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Haifisch posted:My [30M] GF [29F] being uptight is bothering me more and more I couldn't live with someone who took exception to playing music either while doing housework or generally. People who don't like music are weird and possibly serial killers.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Popeye, I know you love Olive Oyl and all... but sometimes you just gotta know when to call it quits. I can't stans no more.
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WIBTA if I asked the neighbors to muzzle their kids so I can get some sleep?quote:About three or four times a week around 7am, the kid across the street shouts a conversation with his playfriend next door. Usually it’s an extended conversation about today’s events and when they can get together and play. These shout fests can last up to 20 minutes and don’t normally end up with any kind of conclusion. Just a long, strung out babble fest about (for example) “basketball practice being at 2” and wether or not they can play when he gets back. They never seem to end. Especially when the other siblings join in. Just a long series of questions about the other’s ability to play sometime later that day.
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Am I allowed to listen to music while I de-spinach this salad bag or is it time for silent reflection?
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music hating gf is only going to get worse with age, cut your losses now
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Jul 15, 2019 22:24
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chitoryu12 posted:AITA for telling my sister she smelled pretty bad before she was getting on an airplane Extreme body odor and excessive perfume/axe should disqualify you from flying. There are machines that sense smell and could disqualify anyone above a certain ppm of offensiveness. Someone get the TSA on this so they can be useful.
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Jul 15, 2019 22:35
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The Bramble posted:Clever man. If he just keeps dodging her, she won't be able to break up with him as he'll be able to argue to the judge that he was never properly served notice
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Jul 15, 2019 23:09
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WIBTA if I went to a “Paint and Sip” event and painted something totally different from what the rest of the group is supposed to be painting (per the instructor’s directions)? There’s a paint and sip (wine) event happening at my apartment complex with a limited attendance of 15 people. I’m an abstract artist, and I paint just about everyday. So, I signed up thinking it’d be a fun way to meet some neighbors and do something I enjoy. What I didn’t realize is that these types of events usually have an “instructor” or presenter who guides the group through painting a very specific pre-determined image. I signed up for the event before actually seeing the promotional material for it, and today I finally saw a flier for the event. It showed a picture of what we’d be painting... and I am not a fan of it. It’s just not my kind of art, and not something I’d enjoy painting. No shame on those who do like the style and the piece. Would it be rude for me to attend and do my own thing? I’m usually good at navigating these situations, but because I don’t know my neighbors yet and I’ve never been to a paint and sip event, I’m worried that my actions could come across in a bad way. TL;DR - The title says it all. Edit: I realize now a lot of these paint and sip events are classes and instructional sessions. This community event is not promoted that way at all. No mention of a class or instruction. Or even instructor. That’s why I signed up initially. Seeing a flier later with a pre-determined image was a surprise because it didn’t seem to line up with how they talked about the event in other places. Edit2: Several people have commented about how the event is limited to 15 people... for additional context, I signed up 3-4 days after sign-ups opened and I thought it was going to be full already. To my surprise, only 6 other people had signed up. So I don’t think I’m going to be at risk of taking a spot that someone else would use better.
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Jul 15, 2019 23:45
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I went to a “Paint and Sip” event and painted something totally different from what the rest of the group is supposed to be painting (per the instructor’s directions)? Need a new subreddit called "Am I the Insufferable?"
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Jul 15, 2019 23:46
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AITA for trying to reunite what I am CERTAIN is a set of identical, separated-at-birth twins?quote:In 2017 I moved in with 2 roommates from Craigslist in their mid-20’s, Heather & Jeff. I lived with them for a little under a year. Heather was on the shyer, more reserved side and not easy to talk to, but we got along well. I moved out just over a year ago about 20 miles away, and hadn’t seen her since, though we’re still friends on Facebook.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I went to a “Paint and Sip” event and painted something totally different from what the rest of the group is supposed to be painting (per the instructor’s directions)? Just paint a really good version of what the instructor wants you to paint. Consider it a technical challenge to work within the constraints you're given. You might look like a little bit of an rear end in a top hat for signing up for a class that's well below your skill level, but nowhere near as much as if you just ignored the instructor entirely.
