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Chomp8645 posted:I am drawing a direct equivalency? How? One is a specific event. The other is general concept. Men don't have their bodily autonomy put up for public debate. When a man tells his doctor how he feels, the doctor believes him. There's no equivalent to "hysterical" for men.
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Chomp8645 posted:I am drawing a direct equivalency? How? One is a specific event. The other is general concept. fellow goon i do not think you see how different "manchild" is from a woman's body constantly being assaulted in TYOOL 2019
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Nov 8, 2019 21:02
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AITA for defending my brother for introducing himself to our grandmother?quote:*throwaway*/fake names
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Nov 8, 2019 21:03
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I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the tripquote:Old friend of mines Mike is looking for apartments around Los Angeles. I figured it’d be a good opportunity for us to take a trip together, so I booked a flight and Airbnb for when he’d be looking around.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:03
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Admiral Ray posted:I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the trip Call him Pedo Guy for the rest of the trip
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Nov 8, 2019 21:06
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Admiral Ray posted:I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the trip Elon Musk worshippers are as bad as the Nikola Tesla nerds. Except Musk is still alive to continue to create a steady stream of dumb poo poo for them to defend.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:08
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I can't even guess with this one. Brain tumor?AITA for being mad that my husband did the one thing I asked him not to do? posted:My husband has this irritating habit where he hears me say what I do not want and then does that exact thing, and then gets mad at me when I’m not appreciative.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:08
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TheScott2K posted:Be sure and put this in the manifesto you leave behind when you shoot up a yoga studio someday  quote:Mike then insists that Elon Musk is such a genius that he must’ve KNOWN that the man was a child rapist. because as a wealthy man he has the resources to uncover those secrets and it’s unlikely he would make such a severe baseless accusation. lol
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Nov 8, 2019 21:09
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for cutting my daughters hair? Yes, you are. Your insistence that you own your daughter's appearance and that everything she does with it must meet your approval or be destroyed is what caused all of this. Let the girl do something fun with her hair like she wants to and stop stifling her, your overreaction to the hair dying is what caused the entire issue. Better back off before you daughter actually hates you for good, because that's the direction this is going. And if you have doubts about the Mormon religion why are you even forcing your daughter to go to church and forcing her to meet the standards of old bigoted church people? Fkn lame imo Admiral Ray posted:I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the trip gently caress El*n M*sk and gently caress your dumb friends. Terminal case of billionaire-worship brain worms
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Nov 8, 2019 21:11
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extremely online posted:I can't even guess with this one. Brain tumor? Not victim blaming, but if this ALWAYS happens, maybe she should have left a note on the pile instead of assuming the method that always fails would work this time. My wife has a thing where she always says the exact thing she's trying not to say.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:14
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Play posted:And if you have doubts about the Mormon religion why are you even forcing your daughter to go to church and forcing her to meet the standards of old bigoted church people? Fkn lame imo
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Nov 8, 2019 21:15
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AITA for leaving my car profanely vandalized? A month ago, I parked in a spot on a public road (the street I live on) that someone had tried to save for themselves using a folding chair. I usually won't do that but it was the only spot left. Anyway the next Monday I went to take my car to work and someone had spray painted BITCH across the whole side of my car. I went to the cops and it wasn't too hard to figure out what dumbass did it, a few neighbors knew who always put the chair out to save the spot, and figured it was them. A neighbors doorbell camera feed proved it. I got a $1200 settlement for the damages, and decided not to use it to fix my car because my car's a $2500 junker that I'm planning on replacing within the year anyway. I instead got my boyfriend who's office has a vinyl sticker printer to print me a big red sticker saying BAD, and another that's a "censoring" exclamation point and I put it on my car so it reads BAD B!TCH now. My friends and coworkers think it's funny, I work in a trade where much cruder stuff gets tossed around every day so it's nbd driving it to work. If anything I've gotten more respect for driving my "bad bitchmobile" around But I've heard from other neighbors that it's... Pissing off my neighbor that did it, because it's reminding him I took his money and didn't do poo poo to fix my car Annoying a dad who lives on the street because he doesn't want kids seeing it Annoying a couple other people who think ot makes our area look trashy AITA for not covering up my vandalized car, and taking humor from it instead?
