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I [27F] think my boyfriend [26M] is leading on a potential stalker [25F]quote:So I am in an open relationship. I am not polyamorus, I want to be the only person my boyfriend loves but I get very excitable when other people are attracted to him. I like that he can seduce other women and I don't care about kissing and sex as long as it doesn't develop into love and affection. the only thing Brave New World got wrong was the year, maaaan
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Girlfriend[24F] takes forever to get back to me[23M] when we text, but always texts her friends quickly. Generally seems to treat me as a second priority.quote:We've been dating for about a year now, and it's been great, but there's a small problem. She takes forever to reply to my texts. I'm not talking about ten or fifteen minutes, I'm talking multiple days. Yesterday, I was at her apartment, and she had gone to take a shower. I used her phone to google something(Mine was recently stolen), when I got a notification, and out of a bit of nosiness, decided to look. My girlfriend has this kinda weird friend group, they're all either in their mid-thirties or are about to be. They were in college when we were in high school, and she pretty exclusively dated them when we were in high school. I looked in the group chat and found that for every day she didn't talk to me at all, she would be talking in there for hours at a time. This friend group in general makes me sort of uncomfortable, as soon as they're around, I become a third wheel in my own relationship. It doesn't help that she's dated every guy( and some of the girls) especially when they're about five to ten years older than her. The texting thing is just a symptom of the problem. For example, me and her agreed to hang out and watch some movies. When it was just me and her, she barely spoke to me, wouldn't let me get close to her, just acting generally cold. And then, some people from the friend group showed up(We had agreed this would be a one on one thing too). As soon as they showed up she was talking to them, hugging them, etc. Whenever I would try to get her attention, she would either give a one word answer, or just outright ignore me. It got worse, at one point, I got up to pee, and when I returned, they had all started cuddling and left no room on the couch for me. She claims to be a person who hates physical intimacy(I still haven't kissed her on the lips), yet she looked pretty happy cuddled up to three other people, all whom she had dated. I ended up grabbing a chair and just sitting next to them. I ended up leaving early, saying I had a shift at work I forgot about because I wouldn't stand to see it. I think I saw one of them kiss her on the cheek as I was leaving. This ended up getting really long, but I guess I needed to vent. I'm not sure what I should do reddit. When it's just us, it's usually great. I don't wanna wreck this relationship, but th e way she put everyone ahead of me makes kinda want to. Thanks a ton for any help I get, you guys rock. 1 year and not even a kiss?
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Pinecone Sample posted:I [15F] worry that my [16M] boyfriend is too mature for me. i hate you drat kids and your snap-chat bullshit
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Jul 6, 2019 17:14
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Pinecone Sample posted:My girlfriend (22F) has been sexting with someone online Wait, so humiliating yourself and pretending your dick is a hotdog isn't a 4th of July tradition? This is very unsettling
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Jul 6, 2019 17:21
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dudeness posted:I have now, she doesn't even eat it! Do you know somebody with a 90's dick just laying around? Asking for a friend.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:22
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DemoneeHo posted:My Boyfriend Wants Me to Humiliate Him for a Terrible Reason lmao that's miniscule, give him what he wants and break up for someone who isn't a little manlet
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Jul 6, 2019 17:26
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Khazar-khum posted:Do you know somebody with a 90's dick just laying around? Asking for a friend.  Oh I'd say mine is pretty grunge
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Jul 6, 2019 17:28
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DemoneeHo posted:Wait, so humiliating yourself and pretending your dick is a hotdog isn't a 4th of July tradition? This is very unsettling I thought you were supposed to humiliate others by trying to prove that you were packing a Roman candle. Or maybe that was the reason they gave for my cousin setting his crotch on fire. I can never quite keep these things straight.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:32
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SilvergunSuperman posted:
You wrap it in flannel and bathe it in coffee?
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Jul 6, 2019 17:33
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Also I have a tiny pair of doc martens for my balls VERY tiny
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Jul 6, 2019 17:38
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Skippy McPants posted:It's a bootleg, I know, I was doing the dril part  Hard to tell from the picture, but big dog’s response and dril’s followup were from last September, so this exchange was six years in the making.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:39
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Power Khan posted:Lol, I just saw another post about that bath water and a dude who drank it. He got hospitalized. This is the logical endgame of this thread. Folks willingly suspend disbelief for months a time reading these stories and before you know it, you're 100% convinced that someone got hospitalized by bath water, because you have subconsciously internalized that everything on Reddit is true. Be careful out there guys.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:45
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Taima posted:This is the logical endgame of this thread. Folks willingly suspend disbelief for months a time reading these stories and before you know it, you're 100% convinced that someone got hospitalized by bath water. Maybe lady decided to take her fight for liberation to the next level and is selling the bath water, knowing nerds will drink it, to actively poison them.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:46
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i bathe in caustic chemicals to exfoliate. 
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Jul 6, 2019 17:47
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AITA for letting my nephew made a mess in a restaurant eventhough I left a large tip?quote:So I don't know how to write the title without sounding like an rear end in a top hat but here we go.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:53
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Perfect situation to use the word oval office, I love dropping it on intrusive strangers. I guess if you have kids in tow you gotta make sure they're out of earshot, haha.
