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Renegret posted:for what it's worth, full term is considered 37 weeks. So even if wife popped at 39, the baby would be perfectly fine. Welcome back all the same, friend
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Yeah that's just a case of "you're both adults and disagree on this, come to an agreement or break up if it's a deal-breaker"
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tactlessbastard posted:Welcome back all the same, friend Thanks I've returned with a fresh outlook on life and am ready to make fun of loving stupid people on reddit.
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Apr 3, 2019 16:42
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Blade Runner posted:Uh Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. If a partner cannot do something reasonable to assist in this, that's not a good partner. That or a shaved mons should be an unqualified deal breaker for him. His decision is pretty unilateral.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. They are, and nobody is saying they aren't. However, there's a very big difference between demanding that she not shave her underarms and being expected to shave them for her, even if she would have difficulty doing so herself. Acting like he's trying to control how she looks because he doesn't want to be pressured into doing something he's not comfortable with is silly. Again, she's not a child, and while the details of her beauty standards are absolutely her business, they're also her business, and she can reasonably be expected to make arrangements for them herself.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. She can always pay to have it done. Like she did before. It's not his responsibility.
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Poor guy has to deal with a girlfriend that wants him touching her genitals constantly. Must be rough. It's his prerogative obviously, but it seems like a reasonable person could handle it to help out their partner.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. This woman is blind, not helpless. She'll probably miss a few hairs downstairs if she shaves herself, but it's not by any means impossible. Why do goons hate self-sufficiency so much?
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therobit posted:She can always pay to have it done. Like she did before. It's not his responsibility. Pretty crazy of him to not feel comfortable putting sharp objects close enough to her vagina to mutilate it. Which is also the same reason I'll never ask my wife to shave my balls for me no matter how fat I get That's right, renegret's back everyone, let's talk about some fuckin BALLSACKS
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Apr 3, 2019 16:56
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I somehow missed that she was blind but on the other hand I shave my balls just fine even though I'm so fat I haven't seen my ballsack in 30 years so fight me
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Apr 3, 2019 16:58
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I married a blind woman. She never asked for help with personal hygiene, and she was happy to spend money on hairdressers etc to look good otherwise. The girl's just being a bit weird, and possibly has picked up an odd habit from living previously with her folks. Also, I honestly can't tell if people are being sarcastic or not about 'touching your partners genitals'. It's personal hygiene, it's about as sexy as wiping your butt.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Adults are entitled to whatever beauty standards make them feel happy and dignified in their own body. (Yes, within limits, if she wears a tank top and works in food prep, she should wear underarm hair nets). Even if they can't see it, even if he finds something problematic in the history of women's razors, I don't care. I find shaving my girl's pussy pretty weird and not something that I'd really want to do. That's not me being a bad boyfriend.
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Serephina posted:Also, I honestly can't tell if people are being sarcastic or not about 'touching your partners genitals'. It's personal hygiene, it's about as sexy as wiping your butt.
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tactlessbastard posted:in before all you degenerates start rushing in to declare your preferences vis a vis pubic hair on a partner I'll have you know that I am very classy and have very good taste. Anyone with a different opinion is total garbage. AND FURTHERMORE
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Sir DonkeyPunch posted:Pros just dip the gentlemen in a bucket of nair Please please please let someone lurking do this.
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Leon Einstein posted:I was kidding, but it's certainly not the same as wiping a butt. Lots of people enjoy grooming their partners. It's probably the primate in us. Lots of people enjoy pimple popping too. I won't date anyone not willing to pick the bugs out my hair. I'm single.
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Serephina posted:Also, I honestly can't tell if people are being sarcastic or not about 'touching your partners genitals'. It's personal hygiene, it's about as sexy as wiping your butt. When my wife was 36 weeks pregnant she asked me to help her touch up a bit down there just because she'd knew there'd be so many people rooting around her vagina she wanted to be at least a little neat. Because my life isn't a r/relationship post, we had an honest and open discussion about how I wasn't really comfortable with it because I was worried about nicking/cutting her in a bad spot and hurting her unnecessarily, and how there was a good chance it was going to happen since I wasn't as familiar with the topography as she was. Ultimately she agreed, and we compromised by having her do it herself but I'd be close by to help out if there were any hard to reach spots. Everything came out fine and there was no drama because we are a functional couple who know how to communicate and be respectful of each other's feelings god dammit reddit it's not hard. tactlessbastard posted:in before all you degenerates start rushing in to declare your preferences vis a vis pubic hair on a partner If I can't floss my teeth while eating out a girl then what's the point?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling a 16-year-old girl’s parents that she’s pregnant? Why in the heck didn't he help those scared kids with an abortion? That was the whole point and he failed miserably. What an irredeemable rear end in a top hat.
