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MarcusSA posted:Think you missed that middle part there friend lol. I did! To make up for it and the shameful snipe here's a personal weird relationships anecdote. When my wife had kids and gained a little weight, her parents asked her if I was insisting she get fat because I was sexually attracted to fat women because my mom is overweight
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chitoryu12 posted:I [20M] am mistaken for a gay man very often and can't seem to change how others perceive me Toxic masculinity really sucks  I guarantee it's other men saying this stuff to him, in my experience that stuff is being done to men by other men.MEN: SORT YOURSELVES OUT. quote:AITA for not going in to McDonalds to get my boyfriend food and bringing it out to the car, even though there was a drive thru? new boot goofin fucked around with this message at 20:50 on Jul 1, 2019 |
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HOT BREAD! posted:(this post is sitting at 287 comments, haha) I hope they're all saying to dump the idiot.
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Resting Lich Face posted:I hope they're all saying to dump the idiot. They all are, reddit can be helpful once in a blue moon!
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Jul 1, 2019 20:47
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quote:AITA for getting mad at my mom for not cooking dinner? and Lo, the cycle of Ye Manchilde continues, evermore edit: actually maybe not, the kid actually seems like he wants to change, so the only rear end in a top hat here is the useless mother for raising another dumbass that thinks fuckin' Hamburger Helper is "fancy poo poo" new boot goofin fucked around with this message at 20:56 on Jul 1, 2019 |
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chitoryu12 posted:I [20M] am mistaken for a gay man very often and can't seem to change how others perceive me Poor guy, that is one of the smoothest babyfaces I've seen in a while. Combined with a dancer / swimmers physique, and taking his word on his voice and mannerisms, I can see why he gets the (non-rapey) attention. He should take up smoking and stop moisturizing or something until he gets that Connery look he wanted.
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Jul 1, 2019 20:58
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Just infiltrate the gay community and learn their secrets of levitation
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Jul 1, 2019 21:02
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The Bramble posted:Poor guy, that is one of the smoothest babyfaces I've seen in a while. Combined with a dancer / swimmers physique, and taking his word on his voice and mannerisms, I can see why he gets the (non-rapey) attention. He should take up smoking and stop moisturizing or something until he gets that Connery look he wanted. Don’t forget the woman beating!
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Jul 1, 2019 21:06
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He should hang out with many more queer people and their friends. Eventually he will realize that people with non-normative gender expression find love all the time! Including cishets.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:08
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I never saw it, but wasn't the premise of In & Out that everyone thought Kevin Kline's character was gay and he vehemently denied it until he realized he really was gay? That premise never sat well with me.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:14
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HOT BREAD! posted:Toxic masculinity really sucks This is seriously really common with women too. I wouldn't limit it to men at all.
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chitoryu12 posted:My (21F) older sister (26f) destroys my hobbies by upstaging me. (Very long) Comedy option: get into Warhams and bankrupt her. This is completely obvious because the older sister was 5 when the younger sister was born. The parents obviously suck, and didn't do anything to try to give the older sister even a little bit of attention.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for asking my wife to change hobbies? Yes? That kind of thing isn't for creativity or ambition you loving weirdo. It's a zen therapeutic thing. I have a friend who started doing those when she was trying to bust alcoholism. It calmed her nerves and helped her relax.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:27
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Fitzy Fitz posted:This is seriously really common with women too. I wouldn't limit it to men at all. I agree 
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AITA for telling my son that his mum wanted to give him away?quote:My son is 11, I'm 35M and my ex gf is 32F.  this dude.
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Wow, gross. You can tell he’s one of those men who think a “good” mother is an exhausted mother who has and does nothing for herself while he goes about business as usual. It reminds me of this viral post on Twitter that this guy made where he took a picture of his wife passed out on the couch in nursing scrubs with a twin in each arm. He got chewed out righteously for writing a long stupid post about how selfless she was and how lovely he was instead of taking the kids and putting her to bed.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:35
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My sister in law's father likes to tell her that my MIL wanted to abort her, even though it's not true. He's just a tremendous piece of poo poo and most likely a sociopath.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:36
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Beachcomber posted:Comedy option: get into Warhams and bankrupt her. If you read her other posts, her mom was seriously abusive and kept her mental illness diagnosis a secret because she couldn’t handle having a depressed kid.
