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Blade Runner posted:Your take on this is dumb as poo poo and you're legit a moron for saying she should support her 15 year old daughter 100% in doing a thing that will permanently ruin her life Do you know anyone who was a teen Mom by chance? I have a couple in my family and if you're afraid of their lives being ruined, then like, why wouldn't you help them? Like my mom was a teen Mom and for all her faults he's been very insistent that she never regretted having me. Actually this situation reminds me a lot of my cousin and her mother. Her son didn't gently caress her life up but her mom treating her like poo poo sure did.
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Vim Fuego posted:WIBTA if I got myself a GameCube, even though one was already given to me as a gift? you know, i feel that if you know the different model numbers of various versions of the nintendo gamecube and feel that the differences between them are significant enough that you hunt down one specific variant, your life has gone tremendously poorly in many ways
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hevnz 2 murgatroyd posted:imo 15 is old enough to handle giving birth to and raising a child, but not quite old enough to handle a very lopsided soccer defeat.
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Vim Fuego posted:WIBTA if I got myself a GameCube, even though one was already given to me as a gift? imagine this being the main stressor in your life, jesus christ.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah and look how the kid turned out, on death row by 33 Plus, the babydaddy vanished, and she ended up in an age gap relationship with a much older man.
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Dazerbeams posted:Agreed. Life is already hard enough as it is. No need to willfully make it 100x harder without fully grasping the situation until it's far too late to back out. woulda been nice if my class's college advisor had mentioned that Koalas March posted:Do you know anyone who was a teen Mom by chance? I have a couple in my family and if you're afraid of their lives being ruined, then like, why wouldn't you help them? pretty sure the argument here is not for actually disowning the kid if they don't get an abortion but for absolutely not sugarcoating how badly things are likely to go upfront to the point of erring on the side of scaring them straight, and setting up some boundaries for yourself (like out of the house by 18 and not doing all of the parenting work so they can go gently caress around and have fun instead). Y'know, the difference between helping and enabling. Some people do dumb stuff and luck out, your mom having you as a teen and not telling you how terribly she regrets it isn't any better a general defense for teen moms being fine than my dad hitting us and none of his children winding up drug addicts is for beating on your kids. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 20:34 on Mar 27, 2019 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Plus, the babydaddy vanished, and she ended up in an age gap relationship with a much older man. its rough to realize you raised the leader of a cult
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Koalas March posted:Do you know anyone who was a teen Mom by chance? I have a couple in my family and if you're afraid of their lives being ruined, then like, why wouldn't you help them? She’s not a teen mom yet idiot, she’s a pregnant teen, and honestly I think your mom made a mistake.
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areyoucontagious posted:She’s not a teen mom yet idiot, she’s a pregnant teen, and honestly I think your mom made a mistake. Independent of whether it is true or not that's a pretty cold thing to say to someone
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AITA for not paying my mate three months rent after being kicked out of his flat? Last year I went through a tremendous heartbreak after the love of my life - Beryl - broke up with me. I was taking Xanax, Valium and other downers on a routine basis to ease the pain and spiralled into addiction. I was living with Beryl's workmates and they decided to kick me out because they felt like it would be more convenient for her. I was at the peak of my addiction and my best mate Steve and his girlfriend Rosa decided to let me stay at their flat for a bit when I was going cold turkey. I was too depressed and in so much pain from the withdrawals that I went on sick pay and the next month was so much better. Days became months and I was staying there. I started dating again and met a lovely woman called Catherine but I couldn't shift my heartbreak about Beryl. This caused many arguments, including her crying and me punching the walls and myself. I got addicted to nitrous and Xanax I lost track of my finances and Catherine was loaning me a bit of money for living expenses. I also began obsessively watching videos by Jordan Peterson and Camille Paglia, as they really resonated with me. Despite my misery I would try and make myself happy by making art around the house, such as collaging pornographic magazines for a laugh. I would record songs for my band, singing my heart out until 2AM in the morning. I spent most days in front of the telly vaping and eating chips. I think as much as it became my home, it became my cocoon. I didn't have a job or a regular income so I couldn't pay three months rent. The fights I was having with Catherine were becoming more frequent. She didn't like the media I was watching and I didn't like her criticising it and it became a push and shove between us. I quit nitrous and have been cleaning up. Me and Catherine broke up. Unfortunately Rosa dropped the bomb on me that she recently got engaged to Steve. Great, I though! Except she wanted me leave on a month's notice. How is that possible?? I have no income, no friends in the area and I fell out with all my family. I'm so unhappy I can't even wash. What do you do when you've got no family and no friends and nowhere to go? Nowhere to stay? I found a place shortly after a casual friend turned out to be living close by but after taking out three quarters of my stuff Rosa kept messaging me even though I practically moved out so I unfriended her and Steve. Now they are now complaining that I didn't pay rent and I'm a sponge and whatnot. I have nothing to pay. Can you really accuse someone who has nothing of being a sponge?! So I'm wondering Reddit if I am. tl;dr - best friend lets me stay with him when I'm withdrawing from addiction and very heartbroken, I relapse into addiction, lose track of money and can't pay rent. Best friend's fiancé kicks me out on a month's notice when I'm penniless and now is saying I'm a sponge for being unable to pay rent and cutting them out my life. AITA?
