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AITA for leaving when my sister was late, but pretending to be in the loo and repeatedly messaging that I'd be out soon?quote:My sister is always late. Like 1 or 2 hours late for a 2 person coffee in a shop. Recently, after a bunch of similar incidents that left me freezing in an outdoor train station for 1.5 hours with no messages, and many times having no idea where she was in a coffee place, I shouted at her and told her that this is not acceptable. She refused to acknowledge this and said I should just accept her for how she is and should not try to change her and break her integrity.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for leaving when my sister was late, but pretending to be in the loo and repeatedly messaging that I'd be out soon? On behalf of everyone who has a habitually tardy friend I salute you OP.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:03 |
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teen witch posted:My hair is red probe incoming ??? ??????????????????????????? edit: enhance
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:06 |
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AITA for wearing sunglasses to my sister's wedding?quote:I (f26) have terrible eyesight (+5 in both eyes), meaning I have to wear glasses at all times unless I want to see the world as a blob. I've wore glasses since I was 7 years old.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:08 |
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What is it about being the literal center of attention that makes people seek out the most minor thing to flip out over and, thus, draw attention to that instead?
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:18 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA I got mad at my wife because she caused me to fail an important interview I get mad at my partner when he walks in unannounced to the den that I WFH in when the door is closed. It's irritating. Especially if I'm in a meeting where cameras have to be on. Since I'm not married to this woman, I think I'll give him a hug, kiss, and apology. It could be so much worse.
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Total Meatlove posted:Can't even post 'cucked for the buck' 'cos a male elk is called a bull wtf america That story is a load of cuck and bull.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:21 |
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therobit posted:That story is a load of cuck and bull. This thread has broken my brain, all I can think about after seeing those two words is Berth Ell Pup, I hope you're all happy
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:28 |
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Someone should repost that one. That's a nice trip down memory lane.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:36 |
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blatman posted:
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:40 |
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Someone should repost that one. That's a nice trip down memory lane. Utterly cursed classic. My [28f] fiance's [31m] fetish is getting out of control, and it's ruining our wedding planning. quote:I'm using a throwaway account because I'm humiliated about how this has been going. [Update] My [28f] fiance's [31m] fetish is growing out of control. We talked it through, and made some decisions. quote:Since then a lot of people have private messaged me with good advice. Some people have insulted my fiance. A couple tried to get themselves involved in my sex life by asking if they could be a bull (what the gently caress?). I took the advice to heart and had a talk with my fiance.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:45 |
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Don't people want at least one goofy photo from the wedding? The whole bridal party could have had one shot where everyone wore sunglasses and then people would chuckle at the memory years later.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:50 |
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loving lol @ berth ell pup
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 15:51 |
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Berth Ell Pup continues to be and will forever be the GOAT post in this string of threads.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:01 |
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I like how it never occurs to them that people might... google the phrase? And what that google would bring up...
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:04 |
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Ethiser posted:Berth Ell Pup continues to be and will forever be the GOAT post in this string of threads. https://www.reveddit.com/v/Drama/comments/6j14je/utryitidareyou_has_run_its_course_its_been_fun/djas28f/?context=3 The best news I got from searching for this is that it's fake, written by a troll trying to get a rise out of people. It worked, very well crafted story.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:06 |
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Brawnfire posted:I like how it never occurs to them that people might... google the phrase? And what that google would bring up... quote:Oh my god you're right.
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spouse posted:https://www.reveddit.com/v/Drama/comments/6j14je/utryitidareyou_has_run_its_course_its_been_fun/djas28f/?context=3 The best trolls are the ones so plausible it's not that you believe it probably happened somewhere but that you know someone with the same complete relationship dysfunction you could believe someone like them could be involved. Even if berth el pup is fake most of us probably have known someone who got addicted to their kink to the point it became socially and interpersonally toxic.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:11 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:The best trolls are the ones so plausible it's not that you believe it probably happened somewhere but that you know someone with the same complete relationship dysfunction you could believe someone like them could be involved. My favorite part of that thread is their little collections of "owns", where they wrote a convincing story and got people to respond genuinely to the story as if they were acting in good faith. Like, great job dude, you totally burned those stupid redditors
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:14 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for leaving when my sister was late, but pretending to be in the loo and repeatedly messaging that I'd be out soon? 8one6 posted:On behalf of everyone who has a habitually tardy friend I salute you OP. But if you have a friend who regularly shows up an hour or two late to stuff, screw that. Just stop inviting them to poo poo because you’re clearly not a priority. Or at least restrict it to only stuff where you won’t be waiting if they show up late / flake entirely.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:15 |
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spouse posted:My favorite part of that thread is their little collections of "owns", where they wrote a convincing story and got people to respond genuinely to the story as if they were acting in good faith. This is why the people who write fake reddit posts are, ultimately, the loving weirdest. Their whole thing is just enjoying stirring people up, the thrill of the rise. Like drat, just go channel that energy it into kinky sex like everyone else does.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:19 |
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:No! No she is not an rear end in a top hat for not giving her friend eggs! For those of you who don’t know egg donation is a ton more complex, you have to take hormones to fool your body into “thinking” it’s pregnant and it’s a multi-month process, it’s why people can get into the 10s of thousands sometimes because it’s so much more invasive, involved, and life-altering. I'm curious if the health issues are a thing that genetic testing can reveal, or a more general concern. Not that it matters if eggmom isn't on board.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:19 |
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What sort of person waits hours for someone who's late? 10 min? 15 min? maybe 30 if they let you know they're running late but still coming. But hours!!?
