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Smirking_Serpent posted:Me [21 M] and my [19 F] girlfriend had sexual relationship with my [47 M/] Stepfather and have no clue how to repair...anything
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Smirking_Serpent posted:Me [21 M] and my [19 F] girlfriend had sexual relationship with my [47 M/] Stepfather and have no clue how to repair...anything Don't bother repairing, just get a new one (both stepdad and gf).
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Nov 9, 2019 20:37
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my husband that I regret marrying him and I'm only staying for our child? Of course she should loving leave him wtf? CPS is going to take their kid from the both of them if she knowingly stays with a guy who neglected their child like this. Also if she stays with him "for their child" her child will be miserable and put in danger on a regular basis since you can't exactly supervise your spouse 24/7. And she will resent the kid for staying and at that point might as well get an account on the estranged parent forum.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:16
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AITA for going through my wife’s phone? Recently my wife admitted to me that she wanted a mmf experience. I wasn’t hurt but I wanted to know who she had in mind. So I entertained the idea long enough to find out who it was. She wants one of my close friends involved. I’ve known the guy since high school and we were roommates at one point. I thought we were really cool friends. I wanted to know what was going on to get to the point that she wanted to sleep with him. So I went through her phone while she was sleeping, as she keeps it on the kitchen counter and accessible. First checked her gallery, any sexual photos I saw were ones that were for me and I couldn’t link them through the messages they had between each other. So a little sigh of relief. Then I throughly checked their messages between each other. They had confessed they had previously had feelings for one another years ago when my wife and I were just dating and both also admitted to wanting to cheat together at the same point in time. The timeline of the messages, from the confessions, span a couple weeks. Most are innocent about wanting to play fortnite or Minecraft together but quite a few are blatant flirting. Talking about him being naked, how hot she’d look in certain lingerie, doing boob shots, playing drunk stripping games. Talking about how hot it was that she’s curious about women and how tempted he’d be if something were to happen in front of him. Seriously this was one of my ride or die friends. I thought my wife had my back from day one. I know I have my own faults when it comes to being a husband. Hell I even finally admitted to myself I need counseling and went saw a counselor today (11/08) so I can get better. After telling her I went so I can get better she had the audacity to tell me that she’s proud and loves me for going while she’s been flirting with my friend.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:18
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The timeline of the messages, from the confessions, span a couple weeks. Most are innocent about wanting to play fortnite or Minecraft together but quite a few are blatant flirting.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:22
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Power Khan posted:AITA for going through my wife’s phone? I don’t understand the question.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:22
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Although I will give her points for a pretty inventive way of cheating.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:23
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My Boyfriend Was Told He Would Get Murdered If He Visited Mequote:TL;DR! My boyfriend received advice from a psychic that if he visited me, he would die. Somebody's autocorrect is set from "psycho" to "psychic"
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Nov 9, 2019 21:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for telling my husband that I regret marrying him and I'm only staying for our child? The Nice Guy wore her down.
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Nov 9, 2019 21:41
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La Brea Carpet posted:My Boyfriend Was Told He Would Get Murdered If He Visited Me
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Nov 9, 2019 21:50
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Is it possible that this thread has slowed down a bit
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Nov 9, 2019 22:02
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Sjs00 posted:Is it possible that this thread has slowed down a bit The weekends are generally slower. The weekdays can be wild though. I’ve gone to bed at 1am and when I wake up 8 hours later there are like 100+ new posts.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:06
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Yeah, most people are busier on the weekends with family/friends/sleeping/etc and many of us have plenty of time to kill during our workdays, which leads to significantly more posting volume in this thread and all over SA.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:11
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AITA for not wanting my wife to have friends over to watch Harry Styles on SNL? I (25 M) live with my wife (25 F) in a small house. We both have friends over pretty regularly, so that’s not the issue. She’s a huge fan of One Direction, particularly Harry Styles. We have two different pieces of art featuring him in our home, one poster in our bedroom and his face superimposed on Jesus above our back door (the latter is mostly a joke). I’m not a fan, but I’m glad she has something she likes I guess. Next week, Harry Styles is the host and musical guest on SNL. My wife has repeatedly insisted that we have her friends over to watch the episode. I’m not the jealous type, but it does make me uncomfortable how intensely she fawns over him. I don’t want to further enable that behavior since it makes me feel insecure. The last time she suggested we host a viewing party, I playfully replied that I feel uncomfortable watching “her boyfriend” on SNL, and she told me I’m being childish since she has no real chance with him. I told her she can obviously make her own decisions with inviting friends over, but I won’t be present for the viewing party. AITA?
