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DemoneeHo posted:Girlfriend (23f) imposing Catholic rules, i(23m)dk whether or not to comply reluctantly. We've been together for almost three years. Sounds kinda like Christian domestic discipline to me
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OK looking up Catholic girlfriend I found this: [23m] My [22f] girlfriend of 3 years is very child like and I don't think she's ready to be living out of Home or in a adult relationship. I think she may be mentally ill. quote:Ugh, were to start.. I have been living with my girlfriend Tina for 2 years and some qualities I noticed in her originally I found quite endearing I'm starting to think is actually a cause for concern. I love her but I feel like she may be very mentally ill. Unfortunately the update was deleted and ceddit and removeddit can't seem to recover it. Judging by the comments, the parents were aware that she had a mental illness and never believed she would function on her own. The mental illness was apparently caused by some pretty severe childhood trauma.
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Sep 11, 2019 20:52
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So Catholic GF wants her husband to make all the decisions in the relationship, and he doesn’t see the easy answer to every other problem in that post*?  *besides the much better  of course
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Sep 11, 2019 20:56
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cumshitter posted:OK looking up Catholic girlfriend I found this: Ugh this is just sad.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:05
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bamhand posted:Ugh this is just sad. Kinda puts an uncomfortable spin on the whole "no sex until marriage, and then minimize the sex necessary to achieve pregnancy" thing don't it?
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Sep 11, 2019 21:10
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Eagerly awaiting the concern racists' pronouncement on whether 'dusty' is dogwhistle or not.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:16
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AITA for not allowing Chic Fil A in the office? this isn’t about me but about my boss, didn’t know how to phrase the title lol. it doesn’t really affect me at all but i’ve been having debates about this with my friends so i wanted to see what you guys thought. i work at the women’s and gender studies office at my university as a secretary. today i received an email from my supervisor that said we weren’t allowed to eat chic-fil-a at the office. there are about ten other girls who work at the office and we all received the email, so nobody was singled out directly. we’re allowed to eat at our desks, so that wasn’t the problem. the exact words were “our program stands for everything they (Chic Fil A) don't and it really upsets (Department Head) to see it in the office. It's your choice whether you eat there or not but it's just not allowed to be in the office.” i get the point, since chic fil a donates to homophobic groups, but is my boss TA for policing what we can eat in the office? it doesn’t really matter to me either way, but something about it’s rubbing me the wrong way. EDIT: i was not the one who ate it, i have no idea who did + i almost never eat meat so this doesn’t affect me in any way. just thought it was an interesting situation!
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Sep 11, 2019 21:16
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AITA for not telling a girl her skirt was stuck up? So this just happened in science class. In science we stand or sit on stools at each table. Anyway a girl a kinda know named “Jane” was in front of my table of four guys. She comes in late and I notice that her skirt is caught up on her backpack. Basically it’s holding it flipped up with her butt to the world. Class is about 45min long and the other three guys are basically looking the whole time making comments. I tell Jane after class and she turns red and gets upset and asks why I didn’t tell her sooner. And accused me of being a perv. I didn’t tell her earlier Bc I didn’t wanna get in trouble with the teacher. Aita? Edit: This teacher is very strict. People get in trouble for asking to borrow a pencil. If I walked over or spoke to her loud enough to hear chances are I’d have been sent away with a 0 on a quiz. Quizzes are 5% of our grade each. We have 6. It would have immediately dropped me a letter grade. Last week he sent someone to the office for letting a girl know she was bleeding through her pants. It wasn’t a quiz day though.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:16
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Hellblazer187 posted:I've always assumed that "catching feelings" started out as an ironic thing, but that over time it became something that people actually feel. I was friends with my best friend for years before I had any actual romantic feelings, I wasn't secretly pining after him or anything. One day I was super drunk and told him and he freaked out. Anyways, we are gay married now.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:17
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Smirking_Serpent posted:the exact words were “our program stands for everything they (Chic Fil A) don't Women's and Gender Studies does what Chic Fil-don't.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:23
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kimbo305 posted:Eagerly awaiting the concern racists' pronouncement on whether 'dusty' is dogwhistle or not. On one hand kudos to white people being vigilant of racist caricatures for once. On the other hand, sometimes there are six brown chicks on the Internet. What a concept.
