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No poo poo I've heard lolitas will tear each other apart if they decide someone is showing too much skin in an outfit coordination.
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Chairman Mao posted:"loli fashion" But at least they were enjoying Sue the T-Rex.
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PetraCore posted:It's just hyper-modest pseudo victorian frilly dresses that take up a lot of space. Super unfortunate name, not exactly sure why someone decided lolita was the name to go with. Because the word means something different to a Japanese person than an English speaker. It means cute/elegant.
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Aug 21, 2019 22:06
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PetraCore posted:No poo poo I've heard lolitas will tear each other apart if they decide someone is showing too much skin in an outfit coordination. oh yeah, the loli/j-fashion livejournal drama used to get loving vicious. like, "i'd rather be swatted" vicious.
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gvibes posted:When I was last at the museum, I saw a crew of about 12 girls that I sadly recognized as loli fashion. I went to the Mutter museum a few month back and there was a gaggle of Loli fashion girls. They were all huddled around the jars of preserved fetuses doodling them in their sketchbooks.
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PetraCore posted:It's just hyper-modest pseudo victorian frilly dresses that take up a lot of space. Super unfortunate name, not exactly sure why someone decided lolita was the name to go with. Its a case of Seinfeld Isn't Funny in that pedos cooped the terminology. The OG stuff was basically grown rear end Victorian era women dressing in like, the platonic, over the top ideal of what a little girl would want to wear as a sort of protestation against the idea that they should marry and be responsible. Just over the top ribbons and massive amounts of dress. (but no skin or sexualisation) Turns out the dour Victorian aristocrats marrying off their daughters were right though and it turns out arrested adolescence is like, way loving bad.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:You can't possibly tell me you've never heard of good crying during sex. Ahaha... yeah. Sure thing guy!
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Anyone else doing perfectly fine?quote:M34 F28 We're together for over a year, and have been kinda dating for 6 months prior. Living together for about 9 months now. So we started things off pretty quickly (we've both not lived with a partner before this)
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How do I get my (26F) boyfriend (27M) to realize this isn't a big deal? (Accidental nip slip) I just got a new tattoo on my sternum. My friend is about to get a new tattoo as we speak, and she sent me a picture of her stencil. I remember I told her I'd send her pictures of my tattoo, so I went into the bathroom and snapped a quick picture on my little flip phone. It goes up in between my chest, so I had to pull my shirt up so she could see the whole thing. I didn't realize my nipple got in the picture, waaaay up in the corner. My phone screen is small and the picture quality isn't great, so I just didn't notice. I sent it to her. I then sent it to my boyfriend, because I thought he'd like to see it. He started joking about how he loves my boobs and thanks for including that in the picture (winky face) etc. I said oh poo poo, I didn't realize my nipple was in there. And he said, "Seriously?" and he asked if I had sent it to anyone else. I explained that I had sent it to my female friend. He got angry and told me that he told me to be careful about this kind of thing (I never send pictures, and I was really careful when getting the tattoo to stay covered, and even used a female artist) and anyway he's pissed. He told me I'm lucky it wasn't a dude or he would be really, really angry. I've texted her about it and she has deleted the photo. It was an honest mistake, but he has texted me like ten times and is mad and says I don't respect him. How do I get him to realize this isn't a big deal? If he sent a photo of his dick to his male friend on purpose I wouldn't care at all. And this was an accident. TL;DR I accidentally sent a photo with my nipple in it to a female friend. Now he's pissed. What do I do?
