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kru
Oct 5, 2003

teddy is absolutely a pro-click though, what a star

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Power Khan
Aug 20, 2011

by Fritz the Horse
If Op feels it's safe enough to post them to reddit (Lol), I think we can agree that we're grown and responsible enough and will only use these pics for our research purposes of "WHAT? HOW? WHY?"

Power Khan
Aug 20, 2011

by Fritz the Horse
"Masterbate"

My girlfriend is selling her feet pics online and I'm secretly masterbating to them.
My girlfriend doesn't know I have a foot fetish and she would break up with me if she found out. From time to time we joked about her selling feet pics to pay for our rent and we both decided to start selling her feet pics online. She thinks I hate feet when really I'm just getting the best of both worlds with this money going into our bank account and getting to masterbate to the pics too. Am I a hosed up person for doing this?

razorrozar
Feb 21, 2012

by Cyrano4747
why do people pay for feet pics

why do people pay for any kind of porn

Power Khan
Aug 20, 2011

by Fritz the Horse
Thinking about calling off my(28f) wedding because of “family”
So to make a very long story short here we go.

I am supposed to be getting married in August this year. My fiancé and I have been planning our wedding. School and family health issues have gotten in the way of planning things so progress is slightly lagging.

Anyway, I was with my mom helping take care of my father when my mom brings up wedding stuff to me. She then makes a statement about how my SIL is going to be a bridesmaid. I’ve been telling my mom for an entire year SIL will not be in the wedding period and neither will her husband, my brother.

The reason why is because my brother is a dick, always has been and always will be. His now wife is also a dick. They go out of their way to be condescending, controlling, manipulative and toxic anytime they are around the rest of my family and I. I feel like it’s completely normal to not really enjoy people that behave this way.

My mom is aware of everything that has happened . She is aware of their abuse towards me and my fiancé , the bad behavior, the name calling, all of it. She is aware my brother has threatened and tried to fight my fiancé who just stood and kept his cool and held his tongue while my brother was going on a drunken rampage. Every single time these two mess up and act psychotic, my fiancé and I are told to just be the bigger person and forgive them. It’s insane to me that for some reason everyone eventually forgets about my brother and SIL behaving poorly and then it’s like it never even happened and for some reason since my fiancé and I don’t forget, we are the bad ones for holding onto ill feelings towards them.

My mom keeps telling me basically no matter what they do or say to me to hurt me and my fiancé, it doesn’t matter because family is family and it’s the most important thing. My mom also added that if I do not have them in the wedding it will be my fault that our family is being “ripped apart”. My mom and dad both agreed that since they are paying for the wedding, all of my siblings and their spouses will be in the wedding party , this choice is not up to me but up to my parents. My mom then tells me that I shouldn’t have my friends in my wedding party anyway because “they are not in it for the long haul”. It’s funny how she came to this conclusion even though my friends have never treated me as poorly as my brother and his wife. And she’s aware of this.

My mom told me that no matter what I have to suck it up because I have to keep the family together.

When I explain to them they absolutely do not have to pay for our wedding, we have the finances and I will literally write them a check for the money they have spent (around 10k) they shake their heads and get angry and say “no this is our job, we are your parents and we are supposed to pay for the wedding”.

I am feeling so stuck, like I can’t win and I’m not even excited to get married. I don’t want to have a wedding, I don’t understand why my parents would do this and I don’t understand how I am the bad guy when I’ve been on the receiving end of abusive behavior and language by my brother and his wife.

I need help which is why I’ve come here. I’m sorry for the formatting, I’m just really confused and mixed up. Any advice would help. Thank you.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

razorrozar posted:

why do people pay for feet pics

why do people pay for any kind of porn

Feet people are like, easily, 1/3rd of all work available on fiverr.

Power Khan
Aug 20, 2011

by Fritz the Horse
When there's mouths to feet...

Mr. Lobe
Feb 23, 2007

... Dry bones...


razorrozar posted:

why do people pay for feet pics

why do people pay for any kind of porn

I assume it's about control and the interpersonal aspect. You paid money, and they gave you something sexual that you wanted. Much more personal than, say, the countless photographs you can probably find on the internet

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Power Khan posted:

"Masterbate"

My girlfriend is selling her feet pics online and I'm secretly masterbating to them.
My girlfriend doesn't know I have a foot fetish and she would break up with me if she found out. From time to time we joked about her selling feet pics to pay for our rent and we both decided to start selling her feet pics online. She thinks I hate feet when really I'm just getting the best of both worlds with this money going into our bank account and getting to masterbate to the pics too. Am I a hosed up person for doing this?

