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FoolyCharged posted:Hmmm... on one hand she says I want to lose weight and then ignores him telling her exactly what she needs to do. It’s not what he said, but how he said it, IMO, that really makes him the rear end in a top hat, although there was some stuff that was just straight rear end in a top hat no matter how he said it.
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FoolyCharged posted:Hmmm... on one hand she says I want to lose weight and then ignores him telling her exactly what she needs to do. i don't loving give a poo poo whether or how hard she is trying to lose weight, or if she is in fact not trying at all and sitting around shovelling chips in her face all day. HER BOYFRIEND SAYS "YOUR BODY DOESN'T DESERVE COMPLIMENTS." if he doesn't think that she is worth complimenting he should break up with her, but instead, her boyfriend is a stupid prick who treats people like poo poo.
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Dec 20, 2019 00:30
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Girl gotta get a boyfriend who down with the thiccness. That's my advice.
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Dec 20, 2019 00:33
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for my husband and I getting mad and leaving after a family told us to "keep it down" at a bar? It ain't Friday night til we get kicked out of an Applebee's. (I have been kicked out of an Applebee's)
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FoolyCharged posted:Hmmm... on one hand she says I want to lose weight and then ignores him telling her exactly what she needs to do. this girl disclosed her history of ED and resultant triggers and the dude continues to tell her that she just needs to diet better. my vote is 
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Dec 20, 2019 00:51
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spacetoaster posted:It ain't Friday night til we get kicked out of an Applebee's.
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Dec 20, 2019 00:53
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We have no shortage of random lovely sports bars in Canada, really could be anything. That being said the appropriate response is to acknowledge the waitress' suggestion but just continue with your night with no change in behaviour.
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Dec 20, 2019 00:57
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I don't think Boston has a style of pizza. It sounds like an American parody restaurant like New York Burger or Chicago Lasagna. Actually I know they don't have one because they wouldn't shut up about it. We would all know.
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cumshitter posted:I don't think Boston has a style of pizza. It sounds like an American parody restaurant like New York Burger or Chicago Lasagna. New England has Greek Pizza and Apizza. The first is everywhere in the area, and the second is around New Haven. Boston don't got anything particular so I have no idea what Canadians think they're doing with this one.
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Solovey posted:this girl disclosed her history of ED and resultant triggers and the dude continues to tell her that she just needs to diet better. my vote is Or alternatively he told her that if she wants to lose the weight, she's got to do it right or it won't work and it wont stick. Trying to do lasting weight loss without calorie counting is like going to the gym and tossing an arbitrary amount of weight on the bar without looking at the numbers. Just because she needs to be a lot more careful than the average person with the necessary tools doesn't make them any less necessary. InediblePenguin posted:i don't loving give a poo poo whether or how hard she is trying to lose weight, or if she is in fact not trying at all and sitting around shovelling chips in her face all day. HER BOYFRIEND SAYS "YOUR BODY DOESN'T DESERVE COMPLIMENTS." if he doesn't think that she is worth complimenting he should break up with her, but instead, her boyfriend is a stupid prick who treats people like poo poo. Her words, summarizing a conversation in two sentences. The dude could have very easily said he can't compliment her on her weight loss success yet. Like I said, if the dude did actually behave as she described then his is, in fact, a gigantic raging rear end in a top hat. I just don't trust the person writing something that read like a HAES manifesto to be telling me the truth.
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Such Fun posted:Why would you give a stripper a handjob? “Es heißt ja auch Handjob, und nicht Handholiday.” Why is this so funny? I don't even know German.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (24F) boyfriend (25M) doesn’t think my body deserves compliments. The crying was a ploy to get sympathy. Just break up a guy who berates you for not being fit enough at size 6 is not worth staying with.
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FoolyCharged posted:Or alternatively he told her that if she wants to lose the weight, she's got to do it right or it won't work and it wont stick. Trying to do lasting weight loss without calorie counting is like going to the gym and tossing an arbitrary amount of weight on the bar without looking at the numbers. Just because she needs to be a lot more careful than the average person with the necessary tools doesn't make them any less necessary. Yeah dude god forbid he compliments his girlfriend. What's next, washing his rear end? No thanks
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Transmogrifier posted:AITA for telling my friend she got an STD from sleeping around? Oh I'm sure you did, I bet there wasn't one ounce of judgment at all. Definitely went a bit far on the callout, but I am also tired of people spouting off insults as just joking around, especially when you focus it on something stupid like if you date enough. What's enough? Should I be Zack Morris and date everyone, but also kinda have a steady girlfriend? Should I just look for the one? It's almost as if everyone has their own feelings.