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Sep 11, 2019 21:45
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My(24F) boyfriend(26M) of two years said he would rather go without dinner than come with me in my car to get food. Has this happened to anyone else? It is "my job," according to Bf, to get/make/decide dinner every night. (That's another post in itself) I asked tonight if he would please just come with me for the ride, never happens. He said he didn't want to, I said I didn't want to go by myself to get it either, he said "let's just not eat then." This was not a joke. I am very upset about this, is that justified? I know we need to talk about this, but I am curious to know if anyone else experiences this in their relationships? TL;DR Asked my boyfriend if he would accompany me on a ride to get dinner "my job," he said he would rather go without dinner.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:11
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AITA for posting a tribute of my late-girlfriend onto FB who died during the 9/11 attacks? I lost my late-girlfriend on 9/11 when TWC towers collapsed (she was on the 67th floor). I had no calls or texts from her, all I hope is that her last moments were painless and fearless. This year I suffered a near-death accident. After it, I did a lot of looking back on my life...and having lost family and friends in tragic ways I decided to stop taking things for granted and began cherishing the people I am close with. So for this year, I posted a tribute for my late-girlfriend onto my FB. It was just 4 pictures (1 of her, 2 of us holding hands/hugging, and 1 of us in her office when she first got hired). I wasn't too over-romantic, but said "I'll always miss you, and you will always be a big part of who I am. I hope you are proud of me." A few hours later though my wife texted me and was furious. She asked if I loved her or if I wanted to get a divorce. She told me it was slap her in face to post my ex onto my FB. Of course I love my wife more than anything, and my intentions were not to harm her in anyway, so I felt guilty and took down the post. Was I out of line here? I genuinely didn't mean to hurt my wife, I just wanted people to know what a great person my late-GF was.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:12
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for posting a tribute of my late-girlfriend onto FB who died during the 9/11 attacks? into my veeeeiiins
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Sep 11, 2019 22:22
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I want to stop taking things for granted and cherish the people I'm close with. What better way to do that than to proclaim how much I miss my ex girlfriend who's been dead for 18 years?
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Sep 11, 2019 22:25
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for posting a tribute of my late-girlfriend onto FB who died during the 9/11 attacks? Someone forgot 
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Sep 11, 2019 22:26
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Dazerbeams posted:I want to stop taking things for granted and cherish the people I'm close with. What better way to do that than to proclaim how much I miss my ex girlfriend who's been dead for 18 years? wow someone managed to get this one wrong incredible
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Sep 11, 2019 22:30
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You're telling me a facebook post is a tasteful and respectful way to remember our loved ones? After presumably no such previous mentions?
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Sep 11, 2019 22:31
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AITA for telling my stepson he isn’t allowed to be in common areas of my home without being fully clothed?quote:/u/nudestepsonissue
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Sep 11, 2019 22:33
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Dazerbeams posted:You're telling me a facebook post is a tasteful and respectful way to remember our loved ones? After presumably no such previous mentions? what year do you think this is?
