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Short and sweet! My husband stabbed me with a fork and then hosed my best friend quote:what should I do? Husband 48 Me 22
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I can vouch for Cake Puncher's dad employing some pretty lovely parenting techniques. I would screech at my son about how he was missing the men's figure skating for the Winter Olympics, but maybe I should have tried to connect with him on his terms. Maybe if I had he would have grown up to be a real man.
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Dec 3, 2019 05:45
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Lucrece posted:Short and sweet! lmao
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Dec 3, 2019 05:52
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FilthyImp posted:Per her request, please link to the posts where she was being an incredibly lovely person and/or racist. She prefers you cite her like a bad Wiki entry when discussing how loony she is. Please dont remote post for other users in this thread, and generally if someone was detrimental to a threads health talking about their absence from it is keeping the problem going. Lucrece posted:My husband stabbed me with a fork and then hosed my best friend Well whoa there, lets not fly off the handle it was fork not a knife
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Dec 3, 2019 06:01
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I can't go to Mcdonalds anymore. Mr. cumshitter has completely warped my perception of the twist ice cream cone forever. 
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Dec 3, 2019 06:03
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Entorwellian posted:I can't go to Mcdonalds anymore. Mr. cumshitter has completely warped my perception of the twist ice cream cone forever. Surely this should lead to you spending more time at McDonald's
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Dec 3, 2019 06:08
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Miss posted:Surely this should lead to you spending more time at McDonald's McDonalds isn't exactly the bastion for bathroom stall financial advice.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:14
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Miss posted:Surely this should lead to you spending more time at McDonald's Who could be happy with a twist cone while thinking of all the freshly shat cum they're missing out on.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:14
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Am I (32 F) overreacting to what my boyfriend (30 M) said over the phone when he thought he was talking to his ex-wife? I feel stupid for even writing this post, please bear with me. Over Thanksgiving I traveled to see my family. My boyfriend of over a year was invited but unable to come due to work. For about 3 days prior to me leaving to visit my family we had been arguing and the tensions were higher than normal. I was hoping a few days away would be good for both of us to cool off and get over is silly argument, but tensions had only increased and we were barely speaking. My mother's home is in a very rural area in my cell phone does not work when I am there. My mother's number and my boyfriend's ex wife are saved under similar names in his phone. I borrowed my mom's cell phone to call him and when he answered he was talking in a very sweet tone. He repeatedly asked how are you baby? And said he missed me. It was so out of character for how he had been acting the last few days that it was really odd and made me uncomfortable. He then asked me 'how are the kids?' Again I was quite confused and asked what he meant, and said I had not been to visit my friend and her daughter yet. He then said 'wait who is this?' And told me he thought he was speaking to his ex wife. His tone and words went back to what I would expect from him during a rough patch. We have hardly discussed the topic or the rest of our fight, but he did say he was sleeping and confused and only addressed 'her' by her 1st name and not baby. What really bothers me about this entire thing is that I really believe he knew he was speaking to me be entire time. I think he did this just to hurt me and make me scared. The sweet voice he was using was very fake and not how he would talk normally. This would not be the 1st time he is paranoid that I would cheat on him, nor the 1st time he has tried to use other women to make me jealous. Long story short, I am not sure how to bring this up with him. I feel like I absolutely need to discuss this further. My question is: How can I approach the topic and convey I think he did this purposely to hurt my feelings without being accusatory? Although I have hardly mentioned it mostly because we have been fighting (I don't want it to be an argument, I want it to be a productive discussion) but I am very hurt by this. I truly don't believe he is cheating on me, especially not with his ex wife. It's much more painful that he did that intentionally to upset me while I was hours away and visiting family. I want to approach the conversation correctly and Im concerned I will be overly emotional. How can I convey that I am very hurt, and do not want to continue a relationship if this is how we will treat each other without sounding childish or as if I am only upset because I actually thought he believed he was speaking to his ex? TL;DR: My boyfriend tried to make me jealous by acting as if he thought he was talking to his ex wife while he was actually speaking to me on the phone.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:24
