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The original question was this:Pinecone Sample posted:How common is it for universities to forbid professors from intimate relationships with any under student on campus? Can they?
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25M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No attractive women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. Can I get honest opinions on my looks pleasequote:TL;DR
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Aug 25, 2019 02:08
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What? They absolutely can.
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Aug 25, 2019 02:09
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Jesus gently caress what is up with that entitlement? "I don't want to put in the effort to better myself if I just end up loving normal looking girls please help " 
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Aug 25, 2019 02:12
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FilthyImp posted:Jesus gently caress what is up with that entitlement? Oh, turns out he's a serial re-poster, and an earlier rant had this: quote:SARA The girl i had feelings for in high school but who friendzoned me is getting married to a guy who is cheated on her with a teacher She started dating him when me and her were seniors and he was a freshman. Hes an absolute scumbag. A total loving piece of poo poo who i wish actually died. I pray he gets cancer so I can piss on his tombstone. He was caught sexting a teacher caught on the news and has been caught texting other girls with intent to cheat multiple times. and now the girl I want is marrying him and A TEACHER HERSELF E: he's also incredibly mad at pro wrestler Seth Rollins
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Aug 25, 2019 02:14
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LadyPictureShow posted:Oh, turns out he's a serial re-poster 
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Aug 25, 2019 02:21
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LadyPictureShow posted:25M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No attractive women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. Can I get honest opinions on my looks please Lmao sounds like the dude has been getting honest answers about his looks. I guess there is zero self reflection in the fact that he feels miserable because no one loves or cares about him, while simultaneously considering woman who aren't super model perfect gross and below him. Xik fucked around with this message at 02:31 on Aug 25, 2019 |
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Aug 25, 2019 02:27
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AITA for not wanting to honor my mother’s dying wish to give the house that my husband and I bought for her to my sister?quote:My husband and I bought a house for my mother in 2013 so she can move closer to me and our family. She lived there until a year ago when she was diagnosed with cancer. I took her in and she stayed with my family until she passed away two months ago. Thank you for buying me a house, you dear, now will you please give the house to your naive often-scammed BWM sister once I die? She's so easily tricked that I'm worried she'll run out of stuff to lose too quickly if she doesn't have a huge asset in her name
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Aug 25, 2019 02:40
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:literal shrek-like poo poo-Golem: WHAT THE gently caress WHY WON'T HOT GIRLS SUCK MY DICK THEY'RE SO loving SHALLOW MAN NO ONE CARES THAT MY LIFE SUCKS  Hey you know Marie from Accounts Payable always stops by your cube and she's single, have yo-- ARE YOU loving KIDDING ME MAN? MARIE?! SHE HAS LIKE C CUPS AND HER HIPS ARE TOO THIN AND SHE loving DYES HER HAIR DOES SHE LOOK LIKE KATE UPTON TO YOU BARF MAN THAT MAKES ME SICK I HAVE STANDARDS.
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Aug 25, 2019 02:41
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QuarkJets posted:AITA for not wanting to honor my mother’s dying wish to give the house that my husband and I bought for her to my sister? Dear god don’t do it!
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Aug 25, 2019 02:48
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QuarkJets posted:AITA for not wanting to honor my mother’s dying wish to give the house that my husband and I bought for her to my sister? I want to get on reddit and ask for the name and address of her rube of a sister. I have many exciting business opportunities for her.
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Aug 25, 2019 03:09
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I like how he believes there is no reason to lose 100 pounds unless it makes hot ladies dive cooch first onto his cock.
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Aug 25, 2019 03:20
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i feel like he's what happens to that 15 year old kid who refuses to lose weight because "i am not sick and i just don't want to" when he gets interested in girls
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Aug 25, 2019 03:21
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Sagebrush posted:i feel like he's what happens to that 15 year old kid who refuses to lose weight because "i am not sick and i just don't want to" when he gets interested in girls Well last update that kid actually turned it around and has started working on him self.
