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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [38f] boyfriend [42m] of four years keeps revealing unexpected talents. Was this posted shortly after groundhog day, by any chance?
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Nov 27, 2019 09:29
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yeah no Dave isn’t real, i laughed at “i saw it in a movie” though.
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Nov 27, 2019 09:44
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He learned dancing the same way that guy in Bulletproof Monk learned kung fu
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Nov 27, 2019 09:47
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:just send her to a racing school so they can teach her to left foot brake properly Heel-toe is still your right foot on the brake left foot on the clutch. Ledt foot braking is just wrong
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Nov 27, 2019 12:10
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Dan Roebuck drives with a foot on the gas and a foot on the brakes and he was California Interstate Kendo Champion
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Nov 27, 2019 12:14
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Recycle, my friends. Recycle and re-use Bf found sex toy from previous girl while cleaning and was “thinking” about getting rid of it... as if it’s up for consideration? Bf was cleaning today and found a sex toy from whatever girl he used it with before me. Fine, not a big deal as everyone has a past. The issue is he messaged me about finding it and said “I’m thinking about throwing it out” and still hasn’t- as if we’d have any use for it? Am I overreacting? He used this with another girl so why would I have interest in it? It’s gross to me and weird he’d even consider keeping it
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Nov 27, 2019 12:41
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Power Khan posted:Recycle, my friends. Recycle and re-use But what shape is it? Dog dick? Dragon dick? Giant black dildo? This is important to the choice here.
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Nov 27, 2019 13:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for encouraging my BF to pursue his business idea? Now he's dead broke. I really want to know what the business was. I’m going to guess it was something kind of flashy and cool. No one ever wants to start with something boring but reliable.
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Nov 27, 2019 13:48
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Cythereal posted:The holidays are upon us, and you know what that means: rear end in a top hat relatives! Clothes were the only Christmas gifts I ever got from relatives as a kid.
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Nov 27, 2019 13:56
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Ugly In The Morning posted:I really want to know what the business was. I’m going to guess it was something kind of flashy and cool. No one ever wants to start with something boring but reliable. Soap shoes for cats, so they can grind down furniture around the house
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Nov 27, 2019 14:01
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My boyfriend (28M) is mad at me (25F) for trading pictures of my feet for a steam game?quote:So I used to sell nudes back in the day. My boyfriend has said multiple times he’s not comfortable with this continuing since we’re in a relationship. Which I’m totally okay with.
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Nov 27, 2019 14:04
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I really want to know which game bundle set all this off.
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Nov 27, 2019 14:13
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Walton Simons posted:I really want to know which game bundle set all this off. While we always say this, does it honestly really matter?
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Nov 27, 2019 14:32
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Ghost Leviathan posted:While we always say this, does it honestly really matter? Yes because Steam sales started yesterday and we need to know if she's giving it up for a discount
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Nov 27, 2019 14:40
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If you're torching your relationship, shouldn't you at least get a bit more out of it? Idk what the rates are for custom pics, but 13$ doesn't sound alot.
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Nov 27, 2019 14:41
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DemoneeHo posted:Good for them, screw the other widows. It's like that other story from a few pages back of a widow moving on with her life by dating a friend a year after her husband died. people who wrap their whole identity in the military are nuts in general
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Nov 27, 2019 14:53
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My (33F) husband's family is unwittingly destroying my life, how do I get over it?quote:
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Nov 27, 2019 14:56
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The best (worst?) part of feet pic gamer girl is that she just sent those pictures immediately when asked and was then like «oh! I got money for it» like she didnt’t really expect it and jus sent them because???
