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Necrothatcher posted:Do you have a tenancy agreement for your specific room or does it cover the entire house? If the former, then your room should have a lock. If the latter - a shared tenancy agreement - then no, the landlord doesn't have to provide internal locks. The tenancy is for Room 1 at this address. There are other tenants who I have not yet met. The landlord is not a live in landlord, I have checked the council's register and this address is not listed as a HMO.
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Podcast content was good, and I'm looking forward to the next one. Could use some extra editing, like getting everyone to sync the start of recording with a set tone, which makes it easier to line up (one person seemed to be delayed a bit judging by the delay between their jokes and the laughter), and the volume was spiking hard one one person's audio, so could have done with some high end clipping. But the content itself was good and enjoyable and I was genuinely laughing along with it. A++ cast would pod again.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:44 |
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You shouldn't guess the law says the landlord who almost certainly thinks the law is whatever his scumbag landlord forum buddies tell him he can get away with
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:54 |
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Murder all landlords.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:00 |
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https://twitter.com/alexwickham/status/1168241551069319169?s=21 lol, amazing.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:21 |
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oh my god could literally any of these fuckers grow a backbone
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:26 |
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"I can't oppose no deal because, actually, that is in fact supporting no deal"
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:30 |
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Endjinneer posted:It's the socially acceptable middle class gateway protest movement that you can tell your colleagues about, but they've warmed a lot more people to the idea of direct action than any masked figure smashing up NatWest. If XR dissipates they'll still have moved a lot of people in the right direction, and those people will have learned that activism can go well beyond a letter to the Guardian and £5 to Greenpeace. I was perhaps a little harsh in that post. It has been great for mobilising people and I find that the people on the ground are quite a bit more sensible than the leadership. Their organisational abilities are to be admired, but yes the next step is definitely to pull people from XR into more radical groups. Like GAF!
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:30 |
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*Psst* All the Tories are Brexiteers, just some are more wishy washy about it.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:31 |
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https://twitter.com/alexwickham/status/1168243205026045952?s=21 holy poo poo he did it, he found the one Tory who likes May's deal.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:32 |
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Lol raise your hands whoever is actually surprised by this
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:32 |
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I don't like to post about personal stuff (or posting that much in general) but I'm kind of involved in a hosed up situation and I can't think of anywher better to get advice. Long story short I recently came out as gay to my sister. My sister has a work friend who is sort of an aunt figure to a kid who recently came out as bisexual to his family, and his father is being an incredible piece of poo poo about it. Like full on homophobic abuse, basically trying to bully him into being 'normal' and blaming his mother for 'feminizing' him with unmanly skincare. So thats just an enormously poo poo situation and the kid is understanably not dealing well. And now my sister wants me to come along to an evening at a local boardgame cafe so I can be a counterpoint to the vile poo poo his father's been spewing. The only problem is I don't feel qualified? I'm so oblivious that I only realized I was gay this year (I'm in my 30s) so I never had to put up with that kind of abuse and even if I had it would never have come from my cool and supportive family. Basically, how do I help this kid? Like I can pick apart the toxic poo poo and point out how dumb and irrational his father is being, but I can't make it stop, I'm afraid that telling him to push back against his dad might make things worse.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:38 |
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Mr Phillby posted:I don't like to post about personal stuff (or posting that much in general) but I'm kind of involved in a hosed up situation and I can't think of anywher better to get advice. Sounds like a delicate situation, this is just my opinion but I'd involve a professional if possible. Might not be a bad idea to just have a chat though (or just listen to the kid), but I'd say don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing Pochoclo fucked around with this message at 20:46 on Sep 1, 2019 |
# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:43 |
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It would be so funny if May was still going around Westminster trying to get people to back her deEeeEeAaaaAal
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:46 |
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Mr Phillby posted:And now my sister wants me to come along to an evening at a local boardgame cafe so I can be a counterpoint to the vile poo poo his father's been spewing. Just do that, if his father is a hateful homophobe then do the opposite and just be kind, listen to the kid and don't make any judgements about his dad to his face. I will say please be careful though goon brother, if his shithead dad finds out he's been hanging about with a 30yr old gay dude that might not end well for yourself.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:47 |
