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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for ghosting a woman cause she's a police officer and I'm a felon? do not gently caress the police
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 08:39 |
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AITA because I’m furious that my SIL tattooed my kids’ names on her body?quote:*edit/info for clarification: I didn’t cancel the vacation and won’t. It just makes me want to not see her.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 08:56 |
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AITA for agreeing to have a baby only if my husband agrees to provide most or all of the childcare?quote:So I’m fully aware this may be beyond this sub’s paygrade but right now I’m in this phase where I just want as many opinions as possible. I'm sure this will work out super great for everyone, especially the child
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 10:56 |
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"The problem with cementing a cracking relationship with a baby, is that the mother cares too much about the kid"
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 11:20 |
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now that's a fresh twist on a classic bad idea
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 11:21 |
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What's the plan when he does what she suggests and spends all his time with the child instead of her? I'm sure having a mother that resents you won't cause any lasting emotional issues.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 11:23 |
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QuarkJets posted:AITA for agreeing to have a baby only if my husband agrees to provide most or all of the childcare? 1 or 2 months in when the baby is here, you're SO getting divorced. Lol
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 11:46 |
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Is the NYT fair game for this? Because this is a real issue that many couples have to deal with, but this seems like an incredibly regrettable way to phrase it: My Marriage Has a Third Wheel: Our Child In the article she compares her kid to Camilla Parker-Bowles.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 12:01 |
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I thought it was pretty well established that having a child puts stress on a marriage that a LOT of couples end up divorcing as a result of. Like, even when it's planned and both partners want the baby it's basically an acid test for the marriage and causes what might have seemed like minor issues to become huge irreconcilable differences after months of sleep deprivation, sharp reductions in free time, and significantly increased household expenses.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 12:07 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:I worked in a lovely gift shop in a zoo once, and I will never forget when a coworker requested time off because her grandfather was dying, and her family needed her there. The owner of the zoo sat her down and told her that people die every day, and her family doesn't need her there, but what HE needs is her to come to work because otherwise we'd be short staffed. Years ago I was a warehouse manager and I gave the owner of the company a heads up that my spouse's uncle was in hospice care and that at some point soon I would have to take a day for the services. Her response was to throw up her hands with a little laugh and say "It's only her uncle!"
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 12:28 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Years ago I was a warehouse manager and I gave the owner of the company a heads up that my spouse's uncle was in hospice care and that at some point soon I would have to take a day for the services. Her response was to throw up her hands with a little laugh and say "It's only her uncle!" Welcome to Germany, where you only get a day off for close relatives. I was refused to attend my grandparents funeral four times. Twice during school, twice at work.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 12:33 |
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Pirate Radar posted:Is the NYT fair game for this? Because this is a real issue that many couples have to deal with, but this seems like an incredibly regrettable way to phrase it: My Marriage Has a Third Wheel: Our Child My husband actually enjoys the presence of our unbearable parasite of a 9 yo daughter. Plz send help
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 12:35 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA For Firing An Employee After His Parents Died? Lol literally no company deserves loyalty. It doesn’t matter how good or how much poo poo you put up with as an employee they’ll drop your rear end the second you become a minor inconvenience.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 13:20 |
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FAUXTON posted:I thought it was pretty well established .... No. Lol Much like psychedlic drugs, people have no concept of how it really is, until they're immersed in it up to the roots of their hair. The first 2 years aged me like dogyears each. There's people who have twins.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 13:25 |
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Pick posted:don't you tuck the condom into the foreskin? Actually, the condom just goes over the balls. Getting it anywhere near the penis is a rookie mistake.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 13:26 |
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Power Khan posted:No. Lol I can only imagine what triplets are like. Seems impossible to babysit on your own without at least a sheepdog. No wonder Donald Duck is so cranky.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 13:30 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for ghosting a woman cause she's a police officer and I'm a felon? It's like someone cut up Les Miserables and glued to back together out of order.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 13:52 |
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I would...take an Uber because what the gently caress is that?
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:01 |
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I don't know why one would enter the center ring. Is that for cutting right across the whole thing without circling at all?