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AITA for not getting rid of my controversial books against my wife’s wishes? So a little background, I come from the rural outskirts of a country where literature and education is VERY strict. As in if it’s not religious or outright propaganda it’s banned. Coming to an Western university and being able to establish my family there was without a doubt one of the greatest things that has ever happened to me. After decades of collecting I have an entire room filled with books from over the years. Now to make this clear, owning these books does not reflect my ideology or beliefs, but rather I’ve just always been drawn towards controversial books. There’s a small shelf in this room with books that have been banned or are just controversial in nature. By that I don’t mean like Fault in Our Stars banned, I mean like Minister Farrakhan, William Luther Pierce, some old radical Protestant text, Pan African extremist literature, etc. I have collected these books, and have some hilarious stories on how I’ve gotten my hands on them. I own these books simply because I can. My grandson (who is 15) has had a growing fascination with reading and often borrows my books. Well fast forward to last week, he was caught reading something at school from my more “controversial” collection. He was sent to the principles office, the book was confiscated, and he’s looking at a lengthy suspension. I plan on getting involved immediately and I will not hesitate to make this a legal matter. We live in a free country, he can read whatever he likes wherever he wants to. Religion isn’t allowed in public schools, but you wouldn’t do the same to a student reading a Bible or a Quran. Once the my son and wife found out that it came from my reading room they are livid. They couldn’t believe I would let him borrow such books. I told them that he borrows books all the time, and that I had no idea that he borrowed the book in the first place. We will handle the school problem later, but my wife has gone a measure further and insisted that I get rid of my older controversial books to avoid this happening again. I immediately refused. My son has also insisted that I shouldn’t have the books in the first place. I will not get rid of my books no matter how bad they might be. I think they’re both upset and a little flustered and this seems like a way of getting ride of the issue. My family hasn’t been speaking to each other since this happened and I just need an outside opinion. AITA? Update: Thank you to all who gave insight, I greatly appreciate it but I will settle this now. I think whether or not I’m an “rear end in a top hat” is up for contention, but one thing is for sure and that is babu has been a fool. I have made an appointment with his principal later this week where I plan to take full responsibility for this mishap. Hopefully the suspension will be removed and he will be forgiven. I will sit my grandson down this weekend and explain to him the dangers of such things. I suppose to me this country has been safe and my days of dealing with radicals was long over ago, I never thought it could effect him. I said in an earlier comment that to me these books sat on a shelf for over 20 years, and I realize the impact is far more than just a book on a shelf. I will take the more controversial literature and lock it away with a note explaining why I locked them there. Thank you again for this insight.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:28
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Goddamit i really wanna know what the book was if he backpedaled that quickly
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Dec 3, 2019 06:32
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AITA/WIBTA for giving my future child 3 middlenames?quote:So quick background here, my SO will be referred to as Sanguine and I will be referred to as Faerie for privacy reasons.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:34
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Benagain posted:Goddamit i really wanna know what the book was if he backpedaled that quickly The Turner Diaries and The Secret Relationship Between Blacks and Jews
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Dec 3, 2019 06:35
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I'm mad as hell that she stole half of my good passwords
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Dec 3, 2019 06:36
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Benagain posted:Goddamit i really wanna know what the book was if he backpedaled that quickly India (which I'm getting from "babu") also has a weird relationship to Hitler so, yeah, Mein Kampf
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Dec 3, 2019 06:41
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Smirking_Serpent posted:The Turner Diaries and The Secret Relationship Between Blacks and Jews definitely not a book to bring to show and tell
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Dec 3, 2019 06:45
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Mein Kampf is a pretty dry read for an average 15 year old, reward the child for spurning YA fiction edit: oh it's Louis Farrakhan? no ice cream then. ulex minor fucked around with this message at 06:51 on Dec 3, 2019 |
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Dec 3, 2019 06:46
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Anne Whateley posted:If he doesn't mention it you know it's Mein Kampf Mein Kampf + an instruction manual for Nazi insurgents. I get where the guy is coming from, especially given his personal history but why the hell does a child have access to his extremely offensive books in history library?
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Dec 3, 2019 06:47
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Anne Whateley posted:
Asian Nazi fetishization isn’t quite the same as in western countries, it’s more equivalent to how Fascist Japanese symbols like the “rising sun” in every white guy’s karate dojo are viewed as badass harmless karate poo poo rather than fascist genocidal symbols. It’s important to remember it’s more of a result of ignorance more often than malice at least in East Asia. This guy lives here and is well educated so I dont think that applies to him though. Also it’s probably Burma/Myanmar I doubt censorship like OP describes is that common anywhere else in that region.
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Dec 3, 2019 06:53
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not getting rid of my controversial books against my wife’s wishes? one of these things is not like the other one of these things just doesn't belong
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Dec 3, 2019 07:00
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 https://icct.nl/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/ICCT-Berger-The-Turner-Legacy-September2016-2.pdf JM Berger who wrote one of the books that was foundational to my last term paper on terrorism also does analysis of extremist literature so if you’re curious about just how terrible that book is, dive right in!