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they know Johnson can't call an election without a 2/3 majority, right (wrong)
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:48 |
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Mr Phillby posted:Basically, how do I help this kid? Like I can pick apart the toxic poo poo and point out how dumb and irrational his father is being, but I can't make it stop, I'm afraid that telling him to push back against his dad might make things worse. Good on you for meeting him but as you've realised you can't fix it. Neither could you if you were a highly qualified therapist or similar. He needs to work out what he wants to do. Ask a lot of questions about how he is, what he's experienced and what he would like to do next. Just genuinely listening to the answers will help a lot. Disclaimer: As just about the only 'religious' person in this thread I'm no expert on LGBT stuff, although perhaps I should be, this answer just comes from my human experience.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:49 |
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AceClown posted:Just do that, if his father is a hateful homophobe then do the opposite and just be kind, listen to the kid and don't make any judgements about his dad to his face. This ^ ^ I second the 'professional' suggestion. They might know of support groups led by professionals that might be better suited.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:49 |
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Julio Cruz posted:they know Johnson can't call an election without a 2/3 majority, right why would this be a problem? labour and the SNP would obviously vote for an election
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:53 |
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On the other hand https://mobile.twitter.com/christopherhope/status/1168223399803531264 Thank god we avoided chaos with Ed Milliband
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:57 |
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marktheando posted:why would this be a problem? labour and the SNP would obviously vote for an election if they've got an extension with the EU already negotiated they would if not they might be worried that dissolving Parliament for long enough for the election campaign to take place could take us past the 31st (and there's not any mechanism I'm aware of for securing an extension while Parliament is dissolved)
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:57 |
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Mr Phillby posted:The only problem is I don't feel qualified? I'm so oblivious that I only realized I was gay this year (I'm in my 30s) so I never had to put up with that kind of abuse and even if I had it would never have come from my cool and supportive family. Like people have said, a professional (which can just be someone who does counselling in some capacity, not necessarily a therapist or anything) is probably gonna provide the best concrete guidance But if you think about it, you're both in the same kind of situation - both come out recently, both come to terms with some stuff, it's just this kid is in much worse family circumstances. So you can listen, but you can also both talk about your experiences, how it's going in general, what you're looking forward to in the future And because you're in a better place, with a bit more life experience, you get to provide a bit of a grounded perspective, let the kid see how things should be and that it's not their fault their dad is flipping out. I think that's probably worthwhile?
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:00 |
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It's no wonder that they all think Corbyn is a Stalinist monster if they treat having the whip withdrawn like they're having their life threatened. Worthless fucks.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:08 |
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Tory rebels
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:08 |
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baka kaba posted:Like people have said, a professional (which can just be someone who does counselling in some capacity, not necessarily a therapist or anything) is probably gonna provide the best concrete guidance Yeah you don't have to be a professional to listen to someone and empathise. It can help to have someone to talk to who's in a similar situation.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:16 |
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Continuity RCP posted:Tory rebels The word rebel is rolling in its dictionary right now.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:19 |
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Apraxin posted:On the other hand This is politics talk for 'Boris is hiding' isn't it.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:21 |
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MrFlibble posted:The word rebel is rolling in its dictionary right now. I think the word Tory in that phrase is like the word Dutch in all those old fashioned insults. A Tory rebel.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:28 |
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Taear posted:Most puzzle games of that period were bullshit because it was the only way to get their 5 hour (or one hour) game to last longer. You’re right of course, but Discworld takes this phenomenon to unheard of heights. There is literally a puzzle where, in order to get a guy to take off his robe so you can steal it (of course, it is the only black robe in the world), you must catch a butterfly (which is a bullshit task in itself), travel backwards in time, and then release the butterfly at the lamppost where the guy will later stand. Strange waves will emanate from the insect and then the “butterfly effect” causes a localised rainstorm to soak the guy in the future, forcing him to take off the robe to dry it. I refuse to believe that even a single person solved this puzzle without following a guide or brute forcing the solution by trying every possible possibility in the game.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:37 |
