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Seven Hundred Bee posted:Too much shtick posting. Not every post needs a reply in persona, particularly depressing ones about a guy nuking his personal life due to a brain tumor. cumshitter posted:Everyone who counts loves cumshitter
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A lot of people aren't diagnosed til adulthood or teens, so I'm pretty sure shrinks are used to it. Parents can't believe anything can be WRONG with THEIR BABY, or can't afford it, or just can't be arsed.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 17:56 |
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Bored posted:
Being diagnosed would change her entire life. It would also come with the realization that her life could have been a lot less painful and more productive if she'd had an early intervention. Not an easy thing to process.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 18:08 |
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Girls and young women who have autism oftentimes slip through the cracks because they're just viewed as quirky or shy which society has deemed is "OK" for their gender. ADHD in girls is also way underdiagnosed because they historically aren't as disruptive in the classroom. As people with developmental or learning differences advance through life, their ability to compensate for their issues comes under greater and greater stress. It's why so many people flame out when they do not have a rigid schedule or, for lack of a better term, social expectations that are as enforced as they are during their previous level of schooling. That's why kids who did great in elementary school and are "good students" may become disinterested or rebel during middle or high school. It can be "moody teenage issues" but that's also when the work level exceeds their ability to compensate for a learning difference. Problem is a lot of schools don't want to invest in testing older children and instead force them into the "problem student" box when really, Johnny just can't read and is frustrated.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:02 |
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Inexplicable Humblebrag posted:do you workshop jokes for this thread in the CSPAM trump one, or is it the other way around? Wherever I come up with it first. If I think it's funny I'll share it.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:48 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I got those two, but is there no other bathroom in their apartment, besides the one through his bedroom? That strikes me as really odd. Why wouldn't the apartment have a bathroom for it's residents, instead of just one of them? I personally wouldn't have any qualms about walking right on through my roommates bedroom to use it if it were the only bathroom, and I'd credit card the lock if I had to, but I guess I'd also never move in to such an apartment. No, there's a bathroom connected to the living room (that was presumably in use by another party goer), a private one in his bedroom, and a public one outside
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:57 |
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thank u for your service
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 19:58 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:[F23] Found out that my [M29] boyfriend only settled for me and is not really attracted to me. OP gets practically nothing from this relationship except some mediocre dick less often than she wants, just leave girl
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 20:57 |
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My (28F) strict Asian family disapproves of my non-Asian fiance (37M) Relationships I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 years and have kept it a secret until very recently. Recently he proposed and I said yes. So I decided to finally break the news to my parents. I had a feeling they would not approve but I did not expect their reaction to be that bad. I knew growing up that they were extremely racist and closed-minded but I did not expect this kind of verbal abuse. For some background, he's American and he works here in Taiwan. My parents have shown nothing but contempt for him and our relationship. Some what they said were: He's not Asian. Your kids will be ugly. -- My reply: Mixed kids are some of the cutest and grow up to be very attractive He's older than you. -- My reply: I'm an adult and he's an adult. We are in a consenting relationship and that's all that matters. He doesn't make enough money -- My reply: I don't want to marry for money. I want to marry for love. He's not tall. -- My reply: He is taller than the average Asian. He just doesn't understand our culture -- My reply: You don't even try to understand his. And if this is "our culture" I want out of it. If you don't break up, we will cut you out of our will -- My reply: I don't care. I believe I have found the love of my life. You're a race traitor. -- My reply: There's only one race, the human race. You are evil and selfish because you are marrying a non-Asian. -- My reply: You are selfish to not want me to be happy. When my older brother got married to a white woman, they said nothing. They even bought him and his wife a car and a house in America. When it's my turn they've done nothing but insult me and threaten to cut me out of their life. My younger brother threatened to have the guy beaten up or even murdered. My father went through the trouble of even tearing me out of all our family photos at home. What should I do? If you have gone through a similar situation, could you please give some advice on how to handle it? I just want to stop stressing and feeling trapped. tl;dr - My racist Asian family is enraged that I, the only daughter, don't want to marry an Asian man. They have put me through physical, verbal, and mental abuse and I need advice.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:17 |
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cumshitter posted:Wherever I come up with it first. If I think it's funny I'll share it. It's usually funny for the record buddy
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 21:40 |
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Y'know, it's not like I'm incapable of being serious. I just come to SA to joke around. I'm actually a published author, and I laid down my complex thoughts on being gay and Catholic under my pen name, CS Lewis. I didn't think the whole part about all those kids going into a fantasy world in their closet would be too subtle but I guess it goes to show that you can never overestimate the intelligence of the reader. Like just imagine my surprise when my editor told me Turkish Delight was an actual food and not, like, code for anal. cumshitter fucked around with this message at 22:05 on Sep 1, 2019 |
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I never knew what the CS stood for until now. Cunshitter Lewis, I'll be damned.
