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I know that the carpet would be wrecked by paint regardless but lol at a parent of a 4 1/2 year old specifically having white carpet installed
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 15:47 |
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augias posted:"he wont do anything" lol. Hes a five yr old, he'll do anything and everything you dont want them to do.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 15:48 |
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Leon Einstein posted:The answer is easy for computer science nerd. Do literally anything else besides watching anime and playing video games for fun. Also, stop acting like studying computer science is your defining characteristic. The thing is, if he was genuinely a "computer science nerd" that would be a legitimate interest and would put him in contact with other people with a shared passion. But he seems to call himself that because he once built a gaming rig and downloads codecs for his anime collection.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 15:53 |
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AITA for leaving my girlfriend alone in the ER to go workout?quote:This is not a shitpost and I feel I already know the answer. My girlfriend asked me to drive her to the ER for what we are assuming is pneumonia. When we pulled up the parking lot was packed and I realized we would probably be there awhile so I mentioned I could probably run to the gym to lift while she waited to be seen. She didn’t say anything and just kept walking. MUH GAINZ BRO!!!! I DIDN'T WANNA LOSE MUH GAINZ DUE TO MUH WOMMIN!
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 16:14 |
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Are you going to be mad? You can't be angry if you don't say so right now! (Leaves Bro-shaped cloud of dust in his wake)
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:10 |
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Kuros posted:MUH GAINZ BRO!!!! I DIDN'T WANNA LOSE MUH GAINZ DUE TO MUH WOMMIN! She hasn’t indicated that she’s mad in any way but as we all know you can’t trust women to express their feelings clearly, those slippery dames will say one thing and do another!
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:21 |
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Shouldn’t the guilt be enough of an indicator that he’s an rear end in a top hat? It’s not like the girlfriend wanted to be in the ER. It’s like people don’t grasp that simple concept.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:24 |
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Getting emergency treatment for pneumonia: just another womanly frivolity
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:27 |
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Straight White Shark posted:I know that the carpet would be wrecked by paint regardless but lol at a parent of a 4 1/2 year old specifically having white carpet installed The amount of reddit threads over "I said I am/am not responsible for the actions of a child am I wrong?" is amazing. Its a mix of parent's trying to dodge responsibility for their terrible child or another adult asking if they are expected to be responsible for someone elses child.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:29 |
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Motronic posted:I [19F] was just informed of my boyfriend's [19M] multiple personalities. Please help. [new] This gone? Dang.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 17:43 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, but what if you lived there? You'd just never enjoy a cold beer again at home? That's something to be sorted out up front, not to agree to and then snipe at. Marriage isn't exactly the same thing, but my non-Jewish dad kept kosher in the home and not when we ate out, and it all worked.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:06 |
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pentyne posted:The amount of reddit threads over "I said I am/am not responsible for the actions of a child am I wrong?" is amazing. Its a mix of parent's trying to dodge responsibility for their terrible child or another adult asking if they are expected to be responsible for someone elses child. This one's a doozy AITA for refusing to pay for thousands for something my child broke? quote:I live in a pretty small town, so if you don't know somebody directly, you're likely to know a person who knows them, and this is pretty much biting me in the rear end right now. Ah yes, the ol 'Blame the already broken mask on the child that came to an open house' hustle. A classic.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:09 |
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AITA for letting my son's friend listen to rap against his moms wishes? quote:My son, Semi, is 11 and in the 6th grade. He has a friend/classmate, Frenchie, that lives in the same neighborhood as us. My SO is friendly with Frenchie's mom. I pick Semi up from school everyday, take him home, then go back to work. Of the 20+ days of school so far, I have also picked up Frenchie around 10 times because his mom texted my SO and asked if I could because she wouldn't be able to for various reasons. I don't mind, its not out of my way, and Frenchie is a good kid who gets along well with Semi. This one spoke to me because I have vivid memories of my dad blasting 2001 out when I was like 6 and my Mum wasn't in the car.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:10 |
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LadyPictureShow posted:This one's a doozy Shouldn’t homeowner’s insurance cover that?
