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professor metis posted:lmao I found this one and the comments are great: That's not the point of this; my point is, even at my worst, I still found the wherewithal to scrub myself. Dude has no excuse
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Power Khan posted:My partner impregnated my friend during our threesome. Threesome Satan smiles up at this
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AITA for still wearing my engagement ring of my deceased fiancé? So I was with my late fiancé for 7 years. He was my high school sweetheart and first love. We dated for 5 and were engaged 2. He passed away about 2 months from our wedding day. I was devastated. I continued to wear the engagement ring he gave me for 3 years on my left ring finger before I finally moved it to my left middle finger. I did this so it could still always be close to where it was suppose to be but because a lot of my family and friends said that it was a little strange because I was no longer actually engaged. It took me another year to finally get back into dating. And almost as soon as I did I met a wonderful guy. He made me feel like maybe it was ok to be happy again. He reminded me of the person I use to be before losing my late fiancé. So we have been dating for 3 years now and about a week ago he proposed. I was beyond happy and posted it to social media a few days after to let everyone know. I posted a picture of the ring my current fiancé gave me on my left ring finger and i was also wearing the engagement ring of my late fiancé on my middle finger just like I have always had. An hour later my fiancé calls me and asks me why I’m still wearing the old ring and why I would post both on social media like that. He claims my old ring looks too dingy, small and cheap next to his ring and it just looks awful. I was very hurt and I tried to remind him what the ring meant to me and he got very angry. He told me I was engaged to him now and not my late fiancé and that I really need to show my loyalty to him and just take it off. I told him no and he said he thinks I need time to think about who is here for me right now. Honestly I just thought his response was very cold and cruel. He’s never acted this way and I’m just beyond hurt but my friends and family all think I’m being silly. They think it’s just a ring and it needs to go... AITA for still wearing the ring?
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AITA for hanging reminder signs to my wife around the house? We bought our first home together in May after years of renting and I want to take care of our investment. She's a bit of a slob, though. After talking to her twice about something, and her failing to stop the behavior, I hang up a small sign, typically a Post-It with tape: Next to the toilet: Flush me when done or my bowl will stain Next to the blender: Keep me upright or my bearings may seize On the trashcan: Close my lid or I attract flies On the kitchen sink: Run my disposal when discarding food or I clog Next to cleaning supplies: Close us when done or we dry out I do feel like a bit of a pedant when hanging these signs, as if I'm educating a child on how to take care of things. But if she needs these reminders, that's fine by me, they don't bother me, and I'm not being judgemental about her. Edit: clarity: I'm insulting myself here, not her. She however has told me I'm being passive aggressive. To me there's nothing passive about it: in every case I had alread talked to her twice about the problem. Likewise there's nothing aggressive about it: I'm not angry and I don't think less of her, I simply want to solve a problem. So which of us is the rear end in a top hat? Edit: thanks for the responses, all.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for hanging reminder signs to my wife around the house? Burn your house down with both of you in it
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for still wearing my engagement ring of my deceased fiancé? Malachite_Dragon fucked around with this message at 13:44 on Sep 14, 2019 |
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for hanging reminder signs to my wife around the house? I can understand being a slob, but not flushing the toilet? Lol
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Power Khan posted:I can understand being a slob, but not flushing the toilet? Lol there are folks who are powerfully committed to letting it mellow
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Paying $800 a month in rent to your parents for four years isn't having a spine lol Ahh, this reminded me. I got my latest reddit account banned from AITA in this one - I don't think it's been posted, apologies if it was. I called the parents a bunch of horrible things in the comments until I got my posts all removed and banned. Many people had the loving balls to tell me that the parents had, in fact, earned this. e: I am also banned from legaladvice because the mods are cops (literally, almost all of the mods of that sub are badge carrying LEO) AITA for not wanting my in-laws to charge us rent quote:My (M24) wife (F25) and I have been living with her grandma for the last 2 years. Unfortunately, the last 6 months of those 2 years were spent watching her grandma die. She was a kind woman (to us) who lived alone in a great big house and was wealthy. Because she recognized her position in life (wealthy) relative to ours (poor and buried in student loan debt), she was kind enough to let us live with her rent free so we could start out our lives having paid down as much debt as possible. In return we helped out around the house and my wife helped out a lot with her medical aid when grandma got REALLY sick. Well, we took advantage of her generosity and got good jobs and paid down a huge portion of our debt since we had minimal living expenses. bus hustler fucked around with this message at 14:34 on Sep 14, 2019 |
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One person's poop? Don't flush that hoop.
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In the thread the woman says passionate hugging is a euphemism for loving. That makes more sense.
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charity rereg posted:Many people had the loving balls to tell me that the parents had, in fact, earned this. Sounds like the OP's parents found his thread.
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charity rereg posted:AITA for not wanting my in-laws to charge us rent Look at the guy who thinks he can live for free in a place he doesn't own.