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cumshitter posted:I don't think Boston has a style of pizza. It sounds like an American parody restaurant like New York Burger or Chicago Lasagna. Boston Pizza is a chain currently running a "Christmas Pizza" promotion. quote:All the flavours of a traditional Christmas dinner…on a pizza! Seasoned rotisserie turkey, house-made stuffing, rosemary sage cream sauce and Italian cheeses. Served with cranberry sauce and warm turkey gravy. 1 Free TOBLERONE with each Indy/Small or 2 Free TOBLERONES with each Medium/Large. While supplies last.
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Dec 20, 2019 02:18
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quote:Ask any landlord you know Where, in the guillotine line?
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cumshitter posted:I don't think Boston has a style of pizza. It sounds like an American parody restaurant like New York Burger or Chicago Lasagna. I have a picture from my first trip to Barcelona Spain of a small restaurant in almost a strip mall advertising world famous Boston Pizza.
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https://twitter.com/aita_reddit/status/1207708325187596290?s=21 My mom behaved very well, except for the occasional cloud of vape in the delivery room
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Chomp8645 posted:Girl gotta get a boyfriend who down with the thiccness. GET UP, COME ON GET DOWN WITH THE THICCNESS! ASSCHEEK CLAPPING IS WHAT WILL ALERT YOU TO ME
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My mum reached into my vagina and my soul left my body.
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I love these lovely parents so much. AITA for telling my daughter I didn't want to eat at the restaurant she picked for her birthday? quote:So my daughter is turning 24 and for her birthday she wanted us all to go to a Thai food place. I don't like Thai food at all and it sometimes makes me feel sick. I told her I didn't want to go there, and my other daughter was really annoyed and said that I was being an rear end in a top hat. I don't think I am, because my 24 year old knows that I hate this kind of food. Am I the rear end in a top hat?
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Dec 20, 2019 02:44
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Jesus I don't like Thai but even I can just find something on the menu I like.
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Theyve got white rice, mom.
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cumshitter posted:I don't think Boston has a style of pizza. It sounds like an American parody restaurant like New York Burger or Chicago Lasagna. *very quietly* we call it bar pizza here
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If the guy gets ill from Thai but not from other Asian cuisine I'd suspect a peanut allergy.
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Bruceski posted:If the guy gets ill from Thai but not from other Asian cuisine I'd suspect a peanut allergy. He doesn't get ill, he's just a punk bitch.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for not sharing my Christmas bonus with coworkers who have been here longer? Posting from a few pages back but this is literally one of the oldest tales in the world. The parable of the workers in the vineyard. There aren't many times in life to mic drop scripture on someone but that would be the moment.
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HMS Beagle posted:I love these lovely parents so much. This reminds me of the time my stepsister (6 years older than me) threw a fit because I wanted to eat at Panera instead of Olive Garden for the third time. She outright refused to order anything and was basically just being a bitch about it like the food at Panera was so much more intense or weird that she couldn't eat it. They are both bullshit, whitey chain restaurants and I just wanted the goddamn chicken Thai salad, Megan! The same stepsister and her husband treated me to a dinner at Red Lobster for my birthday, because they liked it even though they knew I thought it was crap. It was so godawfully bland and overcooked. But at least I still ordered food and thanked them because I'm not the whiny bitchbaby like she is. Just suck it up and get something really simple or nibble at some appetizers. One meal you're sort of eh about is worth your daughter enjoying something she probably doesn't get to eat that often, if at all. My family only eats at the blandest, whitest chain places and god am I tired of it, but I'll eat something off the menu. And I don't even like my family. I'd take them to some more adventurous restaurants but they'd refuse to eat it. Example: I once ordered lengua at a Mexican place and my sister and her husband stopped eating and acted like they would puke. It was normal-looking cooked beef chunks in green sauce, no tastebuds or icky stuff in sight. It was the most tender beef I've ever had and they gagged at me the whole time.