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HOT BREAD! posted:TL;DR boyfriend wanted McDonald’s, asked me to go get the food, wanted to eat it in the car but yet wouldn’t go through the drive thru? Got mad and left. He's banned from McDonald's for some very embarrassing reason
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LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for telling my son that his mum wanted to give him away? I mean, no Say what you want about her illness with PND but she could've really hurt her child by intentionally dropping him on the loving ground as an infant, and it's completely understandable for this dude to be hosed up about that
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"you did a bad thing when you were mentally ill, which proves you're ~capable of it~ even though you've responded really well to medication and are better now, so therefore I can never trust you again. Also I told our son that you did it on purpose" Nuke this man. 340 kilotons (B-61 set to maximum yield) oughta do it
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Feel bad for that dude, although who watches James Bond and has the takeaway that the dancing is what makes him cool? It's clearly the suits and the assassinating. Good on the guy for pursuing something he clearly loves though.
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Jul 1, 2019 21:39
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Vim Fuego posted:He's banned from McDonald's for some very embarrassing reason *to the tune of Smokin In The Boys' Room* jerkin' in McDonald's
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LadyPictureShow posted:AITA for telling my son that his mum wanted to give him away?  he immediately followed this up with "what if the genders were REVERSED!"
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If your body and mind temporarily betray you after you incubate a child for 9 months, gently caress you you brood mare, you’re done with motherhood.
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[b]I [21f] found out my boyfriend [42M] is cheating on me with his ex-wife [40F] but I found out by snooping.[/spoiler]quote:We’ve been dating for about a year. He was over at my place last week. It was a great time. I cooked dinner and everything was wonderful. He left saying he had to run some errands and needed to get an early start the next morning. Sometime after he left, I walked past the his iPad sitting on the table. I was about to text him to let him know when a message flashed from his ex. This wasn’t just “hey, how you doing?” I watched a few more notifications that were getting more and more intimate. It was obvious that he had told her things about our relationship. I started crying when she said, “I’m sorry I stopped doing the things she’s doing. I’m glad you’re letting me make that up to you.”
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Pinecone Sample posted:[b]I [21f] found out my boyfriend [42M] is cheating on me with his ex-wife [40F] but I found out by snooping.[/spoiler] Yeesh what a creep. And no, she won’t be in trouble for getting on his iPad
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My (28m) gf (27f) went to Vegas last summer with mostly male friends, news comes out a year later. Backstory: Dating my gf Harriet for 2.5 years at the time and we are still currently dating. Her amateur billiard team (they are mostly all friends from childhood) won state championship and were awarded free trip to Las Vegas to compete in national tournament. She is the only female on the team. She did not want me to go on the trip because she said it was a team event. I wanted to go, but whatever, i hate pool and I am not really good friends with anyone on the team. Obviously I was a little nervous because she will be the only girl on a trip to Vegas with shared hotel rooms. She promises that she will not share a bed with any male because that is disrespectful to our relationship and that puts me at ease. Trip happens, one of her old friends, Mike, shows up. He is not on the pool team. She never mentioned to me he would be there until I saw him in a group picture she posted while there and she says it was a surprise. Mike lives in LA and they all grew up together. Ok fine, she says he is staying at a different hotel with a friend. She returned, they lost, everything is fine. Fast forward to now about a year later: Two weeks ago we are at a wedding with all same friends that were on the trip together. I overhear something about Mike sharing her bed, but i was drunk and wasn't sure what i heard, so I didnt pursue it. Then this weekend, she tells me out of the blue, Mike had nowhere to stay and slept in her bed for 2 nights. When she told me and I confronted her about it, she thinks it is no big deal, and that she hasn't lied to me and that i am making this into a huge problem and it isn't one. I am hurt because i feel she broke a promise to me and she did not think it was important enough to tell me until now. So Reddit, what do you think? Is there more to the story she isn't letting on? Why would she tell me now? tl;dr gf went to Vegas on trip with all all male pool team, old male friend friend shows up announced and sleeps in gfs bed. she tells me a year later
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MasBrillante posted:He should hang out with many more queer people and their friends. Eventually he will realize that people with non-normative gender expression find love all the time! Including cishets. I mean after his last few encounters I kinda feel like this might be bad advice for the dude lol.