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tactlessbastard posted:Burn your house down with both of you in it helpful post-it on the gas can: Barricade the doors or there may be survivors
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Three Olives posted:I'm saying getting a trashy tattoo on a prominent part of your body is going to reflect on the image you present to society and your spouse is entitled to an opinion on that and how it relates to their mutual compatibility. oh my god you're so old and white and the things you thing of as scandalous (or even mattering) are really so loving harmless. oh no a colorful van! this attitude has led us to live in a society with a buncha white supremacists and nazis, bc as long as they follow these dumb legitimacy politics and wear button-ups and khakis they're a-ok goddamn this is so infuriatingly stupid, you fuckers are ruining the world, eat the rich EDIT: Araenna posted:I know religious small town white girls who got forearm tattoos on their 18th birthdays. Three Olives isn't saying tattoos aren't accepted among the general populous; he's saying that having a tattoo of this type is considered low-class to those 'that matter'. It's only acceptable for simple folks, not refined and cultured people. Especially if it's done from flash art. To get away with a tattoo in the upper classes, it's gotta be ones of those ones you pay an Instagram tattoo artist a buncha money to labor hours over. Then, in the right circles and careers (artist) it's ok bc it's a 'piece of art' and an outward expression of your creativity. A lawyer having a wife displaying such a low-class indicator ("bad" tattoo) on her body in what is considered a more elite career would be a reflection on the husband and get people talking. Did he marry below how class? Why didn't he choose a more...'compatible' woman? Is something off with him? WHY ISN'T HE FITTING INTO HIS ROLE??? I grew up in this stuff and it's literally all of the worst parts of white boomer culture that need to die off, ugh, your values are terrible TO StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 15:56 on Sep 14, 2019 |
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Leon Einstein posted:In the thread the woman says passionate hugging is a euphemism for loving. That makes more sense. this is somehow worse than “sexy time”, you know that she talks about it in those words with her I guess affair partner
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StrangersInTheNight posted:oh my god you're so old and white and the things you thing of as scandalous (or even mattering) are really so loving harmless. oh no a colorful van! nazis seem to be big fans of tattoos to me so I don't know what being down on the concept has to do with supporting white supremacy
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AITA for kicking out the mother of my deceased husband out of the house she gave us?u/housewifesit87 posted:So my husband (would be 37 now) and me (35) have been married for 10 years before he passed away. During this time his mother decided to "give" her house to us (she changed the property owner from herself to my late husband legally), but she still lived with us. I did not want to live with his mother, but the house was big and my husband said its better than renting a small appartment in the city when we have kids. Haha wow
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cock hero flux posted:nazis seem to be big fans of tattoos to me so I don't know what being down on the concept has to do with supporting white supremacy The difference is 
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I was going to say that the passionate hugging was an euphemism for loving.
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cock hero flux posted:nazis seem to be big fans of tattoos to me so I don't know what being down on the concept has to do with supporting white supremacy the legitimacy politics of upper class white culture are also the very same legitimacy politics of white supremacy. there's a lot of reasons for this, but mostly it comes down to 'we will allow monstrosity as long as it is couched in politeness'. So for example: My father is a white supremacist but denies it. An upper class white man who grew up in the South during Civil Rights, he thinks that the Civil Rights activists were the 'real bullies'. He was openly racist when we were kids but since the 90s or so denies this and claims he 'doesn't see race'. My older sister, his daughter, became a skinhead neo-nazi in the late 80s/early 90s Their values were still the same. My father was more ashamed of her displaying her punkish/skinhead nature and being so overt about the very racist values he had instilled in her because it bucked off her class expectations to openly display these beliefs A Good White Person politely denies racism, doncha know. Being so polite is what Makes Us Better. gently caress no it makes us the literal worst, unable to be self-aware or self-critical because we're convinced we're ok bc our behavior is ticking boxes StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 16:12 on Sep 14, 2019 |
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Power Khan posted:I can understand being a slob, but not flushing the toilet? Lol Kind of a popular armchair comment these days but I wouldn't be surprised if she has an executive function condition. I know a few people who don't outwardly make you think "ADHD" but when they are unmedicated they actually behave a lot like this. ADHD people have trouble doing the final steps of a task and make a lot of seemingly "careless" mistakes. It presents very differently in women and basically never gets diagnosed in childhood. Basically if the person is generally a good, not lovely person and they don't correct after 2-3 reminders you should start looking into reasons why instead of assuming they are just lazy/disrespectful. Reminders would help, but those post it notes suck and are condescending. My own journey with ADHD has involved a lot of getting over internalized scolding for screwing up. But a diagnosis isn't an excuse, there are things i still struggle with and others I have nice systems for dealing with now. bus hustler fucked around with this message at 16:11 on Sep 14, 2019 |
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cock hero flux posted:nazis seem to be big fans of tattoos to me so I don't know what being down on the concept has to do with supporting white supremacy Wow I didn't know this I guess me and every rapper ever are just hosed
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Did my (32m) wife (26f) go over board with wedding photos or am I overreacting?quote:Got married a few months ago. Been together for a while. She’s an only child so her parents went far and above with the wedding. Loved it overall.