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AITA for not sharing inheritance with deceased brother's ex-wife and kids? So my life has been turned completely upside down over the last few weeks. For the record, I am 21 and my brother (28) just passed away. Up until a few years ago my brother was living at home with me. He put all of his savings speculating on cryptocurrency when Bitcoin was around $300 and ended up selling out just before the peak. He owned lots of Bitcoin along with other coins he told me about. I don't know how much he made originally, but it was probably in the 5-10M range. Anyway, shortly after cashing out my brother moved out and we heard less and less of him. A few weeks ago we found out he had passed away after using crystal meth. Obviously this was a massive shock as the brother I knew never did drugs, other than occasionally smoking cannabis. To cut a long story short, surprisingly he had a will despite his age, and left almost everything to me. This includes a house worth 800K+ and almost 4M in cash/stock. The dispute is between me and his ex-wife. He has two kids with his ex-wife and didn't leave her anything. He put $500K into a trust to be paid to his kids (split 50/50) when they turn 30, but that's it. He never saw his kids because his ex-wife wouldn't let him, so I guess that's why he left most of everything to me? Anyway, kind of rambling here, the point is that I don't plan on sharing any of this with his ex-wife. In my opinion, the 500K he left his kids in a trust is more than enough to give them a very comfortable life. He left me the rest of his money and I intend to spend all of it on myself and my future kids. Parents think I should at least give the house to his ex-wife so that my niece/nephew have a stable home life. Ex-wife obviously wants as much as I'm willing to give. He didn't leave our youngest brother (16) anything, but I intend to pay for all of his college etc so that he at least receives something. AITA for being too greedy here?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:WIBTA if I went to a “Paint and Sip” event and painted something totally different from what the rest of the group is supposed to be painting (per the instructor’s directions)? What an unbelievable turd. I have matching 'Nightmare Before Christmas' and 'Heart Constellations over a Sunset' paintings with my girlfriend, thing's I'd have never created (badly) on my own, and it was a lot of fun and I treasure them despite their hackneyed concepts  Your neighbors are going to think you're lame as hell.
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I don’t think he is an rear end in a top hat at all. I think it is common for instructors to tell people to paint what makes them happy because some people struggle way too much to enjoy actually following the instructions. Plus, he wants to go to meet his neighbors. It’s not like he wants to go to show off. Likely no one will even see his canvas except he and the instructor, especially if he sits in the back row. I think that he should go and talk to the instructor beforehand and simply ask, without reference to the original art, if it’s okay if he wings it during the solo times when students attempt to copy the instructor.
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Bruceski posted:Spicy in most of the US is either plain whitebread or "this will gently caress up your insides and is purely a demonstration of machismo". Folks don't understand how to blend heat with flavor in a good salsa. A few pages back but https://avilagorilla.com/
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WIBTA if I told a woman her boyfriend got head from me at a wedding? Went to good friends wedding this weekend. Groom's cousin was there, and he seemed fun, we danced and chatted a bit. After the party, I was on my way to bed, he asks if he can come into my room. He could, we make out for a bit, and I give him a blowjob (no condoms = no PIV). We agree not to tell anyone, as I don't think it was the best idea, but w/e, and he leaves. He knocks a few minutes later, and makes sure that I won't tell anyone, since he's got a girlfriend in home town (no partners invited to wedding, FYI). I get angry, and he seems to feel slightly guilty, but promise not to tell anyone, nor her. However, I feel like this girl deserves to know. So, WIBTA for give her the information?
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Scathach posted:A few pages back but https://avilagorilla.com/ Hot sauces are great but they are not a substitute for actually learning how to spice dishes properly.