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Dec 3, 2019 07:01
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not getting rid of my controversial books against my wife’s wishes? Yeahhhhh... that'd do it.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:04
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it would have to be something easily recognizable like the turner diaries as i doubt the principal holds strong feelings on radical protestant ideas from the 16th century
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Dec 3, 2019 07:11
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Someone already posted that it was the Turner Diaries and The Secret Relationship Between Blacks and Jews.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:22
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Lucrece posted:Short and sweet! An attempt at Googling this led to me to a whole list compiled of "stabbed in the back" Reddit stories. Whats your worst "friend stabbed your back" story? quote:My friend was dating a girl who I could tell just didn't like me, but at least we were civil to one another, until the camping trip on the May 24 holiday weekend. She was adamant about keeping our alcohol separate, that was fine. I had my beer, they had their mikes hard lemonades, fine. Then I got up early on the first morning and made pancakes for everyone, why? Because that's just how I roll. When the campers rolled out of their tents to the smell of apple cinnamon pancakes and campfire coffee, she was the only one to flip out. I'd gone into HER cooler and used HER margarine. My buddy just looked pained and tried to keep the peace as I tossed her a twoonie and apologized. Her reaction was to grab a lock from his gym bag and lock "their tent" with "their booze" and "their food". Later, he came to me and asked if he could borrow the car, so that they could run into town, get some condoms and have some words about being a bit easier with the other campers. I said ok, and handed him the keys. When they returned hours later, the tank was empty, and the field kitchen (a wooden box w/ straps called a wannigan w/ plates, cutlery pots and pans etc) was missing from the back of the station wagon. We searched the camp, nothing. It was my Dad's and had been handed down in the family for generations. I drove off to fill the tank and buy a new tub of margerine, and was halfway down the country road when I saw the wannigan on the side of the road, smashed in the ditch. There were marks along the back panels beside the flattened down seats where one of them had clearly pushed it out the back of the moving car.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:31
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Entorwellian posted:I can't go to Mcdonalds anymore. Mr. cumshitter has completely warped my perception of the twist ice cream cone forever. My apologies. I wasn't trying to ruin ice cream for you. I was simply trying to create more positive mental associations with anal sex. It comes from a place of love, and wanting you to be better.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:35
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Smirking_Serpent posted:one thing is for sure and that is babu has been a fool. This guy rules Pinecone Sample posted:AITA/WIBTA for giving my future child 3 middlenames? This is a crazy person.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:38
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AITA for masturbating on my dead grandma's grave?quote:So, i know it sounds weird but one of my best friend Mike and his family arranged a little meeting on a near graveyard where we supposed to meet. Situation escalated quickly and we drank too much and in the end, Mike's father challenged us (we were four kids/people) to Nut on our dead grandparents's graves. The reward was that if any of us do that, we would get a new bicycle. Now, because i am a poor person without parents who is living with my uncles Mac and Charlie, i thought, "Yes, i would do that." And when i started nutting on my dead grandma's grave (R.I.P. Grandpa Dee), Mike and his Father Dennis left me alone for a loving Pepsi. gently caress you Mike. So, Am I The rear end in a top hat for masturbating on my dead grandma's grave?
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Dec 3, 2019 07:41
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chitoryu12 posted:AITA for masturbating on my dead grandma's grave? Dear God no you are not the rear end in a top hat for being taken advantage of by a very cheap pedophile you poor thing.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:45
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA/WIBTA for giving my future child 3 middlenames? If I had to choose one of these names for myself, I guess I would choose this one
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Dec 3, 2019 07:46
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Just name your kid Hotblack Desiato. Then if anyone asks tell them it’s after the real estate office.
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Dec 3, 2019 07:53
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chitoryu12 posted:AITA for masturbating on my dead grandma's grave? Mac, Charlie, Dee, and Dennis. 
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Dec 3, 2019 07:55
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Elder Postsman posted:Mac, Charlie, Dee, and Dennis. Mac: I'm not masturbating on my grandparents' graves! The Gang Masturbates On Their Grandparents' Graves
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Dec 3, 2019 07:57
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chitoryu12 posted:Whats your worst "friend stabbed your back" story?