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Nov 9, 2019 22:12
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not wanting my wife to have friends over to watch Harry Styles on SNL? He’s obviously insecure but she sounds like an exhausting super fan so I can see how that might wear someone down. She probably writes fan fiction with him in it too.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:15
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not wanting my wife to have friends over to watch Harry Styles on SNL? Looking forward to the update where Harry Styles comes out of the TV and fucks his wife in front of him and all his friends.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:16
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MarcusSA posted:The weekends are generally slower. plus we weren't allowed to have a 5 page debate on how it would be a reasonable choice to play "A Skull Full of Maggots" at my wedding
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Nov 9, 2019 22:16
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oh I forgot I work a manual labor job 6 days a week silly me
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Nov 9, 2019 22:22
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AITA for refusing to text my girlfriend during a funeral?quote:My (24M) girlfriend (20F) is at her aunt’s funeral (rip) with her family.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:22
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AITA for not helping my teenage son fight a DUI charge? I have two children, a son who's a current high school senior and a daughter who's a sophomore in college. When they were first learning how to drive, I made it very clear to them that driving is a privilege, not a right, and they have a responsibility to themselves, their passengers, and everyone else on the road to be safe drivers. I explained that texting while driving and drunk driving are unacceptable, and that if they're ever in a situation where they don't think they can get home safely, they need to call me and I will come pick them up, no questions asked. Well, my son recently got pulled over coming back from a party, and the officer smelled alcohol on his breath and made him take a breathalyzer test. He blew a .15, nearly twice the legal limit, and was charged with DUI. I'm beyond disappointed in him and in his poor decision-making. I thought I raised him better than this. I asked him why he didn't call me for a ride home and he said he didn't think he had drunk enough to be impaired. Because he turned 18 three days before this happened, he was charged as an adult and a conviction will go on his permanent record. My wife is insisting that we need to get our son a good lawyer and try to get the charge pleaded down. She's concerned it will hurt his chances of getting into college and medical school and cause him problems professionally down the line. There's also a possibility he could see some jail time with a BAC this high. A good defense attorney would be expensive, and while we could technically afford it, I don't want to send my son the message that this kind of behavior is okay. There's also no guarantee that an attorney can get the charge reduced. I think my son needs to take responsibility for what he did, and if that means not getting into his top choice of college or spending a few days in jail, it's an important and valuable lesson worth learning. My wife strongly disagrees and says she's also disappointed in the choices he made, but we need to protect his future. AITA?
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Nov 9, 2019 22:23
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This thread is primarily my coping mechanism for work, yes.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:26
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not helping my teenage son fight a DUI charge? Kinda conflicted on this one. .15 is pretty high and the kid is a loving moron but I dunno if fixing it would enable more bad behavior.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:27
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not helping my teenage son fight a DUI charge? Nope, not even close.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:28
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not helping my teenage son fight a DUI charge? While his son's an incredible dumbass (.15 is really high!), he shouldn't be forced to ruin his life over a very bad decision he made at age 18. He's a kid and kids are dumb as balls. He's allowed to get a second chance and turn it around while he's still so young. On the other hand, maybe teach the kid a lesson because .15 is stupidly drunk and he should have known better than to drive. Tough call.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:33
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:While his son's an incredible dumbass (.15 is really high!), he shouldn't be forced to ruin his life over a very bad decision he made at age 18. He's a kid and kids are dumb as balls. He's allowed to get a second chance and turn it around while he's still so young. Drunk driving is potential murder. And that excuse had been given to white boys far too often.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:36
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not helping my teenage son fight a DUI charge? Get it plead down to a wet reckless charge. It'll cost about $10k and he'll have to go to clown college for it. Bill your son for it and add interest. If he doesn't pay you back in a timely manner break his pinky toe and tell him Fat Dean is looking for his loving money. The most offensive thing about this is that he's a moron. In the age of Uber and Lyft drunk driving is just incredibly stupid. Back before they understood alcohol is actually made up of tiny creatures that eat your brain cells and made you wave your hands all the time it was somewhat understandable, but now it's just shameful.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:37
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:he shouldn't be forced to ruin his life over a very bad decision he made at age 18. Lol nobody's forcing him to do poo poo, he made an extremely reckless move and SHOULD go to jail for it.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:43
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Admiral Ray posted:Get it plead down to a wet reckless charge. It'll cost about $10k and he'll have to go to clown college for it. Bill your son for it and add interest. If he doesn't pay you back in a timely manner break his pinky toe and tell him Fat Dean is looking for his loving money. I just want to say your shitposts always make me smile.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:43
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Nov 9, 2019 22:49
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My (24F) boyfriend (27M) keeps constantly saying 'vibe check' and it is seriously negatively effecting my loving 'vibe'quote:Hello. My boyfriend spends a lot of time on the computer, obviously, and his mind honestly sometimes seems like a permeable vessel for whatever language he picks up on there. This is sometimes sweet and endearing, but here it is not.
