, 2019 18:59
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There are massive lawsuits now alleging Mirena causing brain pseudotumors, and alleging Paragard breaking and perforating the uterus. I think all IUDs are more likely to be spontaneously expelled in younger women. Research all of your options!
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Mar 26, 2019 19:07
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Leon Einstein posted:Yes, this is definitely what I said. Ah, my bad, I misread and you were in fact following the correct schedule for the bone damage shot.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:08
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quote:Funny you say that, but my mom was in that exact situation when she pregnant with me. It would've been wise for her to abort me because she was absolutely not ready. I think I will get counseling. I'm having a hard time dealing with this, and I know my daughter is too. /r/relationships: It would’ve been wise for her to abort me
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Mar 26, 2019 19:11
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Xenocides posted:/r/relationships: It would’ve been wise for her to abort me This dad is a mess!
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Mar 26, 2019 19:14
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I (30M) married my high school sweet heart(29F), but my Indian parent bailedquote:So, I write this today, finally after 6 months because I recognize the emotional pain I am facing. Its not over whelming, however it is affecting me.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:26
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) . We hit it off almost immediately like friends who were never apart. I told my parents about her, but caste and status seemed to be an issue with them. They never mentioned it directly. But their issue was apparent.
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Another Bill posted:Father of the year right here Great post/avatar combo.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:29
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Leon Einstein posted:I never said I'd force it, you weirdos. Honestly I think Nexaplanon would be better. It's an implant that goes the the upper arm, is good for two to three years (I forget exactly how long) and if they have any side effects your kid can pop that sucker out with no fuss. I've had mine for about five years now and it's the best.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:32
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DemoneeHo posted:I (30M) married my high school sweet heart(29F), but my Indian parent bailed You don't know how loving relieved I am that this post ended with "my subconscious is playing tricks on me, I guess, so I should work on my feelings about my parents" rather than "having this dream made me realize that I desperately need to jettison my happy life and grovel to get my lovely parents to un-disown me; where do I get marriage-annulment paperwork only one side has to sign?"
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Mar 26, 2019 19:32
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Neophyte posted:I'm telling you, my "Big Dick Lich" erotic genre is going to be the next Twilight! Don't stifle my dreams! Use a prophylactery to prevent pregnancy
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Mar 26, 2019 19:32
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For the love of god talk to your kids. The majority will be just fine and not and up pregnant regardless of what you do (or will and will be smart enough to get an abortion anyway.) Hormonal birth control is risky and not a thing I chose for myself, and your kids might not either. Condoms work just fine and if your kids don't want STDs they'll be using em anyway. Hell, by the time your daughters are in their teens they might have boyfriends on birth control so there's that. They could even get super lucky and get with someone sterile like I did and not need anything at all (woo!) Teens are stupid but most of them escape their idiot years without babies. Unless they're Mormon, in which case congrats on your 18yo daughter's wedding to a 21yo man and your new grandbaby! That sucks terribly for that mom. I'd be incredibly pissed that my daughter got pregnant and was dumb enough to gently caress up her life and mine by not getting an abortion. She definitely needs therapy. I can't imagine moving past that easily, and the baby didn't do anything wrong and doesn't deserve the resentment that she's definitely going to have for it. Mom/new grandma is probably on the hook for everything and is the legal guardian of that baby since the daughter is only 15. I'm not certain (legal goons?) but I'm pretty sure in most cases the grandparent is pretty much forced to take responsibility in situations like this. On the plus side the father's parents should be too.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:33
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Miserable Maid posted:Why would that stop you when you work at mcdonalds only the manager is allowed to drink
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Mar 26, 2019 19:34
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My gf [21F] has some gay friends that make me [23M] jealous.quote:So my girlfriend is very good friends with several gay guys, she even shares an apartment with one. It doesn't really bother me besides the fact that she seems to put them as a priority over me. I know that they're gay, but she often posts pictures on her Snapchat, or theirs where they're really up close and touchy. She'll sometimes be kissing them on the cheek even. The other day, her gay roommate posted a snap story of himself in her bed with her laying down on top of him. This poo poo bothers me like crazy. She never posts things including me, which is kind of hurtful because it makes me wonder if she's trying to appear single on her accounts. The thing is, she's always posting pics with her gay besties and apparently, people have thought they were dating because of it. Another thing to add is that she once told me that her roommate was jealous of me when we first started dating because she was starting to spend less time with him. It's just so weird to me, because I know that if roles were reversed, she'd be very upset. Any time I bring it up or try to talk about it, she reminds me that they're gay and that they would never do anything sexual. I get that, but I feel like I'm entitled to some personal intimacy in a relationship. It just feels like I'm just there for the sex. I'm not the closest person in her life and it sucks because I know she describes our relationship to her friends. She's even revealed my dick size to them...