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# ? Sep 1, 2019 22:08 |
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My (20's M) partner (20's F) of 3 years collects payments from members in a FB group for being an admin. She thinks this is enough income instead of having a job.quote:My girlfriend left a job she was unhappy at a few months ago. She did this under the pretense that she wanted to go into a different field. Now, it's been months and she hasn't looked for anything. She had been evading my questions about where she's been applying by giving vague answers. Today she finally admitted she actually hadn't put in an application anywhere, but it was okay because she was getting money from facebook.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:04 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (20's M) partner (20's F) of 3 years collects payments from members in a FB group for being an admin. She thinks this is enough income instead of having a job. So your girlfriend is the middleman in begging.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:07 |
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (20's M) partner (20's F) of 3 years collects payments from members in a FB group for being an admin. She thinks this is enough income instead of having a job. Not sure is there is a name of this specific thing, but it's got the feel of a pyramid scheme mixed with the ethics of rent seeking without being either. Just gross as gently caress.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:15 |
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I told my husband (30) to have sex with other women. He did, but is not letting me (25) have sex with other men. by compersion44quote:My husband (30) and I (25) have been together for 6 years total, and have been married for 5.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:18 |
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So apparently that facebook group is a well known thing? It's called Give Me Your Money and is full of garbage people all the way down. Posting walls of text from the comment section if anyone is interested:quote:This is Give Me Your Money, and it's toxic as hell. They gate keep, worship the mods and dogpile anyone who has opposing views. Edit: You also have to pay to get people banned and $10 to join the special group. If anyone wants to ban anyone from the special group it's $100. quote:Hi OP, to start off I’m sorry you’re dealing with this but as others have said your girlfriend helps run a cult and is getting paid to do so. I was a member there from 2017-2019 until I eventually left due to the toxic culture there. They go out of their way to hurt and deny people in need based off their political opinions, hairstyles, fashion sense and other bizarre reasons. They take their desperate pleas for help and turn them into memes, and continue to make fun of them after they’ve been cast aside. quote:This group, as others have said, is toxic as gently caress. One of the owners (LC) recently doxxed a bunch of people to deflect attention after she got blasted for being blatantly transphobic. quote:Hey this is making it's rounds again. As has been mentioned here, this group is "Give me your money" or some other "charity" group with the same rules. The rule is, you ask for help, and whoever helps you also HAS TO "tip the mod" and send money to the admin/moderators of the group, simply because they are the admin/moderators of the group.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:23 |
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My (36F) sister (38F) took my 6 yr old son to a psychologist without my knowledge because she feared he was "losing touch with reality" since he was acting as a character in a fantasy movie he had seen. I'm livid and considering cutting her off.quote:My son and I watched a fantasy movie together a couple weeks ago. One of the characters had various psychic powers, like the ability to move and influence objects with his mind. My son asked if people can really do that and I explained that some people believe they can, but so far no one has been proven to actually have the ability. He seemed satisfied with that answer.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:29 |
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Im actually more lost now than before on give me your money because what the gently caress are the admins providing if they're not even matching donors with the needy?