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Wife (29) expects me(M31) to be ok with attending inlaws insane Vegas party. This is hard call for me. I could well be way out of line. TLDR, Wife's family organised a Vegas blowout for he brothers 27th birthday. We are expected to attend and pay a third when there are five grown, fully employed family members (plus partners) who will almost certainly attend. The place we are paying for coincidently has five bedrooms. Last year I turned 30. My wife organised a party at a local bar. It was a blast and about half my wife's immediate family turned up. I didn't expect or need any of them to come, but they did. I appreciated the effort, but honestly it's not like it cost them anything. They got free food and drink, no hotel needed and only one even brought a card. So when my wife asked if I'd be ok going to her younger brothers' 28th birthday, I said yes. Of course I'd go. Yesterday, I got the details of what I'd agreed to. My wife's parents decided to turn the birthday into a big family vacation. They've booked a huge Penthouse Villa just off the strip. All we've been told is the price and shown a photo of the room picked for us. We now owe them over $1000 for pretty much the smallest room in the penthouse for three nights. I told my wife that I thought the room seemed overpriced and she got pretty defensive. At that point, I knew something was up. s I felt I had to ask questions because I can see what's coming. I asked these two questions, what was the total cost of the penthouse villa and how many rooms total. This might sound odd to you, but trust me, I've seen variations of this before. My wife said she didn't know how many rooms but the total cost was $3300. At this point, I'm thinking, well that means a three bedroom penthouse. I tell my wife that I wish we'd been involved in picking the place as we could have got one way cheaper. Now we've got to pay over $1000 for an OTT place to stay , airfare, get my parents to babysit the kids. All for a 27th birthday for a guy who came to my 30th, had some free beer and left after an hour. Don't get me wrong, he's a decent enough guy. It's the room thing that gets me mad. I find the penthouse on AirBnb. It's not a three bedroom place. It's a five bedroom place. So why are we paying a third I ask my wife? She replies it was the only one her parents could find. I mean seriously, in Vegas. Also, the price I'm looking at on AirBnB is close to half what her parents are asking. Apparently the weekend we are going is a special weekend (don't remember why), so the price is doubled! My wife is getting pretty annoyed with my questions right now, I can see it on her face. I ask her how come we aren't moving the weekend one week back or forwards to get the regular price of the place at around $1500? Or why don't we get a three bed condo instead of a five bedroom penthouse to save money? Or just book into a hotel. At this point it's all academic. I can't check AirBnB for that precise weekend for that place as they've already booked it. I'm seriously tempted to contact the owner. I don't really get an answer on this one, so I ask the main thing that's bothering me. Who is going, if we are paying a third of the cost of five bedroom 'penthouse villa' but we are only using three rooms. I ask, is it your younger brother (birthday boy), and your parents and us? My wife replies no, it's actually her brother (and wife) whose birthday it is, her parents and her older sister. So wait, I ask, why isn't she staying in the fourth room? Apparently she's just going to stay in her parents room on the pullout couch. Which means two things. One, my wife's parents have got the biggest room by far. Two, no way is the sister going to actually stay in on a day bed when there is an empty room. but she gets out of paying. She's not broke, makes a decent amount as a CPA. Then I ask the question that I've been waiting to ask. Is your brother Jimmy and his wife coming? The answer is no. A definite no. In fact, my wife said, she would have preferred if her alcoholic youngest brother came, as we could have split the costs! From past experience of paying for this freeloader to go on family vacations, I can see exactly the same thing is happening again. My wife's family seem to take great pleasure in getting us to pay for most everything we do together and my wife will say nothing. At this point I'm angry at my inlaws and my wife. Every single time Jimmy and his wife wasn't supposed to be coming on a trip they turned up. Every time her family come to see us, we end up paying for restaurant bills and gas money for them. We aren't talking about broke people here. We are talking about well paid professionals who have bad money management and like to live like they are Kardashians! My wife tells me I should just be happy to spend time with her family, and to quit worrying. Jimmy isn't coming (gets said every time) and her older sister will sleep in her parents room. She tells me to quit being an rear end in a top hat and she would do the same for my parents. Except she doesn't. We see her parents for a full weekend. I find it hard, but it's important so I do it. My wife won't visit my parents for more than a few hours. I get different reasons why - but right now its because they smoke. My parents majorly cut back when I told them this and had the place professionally