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WHY DO MEN FORGET DECENCY AND MANNERS AFTER RECEIVING MY NUDES? Hello. 20. Female. New to the dating scene. Only recently lost virginity and have a casual FWB. I've been talking to guys from tinder for a couple of weeks. I'm sort looking for another FWB, maybe a relationship. I'm having the worst luck with matches. Without fail, when the conversation and messages shift to a sexual nature and pictures get exchanged, men cancel dates and stop responding. It happens every time. I love my body and I love taking and posting nudes, so I like to share my content. After a few exchanges, the conversation ceases, usually after he has gotten off/finished. I want a man who can talk about any topics and appreciate my nudes. Is that too much to ask for? TL;DR: Getting ghosted after sending and receiving nudes. What should I do or change?
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May 15, 2019 02:54
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Don't send nudes.
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May 15, 2019 02:55
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Consider putting a tasteful hat on your kuato?
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Picnic Princess posted:I worked in a jewelry store and absolutely dreaded every family jewelry request ever made because no one is ever happy and it sometimes led to fights right there in the store. Ask him to wax his back and chest.
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May 15, 2019 02:57
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AITA for hiring my wife as my secretary so we can spend more time together? I own a rather large business and I'm the main I own a rather large business and I'm the main breadwinner in our house. My wife babysits her sister's kids for cash but is otherwise a stay at home... person; we don't have kids. I come home at 6 in the evening and we barely have time for each other anymore. We mostly talk while in bed before sleeping. I had a secretary that I got along really well with but she recently quit due to health issues. So it clicks in my head that I could hire my wife as my new secretary, that way we'd spend a lot more time together and she'd have an income at the same time. Win-win. I run it past her and she agrees. The job basically consists of fetching documents, making calls, and brewing coffee, all of which she can easily do. She makes the same as the old secretary and less than nearly every other employee. Ever since, our relationship has improved, we spend a lot of time talking with each other and I feel like our marriage is alive again. We also had sex in the office which is a fantasy of mine but that's beside the point. So I thought everything was going great, but I hear from an employee that it's unfair my secretary is also my wife and that's basically nepotism. Which is true technically, the reason I hired my wife as the secretary was because of a family relationship. But she isn't in a position of power nor is she getting exclusive benefits or a higher paycheck so I don't really consider it nepotism. I don't know why he's complaining, he makes double what she does and it's not like she's his manager now. I call him into my office and tell him if he has a problem with my wife being my secretary I'll gladly let him take her job, and he seemed to take the hint. Is this really nepotism?? AITA for making my wife my secretary so we can spend time together?
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May 15, 2019 02:57
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WHY DO MEN FORGET DECENCY AND MANNERS AFTER RECEIVING MY NUDES? Don’t understand this.
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May 15, 2019 02:59
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Wait did the boss say he threatened to gently caress his employee if he has a problem with his wife?
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May 15, 2019 03:01
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blugu64 posted:Ask him to wax his back and chest. beard waxing is hilarious, they cry
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May 15, 2019 03:01
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The men jerk off to her nudes, and after they come, they don't want to bother talking or meeting anymore. It's not hard to get. It's a great catch-22, too, because if you don't send them nudes, they also don't want to bother meeting you.
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May 15, 2019 03:02
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i like nice words
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Burt Sexual posted:Don’t understand this. FWB = Forward Whopperating Base aka "the Burger King near work"
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May 15, 2019 03:02
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Burt Sexual posted:Don’t understand this. She has a full chest tattoo which is every frame of the VHS tape from the ring
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May 15, 2019 03:22
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for turning a girl down for sex because she was so hairy? Lmao when sexual agency and body positivity collide
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May 15, 2019 03:27
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That is some hot woke on woke action.