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My [20's F] long time phobia is hurting my relationship with a close friend [20's M] Ive suffered from severe emetophobia (intense fear of vomiting) since I was in elementary school, made worse by OCD. I know no one likes throwing up, but it was so debilitating that when I was younger it caused episodes of refusing to leave my house even to go to school, constant paranoia over being poisoned, periods of anorexia that lasted weeks to months, obsessive hand washing and cleanliness, and eventually I ended up outpatienting at a mental hospital when I was 10 due to weight loss and hating eating due to the "risks". This isn't supposed to be a pity party or anything, it's just some background to put into perspective how irrational and deep rooted this poo poo is. I would love to get help, but unfortunately as far as I know, exposure therapy is the main treatment, and since exposure can trigger disordered eating, I am afraid that the therapy is going to be physically damaging. Not that I could even afford it financially to begin with. I am far better now than I was as a kid, but still instinctually try to get away or panic in situations involving vomit. I'm fine nearly all the time, but know I am not completely better and am terrified of relapsing, which has a tiny chance of happening any time I vomit or watch someone vomit. Now to the issue: My friend is sick. I won't go into detail, but it's pretty hard on him and has been ongoing for some time. By coincidence I hadn't been around to see the worst of it until one day he had a bad flare up in the car with me. I basically had an anxiety attack, which looking back probably just came across as aggression or being way overly repulsed. Once it was all over, I tried to lightly explain that it was fine and that it was just a dumb phobia making me act weird, I understood I was being irrational, and he definitely had nothing at all to be sorry for, but I think it hurt him and I have no idea how to explain baseless phobias to someone who doesn't have one. Especially not one that makes as little sense as this, something every normal person ever dislikes but is otherwise able to deal with. I think in his head I should have been able to not freak out if I truly valued him as a friend, and I really really wish that was true. I don't really know how to talk about how it's really just mental illness without sounding like I'm trying to make it about me or "one up" him. This all happened weeks ago and I know it is still upsetting him. I can understand why and I know that mental health is no excuse for being a bad friend on my behalf, but I just want to get across that me recoiling and being stressed as a reaction to him was far far far from personal. He wants to talk to me about how I reacted again soon and I guess I'm just looking for advice on what to say? Sorry if this seems dumb. This is the 2nd time I've made a sick friend feel not cared for because of this shitass phobia and I really need to figure out how to discuss it. Thanks for any insight. TL; DR : Deep rooted phobia of vomit is hurting my relationship with a sick close friend due to an adverse reaction I had to an episode. Unsure how to address this with him since I don't want to make it about me, but I also want to make sure it's understood that it isn't personal.
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AITA for wearing a bikini around SO's family at the beach?quote:Short and sweet-
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MasBrillante posted:I don’t think he is an rear end in a top hat at all. I think it is common for instructors to tell people to paint what makes them happy because some people struggle way too much to enjoy actually following the instructions. He's an abstract artist who paints every day, going to a paint night full of likely first-timers. I don't think the bold is given at all but maybe I'm just being cynical. The two paint nights I did, yes, the artist told us pretty much to do it how we like. Why not just give it his own abstract flair instead of insisting on a brand new concept? Besides, half the fun of these things are goofing off and comparing how bad yours is compared to your neighbors. He is supposed to be breaking the ice, not immediately differentiating himself from everyone. Sooo you're right, probably not actually an rear end in a top hat but I do think he's entirely missing the point. our 'paint and sip' was at a bar, so everyone saw everyone's painting so ymmv
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Haifisch posted:AITA for trying to reunite what I am CERTAIN is a set of identical, separated-at-birth twins? You put the info out there, it's theirs to do with as they will. Job done, stop trying to make it about you.
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I'm afraid my(m28) uncle(m55) is planning a mass shootingquote:Throwaway for reasons.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:idgi seems perfectly sensible. don't have sex with a woman who's had babies cause her vag is full of babies and what if one of the babies grabs your dick? Ralph you are loving grounded
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NiceGuy posted:He's an abstract artist who paints every day, going to a paint night full of likely first-timers. I don't think the bold is given at all but maybe I'm just being cynical. The two paint nights I did, yes, the artist told us pretty much to do it how we like. Why not just give it his own abstract flair instead of insisting on a brand new concept? Besides, half the fun of these things are goofing off and comparing how bad yours is compared to your neighbors. He is supposed to be breaking the ice, not immediately differentiating himself from everyone. Sooo you're right, probably not actually an rear end in a top hat but I do think he's entirely missing the point. Painting every day does not mean you are good at it. I have many friends who paint daily. And daily abstract painting, plus wanting to go to a community event, suggests to me not much technique, just making pretty things every day.