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Shaving isn't hygienic, it's just a grooming preference. It's actually worse for health and that's before you get into the possibility of lopping off your labia. Also tbh I'm kind of awestruck he/they are so awkward that he hates it instead of just making it sexy or at least intimate and loving.
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Anne Whateley posted:Shaving isn't hygienic, it's just a grooming preference. It's actually worse for health and that's before you get into the possibility of lopping off your labia. That's pretty strange foreplay to me.
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lol, he doesnt like it but ur awestruck they havent just turned it into a sex thing
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datajugend posted:buy a can of that hair removal stuff Most of those explicitly say not to use near your genitals. Heck I think someone found a story of a guy asking if he was an rear end in a top hat for calling an ambulance because his GF had bad chemical burns on her labia from using Nair to get rid of her pubes.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Pranks? Pranks. Skip the background paragraph and spare yourselves. those ages are a lie. they're teenagers. the way she talks about their relationship and how they met and how they've been through so much in the.... drumroll... seven months theyve been together thats the biggest flag but drat near every beat of her story sounds like they're either late teens or in their first relationship Cactus Ghost fucked around with this message at 17:20 on Apr 3, 2019 |
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I have shaved my pits dry and I usually am not looking when I do it, I agree, it should be no problem, I've also never lived life as a blind person who has been told by parents, teachers, doctors, "stop! you can't do _____, you'll hurt yourself!" If he had a better rationale that she could understand, fine work it out among yourselves, but the only part he was honest about is basically because your intimate parts embarrass me which is a weird as poo poo thing [redditor as gently caress] to say to your partner
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LadyPictureShow posted:Most of those explicitly say not to use near your genitals. ah ok , is it bad for the pits also?
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Ten years in and we shave like we're cheating on each other WITH each other. A decade-plus and her clit/brown/taint-area still pOwns my razor.
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I can understand the guy not really wanting to shave his girlfriend, even though I think he's being kind of silly. But I don't blame her for asking him because having to pay to get waxed regularly gets pretty expensive and it makes sense she would be more comfortable with her partner doing it instead of a stranger. Also I'm somewhat hesitant in believing his claim that he really doesn't care if she has body hair or not, considering up to this point it sounds like she's been waxing. Let's see what he says a few weeks down the road.
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datajugend posted:ah ok , is it bad for the pits also?
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:having to pay to get waxed regularly gets pretty expensive
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Dazerbeams posted:So without a partner, this poor blind woman will either turn into a jungle or be perpetually broke. And it won't be her fault at all. Yes, disabled people have difficulty doing a lot of things that able-bodied people take for granted. Not really sure where fault comes into it. edit: Leon Einstein posted:100 bucks every 6 weeks. They say it grows in thinner the longer you do it, but that's a lie. I must have hair growing super powers because 6 weeks is, uhh, not gonna cut it for me. wizardofloneliness fucked around with this message at 17:30 on Apr 3, 2019 |
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MarcusSA posted:Just get it lasered off.
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Leon Einstein posted:Does that actually work permanently? Kinda? It definitely makes it lighter but hormonal changes can make some of it come back but it definitely makes the hair lighter and less of it. Everyone that I know that does it swears by it and it’s much better vs waxing / shaving. One girl I knew even right before the session the hair wasn’t even that bad.
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Dazerbeams posted:So without a partner, this poor blind woman will either turn into a jungle or be perpetually broke. And it won't be her fault at all. nothing wrong with a little bushwhacking now and then It's fun to mix things up!
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Leon Einstein posted:Does that actually work permanently? I got it and I'm happy with it, but there are a few stragglers, missed spots, regrowth, so you still have to shave to be 100% hairless.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my blind girlfriend that I won't help her groom anymore? While on one hand I don't fault him for not wanting to help his girlfriend shave, it's really weird and stupid that his only reasoning is it's so terribly awkward and so obscenely embarrassing that he can't possibly do it anymore. It's just really weak, kind of lovely, and borderline childish, as if he's a scared teenage boy. It's like, uh, why should she ever trust him in a loving, trusting relationship if he goes back on a promise and suddenly decides it's too awkward and embarrassing to help her with her needs? It's not about him and his lame rear end. It's about her. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 17:45 on Apr 3, 2019 |
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