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I'm not totally sure what he's asking Girl (29F) I’ve (30M) been seeing saw a message from my FWB. [new] I’ve been seeing Cassy casually for about six weeks. We hang out a lot and I am really enjoying her company, we get along so well and she’s very relaxed and caring. I can easily see us spending a lot of time together. We spend most of our weekends together and a day or two during the week, but we are always texting and keeping up with each other. I’ve been dating online for the last year or two, and have had a FWB for the last six months. Other than that I haven’t been on more than one or two dates with other people. My FWB and I hang out every so often, max twice a week but we often go a week or two without seeing each other. She works from home and I get home from work early, so it’s always in the middle of the day for an hour or so. It’s worked out well and we’re on the same page that we aren’t dating/interested in dating. I haven’t been seeing her even though she hits me up about once a week, and we haven’t seen each other in the last two weeks. I was going to call her this week to explain that I’ve enjoyed our time but I’m not interesting in continuing. I am really into Cassy and I’d like to be exclusive. (I always use protection for both partners.) Yesterday Cassy and I were both off work and going to get some breakfast when a message from my FWB popped up. My car displays the entire message for texts and it was FWB asking if we can link up tomorrow (Monday) around at 1. Cassy got really quiet and I didn’t know what to say; we haven’t had the exclusivity talk and we haven’t talked about if we’re seeing other people. We met online but I deleted my profile soon after meeting her, which I didn’t tell her. I’m not sure if she’s seeing anyone else but I admit lately it is very often on my mind. I’ve been waiting for the right time to ask her if she’s interesting in being my girlfriend. She asked if that was another girl I am dating and I told her no, that we are FWB and we don’t see each other or talk to each other out of hooking up. She asked how often we see each other and I told her we haven’t seen each other for two weeks because I am enjoying what she (Cassy) and I have going on, but we used to see each other once a week every other week or so. I didn’t lie about anything but the rest of the car ride and breakfast were quite quiet. On the way back I told her I hadn’t seen her because I want to be exclusive with her (Cassy), but I hadn’t made time to call her and talk so she had still been messaging me, but our schedules don’t always match and I have been too busy with work. She asked why I didn’t break up with her via text and I told her I think that’s a very cold way of ending things and wouldn’t want to be treated that way. I haven’t been in this situation before so I asked if there was anything I could answer and offered to show her my phone but she told me she felt uncomfortable because it was an invasion of privacy and she believes what I’m saying but that she needs to consider a couple things. We had an all-day outing planned a little out of town but she said she would like to head home. I dropped her off and she gave me a half-hearted kiss before looking at me sadly and getting out. I’m really interested in taking our relationship further but now I don’t know what to do. She texted me last night around 9 asking how I feel about her and I sent her a text that reads “i really enjoy your company and have been waiting for the right time to ask if you’d like to be exclusive. I’m interested in taking things further.” She texted back “ok” and I didn’t hear from her until around 2 today when I texted her asking if I can give her a call tonight around 6 and she said sure. FWIW she answered immediately. I’m going into this without knowing what to do or how to handle it. Do I let her ask questions or do I reassure her I want to only see her, or do I try to be somewhat normal? What do I do if she tells me she isn’t interested in continuing even though I was going to break things off with my FWB this week? If she is super quiet what do I do? If she wants to end things should I let her go or should I try and mend things? Like I said we never had the “talk” and I can definitely understand why she’s upset but I don’t know what to do. TL;DR: girl I’ve been seeing and want to be exclusive with saw a text from my FWB who I was on the verge of ending things with. Don’t know how to handle the impending phone call or what to say.
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Dec 3, 2019 08:19
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AITA for hiding the toilet paper, body wash and shampoo from my BF? My BF does nothing around the house. Literally nothing. I've asked and asked for him to help out, even just taking the rubbish or mow the lawns, but he can't even manage that. Anyways I decided if I was going to be doing all the house upkeep, he could buy the cleaning supplies. But he won't even do that anymore. He either doesn't have time or forgets whenever he is at the shops. So we have run out of toilet paper and body wash. I've just bought my self some and hid it my closet sneaking it to the bathroom when i need. I plan on doing the same with the shampoo. He's on day three using paper towels for TP and handwash for body wash. He hasn't mentioned anything about it. Our relationship is great otherwise. But, AITA for hiding supplies from my bf to try get my point across?
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Dec 3, 2019 08:34
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Power Khan posted:AITA for hiding the toilet paper, body wash and shampoo from my BF? he is not going to get the point. he is going to continue using the handwash and paper towel until they run out, at which point he will start using tissues and tap water, and when the tissues run out he'll just start making GBS threads in the woods like the animal that he is
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DandyLion posted:Perhaps I'm just jaded after reading so many of these, but just so I'm understanding this clearly; she's not upset for sleeping with her professor, but rather for her boyfriend calling her out on it in front of everyone? Pigsfeet on Rye posted:"By the nature of the program, I have to spend a lot of time with Dr. White. There is nothing unprofessional happening. Dr. White can still be kind of an assholes, but kind of a lovable rear end in a top hat, and he is a superb mentor. I'm really enjoying working with him." quote:Friday afternoon was a prescheduled time for me to meet with Dr. White and some other students in the program People making stuff up again. Funny, it makes the woman look bad. Again. MarcusSA posted:I dunno it just doesn't read as a very strong denial TBH. gently caress you, rear end in a top hat. extremely online posted:There's a lot of gross poo poo that comes up in here, but "anything I want to do to anyone who made me mad for any reason is completely okay" is disturbingly common and makes me worry about the lives you guys are living. If I approved of that attitude, I'd visit my mother more often.
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mllaneza posted:People making stuff up again. Funny, it makes the woman look bad. Again. lol
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Would it be gay to let my girlfriend do this to me while we cuddle?quote:Recently I’ve encountered an issue around intimacy with my girlfriend involving her ‘needs’.
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