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Aug 25, 2019 03:23
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LadyPictureShow posted:25M Never a girlfriend or kissed still a virgin never a date I'm fat ugly short and poor. No attractive women (20sF) like me. Nobody cares that I am miserable and no one wants to help me and no one cares about me. Can I get honest opinions on my looks please This dude is awful, but I got a half-chuckle out of "attractive women (20sF)" as a mutation of the age/gender rule. (Also, at least it's not 14-19F)
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Aug 25, 2019 03:39
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LadyPictureShow posted:My (F25) boyfriend (M45) won’t let me get the kind of puppy that I want This is back in the thread, but friends don't let friends get a French bulldog or bulldogs or a pug or any other short to inverted nose breeds. Sure, they may be cute puppies and decent dogs but their life quality is poo poo and they will inevitably die young with their tongues purple, gasping and bloody fluid pouring out of their nose and it is loving horrible. I work at an ER vet and I see this poo poo daily. If they don't die from over-heating on like 1/2 the walk a normal dog does, they die from aspirating their own vomit when they try to eat or drink and then choke. Or we do surgery to try and correct their hosed up, elongated palates and they die from swelling and complications after a day or so on a ventilator. Even 6 month, otherwise healthy puppies die all the time. Get a nice, normal-nose dog and watch it die from cancer after a decent lifespan. It'll still be horrific, but at least it can breathe comfortably for its whole life before it dies.
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Aug 25, 2019 04:05
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therobit posted:I want to get on reddit and ask for the name and address of her rube of a sister. I have many exciting business opportunities for her. Youll have to find out if shes poly since she already has a live-in scammer by the sounds of it.
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Aug 25, 2019 04:05
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empty sea posted:This is back in the thread, but friends don't let friends get a French bulldog or bulldogs or a pug or any other short to inverted nose breeds.  are cancer rates in dogs getting higher? kinda seems like it. is this a result of inbreeding* (if not so in so as much literal pure-bred, but more a wide-view-of-dog-breeding and genetics). sure seems like i'm hearing a lot more of dogs dying at 9-12 of cancer even if they aren't pure-bred
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Aug 25, 2019 04:10
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I'm obviously not in the position to talk about all dogs' lifespans, but in my field a dog that is 9-12 is doing drat good regardless of breed or what eventually ends its life. Cancer, kidney failure or hemoabdomen are the main things I see in older dogs. My friend recently put down her chihuahua that was almost 17. That's drat good for a small dog. A larger dog can get 8-16 years depending on genetics or whatever. I've seen some really old dogs and cats. The oldest cat I personally saw was 23, the oldest dog was a Chi/terrier mix that was about 20. I don't work in the Onco dept., but I swear those doctors make deals with the devil. They keep those patients alive and comfortable for ridiculously long times and then they try to lend any of their findings in cancer research to human cancer research doctors so that they can test and collaborate findings. It's really goddamn amazing. I'm not sure that dogs or cats are dying sooner, but that we're finding out just why they are declining sooner. Hopefully that just lets us identify problems sooner so as to give them longer, happier lives.
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Aug 25, 2019 04:36
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The unfortunate increase of dog friendly spaces means that dogs are loving everywhere, and since we know that everything causes cancer, an increase of things means an increase of cancer.
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Aug 25, 2019 04:42
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not letting a couple enjoy their date because they ruined mine? I see you, obvious r/childfree poster, I know what you’re doing.
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Aug 25, 2019 04:47
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Also there's the simple fact that all dogs gotta die from something. So if people are spending more for better quality food you get a bunch of dogs that would have gone in their sleep from a heart attack at 10 dying of cancer at 12 instead. Also more vet care means more diagnoses. 20 years ago that battle with cancer would just be "hey the dog can't walk" and then euth'd.
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Aug 25, 2019 05:32
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I'm pretty sure fat camp Ghandi said he had a middle school girlfriend or something which still puts him lifeyears ahead of the budding incel guy who can't find his HB10. Like for all his faults FCG was extremely comfortable in his skin which, given the filth golems in this thread who somehow get married, makes it unsurprising that he is a better romancer. Dude just wanted to be fat and chill and I can respect that.
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Aug 25, 2019 06:54
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AITA for threatening to quit my friend's podcast if he doesn't stop bringing his girlfriend on the show? quote:Me and my friend, Mark, have our own podcast dedicated to movies and entertainment. The podcast was his idea and he's more or less the main host, but I'm the co-host and we both appear on every episode, sometimes just the two of us and sometimes with other friends. But about a month ago, Mark brought in his girlfriend, Meg, and she added absolutely nothing to that episode. We were discussing the Phase 4 of MCU films and during our conversation, Meg just randomly interrupts and asks "Is Batman in the MCU?" The whole episode was just her asking really dumb questions like that and Mark had to explain to me that she doesn't really follow movies as close as we do. I asked him why he even brought her on, and he said "She wanted to be on, so I said yes." I even told him that our podcast would benefit from having guests who are more knowledgeable on movies and he said that he'll try to explain that to her. Time for a game of Identify! This! Podcast!
