PancakeTransmission posted:

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

AITA for sniffing a seat?

cumpantry posted:

NEVER EVER NEVER LET ANYONE TAKE AWAY YOUR SPARKEL

PancakeTransmission posted:

DRS SAID I WAS SICK AND COULD DIE FROM A BROKEN HEART

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I am well within my rights to sniff a seat

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My bother sent me a heartbreaking email afterwards on how he felt so rejected that we weren’t at his wedding nor apologised afterwards

Guildenstern Mother posted:

Now I'm just imagining a Buddhist temple with rows of nuns quietly meditating, large tastefully carved dildos sticking up from between their legs.

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I'm 16F and my 45yo dad has this habit of dating college age women and dumping them after like 2 or 3 years then complaining about how needy and clingy they were. It's been going on my entire life and it really annoys me, like I feel like if he doesn't want someone clingy, a woman in her early 20s willing to date a guy who could be her dad maybe isn't the best option. It's seriously like he's allergic to any woman over 23.

I've made half jokey comments before about how I think it's creepy he only dates women 24 and under but apparently I need to mind my own business, even though I live with him full time so the women he brings over kinda are my business especially if he wants to complain to me about them when he dumps them for being clingy.

Anyway so about a week ago he introduced his new gf to me, and she's 21 but could easily pass for my age. Like she wouldn't be out of place in my high school. Idk it really bothered me in particular that day so when my dad wasn't around I told her that if she's looking for a long term thing, she won't get it from my dad because he'll definitely dump her before she turns 24 like every single other woman he's ever dated and then he'll call her a pathetic clingy mess behind her back.

I didn't think she believed me, because at the time she laughed it off and said it was different with her, but I guess she thought about it and she ended up dumping him yesterday and must have told my dad what I said, cos now he's angry at me for interfering in his relationship. He also says he's hurt that I think of him that way, even though literally all I did was tell the truth, and I think if he doesn't wanna be thought of that way he should stop being like that.

Guildenstern Mother posted:

Now I'm just imagining a Buddhist temple with rows of nuns quietly meditating, large tastefully carved dildos sticking up from between their legs.

Soylent Pudding posted:

AITA for warning my dad's girlfriend about his relationship patterns which led to her dumping him?

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I'm 16F and my 45yo dad has this habit of dating college age women

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It's been going on my entire life

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

AITA for sniffing a seat?

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Edit: we are engaged and live together, we also share credit cards and bank accounts

Maybe I’m making too a big out of this, maybe it is a big problem and why I’m posting here.

This has been going on since we’ve dated In college. I’ll use last night as an example. I’m always “safe order guy” meaning I get chicken tenders, steak, a burger, orange chicken etc… it’s not that I dislike other food, it’s that if I’m doing something crazy I want to buy It, prepare it, coke and serve it…be in control of the whole process.

She always orders the special, the catch of the day, the tasters menu, etc… and she invariably says “I don’t really like this, I should have just ordered what you got…let’s switch.” And she grabs my plate, sometimes I’m able to eat her food, sometimes it really is bad and then I go hungry. I’ve brought this up with her and she has up front told me she thinks it makes her “quirky and fun” and I’ve known this since dating her.

Last night we went to a sports bar after our league beach volley ball game and we’re starving. I just wanted food so I ordered chicken tenders and fries. This dingey SPORTS BAR was having a “snow crab special” which of course she wanted. I begged her to please just order something they couldn’t mess up and she accused me of being so “boring.” Food came, she crab legs looked, smelled and tasted like they were rotting wax and of course she didn’t want it and wanted my tenders. I finally stood up for myself and said no, she could send them back and order her own food.

Cue massive fight. She accused me of wasting food, of not cooperating with her and not “reading the room” whatever the meant . I told her that no I was not doing it this time. She started crying And demanded to go home. I said no I was so hungry I was eating my food. I think she got an Uber to a friends house and i have not seen her since.

I’m fed up. Is this breakup worthy and what should I do about this?

An insightful redditor posted:

Is she pulling this crap to post pictures on Instagram?

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Here come the downvotes but yes. Her post that’s still up from last night is “crab legs at a sports bar in Arizona! Who dis…”

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Edit: I called her parents, they haven’t heard from her either and me calling them now has them worried because they thought she was with me. I’m going to drive her important things over to their house and wash my hands of her. Whatever happens to her is of her own making at this point.


I don’t remember the exact timeline of how things went down on Sunday as far me posting but original was locked when she texted me at 6pm telling me that I owed her a huge apology for the way I behaved at the sports bar and the volley hall game (I still don’t know what that is about). I asked her where she was. She said she would tell me when I apologized. I said I was not going to apologize. She said she needed some time to thing whether this relationship was right for her. I told her that I just exhausted by so much of what she does that I couldn’t do it anymore.

She hung up and I haven’t heard from her since. She hasn’t even been by to pick up a change of clothes so I don’t know where she is. I cancelled all my credit cards we shared and opened a new back account and took half out of our shared but she hasn’t taken any money out or used her debit card so I guess I’m a little concerned since for all effect purposes she’s disappeared.