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May 15, 2019 03:41
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My girlfriend [21f] doesn't understand how to behave in my neighborhood, and is upset that I [24m] don't bring her to my place anymore. I've been dating Maria roughly since I moved to my current city about six months ago. She is a really great girl and is very sweet, but she is a bit naive. We live in a big urban area on the US West Coast. The neighborhood I live in is well-known as a pretty rough neighborhood. Y'know, the "ghetto". I don't mind too much because my rent is cheap and it isn't too terribly different from the neighborhood I grew up in, so I kind of know how to conduct myself that no one really bothers me. My girlfriend Maria grew up in a more upscale neighborhood, and lives next to the university campus. I realized very quickly that she does not really understand how to behave in a neighborhood like mine. For example, the first time she wanted to come over to my place she wanted to bring her car over. I warned her that her car would kind of stick out in the neighborhood and might be seen as a target for break in. She told me she knew what she was doing so I shrugged my shoulders and said okay. She parked her car at my place and started to head in, and I saw she left her purse in the passenger seat. I called her back and told her she really shouldn't leave it in there, she told me she does it all the time and it's never been a problem. I pointed out that she lives near the campus where they have cops every twenty feet. After some minor arguing she rolled her eyes at me a bit and brought it inside with her. That is a situation that has repeated it's self a number of times until maybe three months ago when she walked back outside one morning and, sure enough, her window was busted. She was in tears and freaking out, I asked her if there was anything inside it. She told me left a laptop bag in the car in plain view. She got mad at me for not being more sympathetic about it, and I told her I'm sorry it happened and felt bad and all, but it's not like I haven't warned her not to do that exact thing a couple dozen times. She also got mad when I told her I'd rather take her to the police station to file a report rather than calling them to the scene. Another example, she works part time and her parents help her with cash while she is in school, so she usually has an it or cash on her. She refuses to understand me when I tell her she really can't wave it around. There is a little Mexican bakery across the street from my building she really likes and there has been more than one occasion when she'll go down there to buy something and just walks over with her stack of bills in her hand. I always tell her she really should put that out of sight somewhere and she laughs me off (or rolls her eyes). And she'll say something like "Come on, you act like I'm going to get robbed or something." And I just look at her like "That is what I'm worried about. Like, that is exactly what happens around here multiple times a day." I tried to point out to her that there are addicts hanging out on the street all day and night. There are big dudes hanging out on the street corners all night long, and they're not the neighborhood watch. Well, they are I guess, but not the kind she would think of. Kinda the last straw was a couple weeks ago when there was someone in the parking lot yelling some stuff in the stupid hours of the morning. It woke us both up and Maria was pissed about it and asked if she should yell at him to shut up. I told her to definitely not do that. She kept getting angry and I finally gave up and told her to do what she wanted. She opened the window and yelled down "Shut up or we'll call the police!!" I jumped up from the bed and yelled at her to absolutely, positively not say we will call the police. She just looked at me like I was talking crazy and asked "why not?" And I told her that was the kind of thing that will get someone jumped (or worse) around here. Another eye roll, but she at least let it go and went back to sleep. Since then I have kind of stopped bringing her around down here. I've just been going up to her neighborhood as much as I can and taking her downtown and whatnot. She's been asking a lot lately why I never bring her to my place anymore and I tell her that I'm just kinda worried she's gonna get herself hurt or her car broken into or something again, and she gets a bit into a huff because she tells me she can handle herself. I mean, I'd like to bring her around too, but she really is testing fate. And I honestly don't need someone yelling about calling the police from my apartment. She is upset with me for thinking she can't handle herself, I just don't want her to get herself (or me) huart. Advice? She doesn't understand or listen when I tell her social rules are different here than the environment she is used to. She thinks I'm being "silly". Should I try to get through to her? Tell her I'm not bringing her down here anymore? Just let her do as she wants and whatever happens happens? TL;DR: GirlfFiend does not understand how to behave in my neighborhood and won't listen to me about it. So I stopped bringing her down there. She is upset with me because of that and pouty. Help?