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Nov 27, 2019 15:14
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Biplane posted:The best (worst?) part of feet pic gamer girl is that she just sent those pictures immediately when asked and was then like «oh! I got money for it» like she didnt’t really expect it and jus sent them because??? She did it to get back at her boyfriend. The money was incidental. :shh:
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Nov 27, 2019 15:50
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My [F 32] boyfriend's [M 24] YouTube channel is ruining our relationship. Obligatory sorry for formatting because of mobile. So I'd like to keep this as vague as possible for obvious reasons. A few months ago i moved in with my boyfriend. He is loving, sensitive and honestly the best thing that has ever happened to me. Until recently I considered that dating this man was the best decision of my life. However a year or so ago my boyfriend started a prank/vlogging channel on YouTube. At first the videos were harmless. Common "hiding and scaring" videos or just the occasional vlog around town. However, now the pranking aspect has gone a little overboard. The pranks have went from mostly harmless to giving me toothpaste filled Oreos or drawing on my face while I sleep. I've told him many times how these pranks make me feel but he insists I'm just "being a baby" I decided I had enough the other day when he filmed a prank at Walmart where he pulled my underpants up in public while recording. Ever since we have been arguing. I told him he has to stop doing his pranks or to simply leave me out of it. I'm tired of enabling his pranks all directed towards me. He's also considering quitting his real job to "focus on YouTube". I keep telling him not to. We depend on both of our paychecks to survive but he is insisting he will make it "big" on YouTube. I'm worried.. scared for him and our livelyhood. He did NOT used to be like this.. Am i overreacting about all this? TL;DR my boyfriend runs a prank YouTube channel and they are getting out of control and i dont know what to do.
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Nov 27, 2019 15:56
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [F 32] boyfriend's [M 24] YouTube channel is ruining our relationship.  gently caress prank videos, and gently caress the whole “stop being mad I’m loving with you without your permission, it’s just a prank” attitude.
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Nov 27, 2019 15:58
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"accidentally" murders you just a prank bro
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Nov 27, 2019 16:01
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There was that big prank YouTube channel with the married couple years ago, but they got divorced just because their lives became an escalating thing of pranks and paranoia.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:01
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zakharov posted:My (33F) husband's family is unwittingly destroying my life, how do I get over it? I got a mantra for you: "No." MIL has other family. The goddamned weed smoking nephew has other family and you are under NO obligation to destroy your own life taking care of him. Book the tickets and take the vacation whether something goes wrong or not. Block numbers if you have to. Divorce is also an option.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:02
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I [28NB] won’t spend Thanksgiving with my boyfriend’s [27M] family because his sister [30F] is violent, but he won’t spend the holiday with me because he doesn’t want to make his parents upset.quote:Throwaway cause he uses reddit. Also reposting because of accidental potty mouth.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:11
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I'm (28/F) pretty sure my friend's (27/M) girlfriend (30/F) tore up old and precious photos of mine from a childhood trip to Notre-Dame Cathedral due to underlying resentment towards me. I've known my friend for just under five years. When we first met, we were interested in each other and went out a few times but we eventually realized we were better off as friends. The chemistry just wasn't there and the one time we tried to kiss we couldn't stop laughing. He met his girlfriend about a year ago and they've been going strong since. I've tried to get to know her and to be cool with her and all, but she has always had it out for me due to my history with her boyfriend ... which again didn't last long and went nowhere. Regardless she just doesn't seem to like me, which is fair enough. We don't have to be friends if that's not something she wants. And although it's pretty obvious that she doesn't like me (to the point that other people in our social circle have in fact pointed it out to me on separate occasions) I still make a point to say hello to her and to be nice. One such time was a week ago when I invited her to my housewarming party. She and her boyfriend showed up together and everyone was in the living room talking and hanging out. At one point I brought out an old photo album and in it were a few photos from an old trip to Paris in my childhood. As we all probably know by now ... Notre-Dame suffered a huge fire earlier this year. I had photos from there that were very precious to me, not just because of the fire that later took place before I could visit again but also because it was before the age of digital cameras and the negatives were lost when my family moved a few years later, so the photos in that album were all that I had left of that trip. I was very young at the time, so the memories aren't that fresh. Anyway my friends flipped through the album and that one friend's girlfriend was actually nice to me for once. She sat by me and asked me about the various family trips and birthdays and things that were encapsulated in that photo album. It didn't occur to me that she or anyone else at the party had it in them to tamper with the photos, so I didn't think to put it away once we had all moved on to the next activity. The food and drinks came out and I forgot all about the photo album. We played games and told stories and had a fun night. At one point I noticed that she had started