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Sep 11, 2019 22:34
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cumshitter posted:AITA for telling my stepson he isn’t allowed to be in common areas of my home without being fully clothed? Guess she’ll have to spank his bare bottom to teach him a lesson
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Sep 11, 2019 22:34
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in actuality I think the husbands position is extremely understandable. he should have worded his post differently, without a picture, or maybe not posted at all. but the way he feels is probably the most healthy way to approach it. getting over things isn’t real, you just incorporate it and continue with life. people don’t get over things really, just build around it mentally and make space for it. here’s a very nice article that articulates these ideas far better than I can, written from the perspective of a woman who married a widower
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Sep 11, 2019 22:35
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not allowing Chic Fil A in the office? Somebody should tell her about Restaurant Brands International.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:43
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OP isn't an rear end in a top hat by any stretch and yeah it's understandable where he's coming from. But lol at making a facebook post with the two of them holding hands and hugging and saying how he'll always miss her. Not to mention that it took his wife completely by surprise.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:43
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He is a dingus for the way he phrased it combined with the hand-holding and hugging pics. But the sentiment behind his tribute is fine. Is it better to refer to deceased SO's as your late SO or as your ex? Because in one sense, they are technically your ex, but you didnt really break up with them either.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:45
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Dazerbeams posted:OP isn't an rear end in a top hat by any stretch and yeah it's understandable where he's coming from. But lol at making a facebook post with the two of them holding hands and hugging and saying how he'll always miss her. Not to mention that it took his wife completely by surprise. He posted a picture of somebody who died almost 20 years ago and his wife immediately texted him "do you love me or do you want to get a divorce" about it; I don't think she responded rationally or appropriately either
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Sep 11, 2019 22:45
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9/11 husband NTA. His wife was being really lovely, actually. Naked stepson should just wear like board shorts and an A shirt or something, jeez.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:49
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Three Olives posted:I was friends with my best friend for years before I had any actual romantic feelings, I wasn't secretly pining after him or anything. One day I was super drunk and told him and he freaked out. Anyways, we are gay married now. Blessed.
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Sep 11, 2019 22:50
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what’s wrong with not having sec before marriage
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Sep 11, 2019 22:57
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Edit: sex*
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Sep 11, 2019 22:58
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goethe.cx posted:Guess she’ll have to spank his bare bottom to teach him a lesson Or learn how to spell for the love of god.
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Sep 11, 2019 23:00
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Posting tributes like that is really just attention seeking behavior.
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Sep 11, 2019 23:00
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Someone please post the story of the lady who waited until marriage only to find out her husband was a slob with a food fetish.
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Sep 11, 2019 23:00
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ParserGirl posted:Posting tributes like that is really just attention seeking behavior. true but also so extremely common that if you look at Facebook you can't really complain
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Sep 11, 2019 23:01
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hawowanlawow posted:true but also so extremely common that if you look at Facebook you can't really complain i can and i will
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Sep 11, 2019 23:03
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Spouses being jealous of dead people is a thing I have encountered before and it's always stupid.
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Sep 11, 2019 23:08
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Dazerbeams posted:Someone please post the story of the lady who waited until marriage only to find out her husband was a slob with a food fetish. My[26F] husband [30M] of 1.5 months saved ourselves for marriage, discovered he can't make love without incorporating lots of food and I hate it. Help! quote:So my husband and I got married about a month and a half ago. We've been together for three years and everything in our relationship has been perfect. Goals and values, religion, he treats me well, the whole nine yards. We're soul mates and we really have had a fairy tale romance. We even saved ourselves for marriage as we're both pretty devoted Christians, not that that's something that's required for all Christians, it was our choice. Saving ourselves for one another for so long has strengthened our bond and been very special for us, so please, don't knock us for that. I was laying in the bed on our wedding night When my eyes beheld an eerie sight When my husband, from the bed, began to rise And suddenly to my surprise He ate some mash He ate some marital mash
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Sep 11, 2019 23:12
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Oh cumshitter, you're a treasure. Won't you be my little gay boy?
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Sep 11, 2019 23:14
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cumshitter posted:AITA for telling my stepson he isn’t allowed to be in common areas of my home without being fully clothed? Stepson is trolling for cougar. Has to be.
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Sep 11, 2019 23:17
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I use that story as a warning every time someone wants to wait for sex till marriage. Talk about a horror show. I am so glad I got rid of those stupid Christian purity ideas in my teens or I'd be married to a moron with terrible fetishes. Re: "naked" son-- well yeah lady and her friends *are* old and out of touch, nudity isn't really frowned upon these days, but it's also an adult living in her house and "don't wear your undies around my friends during events" is pretty drat reasonable. So in short, underwear is a land of contrasts and everyone should experience a naked bike ride once in their life. E lol if he's trolling for a cougar, old super Christian ladies aren't the right market. Go hunt up a bar like a normal poacher.
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