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:35 |
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As someone currently waiting 2 hours for my wife to finish loving packing I get that person's struggle. I was supposed to meet people tonight at a six hour drive away but I had to rearrange all the plans because someone couldn't get motivated
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:39 |
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Baronjutter posted:What sort of person waits hours for someone who's late? 10 min? 15 min? maybe 30 if they let you know they're running late but still coming. But hours!!? a kid expecting to be picked up from tee-ball practice
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:40 |
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I had a friend that was late all the time to everything. Movies, concerts, sporting events, dinners. You name it, they were late. Often 30+ minutes. Never a good excuse or anything. One time we were supposed to leave for a road trip and they were multiple hours late, and were really confused when I stopped planning to do stuff with them. I think it's a brain wiring thing.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 16:58 |
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Fixins posted:As someone currently waiting 2 hours for my wife to finish loving packing I get that person's struggle. I was supposed to meet people tonight at a six hour drive away but I had to rearrange all the plans because someone couldn't get motivated You should probably communicate your feelings with her instead of passive-aggressively venting about it in the relationships thread. That'd probably be healthier.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:03 |
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I think it's a form of disrespect and aggression. I assure you that for most of these people if there were $1000 waiting for them if they were there on time, they would be. For people that are perpetually late I usually tell them to come for a time earlier than the real time and then they are late less often.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:04 |
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Is this a trope or something? Because I definitely got forgotten by both my parents at baseball camp for hours one summer.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:05 |
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Tarkus posted:I think it's a form of disrespect and aggression. lmao You sound like someone’s dad with a stick up their rear end.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:08 |
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Tarkus posted:I think it's a form of disrespect and aggression. I assure you that for most of these people if there were $1000 waiting for them if they were there on time, they would be. For people that are perpetually late I usually tell them to come for a time earlier than the real time and then they are late less often. Yeah I just stop inviting people like that to things. They can show up on time to work, they can show up on time to doctor's appointments where they'd be out money as a no-show. Dinner? 45 min late because they "lost track of time" or "getting ready took longer than they thought" or the most common excuse of not even bothering to make an excuse. They were just gaming or scrolling or something and knew they were late but their immediate enjoyment was far more important than making their friends wait for them. Ultimately it's just being a self centered sack of poo poo.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:09 |
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It's an integrity thing. Do what you say you're going to do and be where you say you're going to be, when you said you would be there. The other side to it is that 99% of the time some kind of pre-meet update about being late isn't going to bother anyone so just have a small amount of consideration and everything will be fine.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:13 |
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Dewgy posted:lmao Sorry you are always late to stuff. You’ll get better at it I’m sure.
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Before anyone tries to chime in with the usual ADHD excuse, as someone who was diagnosed with ADHD (by a real doctor and everything) if they cared they would develop a coping strategy to avoid being hours late to everything. Baronjutter posted:Yeah I just stop inviting people like that to things. They can show up on time to work, they can show up on time to doctor's appointments where they'd be out money as a no-show. Dinner? 45 min late because they "lost track of time" or "getting ready took longer than they thought" or the most common excuse of not even bothering to make an excuse. They were just gaming or scrolling or something and knew they were late but their immediate enjoyment was far more important than making their friends wait for them. This. If it was important to them they'd work to fix it.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:15 |
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Dewgy posted:lmao The habitually late person has entered the thread.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:16 |
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Well I’m on time to this thread to see that it’s getting a bit snippy. You can continue the delay derail, but add content.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:17 |
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value-brand cereal posted:Give me your house, your baby, your half of the inheritance, and your dead siblings name.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:17 |
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Should I speak to his wife and get her story?quote:I'll keep this as short as possible, would appreciate some advice.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:22 |
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teen witch posted:Should I speak to his wife and get her story? She already bought the house with him? Oh no.
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# ? Oct 25, 2021 17:26 |
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8one6 posted:She already bought the house with him? Oh no. Lmao Lmao
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