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Nov 8, 2019 21:18
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SirSamVimes posted:Not really, this one just seems like an rear end in a top hat. rodbeard posted:Nah that's just normal lovely dad behavior except with nerdy hobbies instead of sports. Notice how he thinks trying to relate to his daughters in any way will feminize him. I was thinking that but then she mentioned how he "randomly got really into hiking" and it felt like he was displaying perseverative interests.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:18
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Power Khan posted:AITA for leaving my car profanely vandalized? hell yeah, you're a bad b!tch and this proves it, gently caress your idiot neighbours, and gently caress the idiot that vandalized your car who is now salty about it
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Nov 8, 2019 21:21
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Johnny Truant posted:hell yeah, you're a bad b!tch and this proves it, gently caress your idiot neighbours, and gently caress the idiot that vandalized your car who is now salty about it she's the goodest bitch, really
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Nov 8, 2019 21:22
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extremely online posted:I can't even guess with this one. Brain tumor? She's a hoarder
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Power Khan posted:AITA for leaving my car profanely vandalized? lol this rules. Really living up to the label!
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Nov 8, 2019 21:23
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Admiral Ray posted:I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the trip Elon Musk fanboys are basically all like this, they will never stop having their egos hurt when you suggest that maybe it's a bad choice to call someone a pedophile for saving a bunch of children trapped in a cave, or maybe the solution to vehicle traffic isn't digging tunnels between all of the houses that you can drive through slowly, or that maybe astronomers know more about observational astronomy than an egotistical billionaire who owns a hobby telescope. They always fall back to the same N-dimensional chess poo poo that Trumpists and QAnon people like to lean on, ignoring reality in favor of some Tony Stark narrative they've built in their head
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Nov 8, 2019 21:23
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QuarkJets posted:Elon Musk fanboys are basically all like this, they will never stop having their egos hurt when you suggest that maybe it's a bad choice to call someone a pedophile for saving a bunch of children trapped in a cave, or maybe the solution to vehicle traffic isn't digging tunnels between all of the houses that you can drive through slowly, or that maybe astronomers know more about observational astronomy than an egotistical billionaire who owns a hobby telescope Excuse me have you considered that he has a lot of money???
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Nov 8, 2019 21:24
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Nov 8, 2019 21:25
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Admiral Ray posted:I [M28] had a stupid argument with friend [M28] I’m on vacation with (plus his gf [F28]). Feel trapped with this poo poo vibe for the rest of the trip This guy is like the people on certain subreddits who analyze every gaffe, embarrassment, and defeat Trump suffers as if he's playing three-dimensional chess and we're all going to see the genius of his overall plan any day now, and all the haters are just playing into it.
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AITA for wanting my fiancée to wear a pair of earrings that once belonged to my deceased mother on our wedding day? I’m [32M] getting married in 4 months. My fiancée [28F] and I have known each other for the past 12 years. She’s my best friend and my soulmate. My mother passed when I was 3 years old. I barely remember her at all. I don’t have much of my immediate family anymore. My father, brother, and young nephew all died in the past 5 years. It’s been really difficult. After my mother died, she left a lot of clothes, jewelry, and other valuables in her will. I inherited some jewelry, including a pair of gorgeous diamond earrings. Yesterday, I showed the pair to my fiancée, and told her it would mean a lot if she wore them on our wedding day. My fiancée said she understood why she wanted me to wear them, but that she had already decided to wear a pair of earrings that her parents had custom-made for her. I told her that it would just mean a lot to me. But she said, “It’s just not feasible, and honestly would kind of weird me out.” I was hurt, and said, “You don’t know what it’s like to lose family.” She got upset and accused me of emotionally manipulating her in order to get my way. I don’t think I did, though. AITA?