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Mar 27, 2019 20:31
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:its rough to realize you raised the leader of a cult Not to mention, he never seemed to have girls around, and the one female friend he did have was hella shady. Plus word on the street is, he might have Ben a volcel. He didn't even kiss til he was 33, and it was with another dude.
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areyoucontagious posted:She’s not a teen mom yet idiot, she’s a pregnant teen, and honestly I think your mom made a mistake. 
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Koalas March posted:Do you know anyone who was a teen Mom by chance? I have a couple in my family and if you're afraid of their lives being ruined, then like, why wouldn't you help them? Is your take on this unironically that the 15 year old having a child won't be so bad and it probably won't gently caress up her life because your mother isn't a horrific person who would tell their own child to their face that she ultimately would've been better off if they hadn't had them Helping her in this scenario is doing everything you can to convince her to get a loving abortion, and anything you do other than that will gently caress her over because she's 15 and doesn't understand consequences Like she already thought that she was just gonna dump the kid on Grandma and leave for college, supporting her would just reinforce that belief and make her think things won't be so bad, which is a loving monstrous thing to do
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Mar 27, 2019 20:33
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Mr. Lobe posted:Independent of whether it is true or not that's a pretty cold thing to say to someone Its nbd, I have tried to kill myself multiple times, no one could hurt me more than my own brain. 🤷🏾♀️
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Mar 27, 2019 20:34
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areyoucontagious posted:She’s not a teen mom yet idiot, she’s a pregnant teen, and honestly I think your mom made a mistake.
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Mar 27, 2019 20:34
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i don't get what all the fuss is, my parents did that and I turned out
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Mar 27, 2019 20:36
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Can we maybe not double down on being gigantic pricks here? I use this thread as a coping mechanism while my current job situation circles the toilet. I'd rather not see it locked.
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Mar 27, 2019 20:37
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Lotta people ITT need a reflection break.
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Dazerbeams posted:Can we maybe not double down on being gigantic pricks here? I use this thread as a coping mechanism while my current job situation circles the toilet. I'd rather not see it locked. It's not being a gigantic prick to say that encouraging a teen to keep a baby at the age of 15 is moronic
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How do I [24/F] go about bringing up timelines with my boyfriend [28/M]?quote:Hey everyone! Sorry if my title is kind of vague, let me explain. I’ve been with my boyfriend “Tim” for almost a year now, and I have never been happier. He is everything I have ever dreamed about having in a significant other: intelligent, driven, smart, successful, caring, funny, adventurous, and EXTREMELY handsome. We complement each other really well, and I 100% see him as the man I could/want to spend my life with. We’ve joked around about marriage and moving in together, but never in an overly serious or planning-type way. Just little quips here and there. The thing is, I seriously want to begin taking the steps to start our life together. Call me crazy, but I’ve been sure about this for months! and an update like woah. [Update] I [24/F] found panties, and he [28/M] denied knowing anything about them, then proceeded to confess that he wasn’t sure about us. Help. quote:I just got back from a short trip abroad, and decided now would be a perfect time to ask where he was at with us. I had already decided not to move in with him, as he wasn’t showing he was all that interested in it happening, and I know that’s not a decision you take lightly. So I went over his house, things were going well, and he left to pick up dinner for us.
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Dazerbeams posted:Can we maybe not double down on being gigantic pricks here? I use this thread as a coping mechanism while my current job situation circles the toilet. I'd rather not see it locked. r/sex Do any other guys find when they are turned on their butt feels weird? u/sexadvicet quote:Something I've noticed is that when I am turned on my butt, mostly the buttcheeks, feel kind of weird and uncomfortable. It kind of makes me not want to be turned on for long or to get things over with more quickly. And then when I cum my butt often feels even more uncomfortable, plus in my penis and balls too. This seems to be especially the case when I masturbate. It sometimes happens after sex with my girlfriend, but recently only when masturbating. It's quite frustrating as we're in a ldr
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Dazerbeams posted:How do I [24/F] go about bringing up timelines with my boyfriend [28/M]? Owned
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oh my god Lost friend. What do i do? quote:I snuck in to her room and scared her. 7 years of friendship discarded (by her even after incessant apologies). I understand her. She said she's looking to really build her top 5 friendships and needs a certain standard. Says she can't trust me to be in the top 5 because I have a problem with boundaries.
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r/sex Confidence issues (thin) u/Sad_boy_23 quote:Been having an awful day. I’m a great looking guy. Like great face. Haven’t been out once in the past 6 months without girls showing a LOT of interest in me (not bragging at all, actually kind of over rated) Blessed with financial independence and a good job. Great hairline for now. Not to mention extremely supportive parents who are leaving me 500k - 1 millon
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therobit posted:Not that much a a buried lede. His wife is just a cheating piece of poo poo. Surprisingly I see a few upvoted comments on Reddit that are saying she might be mad because he’s not listening to her concerns and ignoring her because she’s a woman. It’s Opposite Day. Lol.
