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M.C. McMic posted:Yes, you're the rear end in a top hat. You're sucking all the fun out of something you used to both enjoy to prove some point nobody gives a poo poo about. If someone with no wrestling background tries to ‘wrestle’ with you, the feeling is a lot like roughhousing with a toddler, there’s no way she would find that fun or sexy or whatever. It’s all about the boyfriend, who should either stop picking playfights that will damage his fragile ego or start training.
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Waiting for the AITA in six months when they have both been training and one of them sends the other to hospital in a "play" fight.
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May 9, 2019 00:32
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Hellblazer187 posted:That seems to be the reddit consensus too, but I think the boyfriend is being a big dork because he's sulking about not overpowering his woman anymore. It could be either, honestly... or both, for that matter. Maybe she's taking it too far and then he's being a baby as well. Who knows? Based on what's in her post, though, it sounds like this was flirting that they both enjoyed and now she just wants to show off whenever he engages her in something they've been doing for years. I used to kinda play wrestle my friends in middle and high school. It would suck if one of them suddenly started choking me out and leg kicking me. 02-6611-0142-1 posted:If someone with no wrestling background tries to ‘wrestle’ with you, the feeling is a lot like roughhousing with a toddler, there’s no way she would find that fun or sexy or whatever. It’s all about the boyfriend, who should either stop picking playfights that will damage his fragile ego or start training. Bullshit. Read the post again. She admits it was both flirtatious and mutual. Maybe you wouldn't enjoy it, but she obviously did based on her own post.
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May 9, 2019 00:34
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M.C. McMic posted:Bullshit. Read the post again. She admits it was both flirtatious and mutual. Maybe you wouldn't enjoy it, but she obviously did based on her own post.
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May 9, 2019 00:36
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I'd personally love crouching tiger hidden penis play sessions but the bf definitely prefers some other movie I have not watched
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May 9, 2019 00:38
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the wording of the wrestling post is way too ambiguous to start cutting apart the text and parsing minor bits of it, but do carry on pedantic goons
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May 9, 2019 00:38
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Well now that I know the geenstone is maori I have a theory as to why his family takes his soon to be ex-wifes side.
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May 9, 2019 00:40
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:I said that even back then, I'd tried to wrestle back, I just didn't know what I was doing so I'd mainly flail around and shove instead of anything that works. And yeah it turns out he misses when he could overpower me like that. I said that I wasn't about to fake it, and that if he wanted to he should join me at the gym sometime. And he wasn't a fan of that, he said it wasn't fun if we'd be taking it too seriously. yeah, and the post begins with this: quote:My boyfriend and I would often joke around by play wrestling, from the start of our relationship, like if we were cuddling in bed and I wanted to get up earlier, he'd wrestle me back into bed. Or on the beach, he'd pick me up and carry me around and joke that he'd dunk me in the water. Stuff that we both found fun; I never felt like he was being too pushy or doing it when I seriously wasn't in the mood. We've been together for about 3 years and this has been our dynamic the whole time. So, what you posted sounds an awful lot like an excuse from someone who took things too far. M.C. McMic fucked around with this message at 00:43 on May 9, 2019 |
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May 9, 2019 00:41
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Lutha Mahtin posted:the wording of the wrestling post is way too ambiguous to start cutting apart the text and parsing minor bits of it, but do carry on pedantic goons that's fair but it's unambiguous that being dominated never did factor into her fun factor but sure as heck does for the bf
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May 9, 2019 00:42
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Mad about wrasslin up in here
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May 9, 2019 00:45
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M.C. McMic posted:Bullshit. Read the post again. She admits it was both flirtatious and mutual. Maybe you wouldn't enjoy it, but she obviously did based on her own post. I mean, it was fun for her when she was putting a low amount of effort into it but not completely turning off everything she had learned. It might not be fun for her if she had to play fight with him like you would a child and just let him win every time. All of the examples of what he liked are "He could physically make me do things" which does have an uncomfortable subtext to it. He started pouting when she could win, and that's... off-putting. But the exact example of an elbow to the gut and a jaw shove is a BIT much. Some guys really can't handle when women can beat them though, we've had posts just like that. Who knows if he's like that or not? But they should definitely just stop if it's going to not be fun for her or end in him pouting. FAKE EDIT: Yikes, I went to the comments and: quote:I didn't really find it sexy to always be losing at first lol She doesn't sound like she was as into it as the post made it sound. And she admits later that he puts his "full strength" into it when trying to subdue her and now he can't succeed.