flipping through the photo album again, but I didn't really register what I had seen until after. She was the last person that touched it as far as I know. Once the party was over and once it was time to clean up, I tucked the album away without opening it. Then a couple of days later (last night) I decided to flip through the album again for whatever reason. That was when I noticed the photos from Notre-Dame were torn up. Not just in two pieces or three or four or five or whatever. They were torn up to the point that it would be near impossible to put them back together. Shredded. I ... honestly felt like crying which never happens. I didn't know what happened or how it happened without me knowing sooner. That was when I started running through everything that had happened at that party. Someone had intentionally torn those photos to bits and tucked them inside the protective covering so that I wouldn't know until I physically opened the album again. That is not only hosed up and cruel but also disturbing. I tried not to let my mind go there but there was only one person at that party who would have done something like that. None of my friends would have dared do something so mean. My friend's girlfriend was the last person with the album. I don't know when she could have done it or how ... but I imagine she took it into the bathroom with her or something and went to work. I don't know. It sounds crazy because it is. No one else would have done something like that knowing how much those photos meant to me. Even if they were photos taken in my childhood house or the old street that I grew up on, they still would have meant something to me. Why would someone do that? How needlessly cruel. Although I have no proof (other than my memory of her being the last one with the album) that she did it, I'm pretty sure it was her. Every bone in my body is telling me that it was her. When I spoke to another friend about it, even they said so before I had even touched on my suspicions. Also not that it matters but ... I'm not really even that close to her boyfriend anymore. We're friends and we get along really well, but he doesn't give me any sort of special attention. If he did, then I would completely understand her resentment towards me but it's not like that at all. He respects his relationship and so do I. And his girlfriend is mostly just passive aggressive towards me, so her attitude isn't something that's easy to point out in conversation without potentially looking emotional or oversensitive. My friend has noticed the awkward tension enough to stop himself from laughing too hard at one of my jokes and things like that but that's about as far as it goes. When they first started dating he barely spoke a word to me for months, so in that sense I had kind of gathered the vibe and distanced myself from him out of respect. But we're still friends and at the party we did talk about this concert we went to as friends a long time ago. Maybe his girlfriend noticed, didn't like that we were discussing one of our memories and chose to retaliate. I don't know. The only thing that's stopping me from saying something about the photos to either one of them is that I have no proof of the fact that she did it. But I mean, who else would have? Throwing accusations around doesn't seem like a good idea. I just don't know what else to do. I'm so frustrated and upset ... and it's so obvious that it was her ... but if I point it out to him or even hint at it, I know I'll end up looking like the crazy one. How do I handle this? What should I do? Apart from never letting her near any of my belongings. That much is obvious. tl;dr Those photos were all I had of that trip and now they're destroyed. Shreds. It's obvious that she did it as she was the last one that had touched the album before my housewarming party was over and none of my actual friends would have done something so cruel even as a lovely joke. Not sure how to handle this. I'm never letting her near any of belongings again. Do I bring this up to my friend or do I just distance myself so that I don't look crazy throwing around accusations?
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Nov 27, 2019 16:11
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(FL) Hospital Security Guard Tried to Deny Me Access Because I Didn’t Smilequote:Background: I am a 20-something female. My older sister is a physician at a hospital. She is hosting thanksgiving at her home this year, so my other siblings and I have flown in to stay with her. I had just gotten my older brother from the airport and we went to the hospital to pick up our sister after her shift. LOL at all these replies: quote:A persons behaviour and demeanor can legally be used as criteria for admittance and a security guard is generally allowed to act as the property owners/managers agent in deciding what constitutes a possible threat to the premises and other individuals present there. (same guy): quote:The job of a security guard includes threat determination and site safety. So yes, it is most definitely in the scope of the guards duties but it still probably constitutes an improper action that needs to be dealt with by the employer. Operating procedures and protocols regarding threat determination are purely subjective in nature and abuses or complaints need to be dealt with by the employer. OP was not advised being female would result in expulsion just that not smiling would. And smiling is not a protected class so no, it is not illegal. quote:Security guards are sometimes trained to recognize certain facial expressions as evidence of mal-intent. Kind of like how TSA will assume that if you are fidgeting, you must be up to something.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:18
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That security guard must be on edge a lot if not smiling is a problem at a hospital
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Nov 27, 2019 16:30
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Pirate Radar posted:That security guard must be on edge a lot if not smiling is a problem at a hospital He's the Joker in disguise and looking for an excuse to gas someone.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:31