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CheesyDog posted:r/sex  Can you imagine psyching yourself out so bad about something so silly?
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areyoucontagious posted:
Skinny dick guy spotted.
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CheesyDog posted:r/sex I've been dying laughing at this for like 5 mins straight, what the hell byu/ANigerianPrinceScam AITA if I don't want my friend to start collecting a 40k army that I'm already collecting? Basically, there's a game me and a friend of mine (let's call him Larry) like to play about every weekend when we can, called Warhammer 40,000. For the uninitiated, it's a 28mm scale tabletop strategy wargame played with plastic models that has a TON of different armies to choose from. We're talking humans (Imperial Guard), Orks, Eldar (Space Elves), Space Marines, and most fantasy things one's heart could desire. Larry likes to play the faction known as the Space Marines, and recently has been wanting some Imperial Guard to go with them. However, I already play Imperial Guard in the small group of people Larry and I include in our WH40k playing. I've never played anything else for the almost year I've been into the game, and these models require a lot of dedication. They're priced exorbitantly high (go to the Games Workshop and look at Warhammer 40,000 models website if you don't believe me), and they come unassembled and unpainted, meaning there's a lot of work one has to put into their model into making it look presentable and getting it to your standards. We're talking hours at a time for a single model sometimes. Long story short, these models take a lot of work and are expensive. With all this being put together, especially with the fact I feel he has many other factions to choose from, I don't want him to start collecting this army. I feel like he should bring something fresh and new to the table if he's gonna get a new army, rather than doing what I've been doing. It also makes me feel slighted that he wants to start collecting this army after I've been playing and learning and collecting it for so long, which, as any 40k player worth their salt will tell you, is quite an ordeal. However, I also feel like I should let him do what he wants, and it makes me a selfish rear end in a top hat if I don't want him to get the same army as me. So tell me, AITA? TL;DR: My friend wants to start collecting the same army as me for a wargaming tabletop game we play together, and I think he should he get something else because he should bring something new to the table, and it makes me feel slighted that he wants to start making the same army I have after I've been playing it so long.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh my god Ah yes, a genuine serial murderer
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Biohazard posted:Skinny dick guy spotted. They don’t call me angel hair dick for nothing 
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CheesyDog posted:r/sex https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EapBeC4xuM0
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SpaceSDoorGunner posted:Surprisingly I see a few upvoted comments on Reddit that are saying she might be mad because he’s not listening to her concerns and ignoring her because she’s a woman. It’s Opposite Day. She got angry he stopped for a car accident and went to go gently caress another dude.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Holy plop. Do you have PMs, because you are the first other person I've encountered that got it too, and I would honestly like to compare notes if you don't mind. I do indeed, but there's not all that much more to say. No hallucinations but for me the muscle contractions were abnormally potent. My jaw kept getting temporarily detached, my back was trying to fold itself in half and eventually my back muscles tore the shoulder right out (backwards, which for the most part only happens in cases of electrocution). I sounded developmentally delayed when I tried to talk because of my jaw and throat seizing but I was fully lucid. I was a big hit in the ER when I first came in and people got a load of the symptoms, I remember there being like 30 people in my tiny little hospital room gazing at me intently as my body tried to fold in on itself. The craziest part is I didn't even go to the hospital right away because I was concerned about cost and hoped the symptoms would pass. After a while it started to become clear that I had no choice. LimburgLimbo posted:Did anyone ever post the update to pregnant teen or did I miss it here? Man if she had pushed a bit harder (in a calm way) when her daughter admitted to being scared of abortion she could've ended the whole saga right there. Being afraid of an abortion is reasonable and mom misses a perfect opportunity to change the tone of the conversation to something less adversarial. Seems like her daughter has been influenced a bit by one of her teenage pregnancy friends and has no actual idea what she's getting into. She needs tough love AND support and she's only getting one. therobit posted:Nah, she said "then childbirth will kill you" in the middle of a screaming match she was having with her 15 year old daughter. She needed to stay calm and then actually acknowledge and address her daughter's fears. When your kid starts saying they are scared of something is when you listen, validate, then adress. Getting into a screaming match with your kid is basically never an effective strategy. And hey, people make parenting mistakes, but this mom seems to be so wrapped up in her own feelings that she can't seem to pull it together enough to parent effectively. Exactly
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Captain Yossarian posted:Ah yes, a genuine serial murderer I've never read nothing happening described so skin-crawlingly, this guy would make an amazing horror writer
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Pranked by God, my glowing smile reflects my long skinny dick to girls and the world
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sneakyfrog posted:maybe we should be nice to one another The people in this thread or just human's in general?
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good point both would be nice. also i would like a unicorn
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh my god Another lizard person walks among us. Jesus christ a 32 year old adult sitting in her room to scare her. Did he enter her house? How long did he lay in wait? I have so many questions for this rascal Also... top 5 friends, "aaah I must be #6, nope I understand ya gotta maintain thar Top 5, we cant be friends because of your arbitrary ranking system. Heck I need to work on my own Top 5! I am just becoming a man ya know" What a loving weirdo
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