cleaned. Even she admits it's better. She's happy for me to drop our kids off with my parents when we need some time, or a babysitter. She doesn't even come with me most times to pick out kids up! She's seen my parents for a couple of hours a time four times this year. I'm looking at close to two full weeks with my inlaws. I feel like we are getting off topic, but when she claims she would happily go on vacation with my parents that just doesn't feel true to me. We've been on vacation with them once, for five days in 2013. She acts like things are fair and equal but they just aren't. She's made it difficult as hell to organise another vacation with my family. The conversation ends with my wife saying she's sick of me being paranoid. That I don't have a right to know how many rooms the place is or how much it was, just what we have to pay. That they got an incredible deal on amazing place in Vegas and I should be happy. I feel, privately that: - My brothers 27th birthday is way OTT but that's his business. I should have been informed of the scale of this birthday before being asked to agree to it so we could make an informed decision. - Like four other vacations with my wife family, Jimmy isn't coming. Until he is. - Getting a penthouse that is twice the price when we could halve it by moving it one weekend is insane - Getting a five bedroomed place when we only need three is just manipulation. My wife's sister is going to take one room , and Jimmy will take the other for sure. I've suggested we stay at a hotel on the strip to sort this issue out. My wife says no, we go and we pay a third, or she goes without me. My wife has told me if I have an issue to take it up with her mother, and if Jimmy shows up, make it clear there and then that it's not fair. There's no way I want to do that, it was cause a major argument. I figure my wife knows this as well, and that's why she wants to portray this as "shut up and deal with it, or tell my mother". She's betting I'll just fall into line. Or, I can stop attending family events and pull her family apart, as she puts it.
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LadyPictureShow posted:Anyone else doing perfectly fine? oh sick good job on the sex and having one year of a relationship with no problems you loving dipshit imbecile.
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DemoneeHo posted:I [20M] accidentally said another guys name during sex. Girlfriend [20F] is now super upset to make it better? Actually be gay, dump her, get w/ dudes to salvage the relationship? Eh...
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AITA for cutting my 15 year old son off? My son and I were very close. My ex and I divorced when he was 7. I was very much involved with him like coaching his sport teams. Two years ago, I was hit by a drunk driver and ended up paralyzed from the waist down. Life as I knew it was over. I got through it because of that boy. I started going to his sport gamed and he asked me not to. Why? Because I am paralyzed, I have no bowl or bladder control. I don't even know if I have to go. Since I am hooked up to a catheter and wear diapers. I have a urine and colonstomy bag on the side of my chair. If I try hiding it, but sometimes it leaks. Plus, if not attached correctly then I can get an infection. My son is embarrassed about this when I show up at his games not only in a chair but with bags. Last week, my bag was leaking and I didn't know until some told me. My son asked me to come to his games anymore because of it all. It hurt me so much that I cut him off. Like I'm an rear end in a top hat for being paralyzed. I lost my job and live off social security. Still, I pay for all his sports. I go without eating some days. Since he doesn't want me at the games then I'm not paying for it.
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Ebola Roulette posted:Guess what one of the most common foods for food poisoning is Ah, true, but the problems went away when I started eating like... Well, an adult
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OP should really meet with his doctor/medical team. Having a bag leak urine or feces shouldn't be a reoccurring problem.
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I'm warning you thread, do not besmirch the reputation of cauliflower, it is the greatest of vegetables and I will not stand for any contradictory opinions. How do I get my (26F) boyfriend (27M) to realize this isn't a big deal? (Accidental nip slip) quote:I just got a new tattoo on my sternum. My friend is about to get a new tattoo as we speak, and she sent me a picture of her stencil. I remember I told her I'd send her pictures of my tattoo, so I went into the bathroom and snapped a quick picture on my little flip phone. It goes up in between my chest, so I had to pull my shirt up so she could see the whole thing. I didn't realize my nipple got in the picture, waaaay up in the corner. My phone screen is small and the picture quality isn't great, so I just didn't notice. I sent it to her. My nipple, no! e: poo poo, this was just posted, I'm too slow.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for cutting my 15 year old son off? Probably murder that drunk driver
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hawowanlawow posted:Probably murder that drunk driver What in the gently caress is funny about this?