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Jul 6, 2019 17:55
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Fantastic Flyer posted:AITA for letting my nephew made a mess in a restaurant eventhough I left a large tip? that's pretty minor stuff for a kid and plenty of people who aren't kids do that and don't tip so whatever
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Jul 6, 2019 18:01
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I'm(24f) in love with my husband's(32m) best friend(39m)quote:My husband and I have been together for 6 years and have agreed recently to have our marriage be an open relationship. His only concern is becoming too emotionally involved with the other party...... Lmfao
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Jul 6, 2019 18:20
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AITA cause some random lady came up to me and was an rear end in a top hat?
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Jul 6, 2019 18:21
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SilvergunSuperman posted:
It smells like teen spirit?
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Jul 6, 2019 18:27
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dudeness posted:AITA cause some random lady came up to me and was an rear end in a top hat? but don't you understand? the baby got water on the table. the restaurant staff simply isn't prepared to deal with a mess of that magnitude
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Jul 6, 2019 18:33
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Rust Martialis posted:It smells like teen spirit? Ew
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Jul 6, 2019 19:43
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These open relationships are bullshit.
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Jul 6, 2019 19:58
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AITA for suggesting that my sister chose an easy love? My younger sister and I were very close when young but no so much now. I was born in fairly well to do Hindu family. I fell in love and married a Muslim man and had to convert to his religion. My family was pretty pissed off that I converted but we've kept in touch. Recently my sister announced that she was in love with a guy she'd met while trekking and they had plans to marry. My mom invited me for a 'girl's day', just me, her and my sister at my parent's home for a fun day. My sister began to talk about her fiance, how they hated each other at first but then fell in love etc etc. I was happy for her. It all began when I asked what religion he was. Imagine my surprise when she said that he was Hindu AND THE SAME COMMUNITY AS OUR PARENTS. This would mean that it would make my father absolutely over the moon. I asked her if she was sure she loved him, because it seemed unbelievable that she would meet someone from the same small community as our parents' and fall in love. She got angry and told me that she was absolutely sure she was in love with him. I suggested that maybe she thought she was in love because it was easy and there was no challenges involved. I explained to her that if she was truly in love, she wouldn't choose someone so obviously a match. It was as though our parents chose him from a catalogue. She told me that it didn't matter, she loved him and thats it, and I was being rude. I told her that I wasn't, I was just looking out for her and didn't want her to bear the brunt of societal expectations on who to marry. I then asked her if she was marrying him to appease our parents. At this point my sister blew up on me and began fuming that she was not a kid, she didn't need to appease anyone etc etc. At this point my mom told me(not her) to get out of the house. Later my sister told me never to contact her again, nor ever see her face or come to her wedding. She called me 'toxic'. I was just looking out for her.
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Jul 6, 2019 19:59
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I explained to her that if she was truly in love, she wouldn't choose someone so obviously a match. 
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Jul 6, 2019 20:01
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for suggesting that my sister chose an easy love? 
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Jul 6, 2019 20:03
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for suggesting that my sister chose an easy love? Jesus. I get asking once but if she said she was happy there's no reason to argue it. You don't really know and if she's doing it to appease her parents then that's her preogative. What was she expecting to happen?
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I (24 F) have been cheating on my boyfriend (23 M) with another man (24 M) whom I have never met for over a year now. Should I risk ending my relationship for the other guy?quote:
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:Jesus. I get asking once but if she said she was happy there's no reason to argue it. You don't really know and if she's doing it to appease her parents then that's her preogative. What was she expecting to happen? I feel like this lady is the embodiment of all the people who say a relationship is boring if the two people involved aren't wildly mismatched and constantly clashing with each other.
