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Peaceful Anarchy posted:This one? Piell posted:AITA for canceling in an appointment that was made for me without my consent? Just
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Uncle Enzo posted:I think OP is in the clear, they'd tried communicating many times to no avail. You can't say "go talk again but make them listen this time". Also she did tell the lady, completely unmistakeably, that she needed to make other arrangements via moving out. She paid her share of the rent for a place she didn't even live in, leaving the pregnant woman a month to act. She left the place in good condition with the woman staying having the option to renew the lease, find a roommate, move out, whatever. Specific details matter a lot when dealing with living arrangements. She didn't owe an explanation but giving a date ahead of time would have been the decent thing to do. It would for sure have caused more crazy drama but for me at least I would have to do it to have a clear conscience in that situation.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 01:44 |
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Uncle Enzo posted:I think OP is in the clear, they'd tried communicating many times to no avail. You can't say "go talk again but make them listen this time". Also she did tell the lady, completely unmistakeably, that she needed to make other arrangements via moving out. She paid her share of the rent for a place she didn't even live in, leaving the pregnant woman a month to act. She left the place in good condition with the woman staying having the option to renew the lease, find a roommate, move out, whatever. It's like pulling off a bandaid, do you want to do it in one yank or have it last a whole month?
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 01:54 |
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Dongsturm posted:I'm not buying it. The golden child doesn't get forced to go to her sister's wedding while sick, she gets to stay at home with ice-cream. The golden child is the one who gets to order her sister to leave the house, even when the sister is extremely ill. You know that the golden child/scapegoat dynamic doesn’t exist in every family right? And it is even possible to have hosed up family dynamics other than that? Sometimes teenagers sneak around just enough that the parents aren’t aware until the kid is in real trouble, and then they don’t know what to do. It’s possible for things to be unfair and messed up and not fall into specific patterns that idiots on the internet are currently obsessed with. Having grown up with a fair few addicts in my family, including one that lives with us while I was in high school,many of them are going to wind up doing something that someone around them deems unforgivable and sometimes people hold grudges for years. If the older sister’s entire senior year was getting messed up because of her hosed up sister, vomiting over 2 rows of people might just be the cherry on a poo poo sundae. I could also see parents who are struggling to balance the needs of their kids just deciding the add to they have been contorting their life to try and help could suck it up this one time. They don’t even have to be particularly bad parents to have wound up in this situation.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:09 |
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blatman posted:AITA (21F) For Destroying My Sister’s (26F) Bee Colony? Why do people seem to think that another person being unreasonable means they get a free pass to do whatever? She sounds pretty wacky, but her crazy plans were completely theoretical when he decided to gently caress with her poo poo. He is the rear end in a top hat.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:11 |
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blatman posted:AITA (21F) For Destroying My Sister’s (26F) Bee Colony?
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thotsky posted:Why do people seem to think that another person being unreasonable means they get a free pass to do whatever? She sounds pretty wacky, but her crazy plans were completely theoretical when he decided to gently caress with her poo poo. He is the rear end in a top hat. The letters F are right there.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:39 |
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Anyone remember a story where the OP would babysit his neighbour's kid every once in a while, and suddenly she tried to take him for child support saying he was the kid's father figure now, then after either getting laughed at by a lawyer or dropping it after realizing how dumb that is, she was mad that the OP no longer wanted to watch her kid? It was an amazing case of hand biting
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:43 |
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Danaru posted:Anyone remember a story where the OP would babysit his neighbour's kid every once in a while, and suddenly she tried to take him for child support saying he was the kid's father figure now, then after either getting laughed at by a lawyer or dropping it after realizing how dumb that is, she was mad that the OP no longer wanted to watch her kid? It was an amazing case of hand biting Cowslips Warren posted:
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:52 |
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Danaru posted:Anyone remember a story where the OP would babysit his neighbour's kid every once in a while, and suddenly she tried to take him for child support saying he was the kid's father figure now, then after either getting laughed at by a lawyer or dropping it after realizing how dumb that is, she was mad that the OP no longer wanted to watch her kid? It was an amazing case of hand biting Yeah, he was basically providing free daycare for the kid and after she tried to sue him for child support he stopped doing so, and she was real mad at him "taking it out on the kid".
