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My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting.quote:Hello all. This is something that has really been upsetting me since it happened last week. I am new to my job - I was running late for the first time since I started 2 months ago - and had a coworker tell on me to my managers about the day I ran 15 mins late... during a meeting that I was not attending. My bosses were aware that I would be late that day but apparently my coworker thought he was telling them something they did not know.
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. Like this sucks and is super petty but she really needs to let it go. She sure wrote a lot of words about it though.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:06
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Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] of 1 yr 2 months, he wants one of my pubic hairsquote:Throwaway so it doesn't tie to my main reddit account. me a [31m] and my GF [27f]....should i be weirded out by her actions. quote:Okay so this is not a huge relationship crisis or anything, just a weird thing my GF did the other day that i thought it would be nice to find out what others think of it.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:06
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Xik posted:This is a take so hot my phone almost burned me when I scrolled through it. I actually think the dude is doing the rightish thing by not immediately flying off the handle. if the tables were reversed and a woman posted about how she was making ~friends~ with a colleague and her partner flipped out and left her with no proof we'd crucify the guy. Yeah, the girlfriend is being lovely. That's not the dude's fault. Harveygod posted:Best response in the past few pa-- i am merely a pupil studying at cumshitter's extremely rank ashram.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:08
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. No, you can't trust that person, and don't confront them or anything either. If an opportunity appears to let him throw himself under the bus, facilitate that but otherwise do not engage. Make nice with the rest of your coworkers though so that they will watch your back. Buy some donuts or something.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:09
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MarcusSA posted:Like this sucks and is super petty but she really needs to let it go. She sure wrote a lot of words about it though. You can't let poo poo like that go because the dude is not going to stop trying to sabotage her. And if he had influence on anybody else he can get a few other people to shut her out and make the job hell for her.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:13
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The key is to start documenting every little thing so there's hard evidence of how lovely the guy has been from day one. And you can bet it's only going to get worse.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:15
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. Do... do people in the real world really get bent out of shape because someone is 15 minutes "late" for work that isn't retail? That's high school poo poo
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Apr 3, 2019 23:18
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. Just let it go. Some people are really lovely, petty assholes and that's part of life. The sooner she realizes that and moves on to positively working with and trusting her other co-workers, while ignoring that dickbutt, of course, the better off she will be. I was working in the electronics dept years ago at Kmart and I made a one-off casual comment about our managers being incompetent to another dude... and he proceeded to tell our managers about what I said. Not that I was at Kmart for long since it was a very poorly run store, but I never trusted that dude for another second and just talked to my other co-workers who weren't shitheads. Such is life.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:19
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Primary family/Secondary family It'd be hilarious (not realistic, but maybe in a slightly twisted rom/com movie way) if the two families did meet, were all good people, and actually got along and decided that Dad was an rear end in a top hat to kick to the sidelines. Your graduation is in the morning? My wedding is in the morning. Oh hell, you should come to the reception in the afternoon! Dad is dis-invited. A step brother fills in at the reception for first dance and toasts to the new family they never knew they had. Dad is divorced and told by everyone, yeah, we'll keep in touch and maybe invite you to a couple birthday parties next year. Deaf, loud masturbator First week of my first big career job out of college I headed to the bathroom mid morning. As I got to the door it there seemed to be a LOT of noise coming from inside. I thought maybe a couple toilets just flushed at the same time and the pipes were janky and making a racket. Nope, once inside the noise sounded like Tarzan was wrestling a silverback gorilla. It was coming from one of the stalls "AAAAAaaaaaUUUHHAAaaauuuh. hufhufhuf, AAAAAaaaaaAAAA!!!" I did an about-face and used another bathroom. I got back to my workbench a few minutes later. My mentor/trainer stopped by and I brought it up. It was too bizarre to not bring up. He was all, "Oh that was Jim. He's totally deaf, and does that every morning!" Woah, that was new experience to me. I thought about it for a moment and asked "Does he know how much noise he makes?" "Yup, I asked him once, and he doesn't care at all!" lol! After a short bit of reflection I decided Jim was one really cool dude. In the future I was glad to take a leak in the urinals when Jim was performing, but I could never get comfortable enough to take a poo poo in the stall next to him while that racket was going on. Seriously goon, make your best Tarzan call at about 50% of the volume you can muster right now out-loud. That was the volume and sound the guy put out. It was cool as heck. Internetjack fucked around with this message at 23:32 on Apr 3, 2019 |
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Apr 3, 2019 23:19
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NecroBob posted:Do... do people in the real world really get bent out of shape because someone is 15 minutes "late" for work that isn't retail? Working in medicine/education/basically any industry where you're serving a captive population and yes, being on time is generally considered to be fairly key to successfully executing one's duties. Like, there is a decent percentage of teenagers who thinks that a teacher being even 5 minutes late means they get the entire day off. That's ignoring the fact that your colleagues will all have an EXTREME boner for bullshit like timeliness because that's one of the most obvious, visible metrics for comparing performance. Like, that "being on time is late" bullshit? That is EVERYWHERE in medicine. I was honestly relieved to hear managers shut them down because I've absolutely had jobs tell me to show up 30 minutes before clocking in so I can "prepare for the day."