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Aug 25, 2019 08:00
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Gluten Freeman posted:AITA for threatening to quit my friend's podcast if he doesn't stop bringing his girlfriend on the show? It’s not WHM or Behind the Bastards but ooooh I’m a sucker for podcast drama!
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Aug 25, 2019 08:03
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calling those posters who were going insane over minor regional differences in grammar, your brethren needs advice: AITA for correcting my wife's speech and grammar? quote:My wife grew up in a small community and I grew up in several large cities on the east and west coasts of the US. We met at art school - she went for fine art and I went for theatre. In my theatre training we were drilled on proper pronunciation. While I'm not perfect, I think I'm fairly intelligible.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:07
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Gluten Freeman posted:AITA for threatening to quit my friend's podcast if he doesn't stop bringing his girlfriend on the show? You owe it to all 3 of your listeners to give them the best experience possible.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:09
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Not gonna lie I would love the opportunity to be a podcast's Yoko Ono and just destroy that poo poo because nothing of value would be lost. Also the entire premise of podcasts is explaining poo poo to people and that guy is dumb as gently caress for not realizing the girlfriend was giving him easy layups to say the obvious. The best podcasts are reductions of common and accessible knowledge relayed in a fun and entertaining way. Like this idiot thought his podcast was a backdoor to being a tenured professor teaching masters level classes on pop media and having a layperson with genuine questions impeded that fantasy.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:12
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cumshitter posted:I'm pretty sure fat camp Ghandi said he had a middle school girlfriend or something which still puts him lifeyears ahead of the budding incel guy who can't find his HB10. He ended up losing weight of his own accord afterwards and his parents seem to have basically given up on him, and it sounds like they were sending him to fat camp expecting that to do all the work for them. I get the impression that even if he had gone, he'd have gone back to his old weight within weeks of returning home because his parents won't do any work themselves.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:20
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Yeah it was definitely a case of Parenting at the Last Minute. That's one of the threads I find interesting in these Reddit stories. Parents who realize their legal control over a child is about to expire and think they can last minute form a connection or have one last bit of control over their child's life.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:44
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Gluten Freeman posted:calling those posters who were going insane over minor regional differences in grammar, your brethren needs advice: “And I went for theatre” 
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Aug 25, 2019 08:45
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More a case of trying to pay someone to do parenting for them, and seems like after that they completely shut down and resigned themselves to their child being an unwanted houseguest they legally can't evict.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:46
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Gluten Freeman posted:calling those posters who were going insane over minor regional differences in grammar, your brethren needs advice: No child of mine will grow up to have a regional dialect! 
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Aug 25, 2019 08:50
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It’s great that the kid turned him self around but I don’t trust a drat thing he says about his parents especially with how he was before he changed. Kids can be stubborn to no end and we really have no idea what they’ve tried, and poo poo the kid even admitted he didn’t give a poo poo or want to change.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:53
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MarcusSA posted:Kids can be stubborn to no end and we really have no idea what they’ve tried, and poo poo the kid even admitted he didn’t give a poo poo or want to change. 100% true. My son continues to insist that he is straight. But I know he's better than that. He has potential.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:56
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cumshitter posted:100% true. My son continues to insist that he is straight. But I know he's better than that. He has potential. Next step is gay camp. You know what you must do.