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 02:52 |
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SalTheBard posted:Do you have a link to this one O_o Sadly no. But it wasn't a fun read. Just the hosed up and sad story of a guy who spent 18 years plotting his revenge on the woman who cheated on him and the innocent child who believed her father loved her. He played the role of caring husband and father just so it would hurt them even more when he eventually walked out without a word the day the daughter turned 18. Seriously hosed up sociopath poo poo. Megillah Gorilla fucked around with this message at 03:57 on Oct 24, 2021 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Here you go Given the age real curious if she was kicked out for having a kid at 18 or for some similar "pay for my child" poo poo. Same for why she's going after a neighbor for child support and not the biological father.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:00 |
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SalTheBard posted:Do you have a link to this one O_o Mom had an affair 18 years ago, I [18M] am the product of it. My dad just informed me of all this, and told me he will not pay for my college, while my siblings got their college experience paid by our dad. quote:Pretty much the title. I have no idea how to process all this, and I am completely unprepared for what lies ahead [UPDATE] Mom had an affair 18 years ago, I [18M] am the product of it. My dad just informed me of all this, and told me he will not pay for my college, while my siblings got their college experience paid by our dad. quote:The reaction to my original post put an uncomfortable amount of pressure on me to write this update.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:13 |
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There is no way on earth a real lawyer wrote that child support demand.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:15 |
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:There is no way on earth a real lawyer wrote that child support demand.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Here you go Anyone else getting the vibe that he was sleeping with her and intentionally omitted it?
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:21 |
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:AITA for not looking after a kid anymore? Kurieg posted:Yeah, he was basically providing free daycare for the kid and after she tried to sue him for child support he stopped doing so, and she was real mad at him "taking it out on the kid". As a general rule, five day per week daycare costs in the same ballpark as a home mortgage or monthly rent for a couple bedroom apartment. And to be clear, this isn't Child Harvard or whatever, this is for standard childcare meeting the bare minimum levels of safety and cleanliness. But nope, saving yourself a couple thousand bucks per month isn't good enough.
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:There is no way on earth a real lawyer wrote that child support demand. I started to agree with you, but there are lawyers who will write dumb letter for money.
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nvidiagouge posted:Anyone else getting the vibe that he was sleeping with her and intentionally omitted it?
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:32 |
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:There is no way on earth a real lawyer wrote that child support demand. It was free legal aide, she probably lied her rear end off hoping that would work. Anyone trying to shake down a neighbor for child support money is probably not a good person in other areas of life.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:35 |
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AITA for making my husband cook anytime he complains about my cookingquote:Husband doesn't cook, I've tried to teach him the basics but being in the kitchen just makes him nervous, so he prefers if I do it. We split the rest of the chores, it's just cooking he has an issue with, and he'll do all of the cleanup afterwards, so I agreed to do dinners with one one very explicit stipulation. girl why did you settle you absolute donkey
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:35 |
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AITA for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me?quote:I am the by-product of my parents extra-marital affair. Both of them had spouses at the time. My birth-mother got pregnant and had to tell her husband as he was overseas when I was conceived so there was no way I was his. A few months after I was born they decided not to divorce. I was given to my grandparents on my mothers side to raise with my birth father secretly paying child support without his wife's knowledge. quote:Me and Diomara (12F) have had a rough summer. She's been more defiant than usual. I've been dating her Mom Mara (30F) for 2 years now. 9 moths ago, they moved in with me, Maple (33M). Both Dio and Mara have an on again/off again relationship with Dio's Dad (Dynasis). He's pretty much never paid child support, comes and goes as he pleases into Dio's life. Typical lovely-rear end part time Dad. I've tried to fill the Dad role in her life, while still understanding boundaries, taking things slow, etc.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:37 |
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i never tip the security guards unless it was a 5* experience, from arrest, processing, and release.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:40 |
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Scaevolus posted:AITA for telling my GF's daughter she's not my daughter so don't expect me to pay? OPs " I absolutely don't voluntarily gently caress with any kind of police" shirt is raising a lot of questions already answered by his shirt
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:40 |
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SalTheBard posted:Do you have a link to this one O_o Ugly In The Morning posted:Some people were looking for the “dude got cheated on and held it together for 18 years” story so I dug it up for y’all. It’s a true classic.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:45 |
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MagusofStars posted:I'm always amazed at the stories of parents who have free/heavily discounted child care and gently caress it up by over-reaching. I decided to be a stay at home dad when I realized my whole income would go to the kind of place they duct-tape your kid's shoes to their feet and film them having fights. It's been a huge investment in time, energy, and emotional strength but I have a lot more of that on balance than I have marketable skills
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 03:46 |
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The thing that gets to me most about this story, is that even after her bf told her that he'd stay with her for their son's sake, she kept having an affair for a year afterwards! Like, what the hell. Anyway, some more content. AITA puting my future child first over paying back my mother-in-law. quote:so long story short I haven't gotten along with my mother-in-law over the 8 years I've been with my wife. we tried to make amends and we were on civil terms and things were okay when we had to deal with each other.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 04:12 |
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Scaevolus posted:AITA for ruining both my parents marriages for disowning me? 1st story: kid owns bones. how is all his genetic material concentrated trash and yet he turned out so cool? Extra points for having the emotional maturity to feel remorse for hurting his (newly found) siblings in the course of his brutal and just campaign. 2nd story: That dude is being taken advantage of. Pays for kid, mom moved in with him, supports her activities, pays for food, rent, clothing and transportation. Yet, zero respect. The kid is not the bad guy here, poo poo dad and leech, laydown mom are. Hopefully there's an outcome where the girl realizes her biodad sucks and this dude is there for her, but I wouldn't count on it given the other parental figures in her life. But tipping the security guards?