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My (24f) boyfriend (24m) constantly tries to prove that he is smarter than me in our arguments. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 6 years now. He has always been good with debating, he knows how to argue well and to his benefit. He is incredibly smart and well spoken, to the point of arrogance in some cases. I am not very good at debating, I get passionate and excited and stumble on my words. I am not dumb, it's just harder for me to put my thoughts into sentences. When we have opposing viewpoints on things (usually harmless things, like today it was the ethics in American pop industry vs. the Korean pop industry), our arguments can turn from friendly discussions to emotional blowouts pretty quickly. I feel like he is very focused on catching me in a logical fallacy and winning the argument rather than having a discussion. I feel like our conversations are competitions to see who is right and who is wrong, rather than just discussing. Once he begins getting upset he begins to use bigger words and debate jargon that I am not familiar with and then gets angry with me when I have problems understanding his "logical fallacy" flags and gets frustrated with me when I ask him to explain them, like I am just playing dumb. He begins to treat me like a child, like I am too slow to understand what he is saying. It usually just ends with me being too flustered or beaten down to continue the argument and I throw in the white flag, calling him right. This never seems to satisfy him either and frustrates him that I am giving up rather than continuing the fight. For example, the last thing he said to me today way, "You have degree from a liberal arts institution, so excuse me for assuming you paid any attention for your four and a half years. Don't pretend that me "getting heated" prevents you from making arguments when you'd rather stick to whataboutism and bad faith logic rather than learn how to actually make a good argument." I feel like he sometimes tries to turn are discussions into moments to teach me how to argue rather than just having a friendly conversation, and when his tactics to educate me don't work(because they come from a place of annoyance and anger rather than a genuine want to make me a better arguer) , he gets angry. When I point out that he treats me like a child sometimes, or that he talks to me like I am dumb he says things like, "well, don't argue like a child/ like you're dumb" or "I am smarter than you, we both know it". I don't really know what to do. He is really smart, but it hurts to hear him point it out like he is so above me. I have a better job, a degree while he couldn't finish school, I am not doing bad in life or anything. I feel like our arguments turn so heated because I am not up to par with him, and that angers him for some reason. I am really tired of being treated like a child or like I am unintelligent and I don't know how to shrink his ego to see that. tldr; My very smart boyfriend likes to turn are harmless arguments into heated debates and gets mad when I am not up to par with his intellect, but would rather get mad than educate me.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:32
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Dump him and tell him to find someone else to be a sparring partner. People like that almost never grow out of it, left to their own devices.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:45
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Time to leave. Boyfriend doesn’t respect OP and is a loser besides.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:50
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She should break up with him by baiting him into one of his debates, giving him a giant wedgie as soon as he starts going maximum smug, and saying “we’re done, loser”. Peeling out in her car after is optional but encouraged.
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Nov 27, 2019 16:59
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Ugly In The Morning posted:I really want to know what the business was. I’m going to guess it was something kind of flashy and cool. No one ever wants to start with something boring but reliable. When these get explained it often turns out to be a nearly zero skill service business that requires space (the expensive part) and some equipment. Think car detailing. Then you have the vehicle/equipment heavy ones like mobile detailing (where you can go for broke buying a truck instead of leasing space). Landscaping/mowing and food trucks seem to be popular as well.
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Nov 27, 2019 17:01
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DrBouvenstein posted:(FL) Hospital Security Guard Tried to Deny Me Access Because I Didn’t Smile Holy loving fire that security guard into the sun
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Nov 27, 2019 17:02
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Not smiling is a classic terror indicator. Hands up who has ever seen a photo of a smiling terrorist? No one, exactly. God bless that security guard for protecting the hospital no matter what these disgusting SJW types say, terrorism isn't a right!!!
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Nov 27, 2019 17:05
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Jason Sextro posted:Dump him and tell him to find someone else to be a sparring partner. People like that almost never grow out of it, left to their own devices. IT's like a super STEMlord thing. It was, theoretically, a learned behavior, but I've found it tends to be rewarded rather than discouraged in a lot of fields. It feels like either a CS major or some weird high-level physics bullshit.
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Nov 27, 2019 17:06
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (24f) boyfriend (24m) constantly tries to prove that he is smarter than me in our arguments. Pepperspray. The answer is pepperspray and then dumping the dipshit
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Neito posted:IT's like a super STEMlord thing. It was, theoretically, a learned behavior, but I've found it tends to be rewarded rather than discouraged in a lot of fields. It feels like either a CS major or some weird high-level physics bullshit. ITs for people who couldn't hack a real CS degree. It bothers them so they overcompensate.
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