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:32 |
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cumshitter posted:Y'know, it's not like I'm incapable of being serious. I just come to SA to joke around. I'm actually a published author, and I laid down my complex thoughts on being gay and Catholic under my pen name, CS Lewis. I didn't think the whole part about all those kids going into a fantasy world in their closet would be too subtle but I guess it goes to show that you can never overestimate the intelligence of the reader. So that part where Aslan sacrificed himself for everyone was like, code for gettin' plowed in the back of an adult theater It makes so much more sense now
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 00:32 |
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My [22/f] dad [66/M] creeps me out and I'm not sure why... I've posted a question like this before but deleted it right after because I got paranoid that my family would somehow find it lol. I'm trying to stay objective about this, I want to stress before I start that I am NOT jumping to any conclusions and in fact, feel like a pretty crappy person for feeling like this to begin with. But basically my dad gives me the creeps. Majorly. When I'm around my dad, I feel so deeply repulsed. I feel it in my body, disgust, irritability I just want to get away from him. Hugging him makes me literally nauseous, I even feel uncomfortable sitting on the same couch as him. I want to clarify too that this isn't just awkwardness it's a really powerful feeling of skin-crawly, cringey unease that i notice to be very physical. NOTE: I try not to let this show outwardly because as I mentioned, I feel terrible about being this way but have felt this way around him for pretty much as long as i can remember. Some background; even though I know my dad loves me, and I love him too in a filial way but our relationship can be kind of strained. He was really badly abused as a kid and it's left him with temper problems, extreme sensitivity and a kind of social ineptitude that i have to remind myself to be patient with. He taught me how to ride a bike and would make pancakes on saturday mornings but also punched a hole in the wall next to my face during an argument and told me I looked like a boy, would be alone for the rest of my life etc. etc. HE is (or was?) also a sex addict. I found out when I was ten and found a huge collection of sex addict self help books stashed in his closet while I was looking for my new cat, never mentioned it to my family so I never got more context as to how long he dealt with this. He's made a few slant comments about my body (your legs look good when you're running) but has never physically done anything inappropriate to me besides accidentally gazing by body walking by, unintentional stuff like that. basically I really want to know if anyone feels this way around their dads/parent. I'm not trying to fill in any blanks but feel awful about basically have no relationship with my dad because i despise being around him. It's such a strong feeling I'm starting to realize that it needs to be addressed somehow. Advice, similar experiences all would be great, thanks <3 TL;DR dad creeps me out, I feel really bad about it
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:04 |
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How do I convince my friends to give my boyfriend a chance? My partner(20,m) finished his schooling at the same high school as me(19,f) but I didn’t know him as he was in the year above. We met after he finished school, and I love him, but some of my friends refuse to even meet him. It’s been a year since we got together. Because he joined my school in his last year, no one really knew him yet. As he was making friends, he made a stupid joke about someone “dying on the toilet” and it just so happened that that’s the way a girls father had died recently. He had no idea, but the rumours spread like wildfire that he had laughed at his new friends fathers death. Everyone decided they hated him based on this. My best mates(all between ages of 18 and 19) are friends with people from his year level, and whenever they have parties, I’m not allowed to bring him. I understand that they don’t have the best opinion of him, but it was an accident. He feels bad about it, and it upsets him that he can’t come with me to events. These guys that spread the rumours aren’t my friends, as they made his life hell in school, and they’re still spreading this stuff to more of my friends, ruining his reputation further and destroying any connections he could have potentially made with my friends. I just wish people could see him how I see him. As a sweet, caring, and lovely person. But they all think he’s an rear end in a top hat. How should I go about convincing them to give him a chance? TL;DR: Most of my friends hate my partner because of a stupid joke and a large rumour. They’ve never really met him.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:04 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:How do I convince my friends to give my boyfriend a chance? Poor Lisa Marie Presley
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:05 |
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my grandfather actually died on the toilet, like elvis, and it is a point of hilarity and pride in our family
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:23 |
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Advice on legally kicking my wife out of my family home. How do I?quote:submitted 6 years ago by legalthrowaway56
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:34 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:How do I convince my friends to give my boyfriend a chance? You know I imagine the joke he probably made was when someone took forever in the bathroom and he was all like “oh wow we thought you might have died in there!” Which is extremely harmless and how the hell is anyone supposed to know some randos parent died on the drat toilet. Seems like a pretty ridiculous thing to get all up in arms about.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:41 |