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Nov 9, 2019 22:53
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (24F) boyfriend (27M) keeps constantly saying 'vibe check' and it is seriously negatively effecting my loving 'vibe' It's like 'ping' for people who lack empathy so need to be told which emotional schema to use?
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Nov 9, 2019 23:10
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"help, my significant other has a new habit that I find really annoying but I haven't told them I find it annoying and instead am stewing in constant simmering anger while they are utterly oblivious, is there some simple language-based solution to this seemingly impossible conundrum?"
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Nov 9, 2019 23:14
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Beachcomber posted:It's like 'ping' for people who lack empathy so need to be told which emotional schema to use? She should ping him on Skype and tell him she has something she needs to discuss with him offline.
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Nov 9, 2019 23:18
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cumshitter posted:I remember when my wife went into labor. It was part of the GI Joe movie when Cobra Commander turned into a snake in the Arctic while looking for Cobra-La. I started crying, then I noticed my wife had been nudging me and telling me her water broke. She told me everything would be OK, we would get through this together, and I told her to shut up because she was interrupting the movie. Gonna call you out here cumshitter: don't you think that if you had actually supported your wife if only to ensure a powerful gay presence in the delivery room then maybe, just maybe, the tragic path your child's life took could have been avoided?
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Nov 9, 2019 23:18
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Nastyman posted:Looking forward to the update where Harry Styles comes out of the TV and fucks his wife in front of him and all his friends. Dear TV Guide, I never thought it could happen to me, Breetai posted:Gonna call you out here cumshitter: don't you think that if you had actually supported your wife if only to ensure a powerful gay presence in the delivery room then maybe, just maybe, the tragic path your child's life took could have been avoided? Actually, it was Cobra Commander's shrill, feminine voice and mannerisms that helped me become the gay man I am today. I have the GI Joe movie to thank for that. It's also why I named my son Cobra Commander when my ex-wife was passed out after labor.
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Nov 9, 2019 23:44
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Pinecone Sample posted:My (24F) boyfriend (27M) keeps constantly saying 'vibe check' and it is seriously negatively effecting my loving 'vibe' Your boyfriend is a Pokemon named Vibe Check.
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Nov 9, 2019 23:49
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not wanting my wife to have friends over to watch Harry Styles on SNL? Oof
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Nov 10, 2019 00:05
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for choosing college football over my girlfriends birthday? I really hope this guy is drunk and deflated and not at his ex's birthday right now Edit ah gently caress I forgot he said he was an LSU fan, he was just a Bama man in my mind
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Nov 10, 2019 00:20
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For a 160lb man to blow a .15, he'd have needed to have drunk 4 "standard" drinks, which amounts to three quarters of a bottle of wine assuming no time to process any of it (so probably more than an entire bottle over the course of the evening). That is loving druuuuuuunk, even the regular US limit is pretty high and he was at double that. Throw him to the loving wolves.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA For changing my shirt in my seat on a flight? Not an rear end in a top hat for this specifically, but someone who does this is only few steps away from taking off your shoes and socks on a plane, which should be punishable by instant death a la Judge Dredd. I'm watching you closely missy
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