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May 9, 2019 00:48
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I wonder what made her interested in a martial art that trains people to evade and counter larger people trying to grab them - perhaps it was her way of getting a hold on how strong and healthy the relationship was!
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May 9, 2019 00:52
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I dont know why they aren't alternating doing Stone Cold Stunners and Diamond Cutters on each other before she does a Banzai drop onto his penis. If Vince McMahon isnt sanctioning your intercourse are you even loving?
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May 9, 2019 01:02
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CheesyDog posted:I wonder what made her interested in a martial art that trains people to evade and counter larger people trying to grab them - perhaps it was her way of getting a hold on how strong and healthy the relationship was! hahaha, they've been together for years & they hate each other, they don't even realize it. that owns
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May 9, 2019 01:09
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Guys do that to show they could rape you if they really wanted to
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May 9, 2019 01:12
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She says in her comments she's not going very hard - half as hard as she goes against a female training partner in the gym. She confirmed that she's not hurting him. I read it as 100% male fragility, that he really liked having a partner he could hold down because Pick posted:Guys do that to show they could rape you if they really wanted to
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May 9, 2019 01:31
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Oh poo poo. I seem to recall this being posted here, but I would never be able to find it. The update is new to me though, and it's a thing where I was curious about the result: Neighbors child has disabilities and won't stop climbing the fence, entering my house and "freeing" my dogs quote:For the past 7 months after moving in to my new house with my daughter and dogs the neighbors child who's 15/16 and has pretty severe downs syndrome has increasingly been entering my property and home. (Update) Neighbors child has disabilities and won't stop climbing the fence, entering my house and "freeing" my dogs quote:I'm sad about this update for the kid, I took the majority of the given advice and called the police non-emergency number and asked for an officer to come out because I had questions about an issue I'm having and briefly explained it.
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May 9, 2019 01:44
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May 9, 2019 01:54
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Midnight Voyager posted:Oh poo poo. I seem to recall this being posted here, but I would never be able to find it. The update is new to me though, and it's a thing where I was curious about the result: Jesus that sucks. What poo poo parents. Her freeing the dogs was an allegory for her trying to free her self from the confines of her lovely house.
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May 9, 2019 02:15
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yeah i came across it through the update but declined to post it because I felt like it would bum everyone out. honestly probably the best outcome – the parents are seriously negligent – but CPS getting involved is always gonna be sad
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May 9, 2019 02:15
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Smirking_Serpent posted:yeah i came across it through the update but declined to post it because I felt like it would bum everyone out. Honestly this is the most poo poo part... quote:I've called the local child and family services office (CPS) several times in the past two months to report it because I feel she is at risk with her parents inattentiveness and their seemingly not caring attitude of her just going into people's yards, garages, houses etc. I have a full garage of power tools, table saws etc that I've now had to resort to flipping the breaker off when I open the doors out of fear she may severely injure herself. The fact that she had to get the cops involved before CPS actually did its job is really loving sad and sadly the norm for most parts of this country.
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May 9, 2019 02:18
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AITA for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite? So I was on the couch chilling with my girlfriend last night and she was telling me about her night out with the girls. She was telling me she had a good time but that one of her friends started talking to some guy early in the night and exchanged phone numbers. He later texted her later that night where she was at, they met up again and 15 min later they were gone to his place. GF: ''She's just been a real slut after that breakup'' Me: 'Well I think she's just enjoying herself, no need to call her slut.'' GF: ''Well they talked for a very short time and basically just had sex with a stranger, I think that's pretty slutty if you ask me.'' I was getting kind of annoyed by this because I'm a very 'just do whatever the gently caress you want as long as you don't hurt anyone'-kinda guy and it was especially annoying because she was kind of hypocritical. Me: ''As if you never went home with someone after a night out, that's literally how we met'' GF: "Yeah but that's different, she's just so...easy I dunno how to explain but she is'' Me: "Well I don't think we talked for an hour that night, I bought you 2 drinks at the bar, afterward some McDonald's and you let me cum in your mouth, kind of hypocritical to go around and calling other people sluts". Well, you can imagine how that went. She blew up on me and left. We've texted and called since but she's still pretty pissed. Am I an rear end in a top hat for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite?