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AITA? I faked a girl's hospital trip to teach my son a lesson? My son had a bad habit of starting online fights with other kids and sometimes older teens/young adults. It was mostly just kinda playful ribbing until either person took it a step too far and it became just vulgar "I F-ed your mom/relative" stuff. I saw it and told him to cut it out, and if someone took it too far to just walk away. It slowly came back in the form of "roasting" girl's photos without permission. Basically just calling them a name or comparing them to something or someone he deems undesirable. By that time I sat him down and told him that's not how you treat people, and girls at school aren't going to want to be around him if he kept doing it. The "roasting" stopped for a few months until this school year when a new girl who I was told had quite a high opinion of her looks despite not being very attractive joined his school. He and a handful of his classmates began to taunt her pretty badly. I took his phone from him about a week before I hatched my plan. It came to my attention he was still harassing her in school. On the way home I told him my own bullying experience and the very real risk that she could do something horrible to herself if he and those other people kept at it. It seemed like I was getting through to him but he let it slip that he didn't think he could stop taunting her because it made him cool with his friends. They apparently hailed him as the "roast master", just a cringey name for bully. I got really fed up of him doing this poo poo. Since the idea of the girl hurting herself seemed to scare him, I waited until the weekend to "break the news." At breakfast on Saturday I sat him down very seriously and told him that the girl he had "roasted" had been hospitalized, and the cops think it was intentional. He was pretty quick to tear up and say that he was sorry. I told him that he shouldn't have taunted her the way he did and I asked him about how she must have felt to want to do something like that. About an hour and a half later and a very serious talk, I thought it was time to reveal that she was okay. I told him that it wasn't real and he had a pretty mixed reaction. Mad at me of course for doing something douchey like that but relieved that he hadn't contributed to a classmate hurting themselves. When he got back to school he told his friends to lay off and explained what had happened. While I do believe she still got some grief from students it wasn't nearly as bad. Him and that girl are not friends by any means but he said sorry to her and they appear to be okay. I feel pretty bad about what I did but I didn't see much of another option. He's got his phone back now and I'm proud to say he uses it much more responsibly now minus a few road bumps. I can't help put still feel bad about how distressed he was but who knows, maybe it did save a kids life? So yeah, am I the rear end in a top hat?
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Nov 8, 2019 21:32
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TheScott2K posted:LMAO This is really unnecessary and makes you look like a baby.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA? I faked a girl's hospital trip to teach my son a lesson? Sometimes you need to be an rear end in a top hat.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:38
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house of the dad posted:This is really unnecessary and makes you look like a baby. Turn on your monitor
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Beachcomber posted:Sometimes you need to be an rear end in a top hat. I wish the parents of my school bullies had done something like this, it would have saved me the trouble of having to punch them in the mouth. I'm sure they would have appreciated that not happening too.
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Nov 8, 2019 21:43
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Power Khan posted:AITA for leaving my car profanely vandalized? I wish I was a bad enough bitch to get my car vandalized
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Sometimes you gotta Ghost of Christmas Future your children if you want them to be better people.
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Dazerbeams posted:Sometimes you gotta Ghost of Christmas Future your children if you want them to be better people. Reminded me of the older siblings who made a tombstone for their kid brother who called their mom a bitch 
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TheScott2K posted:Turn on your monitor Heh, nice one, roast master!
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my fiancée to wear a pair of earrings that once belonged to my deceased mother on our wedding day? If the earrings mean that much to him I don't see why he can't wear them himself.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my fiancée to wear a pair of earrings that once belonged to my deceased mother on our wedding day? She gets final say, but what the gently caress does she mean by "It's just not feasible."?
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Probably that her parents had already custom-made earrings just for her just for the day, so anything else wasn't an option. Anyway, use them as cufflinks, problem solved
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Beachcomber posted:She gets final say, but what the gently caress does she mean by "It's just not feasible."? Guessing mom had bad taste in earrings.
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This was a plot line for the Simpsons so sever
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extremely online posted:With childbirth everyones M always Vs, which is why women should be encouraged to listen to their bodies and everyone else should be encouraged to listen to what women say about their bodies. While I agree 100% that a woman's body is hers and hers alone, this is really stupid logic in this scenario because she isn't listening to her body and is endangering the life of her child and herself solely because she wants to have a certain nebulous experience that no one should actually have under adequate care in 2019. Not to mention creating an incredibly convoluted mess for her husband to pick up for literally no reason except she feels like it. Awesome. Like, yeah, I'm sure it will turn out fine for her... but why create wholly unnecessary problems in an already stressful situation? Just hire a doula for a home birth if she wants a more personal experience on her own terms. Also please never use the term "listening to her body" ever again because that's pseudoscience bullshit for the ignorant. Are you going to talk about grilling a placenta for postpartum nutrition next? 
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for wanting my fiancée to wear a pair of earrings that once belonged to my deceased mother on our wedding day? Own your actions. You are trying to emotionally manipulate her. Humans do it all the time. When I tell shopkeepers that their product is an insult to my entire family, I am emotionally manipulating them. When I stare down the cops in a psychic battle I am emotionally manipulating them. The world doesn't exist except as a vessel for our emotions, and the strongest ones win. She has already won this battle and here you are groveling at the feet of reddit. Just loving  and leave buddy. You don't have what it takes to build a strong and healthy relationship backed by mutually assured destruction.
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