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Serephina posted:I'm squnting really hard at this but still not seeing it. The second one is strait-up solicitation of a bribe (or sex, w/e), while the first one is called avoiding a conflict of interest. We're all on-board about avoiding conflicts of interest, right? Unless nepotism (etc) doesn't seem like such a bad thing for you? No the first would be coercion (human trafficking) and the second one would be false imprisonment (also human trafficking). So most people in that situation trying to run a scam would try to make the person seeking career advancement seem ugly and sound bad as the reason they aren’t succeeding rather than describe an ethical conflict (because they would be admitting to human trafficking if they describe the reason as an ethical problem). You can’t bind a unique talent to a contract that they would otherwise be able to renegotiate under the threat of not performing. ClamdestineBoyster fucked around with this message at 15:08 on Apr 17, 2019 |
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother  those friends heads. “No moral compass” wtf lol
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CheesyDog posted:Found porn on my [28M] wife’s [29F] laptop that makes me doubt her attraction to me (self.sex) Oh no, I figured out my wife is a sexual being and has fantasies just like I do. Should I blow up my relationship over this imagined slight against me?
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother nta but sonny actually likes you and didnt agree to poo poo. also bang him on the kitchen table in front of his mom.
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother Sonny sounds like a really cool guy. gently caress him at the BBQ in front of Mommy and gently caress your stupid friends.
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Apr 17, 2019 15:07
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snergle posted:nta but sonny actually likes you and didnt agree to poo poo. also bang him on the kitchen table in front of his mom. At least give him a stealth handy that’s just obvious enough to not really be a stealth handy
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Apr 17, 2019 15:08
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother why do people give so much of a poo poo about maturity, especially for stuff like this? are their lives so devoid of joy from the effort of being mature?
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Apr 17, 2019 15:17
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother "So as we close out on this lovely BBQ, Sonny and I would like you all to know we put the man in mayonnaise this evening, so hope you all enjoyed and God bless."
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Apr 17, 2019 15:18
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waah posted:"So as we close out on this lovely BBQ, Sonny and I would like you all to know we put the man in mayonnaise this evening, so hope you all enjoyed and God bless." I think the objective is actually to put the mayonnaise in the man... so to speak
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Apr 17, 2019 15:28
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Depends how much mayonnaise you make, really
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Apr 17, 2019 15:34
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother The best part about this one is on the off chance she blows her stack and complains to the department chair, she will sound like a certified lunatic.
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Apr 17, 2019 15:45
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Barudak posted:Depends how much mayonnaise you make, really Like my granny used to say, you gotta bust a few nuts to make a pie.
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Apr 17, 2019 15:46
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That dudes straight friends suck. A pervert? I might buy that if he was chicken hawking some 19 year old undergraduate, but here it's just a guy around his age with whom he happens to share something funny in common that he might be able to leverage to get them both some petty revenge.
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Apr 17, 2019 15:52
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Sjs00 posted:If you get caught peeing in public by the police it's public nudity and you make the sexual offenders list goons if you're not already Lifehack: It's legal to pee your pants anywhere
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ad090 posted:AITA for sleeping with someone to spite their mother  Just make sure to stop seeing him before things escalate. Or maybe you should keep going, and tell your future kids how daddy and daddy married solely to spite grandma.
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Apr 17, 2019 16:01
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r/relationships[new] My girlfriend (23f) and I had been planning to go skydiving with me (29m) for the first time. Instead she went with her 'brogrammer' work friends. (20s and 30s m) u/tandylell1 quote:My girlfriend and I had wanted to go skydiving together for a while. We actually booked it a few times last yearand it kept being cancelled because of the weather. Then it became winter, and we decided we'd go in the spring.
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Whorelord posted:why do people give so much of a poo poo about maturity, especially for stuff like this? are their lives so devoid of joy from the effort of being mature? yes absolutely and giving other people grief about it is probably the only thing in life the OP's bitter prig friends will actually let themselves enjoy
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yes absolutely and giving other people grief about it is probably the only thing in life the OP's bitter prig friends will actually let themselves enjoy One of the biggest shocks I found in life was when I realized most people genuinely do not want to be happy. I think on some level they acknowledge they do not deserve to be and switch to making sure no one is.