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AITA for telling a female friend that she can't be in front of my boyfriend if she won't wear a bra/undewearquote:I have a female friend who never wears a bra, and it's quite noticeable. I am not a prude, but she has larger breasts and her nipples are always hard as rocks. She also likes wearing thin shirts where you can almost make out the color of her aerolas. It's summer, and she's also wearing shorts with no underwear. On one occasion, she got feminine liquid all over the seat of my car while doing this. I was unpleased.
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Pinecone Sample posted:I'm afraid my(m28) uncle(m55) is planning a mass shooting Uh, I'm sure the ATF would be willing to look into the machine gun thing.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for telling a female friend that she can't be in front of my boyfriend if she won't wear a bra/undewear feminine liquid?
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goethe.cx posted:feminine liquid? Dish soap
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"friend" is actually a used sex doll that gained sapience and animation, but not shame
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for telling a female friend that she can't be in front of my boyfriend if she won't wear a bra/undewear "Feminine liquid". Is she getting loving aroused all the time?
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I really don't buy this woman is leaving a snail trail everywhere she goes. That GF is blinded by jealousy and making poo poo up. If she leaked blood, well that could happen while wearing underwear too.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for telling a female friend that she can't be in front of my boyfriend if she won't wear a bra/undewear holy poo poo forget the boyfriend, if she's leaving snail trails everywhere she goes why are you letting her sit on your furniture get one of those pet covers or puppy pads or something and very deliberately make her sit on it, that's not slut shaming, that's loving nasty
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TheKennedys posted:holy poo poo forget the boyfriend, if she's leaving snail trails everywhere she goes why are you letting her sit on your furniture You don't think that seems slightly unlikely since the friend is wearing clothing?
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Yeah, I feel like the options here are "menstrual accident" or "stdh.txt," and while I would not be delighted to learn a friend of mine wasn't wearing underwear during her period, it's not exactly an argument for her being a homewrecking succubus
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Leon Einstein posted:You don't think that seems slightly unlikely since the friend is wearing clothing? I hate calling stories fake, but that was 100% written by a teenage boy who doesn't understand how vaginas work.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for telling a female friend that she can't be in front of my boyfriend if she won't wear a bra/undewear Slug-girl strikes again!
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It's probably just sweat, it's loving hot out, which would explain why she is dressing that way. OP is a dumb dumb for calling it lady juices, which is not to say it isn't gross because rear end sweat is pretty bad.
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AITA for sending a girl pictures of my penis? C and I have been friends for 4 years. We are both single. I live in a different country now so we never meet up anymore. Our relationship was never sexual till a month ago. I would often make jokes about my penis, which she never replied too. Suddenly she did and we started sexting, sending videos etc. This was a one-time thing. Later I asked her a few times if we could do it again but she told me we couldn’t. A week ago, I send a pic of my penis. She did not reply. I think I really messen up yesterday when I send her a snap of me masturbating. She blocked me on everything. I think she has been leading me on. My friend says IATA. What do you guys think? AITA for sending a pic and video of my private parts to a girl?
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AITA for calling my Dad the 'N-word' and asking him to call me it back? I have a white Dad and black Mom, Me being their lightskin son. I am 16 and love reading alot of stories here, I never had a potential rear end in a top hat experience (LOL) until a few days ago. My Mom was gone shopping and it was just Me and my Dad, when I saw I jokingly said 'What's up my N*gga?' he just gave me a 'Ha!' and told me not to call him that. I asked him to give it back and that he has the n-word pass but he wouldn't say it, he never said the word and never wanted to say it, I told him that there was no way he never said that word in all his years, he just laughed and said he was telling mum. When my Mom got back from shopping, he told her and she wasn't happy with me but she still found the comedy in the situation at imagining my Dad saying it back. But they were still upset with me for saying that word and grounded me for the week which I admit, I probably deserved that and it has me thinking, was what I did an rear end in a top hat move?
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