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Apr 3, 2019 23:23
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Internetjack posted:First week of my first big career job out of college I headed to the bathroom mid morning. As I got to the door it there seemed to be a LOT of noise coming from inside. I thought maybe a couple toilets just flushed at the same time and the pipes were janky and making a racket. I read this thing a while ago written by a guy whose parents and siblings were deaf but he could hear. Anyway, he said they all constantly made really loud bizarre noises while just doing regular stuff at home. I guess it makes sense that they don't really give a poo poo but it was pretty funny.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:24
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] of 1 yr 2 months, he wants one of my pubic hairs Burn the book. And burn the boyfriend.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:26
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:
after you said nurses don’t do strenuous work you had the courtesy to shut up after everyone called you a dipshit. don’t know why you think you know better than a woman about what a vagina is like.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:28
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:I actually think the dude is doing the rightish thing by not immediately flying off the handle. if the tables were reversed and a woman posted about how she was making ~friends~ with a colleague and her partner flipped out and left her with no proof we'd crucify the guy. I don't think anyone would be defending a dude that says a woman from work is just like their wife, snap chats them in the bath/shower, talks about what gets them hard and tries to hide their phone?
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Apr 3, 2019 23:29
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Xik posted:I don't think anyone would be defending a dude that says a woman from work is just like their wife, snap chats them in the bath/shower, talks about what gets them hard and tries to hide their phone? Well the important thing is I said my hypothetical situation first, which establishes precedence. Ergo, in factotum nomine patre, that means I get to gently caress both of them whilst the other dude watches.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:34
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:I read this thing a while ago written by a guy whose parents and siblings were deaf but he could hear. Anyway, he said they all constantly made really loud bizarre noises while just doing regular stuff at home. I guess it makes sense that they don't really give a poo poo but it was pretty funny. i was friends with a girl in high school whose parents were both deaf, but she wasnt. she threw some fuckin killer parties at her house
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Apr 3, 2019 23:37
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LOVE LOVE SKELETON posted:after you said nurses don’t do strenuous work you had the courtesy to shut up after everyone called you a dipshit. don’t know why you think you know better than a woman about what a vagina is like.  "I just think women have a much more straightforward time of cleaning up their genitals than men do. I don't know the joys of shaving around a man's junk, but it seems a whole lot more complicated." is a very normal and cool post. Yup you're right... in a parallel universe on Mars.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:38
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Fairly difficult to shave around my enormous Chyna clit and huge Darrio Argento presents Deep Red-style theatrical curtain-grade labia. edit- gotta gather up my undertrusses in panties which can only be described as "reinforced."
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Apr 3, 2019 23:42
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:i was friends with a girl in high school whose parents were both deaf, but she wasnt. she threw some fuckin killer parties at her house And her parents knew. I grew up with a hearing girl with deaf parents (he mom was also blind). Little to nothing got by them. Far less than many hearing/seeing households as I recall.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:44
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Yawgmoth posted:My argument is that extremely personal grooming is a different beast from getting a mop/washcloth and some soap. Secondarily, yeah some people will rank different things higher and lower on their icky scales than you do! Some people faint at the sight of blood, others shrug; it doesn't mean that one of these people must be wrong. quote:Like, flip it around here. If you were dating a dude and he came up one day with "hey Anne, I want you to regularly shave my balls because it pleases me to have a freshly shorn scrotum on the reg", would you immediately jump up and say "oh sure thing sweetie!" or would you cock an eyebrow and ask a few questions and/or have some opinions to voice first? Also, none of those dudes were blind!!!
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Apr 3, 2019 23:45
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Motronic posted:And her parents knew. I grew up with a hearing girl with deaf parents (he mom was also blind). Little to nothing got by them. Far less than many hearing/seeing households as I recall. oh for sure, i've talked to them as adults and they were just chill about it. they could tell how many people were over from the vibrations they said. but we thought we were suuuuuper clever, at the time
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. lol gently caress this bootlicker
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Apr 3, 2019 23:47
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:oh for sure, i've talked to them as adults and they were just chill about it. they could tell how many people were over from the vibrations they said. but we thought we were suuuuuper clever, at the time There were a couple deaf kids at our high school. For dances/proms they had a thumper type machine (picture Dune and the thumpers that were used to call the worms) that could duplicate the heavy bass beats so those kids could dance along with everyone. You could feel it in your bones and it was cool as gently caress.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:51
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Internetjack posted:There were a couple deaf kids at our high school. For dances/proms they had a thumper type machine (picture Dune and the thumpers that were used to call the worms) that could duplicate the heavy bass beats so those kids could dance along with everyone. You could feel it in your bones and it was cool as gently caress. That was a really nice thing your high school did.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:54
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therobit posted:You can't let poo poo like that go because the dude is not going to stop trying to sabotage her. And if he had influence on anybody else he can get a few other people to shut her out and make the job hell for her. If the dude is really in a position of power I totally agree. But it sounds more like a situation of this dude got caught being a total rear end in a top hat and called out on it. Best thing to do in that situation is just make friends with the rest of your co-workers until he self implodes. Eventually every is going to wise up to "huh, Lisa seems cool, the fact that Jeff keeps talking poo poo about her constantly.... seems like he's actually the rear end in a top hat here."