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Malachite_Dragon posted:NTA, but at the risk of sounding callous, keeping the old engagement ring there might be hindering your moving on. The new guy is a dick for feeling threatened by the dead guy, but he's also not entirely wrong- at some point, you need to move on. That doesn't mean you forget them, but it's been seven years total. Have a special box made for the ring and put it on the dresser, or something. yea I have a friend who went through a similar thing. Very much not the rear end in a top hat and thankfully her partner was never 'threatened' by a dead dude but there was a point where he and a few of us basically had to go 'maybe it's time to put him behind you and put the ring away?' It's rough to ever tell someone you care for 'hey maybe it's time to stop mourning this person you love' but sometimes people need that kick to realize how long they've been wallowing. Koalas March posted:Wow I didn't know this I guess me and every rapper ever are just hosed can't believe Lil Wayne joined the Aryan Brotherhood
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sexpig by night posted:yea I have a friend who went through a similar thing. Very much not the rear end in a top hat and thankfully her partner was never 'threatened' by a dead dude but there was a point where he and a few of us basically had to go 'maybe it's time to put him behind you and put the ring away?' It's rough to ever tell someone you care for 'hey maybe it's time to stop mourning this person you love' but sometimes people need that kick to realize how long they've been wallowing. I'm getting some unreliable narrator vibes here, she probably overdid it with her public grieving and wallowing on FB and the dude flipped eventually.
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Dancer posted:Did my (32m) wife (26f) go over board with wedding photos or am I overreacting? lol what the gently caress who takes naked wedding photos
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Power Khan posted:I just found out tonight that my (22F) bf (22M) does not fully wash himself when he showers this post finally convinced me. we need to teach showering and wiping your rear end in school parents are to stupid to do it themselves.
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god, everyone knows you’re supposed to do the naked photos with panties on!
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Is bedwetting an acceptable reason to end a relationship?quote:I (26m) have been dating (22f) her for 8 months and she has managed to soak my bed 25 times over this relationship. It has got to the point where it ruins my sleep, the next day, and frankly my performance at work.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Is bedwetting an acceptable reason to end a relationship? Watch as it turns out to be the most roundabout way for her to fulfill her piss fetish
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snergle posted:this post finally convinced me. we need to teach showering and wiping your rear end in school parents are to stupid to do it themselves. Agreed. There was a thing on TV here a while ago, one of those programs where people go to see a doctor about a weird issues, and this guy was all smug about how he thought his dick was getting bigger. Nope, turns out he actually never washed it properly and had some building up of stuff there. 
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Dancer posted:Did my (32m) wife (26f) go over board with wedding photos or am I overreacting? You make it sound like your objection is just that she did it on the day it the wedding. But you can't take naked bridal photos any other day, smart guy!
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for agreeing to have someone else’s baby for them without asking boyfriend? What?! No. Boyfriend is a moron and absolutely doesn’t get a say in this at all. gently caress the boyfriend.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Is bedwetting an acceptable reason to end a relationship? that's about once a week. I wonder if the buried lede here is that she is an alcoholic and she's coming home on friday night so plastered that she pisses the bed
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It's also an acceptable way to end a relationship. It's called a Dear John letter.
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Taima posted:The real tell is that nice restaurants make you pay for the meal when you make the res. If he was anything approaching the type of foodie he’s portraying himself as, he would know that and use it to reinforce his argument that they still need to eat at the fancier spot, as otherwise he would lose the price of the meal. That’s merely a new trend in order to not lose money on cancellations, not a mark of quality. The stars they’re referring to aren’t Michelin, many other rating systems function on a five star range as hotels often are.
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I woke up to a knife at my testicles This morning I awoke with a knife pressed against my scrotum. The girl I have been dating for three weeks now slept over for the first time. Since meeting her she warned me that if I ever cheat on her she will slice off my balls and that if I leave her she will kill me. I honestly thought she was joking because she giggled after that and said “my god ease up!” Same this as this morning. When I panic and started sweating and begged her not to do anything she laughed and brought the knife down and said “look at your face! I had you! Hahaha” I don’t know if this was a joke or not but if so WTF?
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MAKE NO BABBYS posted:What?! No. Boyfriend is a moron and absolutely doesn’t get a say in this at all. gently caress the boyfriend. I mean, he doesn't but you should probably give someone a heads up
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Three Olives posted:I'm saying getting a trashy tattoo on a prominent part of your body is going to reflect on the image you present to society and your spouse is entitled to an opinion on that and how it relates to their mutual compatibility. So honest question because this is a world I don’t interact with very much: what’s worse for a male lawyer at a high-profile firm these days, being married to a woman with a tattoo or weird fashion sense, or being married to another man?
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