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Aug 25, 2019 08:56
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AITA for laughing hysterically during the movie my gf decided we would watch? (A Time to Kill) So I get that this is an extremely dramatic movie and wasn't intended to have any comedic moments.... however, when the antagonists were introduced the one dude is wearing a loving crop top wife beater. The second I saw it I burst out laughing and said the more evil they try to make this guy look the more absurd and less believable it is. So once the redneck duo started getting ready for the most abhorrent scene I was laughing maybe the hardest I've laughed during a movie. It is absolutely loving ridiculous to picture a person so evil choosing to wear a crop top and that's literally all he wears during the entire movie as his primary costume. Of all cinema I think it was the worst choice utilizedamd its in the final cut.... tbh I still laugh whenever she references how hosed up it was for me to laugh during this movie but I couldn't help it. It would be like papa smurf as an antagonist in The Pianist
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Aug 25, 2019 09:09
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I (26f) found videos my husband (28m) took of my sister at a fourth of July family event. He broke down, begged for forgiveness after I brought it up... and I just feel confused. This is weird to say the least. I'm not sure what to think at this point. Me and my husband have been together since high school, and we got married when I was 22 and he was 24. He is absolutely my DREAM man and I wouldn't of traded him for anything. I love him to death. I've never questioned his love or loyalty for me period, so this is just... A weird situation I've run into. This last fourth of July, my entire family got together and celebrated at a local spot in our city. There were tons of activities and things to do, and it was amazing. At one point, me and my husband and two of my younger sisters were in line to do a prize wheel. Right next to us, was a second line for a prize wheel as well. So there were two. In that line, was my sister, my dad and two younger brothers. I vividly remember this when it happened. Me and my husband were hugging, joking, laughing and having fun while we were waiting. He was hugging me and kissing on me, and it was just nice. I was absolutely in heaven. Well, that memory has been completely tainted as of today though, and now I'm extremely sad and in a weird place mentally. I was going to go through Google Photos and look for a specific time in July, but couldn't remember when. I just searched July, and looked through everything. I saw a video and the preview of it was obviously my sister. I instantly recognized it, and remembered it was from the fourth because of her outfit. I thought it must have been an accident that I took somehow? Then... I realized next to that one... Were about 5 others. I played them and realized it wasn't me that took it... They had to of been my husband's videos. The sound was of me and my husband talking, kissing etc and the videos were solely focused on my sister standing in line. I felt weird about it and asked him as soon as he got home, and he broke down and apologized. I was broken, because part of me thought it HAD to of been an accident. He didn't know it was recording. Totally unintentional. But nope. It was on purpose. He cried and begged me to forgive him, he apologized a million times and swore he'd never do it again and "he didn't know why he even did". I'm confused and just lost right now. I don't feel the same about him suddenly and I'm scared. I've loved this guy for years and years. He's the only guy I've known as an adult. He's my soul mate. Now I'm sitting here... Hes next to be sleeping, and I almost feel disgusted. He took a video of my sister waiting in line. A moment that should've been innocent, he ruined it. He was kissing on me, hugging me, whispering in my ear how he loves me.... And recording my sister. I feel like I'll never see him the same again. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for years and years, we're trying to start a family of our own. We're in love. On one hand I feel like it's too much to just throw what we have away.... But on the other hand, I feel weird toward him now. Like he's a stranger or something. I don't know  please help.Tl;dr; found videos my husband took of my sister at a family event. She was just waiting in line like we were. I feel weird and don't see him the same... But we've been together since high-school and I don't know that I should throw it away over this. I'm so confused. So conflicted. Someone please help me
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Aug 25, 2019 09:47
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Gluten Freeman posted:calling those posters who were going insane over minor regional differences in grammar, your brethren needs advice: You took theatre classes on speech performance; stop trying to treat it like speech therapy. Accents are weird and as long as folks are understood the rest shouldn't matter nearly as much as some people think it does. Unfortunately some of those people who think it does are in positions where they can make it so, but that's no reason to join them.
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Aug 25, 2019 09:49
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AITA because I have an issue with my boyfriend 'surprising' me before and after work? this is something I've received mix feedback on from family and friends, so why not ask strangers online, right? lol! So here's my situation, I'm 25f and have dated this man (32) who we shall call Cal for 4 months. In my view this behavior is a bit extreme for a relationship this is still in the early stage of development. I'm vet tech at an animal hospital at least 30mins from my home and 45mins from Cal and work full time. Lately Cal has been surprising me by visiting me 10 minutes before my shift (I usually get to work early) or waiting outside my job next to my car until the shift is over. The first two times, okay...um sweet, I suppose. But this has become a weekly occurrence, 3x times a week if he's not busy with work. He never tells me when, or even asks, he just does it. He knows my schedule because it's a set schedule. I understand him seeing it as a romantic gesture, but for me when I'm getting out of work I'm either unkept or aggravated and just want alone time. And the 10 minutes before my shift I can't handle. I like to clock in early, at least 5mins so I can't manage a quick 3min talk. To me it's even a bit stalkerish. I've brought this to his attention at 3 times and he's taken it as insult, no matter how I explained it. I talked to friends and families in addition. Some say I need to give him a break - he's just trying to be lovey dovey - and accept it as the affectionate gestured it is, along with me being an a hole and selfish. And then some say this is red flag behavior I need to address despite already addressing 3 times. So AITA
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