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How can I [24F] be less bothered by my friend [23F] insisting we're "twins"? Hello Reddit! Before I begin, I want to be totally clear that I realize this is a "me" problem. I'm really embarrassed by the way I'm reacting to this, and want to learn from and correct my thoughts. I am the bad guy here, and I'm the one in the wrong. I came here because I worry that Rachel would be hurt if she knew I felt this way, which is the last thing I want, so I was hoping for anonymous internet advice rather than going to my friends. Please be gentle, as I am coming here from a place of vulnerability looking for advice. Over the last year, Rachel [23F] joined my friend group [24-27M/F] and quickly became attached to the women in the group, especially me. She is really thoughtful and kind, smart and fun to be around, and I really like her. However, lately she's gotten a knack for insisting that everyone thinks we're "sisters" or "twins" very frequently, and it started to really bother me. It culminated over the past three days, when I counted over 20 instances of her telling a story where something about us was "identical," a random person thought we were "twins", or how "sisterly" we were. This started happening regularly since she recently dyed her hair to match my fairly-distinctive color several months ago. The first time, a bouncer took both our IDs at once, and handed mine back to her and hers back to me. She was really excited about this, and told anyone who would listen the rest of the night how the bouncer mixed us up. Another time, we went out shopping, and were having fun trying things on and goofing around. A sales associate asked if we were sisters. Rachel happily said "yes!" Ever since then, it seemed like Rachel took every possible opportunity to illustrate how similar she thinks we are. Aside from our now-matching hair, I personally don't think we look very alike, nor do any of our friends, but she insisted the delivery guy who came to her house thought she was me because "[OP] always orders anchovies, and I did too that time, so he probably thought I was [OP] and that I just moved!" Another time, she shared that she began wearing a specific shade of green and "everyone will probably think I'm [OP] now because she always wears this color." When it was our turn to face off in flip cup, she announced to the party that it was the "battle of the sisters!" Over this weekend, it happened with enough frequency (quite literally 20+ times) that others started to comment to me how much Rachel says that. With each "we're siiiisters" comment, I grew a little more annoyed, and I spent a long time today thinking about why I reacted that way. The embarrassing conclusion that I came to is that part of me resents the comparison because of my ego. I think that we don't look alike because I have a higher view of my appearance than I do of Rachel's. I'm frustrated by the constant "we're twins!" bit, because I'm offended. I'm ashamed of feeling like this, and I want to fix it. I do think the frequency that Rachel does this hints at her own problems, but I want to be clear that I know the problem here is me. I realize that this egocentric response really stems from a sense of insecurity. If I were more secure in my appearance, I woudn't be offended by someone constantly and excitedly comparing the two of us. How can I move from my where I am now to where I want to be, and not be bothered by this? Thank you for the advice. TL;DR: My friend says with uncomfortable frequency that everyone thinks we're "twins" or "sisters." I realized the comparisons bother me because I'm an egocentric poo poo. How can I be less that way?
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 01:42 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:How can I [24F] be less bothered by my friend [23F] insisting we're "twins"? Get a temporary tattoo, don't mention that it's temporary, and let nature take its course.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:How can I [24F] be less bothered by my friend [23F] insisting we're "twins"? Watch Single White Female. Prepare yourself.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 02:00 |
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...to be fair, my grandfather died on the toilet after a lifetime of excess and debauchery, like elvis, whereas the girl's dead dad from the story probably died on the toilet after a lifetime of temperance and respectability, like a schmuck
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 02:01 |
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welcome to hell posted:I told my husband (30) to have sex with other women. He did, but is not letting me (25) have sex with other men. by compersion44 Seems like if threesomes don't immediately blow a relationship up, one party starts pushing things farther until it eventually blows up down the road
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 02:11 |
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welcome to hell posted:Advice on legally kicking my wife out of my family home. How do I? Hoo boy is this guy in for a bad time when his wife gets a lawyer
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 02:12 |
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Dr. Video Games 0135 posted:Hoo boy is this guy in for a bad time when his wife gets a lawyer Dude displays such a lack of cognition I think he might end up a ward of the state
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welcome to hell posted:Advice on legally kicking my wife out of my family home. How do I? this one was featured in an F Plus ep years ago and it's still baffling https://thefpl.us/episode/194
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 03:10 |
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That's bait guys cmon please, I know we like to take everything at face value but surely there are limits
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 03:11 |
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Please, please read the title first and let your preconceived bias cloud your mind first. And then read the post. You will be surprised. AITA for not cleaning my rear end in a top hat correctly apparently? quote:I can't believe this is even happening but me and my boyfriend are in a huge argument right now to the point I'm staying at my friends house.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 03:33 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Please, please read the title first and let your preconceived bias cloud your mind first. And then read the post. You will be surprised. This is why I have a bidet. Clean rear end in a top hat all day everyday. Also lol at the argument. Also! Dudes assholes are different from women’s the hair really jacks things up.
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 03:40 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Please, please read the title first and let your preconceived bias cloud your mind first. And then read the post. You will be surprised. it's nice to see ge cafe got a girlfriend
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# ? Sep 2, 2019 03:49 |
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Should I marry for money?quote:I (24,F) have been dating a very wealthy man (47) (he is divorced with 3 middle-high school aged kids) for about a year and a half now. I really enjoy his company but I am not in love with him. He has brought up the idea of marriage and although I am hesitant about marrying so young, this is the type of situation where I would be set financially for the rest of my life.
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AITA for not eating a random egg that my father found?quote:This is kind of petty, but it’s a hot topic in my family at the moment. Thought I’d get the internet to weigh in.
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