I choose to believe he meant to type "rasterbate"

Pigsfeet on Rye
Oct 22, 2008

I'm meat on the hoof

Power Khan posted:

Thinking about calling off my(28f) wedding because of “family”
So to make a very long story short here we go.

I am supposed to be getting married in August this year. My fiancé and I have been planning our wedding. School and family health issues have gotten in the way of planning things so progress is slightly lagging.

Anyway, I was with my mom helping take care of my father when my mom brings up wedding stuff to me. She then makes a statement about how my SIL is going to be a bridesmaid. I’ve been telling my mom for an entire year SIL will not be in the wedding period and neither will her husband, my brother.

The reason why is because my brother is a dick, always has been and always will be. His now wife is also a dick. They go out of their way to be condescending, controlling, manipulative and toxic anytime they are around the rest of my family and I. I feel like it’s completely normal to not really enjoy people that behave this way.

My mom is aware of everything that has happened . She is aware of their abuse towards me and my fiancé , the bad behavior, the name calling, all of it. She is aware my brother has threatened and tried to fight my fiancé who just stood and kept his cool and held his tongue while my brother was going on a drunken rampage. Every single time these two mess up and act psychotic, my fiancé and I are told to just be the bigger person and forgive them. It’s insane to me that for some reason everyone eventually forgets about my brother and SIL behaving poorly and then it’s like it never even happened and for some reason since my fiancé and I don’t forget, we are the bad ones for holding onto ill feelings towards them.

My mom keeps telling me basically no matter what they do or say to me to hurt me and my fiancé, it doesn’t matter because family is family and it’s the most important thing. My mom also added that if I do not have them in the wedding it will be my fault that our family is being “ripped apart”. My mom and dad both agreed that since they are paying for the wedding, all of my siblings and their spouses will be in the wedding party , this choice is not up to me but up to my parents. My mom then tells me that I shouldn’t have my friends in my wedding party anyway because “they are not in it for the long haul”. It’s funny how she came to this conclusion even though my friends have never treated me as poorly as my brother and his wife. And she’s aware of this.

My mom told me that no matter what I have to suck it up because I have to keep the family together.

When I explain to them they absolutely do not have to pay for our wedding, we have the finances and I will literally write them a check for the money they have spent (around 10k) they shake their heads and get angry and say “no this is our job, we are your parents and we are supposed to pay for the wedding”.

I am feeling so stuck, like I can’t win and I’m not even excited to get married. I don’t want to have a wedding, I don’t understand why my parents would do this and I don’t understand how I am the bad guy when I’ve been on the receiving end of abusive behavior and language by my brother and his wife.

I need help which is why I’ve come here. I’m sorry for the formatting, I’m just really confused and mixed up. Any advice would help. Thank you.

People that say " 'X' doesn’t matter because family is family and it’s the most important thing" in order to defend vileness all deserve to be ground up and fed to pigs.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Put your brother and his wife in your wedding in a dunk tank to the side and charge 5 bucks for 3 throws the entire time of your wedding from ceremony to afterparty

Power Khan
Aug 20, 2011

by Fritz the Horse
AITA for bringing up my family's old feud during dinner at the anniversary of my grandmother's death?
Not the A-hole
I (25 M) was adopted by my parents when I was still a few months old. When I was 5 years old my mother gave birth to my brother and then they had another baby when I was 12. My parents loved me so much they never liked the term ‘adopted’ at all and treated me as if I had been their own flesh and blood. To quote a line from a book whose title I can’t remember, my mother used to tell me that I did not grow in her womb, but in her heart. Their hearts.

Now my family from my mother’s side was a bunch of ‘blood is thicker than water’ kind of people. They never abused or harassed me but they were rather cold and at times treated me like I was a stranger. Physically, I do not look like them either. They are of average height and dark haired. While I am really tall, fair-skinned and blond. My grandmother in particular seemed to really hate me. She had vocally opposed my adoption and did not speak with my mother for a few years. But they reconciled when my mother gave birth to my brother. My mother’s youngest sister’s family were the only people who treated me like real family. I finally accepted that I would never be loved or accepted as a part of my mother’s big family. So I stopped going to family gatherings altogether to avoid heartbreak. To me, my parents, brothers, and my aunt and her family were my only family.