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Comrade Fakename posted:You’re right of course, but Discworld takes this phenomenon to unheard of heights. There is literally a puzzle where, in order to get a guy to take off his robe so you can steal it (of course, it is the only black robe in the world), you must catch a butterfly (which is a bullshit task in itself), travel backwards in time, and then release the butterfly at the lamppost where the guy will later stand. Strange waves will emanate from the insect and then the “butterfly effect” causes a localised rainstorm to soak the guy in the future, forcing him to take off the robe to dry it. You just gave me horrible flashbacks e: I often get a crazy idea I'd like to play through some of the old point and click puzzle classics but I just know I wouldn't have the patience I did pre Internet and I'd just end up reading a guide Skarsnik fucked around with this message at 21:46 on Sep 1, 2019 |
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Darth Walrus posted:https://twitter.com/alexwickham/status/1168243205026045952?s=21 This is completely crazytown logic from that MP, there won't be a deal to vote on unless Johnson puts May's deal up, because Johnson won't reach a different deal with the EU, and nothing indicates that Johnson would prefer May's deal over No Deal. As long as Johnson is Prime Minister, there won't be a Brexit with a deal.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:44 |
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Comrade Fakename posted:I refuse to believe that even a single person solved this puzzle without following a guide or brute forcing the solution by trying every possible possibility in the game. There's an easter egg that was so well hidden that it wasn't discovered until decades later. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SkCA2yl4MQE
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:45 |
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LOCUST FART HELL posted:I posted this on reddit's legal advice UK subreddit but I'll repost it here to see what advice I can get. You have a rather significant leg to stand on, but you need to be asking yourself if this is the kind of landlord you want to be dealing with. If taking him up on his offer and telling him to get stuffed is not an option, I would fit a cheap lock to the door to tide you over while you look for a place not owned by a slumlord.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:49 |
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Government to scrap plans for 'Henry VIII power' to end free movement Amazingly, this is because it might not be legal, not because there exists no way to distinguish between newly-arriving EU citizens, and ones who haven't filled in the "I want to stay" form yet! Or indeed the ones who have, unless you print out your confirmation page (which the hostile border guard will definitely accept)
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:55 |
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https://twitter.com/alexwickham/status/1168264692520882176 EDIT https://twitter.com/RoryStewartUK/status/1168266343793221632
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:56 |
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So apparently the govt has just warned pensioners that after no deal, pensioners living in the EU will no longer get the triple lock, i.e. their pensions will be frozen (after 3 years) Do it BoJo, anger the olds. Keep doing it. That can only end well
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:57 |
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Bobstar posted:Government to scrap plans for 'Henry VIII power' to end free movement Aside from everything else I just don't see immediate immigration enforcement as realistic - the UK currently indefinitely (though for the majority, albeit a slim one, it's only a couple months) locks up about 30k people per year for eventual deportation. If that were to expand to even 1% of the EU migrant population (and LMAO if you think that they would stop at only 1%) it would still quadruple the current immigration enforcement rate, which I imagine would overwhelm the capacity just a touch. If I weren't one of the people eminently at risk of being locked up I'd almost like to see the chaos it would be. e: phoneposting Private Speech fucked around with this message at 22:10 on Sep 1, 2019 |
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jabby posted:https://twitter.com/alexwickham/status/1168264692520882176 so is this just a regular 3-line whip or is it like Hyper 3-Line Omae Wa Mou Shinderu Whip also given what the Whip actually is i am confused by the etymology of the phrase "withdrawing the whip" https://www.parliament.uk/about/mps-and-lords/principal/whips/
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everyone posted:Good sensible advice I'll do my best. I hope my experience can be valuable as an example of what not to do at least. Its really heartening to see more and more of the next generation openly talk about this stuff from a younger age. I don't know about seeking professional counciling at this stage but I can definitely look into local support groups and at the very least make sure the kid has Childline's contact info.
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Private Speech posted:Aside from everything else I just don't see immediate immigration enforcement as realistic - the UK currently indefinitely (though for the majority, albeit a slim one, it's only a couple months) locks up about 30k people per year for eventual deportation. "Government writes laws it has no capacity to enforce" is brexit in a nutshell and part of why I'm not convinced boris has any idea what he's doing.
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