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Internetjack posted:There were a couple deaf kids at our high school. For dances/proms they had a thumper type machine (picture Dune and the thumpers that were used to call the worms) that could duplicate the heavy bass beats so those kids could dance along with everyone. You could feel it in your bones and it was cool as gently caress. . . . A subwoofer?
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Apr 3, 2019 23:55
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Internetjack posted:There were a couple deaf kids at our high school. For dances/proms they had a thumper type machine (picture Dune and the thumpers that were used to call the worms) that could duplicate the heavy bass beats so those kids could dance along with everyone. You could feel it in your bones and it was cool as gently caress. This is super cool and I love your high school.
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Apr 3, 2019 23:58
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Dazerbeams posted:My coworker (36m) complained about me (28f) to my bosses at a coworker meeting. I promise you 36m was Military. That ethos of "On time is late" is great into you from day loving 1
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SalTheBard posted:I promise you 36m was Military. That ethos of "On time is late" is great into you from day loving 1 Or people who had office jobs at IBM - I want to say some former IBM CEO was the onus of that phrase. I worked for a company run by a bunch of IBM alumnus for the better part of a decade and looking back it was a living hell for a lot longer than I acknowledged at the time. Geoj fucked around with this message at 00:08 on Apr 4, 2019 |
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Apr 4, 2019 00:03
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:
you're being that guy who tried to mansplain about vaginas
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cumshitter posted:Ironically, I love smooth, hairless balls under a hot and untamed hairy rear end. Makes me feel like I'm loving an erotic version of one of the McDonaldland Fry Kids. gently caress yeah go with the zen garden aesthetic
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Apr 4, 2019 00:16
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Dazerbeams posted:Is that the general consensus then? That men have it easier than women in terms of shaving down there? Because you guys sure are eager to tell me how much of a struggle I should be having. Yeah I really enjoyed watching a bunch of dudes in the thread mansplain about how difficult it is for women to shave their genitals e: lol apparently Cough Drop the Beat is even still doing it, on this very page, wow QuarkJets fucked around with this message at 00:25 on Apr 4, 2019 |
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Apr 4, 2019 00:19
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QuarkJets posted:Yeah I really enjoyed watching a bunch of dudes in the thread mansplain about how difficult it is for women to shave their genitals AITA for calling out my transgender friend after she questioned my national identity? (self.AmItheAsshole) submitted 21 hours ago by RabbitKingO_O quote:I am ethnically Chinese, born and raised in Britain.
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Apr 4, 2019 00:21
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Geoj posted:Or people who had office jobs at IBM - I want to say some former IBM CEO was the onus of that phrase. I think it was Vince Lombardi. He said something like, "if you're 5 minutes early, you're already 10 minutes late". My hs bball coach loved that quote.
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Apr 4, 2019 00:23
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:. . . A subwoofer? Nope, it was entirely mechanical. The school would hire DJs for the the dances and this thing would somehow plug into their mixing boards to pick up the bass beats. When I say it was like a thumper in Dune I mean it. It was a cylindrical column about 5' high. There was a weight on top of a piston that was maybe hydraulic or maybe electromagnetic. It could speed up and slow down quickly. Slow and steady or rapid machine gun pace. The DJs had the normal stacks of speakers and subwoofers which you could feel in your chest, but this thing you could feel in your TOES! I'm a bit surprised at the last few responses. I just always assumed this was a normal thing to have at dances if there were deaf kids hanging out. Again, the look of the thing, the feel it gave you, made it totally cool.
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Apr 4, 2019 00:26
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All y’alls anecdotes about deaf people you used to know are irrelevant unless you also used to shave their pubes, and/or they yours Also gently caress that racist-rear end trans person, white English people are the proto-Americans Fuck Your Website fucked around with this message at 00:31 on Apr 4, 2019 |
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Apr 4, 2019 00:28
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [28 M] of 1 yr 2 months, he wants one of my pubic hairs Let your armpit hair grow out, then shave your pubic hair completely off, throw it away, then shave your armpit hair and spirit gum it to your pubic area, then agree to letting him take a pube. Bam, he's actually got an armpit hair for his pube book and you've ruined it's value.
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CheesyDog posted:AITA for calling out my transgender friend after she questioned my national identity? (self.AmItheAsshole) Hmmm this is a rough one. I mean kinda an rear end in a top hat but kinda not? Like why did the friend even need to say what she said? I get why she fired back with what she did but its a pretty deep cut especially for someone who is transitioning.
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If we all took the time to shave each other's pubes, the world would be a better, if occasionally scarred, place.
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