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Jul 6, 2019 20:09
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AITA for dropping all of my friends over replica sneakers? some background info: i got into replica sneakers a few years ago and have been following them ever since, mind you the average age in my friend group was 24 and we had been friends for 10+ years. There have been multiple occasions prior where whenever replica sneakers were mentioned they would end up getting butthurt about it and wonder why people would spend money on them. Fast forward: I got a fat bonus check so i figured, hey, let me splurge a little bit. So i get some replica sneakers and some replica clothing and seeing how my friends feel about replica items i figured i wouldn’t tell them unless i was asked directly if they were replicas. Anyway a few weeks go by, mind you someone who is outside of our usual friend group is heavily into sneakers so he has knowledge and is able to identify fakes, i guess behind my back he had brought up that my shoes looked off or whatever, so instead of asking me directly they went on a witch hunt for my reddit and found out that they were reps and took screenshots of all my posts and posted it all over social media. They confronted me about it and they were like “you’ve been fake with us for the past 2 weeks you lied about your clothes and new shoes” I never mentioned where i got them from, nor did i ever explicitly say they were real. This lead to them all attacking me and exposing me on all their social media which I genuinely dont care about, however their childish behavior is what caused me to tell them im done with all of them and i’ve moved on. My SO mentioned to me that I might have gone overboard with just cutting them off completely. AITA? TLDR: Bought replica clothing/sneakers, friends acted like children about it, tried to attack me for it, i cut them off, blocking them on everything and completely forgetting of their existence”
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WIBTA if I messaged my exes new girlfriend to warn her that the vibrator he is using with her used to be mine? So obviously this is a very weird, very messy situation that I will try to explain as best I can. TLDR at the end because this will probably be long. About a week ago I split up with my boyfriend of 6 years after finding out he was cheating on me. He's in the process of moving all his stuff out but it's slow going since he is currently unemployed (I sure know how to pick them) so he's still staying at my house except on the weekends when he stays at the new girls place. Anyway, today I noticed that my vibrator was missing. It's one of those couple ones that the woman can wear inside her while someone else can control it with a remote. At first I thought he might have taken it to try and sell it (ew) but I can't find it with the rest of his stuff. I know by his search history and later by his own admission that this new girl was interested in something like my vibrator. This and the fact that I can't find it anywhere leads me to believe he has taken it to use on her. To complicate the situation even more I was diagnosed with an incurable STD about a year ago (for those curious it is genital HSV-1) and had used the vibrator by myself a couple of days ago. If it matters, I did clean it after using it. My question is, WIBTA if I messaged this girl to warn her that not only is she using a second hand vibrator but also one that was used by someone with an STD? TLDR I believe my recently ex-boyfriend has taken my vibrator to use with his new girlfriend. I recently used this vibrator and I have a form of genital herpes. WIBTA if I messaged her to warn her about this? Small update: she appears to have blocked me on Facebook so I guess that's that. Thank you everyone for your support and advice.
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AITA for not being interested in having sex with my new spouse? I got married recently. It's not going great for a... variety of reasons. We were waiting for marriage to have sex, which hasn't happened yet. I wasn't the reason for this, spouse is just very Catholic and didn't want to risk pregnancy. We are both virgins though. The wedding didn't go well to say the least. During the reception, it came out that my parents were getting divorced, and my father had knocked up his mistress. Much was made of him finally "having a child" (I'm adopted). This went over horribly as you can imagine. My father also had his mistress crash the reception. This was obviously a huge scene, and all anyone talked about. I spent the entire reception downing shots and shoveling food in in between talking my mother down and fielding gossip. I'm not an attention seeker, but not one person said congratulations and my husband and I did not speak the entire night. My father and his girlfriend were eventually asked to leave, but my mother had to be locked in a hotel room to avoid a fight. My biological grandmother was complaining of chest pains so I had to drunkenly uber her to the hospital. My new husband ended up passing out, so he was no help in any way. I came back and ubered my now too tired to do anything mother back to her house. I spent a few hours drinking with some bridesmaids raging about my emotions and then passed out in a bathtub. The next day, I was FURIOUS. I ended up ghosting with two of my bridesmaids to a different state for the next two days before going on a planned business trip. In between these things, I had to take my mother to the psych ward, which my new husband was again no help with. I'm currently still in a different state on that trip, and I'm still furious. My new husband is mad at me because we're not currently speaking much but I'm in no mood to speak to much of anyone. It's hard for me to accept calls or texts from anyone in my social circle right now. While I feel bad that almost three weeks on the marriage isn't consummated, I'm not the one who insisted on waiting for marriage, and I'm certainly not in any mood right now. I'm going back to home state tomorrow, and I'm in a mood to have my own bedroom when I get there. I could stay in this state indefinitely if I really wanted, but I'd have to get the rest of my things and it's a high COL area. I've gotten no apology, and my spouse thinks that my anger is due to not having sex on the wedding night. I couldn't care LESS about that. I had too much going on anyway. I just wanted some support, and I haven't gotten any. I'm not particularly interested in going on a honeymoon with someone who essentially only wants me for sex. At least work and my friends value me as a person and not just for the chance that I'll spread my legs for them. I don't want sex right now, but I don't want to be divorced after a month either.
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I have to give it to him, “replica” really dresses up wearing knockoffs. Like a collection hobby.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not being interested in having sex with my new spouse? lol, this poor guy. all he wanted to do was get lit to deal with the shitshow that hit the fan as he married into it, and to go on vacation. meanwhile she's deciding between exiling herself to another bedroom or another state, both very good options. she's just got issues compounding on issues compounding on issues.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for suggesting that my sister chose an easy love? Wow
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Pinecone Sample posted:lol, this poor guy. all he wanted to do was get lit to deal with the shitshow that hit the fan as he married into it, and to go on vacation. meanwhile she's deciding between exiling herself to another bedroom or another state, both very good options. she's just got issues compounding on issues compounding on issues. Maybe he can get an annulment from the church.
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therobit posted:Maybe he can get an annulment from the church. maybe he can just not submit the marriage license, don't you have to do it within 10 days or something in many counties "I know I got up there and said all that for better or worse stuff, but it got bad FAST"
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not being interested in having sex with my new spouse? That one is a work of art.
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This thread has consistently offered what it said it's going to at a rapid rate and for a long time. That's not necessarily a compliment 
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sweet thursday posted:This thread has consistently offered what it said it's going to at a rapid rate and for a long time. I'm glad you were able to cum, at least. Sorry about the crying.
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