I’m not too worried now but If I haven’t heard anything by Friday I’ll call her parents. I kind of think she’s doing this disappearing act for attention.

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

AITA for sniffing a seat?

Soylent Pudding posted:

AITA for warning my dad's girlfriend about his relationship patterns which led to her dumping him?

DemoneeHo posted:

Every time we (25m,26f) go out to eat she orders something “exotic” and hates it then expects to switch meals with me. She sees this as “quirky,” I’m about to leave her it’s so frustrating. What are some solutions?


Update: my (25m) fiancé (26f) always orders exotic food she hates then forces me to switch meals with her. She had a melt down when I wouldn’t eat her crab legs from a sports bar on Saturday.

I kind of think she’s doing this disappearing act for attention.

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Just to clarify, I just turned 19 and living with my parents. I am still financially dependant on my parents and I'm currently a full-time college student.

Recently, my dad has been obsessed with gold. He just learned that gold could be stored and could be exchanged with lots of money in the long run. So, he decided to collect the whole family's money to invest into gold.

My younger brothers reluctantly gave their money box despite their protests. My dad had pressured us to give our money box because gold is a good investment. I told him that if he's adamant on having gold, then use his own money. He said he did and now it's our part because it could benefit everyone in the family.

I knew this would happen eventually so I had hid my money box prior to the incident. My dad got mad at me and ever since then, he has been giving me snide remarks and made hurtful jokes at me.

Anyways, my mom told me that my dad used half of his savings including my mom's to invest in gold. We are now financially struggling due to this. My mom tried to persuade me into giving my money box but I declined.

Now, my parents are against me because of the money box and that they have the right to have it because I am under their care.

AITA for refusing to give my money box to my dad for our family's gold investment?

thunderspanks posted:

AITA for not letting my dad take my money box

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He just learned that gold could be stored and could be exchanged with lots of money in the long run

Evil Willow posted:

AITA For Calling My BIL Out For His Weaponized Incompetence And Calling Him Pathetic At Dinner?

thunderspanks posted:

AITA for not letting my dad take my money box

MagusofStars posted:

I can’t tell if the dad is (1) buying real gold and storing it in his basement as a mini Fort Knox, (2) buying “gold” futures on the markets, or (3) it’s total bullshit to cover up his gambling/drug/etc habit.

thunderspanks posted:

AITA for not letting my dad take my money box
He just learned that gold could be stored and could be exchanged with lots of money in the long run.

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The toys are actually action figures, and I just like them. I’m not hurting anyone.

I’m 27, My little sister is 20, their kid is 3 and I’m not sure how old her boyfriend is, but they were staying with me since they have nowhere else to go, after his parents kicked them out (ours died many years ago) upon finding out she was pregnant.

I let them come down here and move into my 1 bedroom apartment here in Sam Francisco. It’s actually big I think, not huge obviously but not super small like you’d expect, i gave them the 1 bedroom and slept the main room.

I have thousands of dollars worth of action figures in my room and some comic books too. I overheard my sister on the phone in the kitchen talking about how I was a, “man-child who still played with toys”and a, “loser who doesn’t even cook but just eats microwaveable stuff”.

I told them I didn’t want them there anymore, she was crying and he was yelling. My sister said she was sorry but I felt humiliated. I kicked them out, even though they’ve got a bay on the way, and no money

Soylent Pudding posted:

AITA for kicking out my pregnant little sister and her bf, after I heard over heard them refer to me as, “loser who still plays with toys”

Soylent Pudding posted:

AITA for kicking out my pregnant little sister and her bf, after I heard over heard them refer to me as, “loser who still plays with toys”

DemoneeHo posted:

Update: my (25m) fiancé (26f) always orders exotic food she hates then forces me to switch meals with her. She had a melt down when I wouldn’t eat her crab legs from a sports bar on Saturday.

AceClown posted:

I was very close to forgiving wedding dude until...

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It's not something to be proud of, but I need some advice. He is relatively quiet in the headspace and rarely fronts, but when he does, he goes all over social media and attacks black and Asian people. He is also very antisemitic and transphobic, even though we were born female so he's technically trans. I fronted around 7 hours ago after an entire day of him being active. When I saw all of the notifications on tiktok and twitter, I knew something bad had happened. Is there any way of preventing this from happening again? I feel so guilty about this happening.

Hello Ketene posted:

from r/DID

Racist alter recently fronted

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

I am afraid I need a translation here to understand who this is about and what is going on and what is even being asked

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

I am afraid I need a translation here to understand who this is about and what is going on and what is even being asked

EIDE Van Hagar posted:

I am afraid I need a translation here to understand who this is about and what is going on and what is even being asked

mllaneza posted:

Hello Ketene posted:

from r/DID

Racist alter recently fronted

hawowanlawow posted:

I believe the current forum guidance is to pretend all these DID havers are totally real and not to make fun of them

cumpantry posted:

there is a beast lurking deep within me... and it HATES minorities. and is trans

Barudak posted:

Not your intention but you reminded me of the absolutely horrendous roleplaying game Beast where everyone was like "hey this is a deeply hosed up premise where you play an abuser who justifies all their actions" and then it came to light the lead dev/writer was in fact an abuser.