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May 9, 2019 02:23
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AITA for telling a restaurant manager behind my SIL’s back to charge my sister-in-law for food she refused to pay for after she ate 90% of it? I posted this in legal advice - you’ll see why at the end. My mom said it was inappropriate to tell the manager to charge her daughter-in-law. My wife thinks I’m 100% in the right and my SIL is bonkers. This happened over a month ago and I just received a call from her telling me I need to talk to her lawyer. I hate eating with my brother’s family because my SIL complains about everything. She’s a terrible person. Anyway, we had to eat together as it was my nieces birthday. We went to Chili’s and she ate most of her food then asked for the waiter. He came by and she said she wasn’t going to pay for her food because she didn’t like it. He got the manager and the manager said she had to pay for it, especially because she ate probably 90% of it. I was EXTREMELY embarrassed and just wanted to leave. At the same time I wanted to see how it turned out. She threw a huge fit. The manager walked away to “see what he could do.” I went to the bathroom, but on the way stopped him and told him to charge her. She always does this and it’s so annoying. He said he wouldn’t let her get away with it. He went back and gave her the check. She refused and he called the police. It was great. She was so embarrassed. Everyone at the restaurant was staring at her. The cops told her to pay for the food she ate or they’d arrest her if she left without paying. She did. Now she called me wanting me to give a statement to her lawyer as she’s actually suing them for harassment and embarrassment or something along those lines. I told her no and she said I have to do it. I don’t want to give her lawyer a statement as she would no I told the manager she does this all the time. She also told me she’s suing because she got food poisoning. I know 100% that she didn’t. She’s just adding this in. AITA?
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May 9, 2019 02:26
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite? Why no not at all! I can't imagine why she's mad at you. lamo
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May 9, 2019 02:26
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling a restaurant manager behind my SIL’s back to charge my sister-in-law for food she refused to pay for after she ate 90% of it? Imagine getting sued over a dinner at loving Chilis haha. NTA and SIL needs to be fired in to the sun.
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May 9, 2019 02:28
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite? You're not an rear end in a top hat but you are really, really dumb
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May 9, 2019 02:30
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The only way shell get food poisoning is if she eats her phony-baloney lawyer
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May 9, 2019 02:30
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honestly if you buy me a sausage biscuit and a hash brown you can come wherever
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May 9, 2019 02:32
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AITA for writing a letter to corporate and getting a Chipotle worker reprimanded? I woke up a little early today and wanted to grab a chipotle burrito before I went to class. I arrived right as the store opened. I ordered the usual which includes guac. However, before the girl working the counter could scoop I noticed the guac was slightly brown and looked like it was probably from the night before. When I asked if I could get fresh guac she responded by stirring the brown guac and almost scooping it right on my burrito. I told her no I don’t want the brown guac. For some reason this really irritated me and I couldn’t bring myself to ask when freshly made guac would be available. I paid and ate my burrito in the store and typed an email to corporate right then and there. I said how slighted I felt by this girl who obviously didn’t care about her job at all and how she might as well have spat in my face, which I realize now was probably a little harsh. I got an email back almost immediately with an apology saying the employee would be reprimanded. Am I the rear end in a top hat?
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May 9, 2019 02:32
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite? The Something Awful Forums › Main › General Bullshit › /r/relationships: I bought you McDonalds and you let me cum in your mouth
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(NV) Brother-in-law was attacked 2 nights ago, shot several times, exchanged gunfire with the attacker. Police took his wallet with $1,500 in it, and have made a suspicious call to hospital. Short backstory, my brother-in-law was ambushed outside of his home after being dropped off be a female coworker. The initial story is that her ex-boyfriend had followed them home and attacked my BIL when he got out of the car. My BIL returned fire and hit him, and they're both in the hospital. There are a lot of stories flying around between everyone, it's not clear yet what the whole truth is. Aside from that, I have two more practical immediate concerns. The call that the police made to the hospital was requesting his medical file number. The nurses didn't disclose any information to the officer that called because my BIL was admitted into the trauma ward without his name being registered. Following that, the officer then called my MIL for the number, and told her it was so that he could see what the blood tests said. My wife told her mom to make sure it was all on the up and up before returning the call, and the nurses overheard and told my MIL to provide a recently assigned social workers number to the police, and tell them to handle whether or not the police have access to that information. Sorry, I know that's long without a question, but I guess what I want to know is, is this actually a concerning event? Does this smell wrong? My brother in law doesn't have the best criminal history, but he's done a lot of work to expunge his records, and the gun he used to defend himself is legally his. The details are still pretty coming out, I understand why the police are investigating things, but there is a real concern that they are looking for something to besmirch his character. It feels like they want to find out if he had drugs in his system, and I just don't think that's appropriate for them to be looking at without a warrant. Also what we can do to try to make sure he gets his money back? He had just cashed his paycheck and I've heard way too many stories about people losing their property to civil forfeiture.Can we demand some sort of itemization of things that they have seized from him as evidence? What can be done to ensure he gets his things back? Edit: we are gonna meet a lawyer in a few hours for some advice and hopefully help. Thank you all for your comments and advice. I appreciate it greatly.