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I'm probably alone here but I don't think just asking someone to pick a different restaurant necessarily makes you an rear end in a top hat, even if it is their birthday. Now if you start throwing a tantrum and saying you'll refuse to go/pay unless they pick something else, that's a different story. I also don't buy that a 24 year old rarely ever gets a chance to eat Thai food.
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empty sea posted:This reminds me of the time my stepsister (6 years older than me) threw a fit because I wanted to eat at Panera instead of Olive Garden for the third time. I sense another chain restaurant derail coming on.
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I like Thai food and I don't know if the restaurant near me is any indication but they have like 300 options and even more if you want to get into Northern/Southern Thai distinctions so I don't know how you could fail to find an option that's the SE Asian equivalent of chicken tenders and french fries if you're that picky. Which would be, I dunno, beef and rice?
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therobit posted:I sense another chain restaurant derail coming on. Burger King really does char broil their burgs
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Cyks posted:I'm probably alone here but I don't think just asking someone to pick a different restaurant necessarily makes you an rear end in a top hat, even if it is their birthday. It is if your objection is "ew gross".
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Odd posted:Burger King really does char broil their burgs Wendy's burgers really are fresh never frozen
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empty sea posted:Example: I once ordered lengua at a Mexican place and my sister and her husband stopped eating and acted like they would puke. It was normal-looking cooked beef chunks in green sauce, no tastebuds or icky stuff in sight. It was the most tender beef I've ever had and they gagged at me the whole time. Hmm, mine was more chewy when I had it. Mom picked it up from the butcher on a whim though, so we may have cooked it wrong.
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hot cocoa on the couch posted:Wendy's burgers really are fresh never frozen I have bad news for you if you like their chili though...
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People who can't enjoy all types of food should just be cut out of your life. Who needs that sort of negativity hanging around?
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cumshitter posted:I like Thai food and I don't know if the restaurant near me is any indication but they have like 300 options and even more if you want to get into Northern/Southern Thai distinctions so I don't know how you could fail to find an option that's the SE Asian equivalent of chicken tenders and french fries if you're that picky. Yeah, if you are taking a manchild out for Thai dinner, just get the lemongrass chicken. It is bland as gently caress.
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Should have gone to a Soup Plantation, they have lots of stuff
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Eight [25-29F] friends ghosted me [28M] in 5 months. I don't understand why. I'm going to admit that I'm not the easiest person to be around. I'm bipolar, I'm facing life challenges preventing me from working temporarily, and it's essentially impossible to hide what I'm going through. I'm the kind of person who answers 3 am phone calls, offer rides home when I'm still tired before the sun even rises, can hold 2 hour long phone calls to listen to someone, gifts on every occasion even if it's not one. I respond to every message sent to me within a minute and answer every phone call. If a friend of mine is in crisis, I'll drop whatever I'm doing and be there for them, even if they they live in another town in the city. The pattern is pretty common, a seemingly random conversation chat ends on a cliffhanger. I just assume the person is busy taking a break. Next thing I know I'm blocked on everything and never hear from them ever again. I'm never told why they went away and it made me feel so inadequate and confused more so. I have to admit to shedding a few tears because I just lost a friend I invested in so much but more importantly someone who was about to be my best friend. Some of them were already my best friends (and even used the 'l' word) and that hurt even more. It wasn't until yesterday someone was explicit that they didn't want to see me anymore. Apparently, I offer too much even for the beginning of a friendship, I'm too nice and too available and apparently that's scary. Being open and transparent and valuing deep friendships was too much. While the others never told me anything, they hinted similar at similar ideas. I'm often told by others (family, psychologist, etc.) I trust people too easily and I'm "too selfless". None of this makes sense to me. My friends are my friends, and we're supposed to help each other out, not just use each other when it's convenient. If you noted in the title, the friends are all female and I'm male. I always seemed to attract lady friends more as some have stated that I'm more emotional than the average person. I don't know if it's an insult. Despite my efforts, I'm really starting to feel like a failure at friendships. --- tl;dr: Friends are ghosting me suddenly because offering too much support is apparently scary.
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