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I was just looking for pictures (not snooping) in the hidden folder under MyDocuments/taxes/2017/
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AITA for eating the majority of my burrito?quote:I was at a Mexican restaurant yesterday and ordered a steak burrito. My order arrives and after two bites I realize that it’s actually a beef burrito. Rather than taking it back immediately for the correct burrito, I instead ate about ¾ of it before taking it back. I figured they were going to throw it out anyway, so why not finish most of it? However, the girl at the counter gave me the dirtiest look when I asked for them to fix their mistake. She acted like I murdered the pope or something, and again scowled at me when handing me a steak burrito 5 minutes later. Now I’m worried that they spit in my food, or worse.
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r/relationships[new] I [28F] cheated on my fiance [31M]. He went through my phone and found out. I desperately want to fix this relationship. (How) Can I? u/relatthrowaway1111 quote:Important stuff (never submitted before): We have been together for 4.5 years, engaged for 2.5 We live together, we have been through many tough things together in our relationship - illnesses, family stuff, etc. I felt like we had a very strong relationship. He moved out 5 days ago, I came home and all of his stuff was gone and he gave my friend the task of telling me. I haven't spoken to him since, he has blocked my number. I haven't gotten out of bed or eaten since, luckily I'm on spring break.
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for eating the majority of my burrito? lmao you can tell who's never worked in the service industry before
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationships[new] Leave him alone
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areyoucontagious posted:It’s a loving long con either way- he must have been planning this for 15 years?! What the gently caress I know a guy that dated a girl for 8 years, 6+ of which he lived with his parents and she stayed there with him mostly. He kept saying he wanted to buy a house and not "throw money away" by renting. I suggested renting as a 'trial period' so they could have some experience living together before buying a house together. He also never proposed, or had started ring shopping at all because he said he wanted to get the house first. Fast forward to house buying, they buy a really nice 3br house and move in, I go visit a few times and things seem great. Until I find out that the division of things is.. he pays the mortgage and *all* the utilities and she pays for food/random expenses and they split a bunch of the furniture. He ends up having to get a pretty serious surgery which leaves him laid up and on medical leave from work for months, during which time she takes care of him - including him having an actual bell that he rings when he needs something. I know this because he demonstrated while I was there and we were playing video games in a 'watch this' manner where he rings the bell, then yells for her to bring us drinks/snacks. Less than 2 months after he recovers fully and goes back to work, he dumps her cold and kicks her out of the house. Turns out not only was he paying the mortgage/utilities, he was also the only one named on them. So she moved back in with her folks, and at least made it a point to take all the food she could pack with her. He then started dating one of her best friends (who introduced them), and got engaged to her in less than a year. Now THAT is a long con.
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Edit ^^^^^^thats loving brutal. I just can’t believe she didn’t have recourse for at least some of that value. She should have murked him when he was laid up and she had the chance. Maybe someday it’ll be possible with a time machine or whatever, like you fill out a form and the most egregious cases get approved.Renegret posted:lmao So they ate two burritos? Mexican restaurants serve burritos the size of an attaché case. sephiRoth IRA fucked around with this message at 16:47 on Apr 17, 2019 |
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Apr 17, 2019 16:45
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You don't get to roll all of your affairs into one, like a bunch of similar credit line pulls. "This is the only geologic epoch I cheated in!"
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for eating the majority of my burrito? I mean, his logic is right that they can't serve it to someone else so it would have probably gone to waste. However, you don't eat the whole thing automatically assuming that - its much better to bring it up immediately and mention the order came out wrong. 9 times out of 10 they will tell you to just keep/eat the incorrect one anyway while they make you a new one. Then you still get 2x burritos without all the dirty looks!
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationships[new] I like how he leaves out why he was busy the day she invited him to go. Was it due to being unable to get out of work, was he doing something for a parent, was it video games, what?