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welcome to hell posted:I’m having trouble hanging out with my girlfriend’s friends, and I have suspicions it may be the age difference. I’m 38, she just turned 21. I'm not a predator! I'm a large carnivorous cat that hunts animals!
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Xik posted:
Something similar happened to my cousin recently, sundress came undone and she flashed some middle aged liquor store cashier. She just laughed, dude was mortified (of embarrassment, she's quite a pretty lady)
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MasBrillante posted:What in the gently caress is funny about this? did you paralyze someone driving drunk, or what?
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MasBrillante posted:What in the gently caress is funny about this? You... Wouldn't? They kinda ruined a family...
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I can only hope that Brilliante was responding to the story and not that particular response.
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Girlfriend won't go to sleep until she is satisfied with our "cuddle time"quote:So before your read, I need to say I have nothing against cuddling to sleep. I actually love it.
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“Let her cry, till the tears fall down like rain”
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how old are these people? ITS SLEEPYTIME LADY
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Xik posted:Girlfriend won't go to sleep until she is satisfied with our "cuddle time" that guy is so much nicer than me
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Midnight Voyager posted:Because the word means something different to a Japanese person than an English speaker. It means cute/elegant. Oh, the term didn't come from the book? I was always super confused by that bc Lolita has nothing to do with the fashion, it's not even like using a victorian setting, I figured someone liked the sound of the name without knowing what the book was about.
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PetraCore posted:Oh, the term didn't come from the book? I was always super confused by that bc Lolita has nothing to do with the fashion, it's not even like using a victorian setting, I figured someone liked the sound of the name without knowing what the book was about. It did. Or rather it got filtered through the idea of the Lolita Complex (which is just a fancy name for pedophile) which got popularized in Japan in the 90's to talk about schoolgirl outfits and changed in meaning to mean cute/elegant when mainstream people started using it to talk about the burgeoning fashion. Depending on who you're talking to they could mean it literally either way. Basically standard poo poo that happens with loan words that got adopted first by creeps and then spread to broader society. Zore fucked around with this message at 00:21 on Aug 22, 2019 |
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My Brother(18) has been poisoning my girlfriend(24) for the past 3 yearsquote:She has always been alergic to lactose very severely to the point where if she had any traces in her food she would basically poo poo herseld on the spot ever since she was a kid. My brother and I have always been on good termes and always hanged out together until 3 years ago when I met my girlfriend. He started getting more distant and mean towards me , talking about how she's ruining our "broship" and taking me away from our family and him . I told him he was crazy and didn't think too much of it until recently.
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sneakyfrog posted:how old are these people? LIGHTS OUT *cries for hours*
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Wife (29) expects me(M31) to be ok with attending inlaws insane Vegas party. gently caress that! This is just ridiculous. I’d back out as well.
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Panfilo posted:LIGHTS OUT I've had to sleep train my little girl. It took about a week but she can be put to sleep without being rocked there pretty easily now. We used the Ferber method. He should try it.
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Xik posted:My Brother(18) has been poisoning my girlfriend(24) for the past 3 years Secretly poisoning someone is a major "end the relationship" gently caress up. That is a straight psychopath move and far more indicative of dangerous behavior in general then "waaah she's stealing you from me"
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Xik posted:Girlfriend won't go to sleep until she is satisfied with our "cuddle time" This is when you turn "cuddle time" into "huge fart time"
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Flannelette posted:This is when you turn "cuddle time" into "huge fart time" having diarrhea in my bed to own my gf
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pentyne posted:Secretly poisoning someone is a major "end the relationship" gently caress up. Its also an obviously untrue motive because his parents knew
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Xik posted:My Brother(18) has been poisoning my girlfriend(24) for the past 3 years Ok expecting him to cut contact with the family is extreme, but lmbo at insisting she forgive psycho bro.
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Also that cuddle time one deeply disturbs me, she's gonna end up wearing that guy's skin.
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