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 04:21 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA puting my future child first over paying back my mother-in-law. This guy sucks, gently caress this guy. AITA for not wanting to give my cat a death sentence? quote:I(33m) have had this cat since she was like 8 weeks old, she is now 8 years old. My wife has never liked her from the beginning. At some point, the cat started peeing outside the litter box which caused problems between the wife and I. I took her to the vet to see if it was medical related which it wasn't. I finally agreed to rehome her after several arguments. I had one condition. Not to do anything that would give her a death sentence(no kill shelter, shady people, or just kicking her outside). Everywhere has a waiting list so we've been waiting while occasionally asking around if anyone wants her. I am now currently deployed in another country and I wake up to her telling me that she found someone to take her, she's just at her friends waiting to be picked up. Flash forward to about 20 min ago where I was just told I was lied to about finding a home for her. Turns out that "taking her to her friend's to be picked up" was code for dropping her in her friend's neighborhood to be a outdoor/feral cat. Taking an indoor cat that's 8 years old and suddenly throwing her outside to fend for herself is practically a death sentence. Now I'm being told that she no longer wishes to be married to me because I "care more about that loving cat." So AITA for getting upset at the fact that she did the one thing I asked her not to and then lied to me about it? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCsex2tGXrs&t=50s
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 04:30 |
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thotsky posted:Why do people seem to think that another person being unreasonable means they get a free pass to do whatever? She sounds pretty wacky, but her crazy plans were completely theoretical when he decided to gently caress with her poo poo. He is the rear end in a top hat. She'd already started taking doors off and draping netting over his bed. He was afraid he was going to come home one day to find his room full of bees.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 04:54 |
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im no expert but i think if it says F in the post it means she's a lady
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 04:57 |
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Evil Willow posted:The thing that gets to me most about this story, is that even after her bf told her that he'd stay with her for their son's sake, she kept having an affair for a year afterwards! Like, what the hell. Anyway, some more content. Hey dumbfuck go down to the day labor agencies like two Saturdays in a row and you can pay your mother in law back if you are that loving broke.
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Nyan Bread fucked around with this message at 05:19 on Oct 24, 2021 |
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therobit posted:Hey dumbfuck go down to the day labor agencies like two Saturdays in a row and you can pay your mother in law back if you are that loving broke. Counter argument: MIL can fall in a well and drown Maybe there's something to be said for both sides of the argument?
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 05:23 |
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Counter argument: MIL can fall in a well and drown Compromise: go to the day labor agency, get a contract to dig a well, when it's done push MIL into it
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therobit posted:Hey dumbfuck go down to the day labor agencies like two Saturdays in a row and you can pay your mother in law back if you are that loving broke. or stand on the corner with a cardboard sign for like an hour weird that he can't pay back his MIL's $100 when according to his post history, he had enough money for a new gaming laptop like a month ago
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 05:29 |
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Foo Diddley posted:or stand on the corner with a cardboard sign for like an hour The baby needs a gaming laptop, to game on the go!
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 05:46 |
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OGDanDogg posted:My dad says that you know things are hot when they're slippery. This post made my physically gasp. The Bee posted:Was there ever an update to Timothy? Timothy is one of my favorite posts from this thread's dynasty. No, because the in-laws murdered OP and turned her empty skin into a mouse dummy which they provide the voice for.
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# ? Oct 24, 2021 05:49 |
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Okay I don't think I got my red text for calling this dude and the people jizzing their pants about how awesome he was sociopaths, I think I got it for doing the same about the one where the guy walked out on a four year old that wasn't biologically his with no warning after a nice vacation. Seriously cheating is wrong but goddamn there are people who view that as a justification for every possible type of harm on anyone.
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On this read there doesn't seem to be any indication 18 years and out dad doesn't love his kid or want to be part of their life (why plan a family christmas even when you're leaving otherwise). He's just done with the charade of giving a poo poo about the mother of his kid and wants to make a clean break. He doesn't even say he's going to reveal the infidelity.
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