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WIBTA if I don’t hire a fully qualified girl for a job because she is the one who cheated with my fiancé? (Cheating was almost 4 years ago). For some background I was deeply in love with my fiancé, we were about two months away from the wedding when I found out he cheated on me. I knew of the girl but had never met her but had it on pretty credible authority that she pursued him knowing he was engaged. It was still his fault so while I called off the wedding but tried to reconcile and forgive, I just couldn’t do it. We broke up but it was a year before I could even face the world socially and 2.5 years before I went on another date. I’m past it but will probably never truly be over the hurt. I work HR at a large tech company and am in charge of hiring new people to work in our sales department. The girl in question has a fairly unique first name so when I saw her name I thought it might be her but her last name didn’t match. But when she sat down for our initial interview (me and one other person) we instantly recognized each other. I have to give her full credit, she was nervous for about a minute and then composed herself and gave an amazing interview. Her credentials are spot on and obviously she has the ability to talk and be a good sales person. But part of me feels like “gently caress you, I don’t need to reward you with a Commissioned sales position with an amazing base salary.” My co-interviewer thought she was a slam dunk but the decision still goes to me. We have interviewed 34 people so I can easily hire someone else and raise no red flags, but the key is she is the most qualified and gave the best interview. She sent a very polite email thanking us for the interview and asked if I would be willing to meet with her again to discuss potential “conflicts.” I have yet to respond. I guess I have two choices, meet with her she probably hire her OR I just hire someone else a little less qualified and no one but me will ever know. WIBTA if I don’t hire her?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I don’t hire a fully qualified girl for a job because she is the one who cheated with my fiancé? (Cheating was almost 4 years ago). Yes YTA. Now if she was the manager she’d Be NTA but since she’s an HR drone who wouldn’t have much if any interaction with the lady beyond hiring she’d be a huge rear end in a top hat for it.
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goethe.cx posted:Yeesh what a creep. And no, she won’t be in trouble for getting on his iPad She commented in the thread that she doesn't appreciate people commenting about the age gap. Lol, she's still cluess.
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MarcusSA posted:I mean after his last few encounters I kinda feel like this might be bad advice for the dude lol. If you are referring to the two instances of sexual assault, those guys were predators and they are everywhere. That said, if I were a heterosexual man, I wouldn’t be eager to subject myself to the male gaze if I didn’t have to.
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Pinecone Sample posted:[b]I [21f] found out my boyfriend [42M] is cheating on me with his ex-wife [40F] but I found out by snooping.[/spoiler] There’s no such thing as whore-bastard confidentiality.
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Leon Einstein posted:She commented in the thread that she doesn't appreciate people commenting about the age gap. I mean she’s probably still in college and he’s misrepresenting the law to her for personal gain. She’s technically an adult but I still feel bad for her
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Unfortunately people have to learn for themselves that 40+ year old dudes hooking up with college students are poo poo.
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Leon Einstein posted:She commented in the thread that she doesn't appreciate people commenting about the age gap. She also said that she "has always dated older men" and that "age really isn't a thing for me". At 20. Gross. also uh, kinda sounds like age is a thing for you, honey, lol
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HOT BREAD! posted:She also said that she "has always dated older men" and that "age really isn't a thing for me". At 20. Gross. I feel worse for the wife who got lawyer’d into thinking it was her fault for not blowing him or whatever.
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HOT BREAD! posted:She also said that she "has always dated older men" and that "age really isn't a thing for me". At 20. Gross. You just can't help some people until they learn to help themselves.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (28m) gf (27f) went to Vegas last summer with mostly male friends, news comes out a year later. Lol, good luck with your new apparment.
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