My grandmother passed away a few days before New Year two years ago. And I refused to attend her funeral. My mother was upset and told me to put old grudge behind and reasoned that maybe this was the right time to reconcile with the other members of the family but I refused. I told her I had never held a grudge against them for making my childhood feel like living in hell. I just stopped thinking that they existed a long time ago to make peace with myself and I am doing good so far and do not need negativity in my life.

This year they held a little family gathering to remember grandma at my parents’ house and during the dinner one of my aunts started criticizing me for failing to show up at grandma’s funeral. She said “Everyone took a few days off work to come home for the funeral except you.” At first, I did not say anything I just smiled curtly. And then another aunt chimed in saying things like “Family is everything. (Her son’s name) had been so busy but he somehow managed to book a flight home and was there at the funeral. What’s your excuse?”

That’s when years of heartbreak from rejection finally erupted in my chest. I said “Funny I’m saying this now when you guys used to remind me of it years ago, but I didn’t have a grandmother. I never had. I was adopted, remember?”

Then silence.

Now everyone in the family is super upset with me and they demand me to apologize to them. My mother wants me to apologize to them to put things right but I refuse. My father and my aunt are with me. They both think that what I said needed to be said. Is my mother right? Do I need to apologize and try to mend my broken relationship with them? AITA?

UPDATE : Oh my God I didn't expect to get many comments at all. Thank You guys. I just woke up because time difference sucks. I'll try my best to reply all questions. Thank you very much...

ilmucche
Mar 16, 2016

What did you say the strategy was?
Father and aunt doing good work there

Business Gorillas
Mar 11, 2009

:harambe:



Mr. Lobe posted:

As a gay man my trick to ethically loving multiple partners is just to not enter a relationship. I think a lot of the weirdos seen in this thread might benefit themselves and their partners by doing the same.

Yeah the main thing I don't get about being poly is that a much less insane version already exists. It's called "casual dating"

avoid doorways
Jun 6, 2010

'twas brillig
Gun Saliva
I (25f) think I'm in love with my boyfriend's (42m) half-son (23m)

quote:

I've been dating my boyfriend "John" for 5 months. We have a significant age difference but he's very understanding of a more open relationship. We have a lot of fun together and share a lot of the same interests. I care a lot about him so when he asked if I wanted to meet his half-son, "Jake", I saw no issue. We all went out to dinner and his son and I had immediate chemistry. We kept making long eye contact and looking at each other first when laughing, lots of internet jokes and anime references etc. We had some drinks and were having a fun time so we all went back to John's to watch a movie. During the movie John and I were holding hands with me in the middle. I kept feeling this burning sensation to hold Jake's hand. I didn't want to, I don't want to hurt John, but it's just that intense feeling you get when you're really into someone. I excused myself to go to bed while they finished the movie.

Over the last month, I've hung out a lot with John and Jake together and separately. It's extremely hard not to compare the two and where each relationship would go. I know this is screwed up and horrible. I haven't done anything with Jake and would never cheat on John, but I know that it's not possible to have a relationship with John anymore knowing what I do. I don't think I can spend time with Jake and not struggle with these intense feelings (emotionally and physically). I know I should just break it off with John and forget about them both.... but what if I always regret not telling Jake how I feel? What if John would ultimately be understanding if Jake felt the same? Should I take a huge risk and confess to them both? Or who would I need to confess to first?

TL;DR Intense feelings for boyfriend of 5 month's half-son. Should I just leave my boyfriend, or should I confess after breaking things off? If I confess, should it be to his son first or second?

DoctorTristan
Mar 11, 2006

I would look up into your lifeless eyes and wave, like this. Can you and your associates arrange that for me, Mr. Morden?
WTF is a ‘half-son’??

RenegadeStyle1
Jun 7, 2005

Baby Come Back

DoctorTristan posted:

WTF is a ‘half-son’??

Duh it's a son where it's half your genes half someone else's.

Colonel Cancer
Sep 26, 2015

Tune into the fireplace channel, you absolute buffoon
Half human, half son duh

Fatkraken
Jun 23, 2005

Fun-time is over.
half son aside, confessing her feelings doesn't seem like much of a risk, she's breaking things off with the dad anyway. So either they're both out of her life without a blow up, both out of her life WITH a blow up which she doesn't have to deal with, or she gets to trade up and everyone is cool.