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationships[new] Hmmm. 1. Invent a time machine 2. Don't cheat, or, do, but 3. Don't keep records of cheating on a device that you constantly leave within reach of your boyfriend
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Vim Fuego posted:Hmmm. Counterpoint: do do that, so he can get rid of you, the garbage retard
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areyoucontagious posted:Edit ^^^^^^thats loving brutal. I just can’t believe she didn’t have recourse for at least some of that value. She should have murked him when he was laid up and she had the chance. Maybe someday it’ll be possible with a time machine or whatever, like you fill out a form and the most egregious cases get approved. I mean, her self-preservation instincts were highly lacking. I know for a fact if I was in a relationship with someone for that long and we moved in together and my partner was like 'oh hey im goona be the sole name on everything and you can just give me money' I'd immediately wonder what was up. She not only didn't pick up on that, but then got double screwed being a caretaker for months (while working her full time job each day, she'd take care of him in the mornings/evenings). Super messed up, I figure karma will sort that all out for both of them one day. Who knows what kinda trust issues shes going to have going forward though.
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CheesyDog posted:r/relationships[new] quote:I never wanted to hurt him, I just want to fix this. https://i.imgur.com/Qx2tran.gifv
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Emulator posted:I mean, his logic is right that they can't serve it to someone else so it would have probably gone to waste. However, you don't eat the whole thing automatically assuming that - its much better to bring it up immediately and mention the order came out wrong. 9 times out of 10 they will tell you to just keep/eat the incorrect one anyway while they make you a new one. Then you still get 2x burritos without all the dirty looks! nobody cares about the fate of the fuckin burrito they hate him because like half a food service worker's life is dealing with dipshits trying to scam free food out of them with some idiotic technicality, and if the manager notices he's likely to take the loss out of their paycheck. If it's the wrong order but it's still clearly edible and tasty to you, just loving eat it.
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Emulator posted:I mean, his logic is right that they can't serve it to someone else so it would have probably gone to waste. However, you don't eat the whole thing automatically assuming that - its much better to bring it up immediately and mention the order came out wrong. 9 times out of 10 they will tell you to just keep/eat the incorrect one anyway while they make you a new one. Then you still get 2x burritos without all the dirty looks! like all interactions in society it is better to pretend you are stupid
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Self destruction is an ugly and depressing thing. People who aren't married shouldn't buy houses together. But if you're going to go ahead anyway, you better drat well make sure your name is on that piece of property.
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If he was paying the mortgage/utilities, unless she helped him with the down payment then it sounds like he just bought a house by himself? She shouldn't own equity in a house if she's not financially contributing it. Still lovely to break up 2 months post recovery after she worked so hard being a care taker though.
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They were in a relationship together and a house was purchased. It's lovely to buy yourself a house if you're in a committed relationship with someone. What kind of message does that send?
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Renegret posted:If he was paying the mortgage/utilities, unless she helped him with the down payment then it sounds like he just bought a house by himself? She shouldn't own equity in a house if she's not financially contributing it. It sounds like she was covering other costs? Like the rest of living costs outside mortgage and utilities?
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Renegret posted:If he was paying the mortgage/utilities, unless she helped him with the down payment then it sounds like he just bought a house by himself? She shouldn't own equity in a house if she's not financially contributing it. yeah she wasn't even a renter, she was getting free housing and just buying groceries. Using her as a caretaker then ditching her was scummy af but that'd be scummy behavior no matter their cost-sharing arrangement, and out of the possible situations it could be she got basically the sweetest deal.
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Sjs00 posted:If you get caught peeing in public by the police it's public nudity and you make the sexual offenders list goons if you're not already Nudity is legal in my state as long as you aren't doing something like jerking it. You can walk through downtown Seattle naked as the day you were born and they can't arrest you just for the lack of clothes. And I'll be damned if I'm wearing a shirt on a hot day when all the dudes get to go topless. Pissing in public is still pretty illegal though. Find a drat bush. E we even have yearly naked bike rides but uh....that looks painful.
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