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May 15, 2019 03:45
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Barudak posted:That is some hot woke on woke action. Like in the movie "Wokeback Mountain"?
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FAUXTON posted:FWB = Forward Whopperating Base aka "the Burger King near work" this is good
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My girlfriend [21f] doesn't understand how to behave in my neighborhood, and is upset that I [24m] don't bring her to my place anymore. tfw her community has two gates and yours only has one
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May 15, 2019 04:00
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Move out of the goddamn ghetto
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May 15, 2019 04:01
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Barudak posted:Move out of the goddamn ghetto This but also if your girlfriend is that stupid and you haven't realized it enough to break up with her after 6 months then I dunno what to tell you
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May 15, 2019 04:06
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My girlfriend [21f] doesn't understand how to behave in my neighborhood, and is upset that I [24m] don't bring her to my place anymore. Amazing that she managed to get her car broken into and yet still doesn't grasp the situation. Get your stupid rich GF to bankroll your rent in a better area friend. cumshitter posted:I lived in an intergenerational home with my husband, his dads, my dads, and my granddads. It worked out pretty well for us for a year until my bitch ex-wife sent a package with no recipient listed that contained a large golden dildo bearing the inscription "For the gayest one." My husband and I don't talk to our families much any more and we still argue over it to this day. On the bright side you got a free golden dildo out of it.
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May 15, 2019 04:14
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WHY DO MEN FORGET DECENCY AND MANNERS AFTER RECEIVING MY NUDES?
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May 15, 2019 04:48
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Smirking_Serpent posted:
Ugh, this kind of stuff is infuriating. Because not only are they being stupid, they're in different words accusing you of being the stupid one. The walking with money out would be worthy to me, and the place I grew up wasn't even half as bad.
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May 15, 2019 04:49
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for turning a girl down for sex because she was so hairy? woke pete
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May 15, 2019 04:59
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for turning a girl down for sex because she was so hairy? Unkempt hair is gross on everyone.
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Best Bi Geek Squid posted:this is good  whoppler radar
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May 15, 2019 05:21
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for hiring my wife as my secretary so we can spend more time together?
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My SO (32M) likes to eat a meal all the time that I (29F) think is disgusting. My husband eats a combo of canned tuna and Velveeta Mac and cheese for lunch or dinner. He knows I don't like the smell of canned tuna. I wasn't raised with it and he was. I can't kiss him or be in the kitchen or in the room he is eating it in until the smell goes away. He used to eat it more while he was single, but when we started dating he at least only had it when he knew i wouldn't be seeing him. We have been married a few years and he has still been cooking it at lunch. I know because he will leave the pan at his desk. He works from home. He cooks the whole box (meant for 2) then give the canned tuna juice to the cats, then throws the canned tuna in the pan then eats out of the pan with the big wood spoon he used to stir it with. Lately he has been cooking it more and more, when I'm home too. He doesn't really care that it bothers me. I've asked him to only make it at lunch. How do I tell him that he is stinking up our house and that I really dislike it and have him take me seriously? Am I in the wrong? Should I just accept this gross thing and hide until the smell goes away? Am I being selfish? TLDR: my husband loves canned tuna and the smell is disgusting to me. How do I tell him to stop cooking with it when I'm home? Should I?