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:18 |
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Why would you expect a 4-year old, much less a unsupervised 4 year old to come to your open house? To be honest I was pretty horrified when my mother brought my 4 year old niece over because our house is full of child hazards with expensive breakable items accessible to children.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:24 |
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Whorelord posted:AITA for letting my son's friend listen to rap against his moms wishes? If your "services" are no longer needed you should send an invoice for the "services" rendered and not yet paid for.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:25 |
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Dazerbeams posted:Shouldn’t homeowner’s insurance cover that? Who wants to make a claim on their insurance when they know who broke it? Also, if you bring a kid to an open house, you'd better have them on a tight leash.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:27 |
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Arcturas posted:If your "services" are no longer needed you should send an invoice for the "services" rendered and not yet paid for. Kinda suspecting the Mom was paying for it, directly to the guy's wife, who never told him, so he thinks it's just a favor. Talk about a hustle!
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:31 |
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Dazerbeams posted:Shouldn’t homeowner’s insurance cover that? The mask owners' insurance would probably go after the person who broke its insurance. If it isn't insured, then the owners go after the person responsible, and their insurance will probably cover it. I want to know just how child-proofed they would expect the house to be. Do they think that anyone who has an open house would have to have child-locks on all their cabinets? What if the kid decided to wander into the kitchen and drink some bleach instead? Or got into a liquor cabinet and got into the whiskey? Or just pulled on a tablecloth and got brained by a bowl? I don't have any kids, but I'd think the assumption if you go into anyone's house that you don't know is that the house isn't childproofed at all.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:32 |
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Does houseowner insurance in the (presumably) US normally even cover pieces of art above a certain amount?
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:36 |
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Randler posted:Does houseowner insurance in the (presumably) US normally even cover pieces of art above a certain amount? Mine (any policies I've had) doesn't. It's quite minimal on things like jewelry, art, camera equipments, electronics. If you have something out of the ordinary you typically need to name it in the policy or have a rider.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:38 |
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Randler posted:Does houseowner insurance in the (presumably) US normally even cover pieces of art above a certain amount? Depends, for a rare, incredibly expensive piece of art, no, you need a special policy. But for a common, easy to value piece of art in the low 4 figures, yes, especially if you have a receipt and aren't trying to argue it has greatly appreciated in value.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:46 |
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'Semi' lol
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:54 |
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Three Olives posted:Why would you expect a 4-year old, much less a unsupervised 4 year old to come to your open house? People love making jokes about child leashes but I've heard stories from people how they use a leash because if they turn away for 1 second their 2-5 year old would full sprint towards a pile of broken glass and dirty needles and jump it it without thinking. Small children can in the space of 5 seconds either break anything or accidently kill themselves. Saying "oh I just took my eye off for a few minutes" should be evidence of personal responsibilty for the child's action. Kids breaking things is as old as time and whoever is directly in charge of that child bears primary responsibility.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 18:58 |
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I would keep a tighter leash on my kid in someone else's home, but who leaves fragile, multi-thousand dollar art pieces sitting on the dining room table during an open house where strangers are going to be poking around their house?
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:00 |
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therobit posted:who leaves fragile, multi-thousand dollar art pieces sitting on the dining room table during an open house where strangers are going to be poking around their house? The people from the story. Why would you expect it to get hosed with?
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:03 |
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therobit posted:I would keep a tighter leash on my kid in someone else's home, but who leaves fragile, multi-thousand dollar art pieces sitting on the dining room table during an open house where strangers are going to be poking around their house? Someone trying to increase the perceived value of the house they are attempting to sell
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:04 |
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kru posted:'Semi' lol Taking my hip hop-loving son, Half-Mast, to an open house because the babysitter cancelled. He has an iPod to keep himself entertained but the house rule for singing along in public is "no hard Rs"
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:06 |
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Araenna posted:I want to know just how child-proofed they would expect the house to be. Do they think that anyone who has an open house would have to have child-locks on all their cabinets? What if the kid decided to wander into the kitchen and drink some bleach instead? Or got into a liquor cabinet and got into the whiskey? Or just pulled on a tablecloth and got brained by a bowl? I don't have any kids, but I'd think the assumption if you go into anyone's house that you don't know is that the house isn't childproofed at all. Children are like vampires, in that once they have been invited in, the parents can't be blamed for anything the kid does. You knew they had kids, so really it's your own fault, kind of.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:19 |
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therobit posted:I would keep a tighter leash on my kid in someone else's home, but who leaves fragile, multi-thousand dollar art pieces sitting on the dining room table during an open house where strangers are going to be poking around their house? It wasn't dangling precariously on a ledge, it was displayed in a generally safe location as one does with art by someone that does not expect uncontrolled children to be destroying things in their house. Would you let a 4 year old run unsupervised around your house without fear of an expensive accident or injured child?