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May 9, 2019 02:43
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Spaced God posted:
Think of the story they’ll have if they ever have kids
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May 9, 2019 02:45
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for pointing out that my girlfriend was being a hypocrite? She wasn't bluffin' with her McMuffin
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May 9, 2019 02:48
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Baronjutter posted:People in this thread thinking it's bad for a parent to punish a kid for an extremely cut and dry mass cheating on a test are the same sort of people who raise horribly entitled kid who grow into horribly entitled adults who have never faced consequences for anything in their life and then go on to create horrible r/relationships posts. So, god bless you all. Thankfully almost everyone in the thread posting about it recognizes that the parents didn't need to draw up a legal document specifying that cheating on a test is a no-no. It was just one weird poster insisting that the daughter should be able to rules lawyer her way into getting rewarded anyway, as though she was a robot who needed to be explicitly told that the deal also required upholding basic ethical rules. *beep boop* but father, you didn't say that I couldn't hold the teacher's family at gunpoint Hell she isn't even being punished by her parents, they're just not rewarding her poor behavior.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:(NV) Brother-in-law was attacked 2 nights ago, shot several times, exchanged gunfire with the attacker. Police took his wallet with $1,500 in it, and have made a suspicious call to hospital. stories that could be set in either iraq or america.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:(NV) Brother-in-law was attacked 2 nights ago, shot several times, exchanged gunfire with the attacker. Police took his wallet with $1,500 in it, and have made a suspicious call to hospital. welcome to america. if you're not killing cops they're killing you
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QuarkJets posted:Thankfully almost everyone in the thread posting about it recognizes that the parents didn't need to draw up a legal document specifying that cheating on a test is a no-no. It was just one weird poster insisting that the daughter should be able to rules lawyer her way into getting rewarded anyway, as though she was a robot who needed to be explicitly told that the deal also required upholding basic ethical rules.
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i feel bad for that brother assuming the story is completely legit (who knows) but lol, he's not getting that money back even if the other dude turns out to be al-Baghdadi
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AITA because I told my girlfriend I don't want to watch or hear about depressing things she sees on Facebook? My girlfriend uses Facebook a lot and occasionally comes across something extremely dark. Whenever this happens she gets upset and wants to show me right away. For instance, we were with a friend playing cards and she saw a video of a child getting hit by a car in his front yard that went into excruciating detail about his injuries (paraplegic, brain damage etc.). It was extremely depressing and kind of put a damper on the night. I told her that I was sorry but that I didn't want to see things like this anymore, because it effects my mood. I know I'm staying willfully ignorant to the harsh realities of the world, but I've accepted that I am not a saint. It came up again last night when she saw a headline about young girl getting kidnapped in Mexico, that also went into detail. As soon as she read the headline I said no thanks and that I don't think she should read it either. She started reading out loud anyway and I said that I was really sorry but I didn't want to hear about it. She kept reading anyway and so I left the room. Argument ensued. Keep in mind that anything she wants to talk about that actually happens in her life I do my best to be as supportive as possible and will talk about it for hours. I really believe that we are what we consume, so I choose to eat grilled chicken salads and watch TV shows where the good guys win. AITA? (I don't think she is the rear end in a top hat at all to be clear)
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How to properly prepare for addict BIL moving in? We are in North Carolina. What protections should we be considering? My [24F] brother-in-law [22] is currently in rehab in another state for opiate addiction. My husband [25] wants to offer him the option of living with us. Getting BIL out of his home environment is a last ditch effort to help him, however, I don't want our goodwill gesture to bite us in the rear end. We own our home, no kids, husband is active duty military, and I am a full time commuter student. We plan to lock up our medicine cabinet, guns, credit cards, and take inventory of pawnable devices. We have a rough draft roommate.renter agreement but what else should we seriously consider? Thank you for your insights.
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