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May 15, 2019 06:00
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Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of eight months has a very awkward problem that's creating undue tension. This is utterly bizarre, so the internet's the only place I can really discuss something like this. The only other person to discuss this with has a conflict-of-interest (you'll see why). My first 2 relationships were very vanilla. In my third, I met a guy who was insanely attractive and this made me more confident in sex in general. He was interested in anal, I was not. Eventually, he convinced me to overcome my hangups. Just a couple of weeks after we started exploring, he broke up with me. Cue my current bf. Been dating for six months, but technically know him for longer. Comfortable enough to share my history and bring up this fact. Tell him I'm interested. I thought he would be delighted! To my shock, he dismisses it. Calls it unnecessary and a "little too erotic" in his words. WTF?!! Then there's the prankster of a friend I know. He's male. NBD. He's gay, so my exes haven't gotten jealous. He buys me this nice metal plug. Partly as a fun prank, partly because he knows I might enjoy it. Again, NBD. I bought him a pair of leather cuffs because I know his major fetish is being handcuffed. We buy each other sexual gifts. Cue my bf again. Hears this. Is absolutely livid. Refuses to talk to me for 24 hrs. Then, remains cold. Says he loves me for everything I've done so far but I'm pushing his limits and apparently making him uncomfortable. Says he doesn't want anything to do with this and if I respect him I would have nothing to do with it to. Now, I'm pissed. I sorta enjoyed the new sensations and the adrenaline rush of doing something naughty. I started to fantasize sneaking around with it. Surprising my bf. It's not going to fly. I am kinda pissed of. And sad. I also now am starting to think of other instances where he isn't comfortable with how comfortable I am. Me overthinking? Help. tl;dr: I am a little more sexually open than he is and he is not allowing me to explore my own body. Find this incredibly unfair. How do we resolve this?
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May 15, 2019 06:01
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of eight months has a very awkward problem that's creating undue tension.
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May 15, 2019 06:08
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Me [23 F] with my boyfriend [24 M] of eight months has a very awkward problem that's creating undue tension. Ndb just putting things other men bought for me in my rear end in a top hat all day
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May 15, 2019 06:11
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Barudak posted:That is some hot woke on woke action. Too woke to poke
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May 15, 2019 06:42
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FactsAreUseless posted:Break up happily. Right? That one's easy
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May 15, 2019 06:47
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TBF, explaining not being into anal by saying it's "a little too erotic" is kind of a head-scratcher
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May 15, 2019 06:57
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Could. Being a sovereign citizen help me? (self.legaladvice) I live in Kentucky and have recently had charges brought against me from some dumb poo poo I did when I was 18. I have a lawyer working on my behalf but I cant rely on him 100% I did some research of my own and found some stuff on being a sovereign citizen, examples of people's cases getting thrown out of court because of being a sovereign citizen (ignorant). Is this legit? Could any part of it work in my favor. I'm not sure this the right subreddit but it's worth a shot. Would my lawyer know anything about this? I really just want to leave this country and plan on doing so after my court thing is over. So I was hoping there was a loophole or something.
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May 15, 2019 07:02
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Oh man when he says "leave this country" he means renounce citizenship doesnt he? Oh its gonna be glorious when he gets deported.
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May 15, 2019 07:08
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Being a sovcit can work in your favor but only for really minor poo poo. Like if you file 10,000 pages worth of documentation over a ticket for not scooping up your dog's poo poo then yeah maybe the local municipality will just say it's not worth their time. This is actually how sovcits are born. But what he should definitely do is go full bore and file false liens against the judge's home.
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May 15, 2019 07:18
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By the way, the only safety check the US has about renouncing citzenship is they dont want you doing it while on US soil because getting rid of you becomes a huge pain. Want to leave yourself totally stateless while somehwere else though, go ahead. The US just "recommends against it" which is like saying I recommend against firing your lawyer to use a sovcit defense in a court hearing. Sure, I do genuinely mean it, but come on do it. What are you, chicken? Bwok bwok bwok Barudak fucked around with this message at 07:37 on May 15, 2019 |
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May 15, 2019 07:23
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Being a sovereign citizen won’t help him, but if he starts leaving pamphlets and poo poo in the right places and gets whoever is coming after him to become a sovereign citizen, that could work.
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May 15, 2019 07:33
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As a lawyer who has been fired by a sovereign citizen client, I can say he should go for it, but be sure the judge knows about it because judges love that poo poo
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HoAssHo posted:Why is it always threesomes? Have a foursome so everyone can swap and no one's left out you loving amateurs jesus We just had a foursome story that went pretty wrong. There's just more that can go wrong. Lol
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