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:19 |
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PostNouveau posted:I don't know why one would enter the center ring. Is that for cutting right across the whole thing without circling at all? I think that's the ring where all the alpha cars hang out in order to keep all of the little cars in the outer circles in check. Power Khan posted:My GF is trying to look like Emilia Clarke/Danearys and her obsession is pissing me off. You can show her up by growing 2', hitting the gym, becoming Khal Drogo and then melting her brother's head with a a bucket of molten gold. Frank Frank fucked around with this message at 14:26 on Jun 3, 2019 |
# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:22 |
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Power Khan posted:No. Lol Is it wrong that I [36M] expect my wife [40F] to cook dinner for us and keep the house clean and tidy if she is a stay at home mom? She says that for me to expect this is unfair, her job of looking after the twins is hard enough. quote:I've been married for 5 years. We have twin girls together now they are 2.5yrs.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:24 |
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Preparing food for the family is part of being a stay at home parent, but absolutely lol if you think you can keep (most) of your house clean in the first several years of having kids, twins no lessquote:Tl; DR What I don't like is the idea of being exhausted from a full day at work, having to come through the door to a messy house, no food, and a list of things that need to be done, when my wife has been home all day with the kids. She probably doesn't like it either, because she didnt have any time/energy to deal with that poo poo! That's something both parents have to deal with, and honestly mom almost certainly works harder than dad at her job of raising twins. He's maybe not an rear end in a top hat, just a typical idiot man who doesn't understand how demanding caring for young children all day is hot cocoa on the couch fucked around with this message at 14:32 on Jun 3, 2019 |
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:Preparing food for the family is part of being a stay at home parent, but absolutely lol if you think you can keep (most) of your house clean in the first several years of having kids, twins no less Unless this guy is doing physical labor, the wife has a far more physically demanding job.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:32 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Is it wrong that I [36M] expect my wife [40F] to cook dinner for us and keep the house clean and tidy if she is a stay at home mom? She says that for me to expect this is unfair, her job of looking after the twins is hard enough. Yup, YTA. Hire a housekeeper if kid messes bother you that much. Messes are unavoidable at that age and wrangling twins is absolutely a full-time job.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:32 |
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Looking after kids sounds absolutely hellish.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:32 |
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Leon Einstein posted:I've got a 2 year old and a 4 year old. At some point you just let the idea of a tidy house go. Yeah man, same. And I'm a newly single dad working on an engineering degree. So I empathize haha
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:33 |
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All I ask is my wife to sweep all trash onto the floor, then i sweep the floor. It's a good system.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:34 |
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Leon Einstein posted:I've got a 2 year old and a 4 year old. At some point you just let the idea of a tidy house go. Don't even think about a tidy car, too. Kids are filth wizards.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:45 |
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I get second-hand anxiety when I see someone pushing one of those double strollers with 2 kids in it.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:47 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:Is it wrong that I [36M] expect my wife [40F] to cook dinner for us and keep the house clean and tidy if she is a stay at home mom? She says that for me to expect this is unfair, her job of looking after the twins is hard enough. Switch places and sink into the ground. rear end in a top hat.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 14:50 |
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e: nm
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:05 |
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I have clinically hyperactive twin boys. I deal with it by demanding ridiculously over-the-top resolutions to throwaway lines of /r/relationships postsSmirking_Serpent posted:AITA for ghosting a woman cause she's a police officer and I'm a felon?
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:13 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:I can only imagine what triplets are like. Seems impossible to babysit on your own without at least a sheepdog. No wonder Donald Duck is so cranky.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:14 |
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Xik posted:What's the plan when he does what she suggests and spends all his time with the child instead of her? I'm sure having a mother that resents you won't cause any lasting emotional issues. Who cares, this is about her, not the kid. Why aren't you thinking about her?
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:15 |
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Wait I’ve seen this before. I think the solution is for the wage earner to give his wife a salary and then charge her for rent.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:18 |
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I (28/M) love my wife's (29/F) sister (17/F) as if she was my own but she doesn't show me the same care and affection I give.quote:My wife and I have been married for 5 years now, we have a beautiful 2-year-old daughter. We're all Muslims but not strict.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:18 |
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The fact that she even came up with the idea of having a child and abandoning it for her husband to take care of means she should never ever have a kid, ever. They should really just split, he wants children, she doesn't, it's one of those basic irreconcilable differences. Even the couples therapist is pretty much telling them this with his "you should find a solution soon" which is the closest he can do without spelling it out but she's not getting it.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:26 |
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Palpek posted:The fact that she even came up with the idea of having a child and abandoning it for her husband to take care of means she should never ever have a kid, ever. They should really just split, he wants children, she doesn't, it's one of those basic irreconcilable differences. Even the couples therapist is pretty much telling them this with his "you should find a solution soon" which is the closest he can do without spelling it out but she's not getting it. She'll change her mind when the baby comes
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:30 |
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Piell posted:I (28/M) love my wife's (29/F) sister (17/F) as if she was my own but she doesn't show me the same care and affection I give. There is a 100% this guy is creepy as gently caress and rubbed his boner on his SIL during the hugs he awkwardly gave her.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:32 |
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Fallom posted:Wait I’ve seen this before. I think the solution is for the wage earner to give his wife a salary and then charge her for rent.
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# ? Jun 3, 2019 15:33 |