Dazerbeams
Jul 8, 2009

That poor girl with the Teddy hippo is going to have her story blasted by those clickbait sites. That sweet idiot child.

Tashilicious
Jul 17, 2016

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS

razorrozar posted:

why do people pay for feet pics

why do people pay for any kind of porn

sex work is work and deserves compensation.
dont be like this friend

Mr. Lobe
Feb 23, 2007

... Dry bones...


Dazerbeams posted:

That poor girl with the Teddy hippo is going to have her story blasted by those clickbait sites. That sweet idiot child.

On the bright side it will do the hard work of breaking up for her

AWarmBody
Jul 26, 2014

Better than a cold one.
Do foot fetish people ever masturbate to their own feet? That seems like a nice way to save money.

Bonster
Mar 3, 2007

Keep rolling, rolling

Peaceful Anarchy posted:

Why the gently caress does this person think the dean would care? "Hi, this employee is doing something even cops don't give a poo poo about in their own home, please help"


Because of her status and her "do you want me to make the next four years a living hell," which could be construed as an actionable threat. It depends on the administration, but if she's a pain in the rear end at work, too, the dean may act on it.

Sjs00
Jun 29, 2013

Yeah Baby Yeah !

AWarmBody posted:

Do foot fetish people ever masturbate to their own feet? That seems like a nice way to save money.

I don't

Mozi
Apr 4, 2004

Forms change so fast
Time is moving past
Memory is smoke
Gonna get wider when I die
Nap Ghost
i used to be into foot fetishism but eventually i just ankled the whole business

Sunswipe
Feb 5, 2016

by Fluffdaddy
I hope a moderator steps in to make everyone toe the line on this foot fetish diversion.

Darkhold
Feb 19, 2011

No Heart❤️
No Soul👻
No Service🙅

Colonel Cancer posted:

Half human, half son duh
No it's when you have a son with a hobbit I think.

xtal
Jan 9, 2011

by Fluffdaddy

Sunswipe posted:

I hope a moderator steps in to make everyone toe the line on this foot fetish diversion.

Not sure if pun intended

Sunswipe
Feb 5, 2016

by Fluffdaddy

xtal posted:

Not sure if pun intended

Try and keep instep with my sense of humour.

DandyLion
Jun 24, 2010
disrespectul Deciever

Sunswipe posted:

Try and keep instep with my sense of humour.

I consider you more of a heel rather than a comedian though.

Tashilicious
Jul 17, 2016

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS

DandyLion posted:

I consider you more of a heel rather than a comedian though.

A person isn't solely one thing.

Ouhei
Oct 23, 2008

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:

QuarkJets posted:

This is a tough one and it really depends on how much you like/trust your MIL. If it's almost even or slightly more expensive for cost then I'd say go with the MIL because that option just seems better overall, like it's a clear win-win to have a dedicated nanny who can be called on to babysit for the occasional date night instead of just a daycare. But this is all very contingent on how you feel about your MIL. The fact that this comes down to "I want her to live with us instead of somewhere else" I guess means that that's not a concern

Having your MIL live with you for a year would probably suck in any case btw

There's positives to having your kid in an actual daycare vs. your MIL watching them too, so if it was the same cost I'd consider just doing daycare. Though it sounds like the MIL doesn't live nearby now (hence why she needs an apartment?) so having that built in babysitter is pretty clutch especially that early on.

DemoneeHo
Nov 9, 2017

Come on hee-ho, just give us 300 more macca


These puns are to be stomped out

Sunswipe
Feb 5, 2016

by Fluffdaddy

DemoneeHo posted:

These puns are to be stomped out

Agreed, we need to give them the boot.

Sjs00
Jun 29, 2013

Yeah Baby Yeah !
I'd say it's too late to get a foot in the door

Tashilicious
Jul 17, 2016

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
i want to gnaw someones toes it makes me horny

Tashilicious
Jul 17, 2016

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS
wait i did it wrong gently caress poo poo poo poo gently caress goddamnit

Hellsau
Jan 14, 2010

NEVER FUCKING TAKE A NIGHT OFF CLAN WARS.

Tashilicious posted:

wait i did it wrong gently caress poo poo poo poo gently caress goddamnit

kick this poster out of here

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RenegadeStyle1
Jun 7, 2005

Baby Come Back

Hellsau posted:

kick this poster out of here

I think he should be put 6 feet under.

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