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Soysaucebeast posted:Honestly I think Nexaplanon would be better. It's an implant that goes the the upper arm, is good for two to three years (I forget exactly how long) and if they have any side effects your kid can pop that sucker out with no fuss.
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Won’t love my kids if they procreate mom should swap children with wont love my kids if they don’t procreate mom. Get two birds stoned at once
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Mar 26, 2019 19:40
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DemoneeHo posted:I (30M) married my high school sweet heart(29F), but my Indian parent bailed Needs therapy desperately, luckily as he lives in not the US he might even be able to get it.
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Antivehicular posted:You don't know how loving relieved I am that this post ended with "my subconscious is playing tricks on me, I guess, so I should work on my feelings about my parents" rather than "having this dream made me realize that I desperately need to jettison my happy life and grovel to get my lovely parents to un-disown me; where do I get marriage-annulment paperwork only one side has to sign?" They have my blessing  Parents were probably sad that they didn't get a meet cute scenario. gently caress'em. At least they have one set, and I'm sure he'll have a good relationship with them.
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I really don't get why people think the pill is too complicated for teenagers. I started on it when I was 13 and have missed a total of maybe five days in twenty years. Doing one thing that takes five seconds once a day is really not a tremendous ask.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:43
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JaneError posted:Getting it inserted was abysmal but I've had mine for 7ish years and aside from that first day, I've never felt a thing. That said, women's experiences vary wildly. Is yours copper? I ask because I have the hormonal one and that needs to be removed every 4-5 years.
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Mushmouth posted:They have my blessing The parents are just really racist hth
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Mar 26, 2019 19:46
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Nae! posted:I really don't get why people think the pill is too complicated for teenagers. I started on it when I was 13 and have missed a total of maybe five days in twenty years. Doing one thing that takes five seconds once a day is really not a tremendous ask. Some parents, like Leon Einstein, just have a very low opinion of their child and don't think they're able to perform even the most basic of tasks without consistently loving it up
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Killingyouguy! posted:are condoms not free at every high school?? Correct, they are not
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Mushmouth posted:Parents were probably sad that they didn't get a meet cute scenario. Blade Runner posted:The parents are just really racist hth quote:I told my parents about her, but caste and status seemed to be an issue with them. Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 19:55 on Mar 26, 2019 |
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Blade Runner posted:The parents are just really racist hth Honest question, is this really about racism or is it just about parent's control over their children's lives in Indian culture?
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AITA for gifting my great grandfather's Congressional Medal of Honor to a museum vs. giving it to my cousin?quote:Background: my great grandfather was a Colonel in the marines during WWII and Korea and beyond. When he was enlisted in WWII he recieved the Congressional Medal of Honor during the battle of Iwo Jima. Care of the actual medal and most of his stuff has fallen to me. Fun fact: My grandpa was a marine on Iwo Jima also. I don't remember his rank offhand but he carried a radio and was partnered up with one of the Navajo codetalkers. My Aunt actually tracked him down about 10-15 years back. AFAIK he and my grandpa didn't really keep in touch but they were legends in each other's households.
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Mar 26, 2019 19:53
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Instilling every day habits is hard for a lot of people. Plenty of folks neglect to take even life saving medicine consistently, let alone one whose only evidence of working is something not happening.
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Killingyouguy! posted:are condoms not free at every high school?? Buddy, at my high school they told us that HIV was small enough to slip through the condom molecules or whatever so they didn't work. I think they were trying to promote abstinence but it probably just led to more students raw-dogging it.
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