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:20 |
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Look, you left your TV right out in the living room, it isn't my fault my kid threw a brick into it.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:23 |
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Leon Einstein posted:The people from the story. Why would you expect it to get hosed with? "A bunch of strangers are gonna be stomping through my house. Better put out the valuable, easily stashed in a bag or jacket, art pieces." literally the first Google result for "open house tips" posted:Remove items that can be pocketed easily — jewelry, prescription medications, cellphones, tablets, figurines, memorabilia and treasured knickknacks. Thieves like to target open houses and estate sales. If the lady's realtor can make an EEG twitch, she would have warned her against having valuables out for the grabbing. OP should ask to see a bill of sale or appraisal before she thinks of handing over money.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:33 |
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I think the reason so many parents flip their poo poo on the other person when their kid does something unexpected and/or bad is that they see the kid as an extension of themselves (which is normal to an extent I guess), they think they know what goes on inside the kid's head at all times (usually lollipops but not always) and they've been comfortably living a predictable, relatively uneventful life up until the kid was conceived. So when the kid acts out (or even just acts really, as kids are wont to do) its showing that, no, you don't have absolute control over this thing just because you know the secret ritual that makes him eat carrots, and the panic response is to blame others and pretend nothing is wrong with MY household, how dare you, this happened because THEY messed up, my family is pure etc. Denial is the first stage of grief. We've seen this a million times before, the embarrassment caused by the event feels worse in the moment than the event itself and the brain goes into fight or flight. From there it's a matter of processing and eventually deciding on either "Oh Jesus what's wrong with me, I need to apologize" or "Oh Jesus I can't keep up this bluff in the long run, I need a new bluff" E: Not to mention, having to pay for something that was broken outside of your direct control suuuuuuuuucks, regardless of how it happened or why. You just hand over money to someone and get nothing in return. It throws our gratification-saturated brains into a tailspin. Nastyman fucked around with this message at 19:45 on Sep 20, 2019 |
# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:38 |
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Might have been a FSBO. That would also explain the compulsion to use an expensive item rather than a prop.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:38 |
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Leon Einstein posted:Yeah, but what if you lived there? You'd just never enjoy a cold beer again at home? I've never enjoyed a cold beer, at home or away. Alcohol makes me really sick. And yeah, if I knew about it beforehand, definitely.
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:40 |
Clitch posted:"A bunch of strangers are gonna be stomping through my house. Better put out the valuable, easily stashed in a bag or jacket, art pieces." Quite bold for a thief to walk in unmasked and leave with an art piece mask donned. Not conspicuous at all
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:41 |
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Take a guess. Or don't, cause its quite racist AITA - Creative word coinage that many would find offensive. Racist? Yeah... but are we assholes. quote:I recently touched base with an old friend. His ethnic background is Mexican, but his family probably lived in Texas before white people moved west. I am 6th generation Texas German on one side and 3rd generation east coast Italian on the other. So super, super white, and my buddy is obviously of Mexican extract with a medium complexion. We've know each other almost 20 years, but can go months between catch ups. Its been nine months since we last touched base, but we used to shoot pool weekly for years. We talk about politics, sex, religion. *edit: Yeah, this was a terrible post and I definitely should not have repeated the racist slur. I'm sorry. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST) DemoneeHo fucked around with this message at 17:20 on Sep 21, 2019 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Take a guess. Or don't, cause its quite racist Something tells me this guy is not actually interested in knowing whether or not he's an rear end in a top hat!
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# ? Sep 20, 2019 19:59 |
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kru posted:'Semi' lol It could be short for Semiramis, which is Assyrian and popular enough in Turkey that I have had two Turkish students with that name. Both of them went by either Semi (Semee) or Rami (Ramee).
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I'm [23M] starting to feel like I'm becoming reckless with my relationshipsquote:In the last two months I've severed quite a few relationships and I don't know if I'm being reasonable at all. He gets so close to figuring it out then just veers right into "It's their fault."
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