Mx. posted:How do I handle MIL (70F) who wants to see my child (her grandchild) while ignoring my (33F) existance? Just lmao at the idea that I’d let someone who’s spent the last 8 years actively ignoring my existence but more so anywhere near my child unattended Dramatika fucked around with this message at 02:48 on Dec 29, 2021 |
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Tjadeth posted:give me your paypigs I was going to go with Give me your subs!
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gently caress that spineless husband for making his wife put up with his insane mother.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for not sharing my clients as a domme Chloe Jessica posted:i imagine it would depend on the client. some might get off on that; some might want the domme to act bored and like it's not a big deal; some might prefer that they coo and fawn over everything they buy with their money. no form of BDSM is one-size-fits-all, which is why safewords are so important. A lot of them do. It's why part of it is to review the paypigs' financial records, income, bank accts, etc (plus for them that's like, foreplay.) NO gently caress YOU DAD posted:Im not American, so that might be the source of the confusion. Over here the boss would have to provide evidence of how a cardboard Danny DeVito was materially affecting his performance if he wanted to discipline him for it. At most companies questions would be asked of the boss' judgement along the lines of "why are you causing trouble with a long term asset who, until cardboard Danny showed up, you were talking up for a big promotion?" Yeah, that's what it is. Most Americans can be fired for any reason, including no reason at all. The ones who can't can also be fired for no reason at all but their boss just has to lie and say it's performance related on the form. B-Rock452 posted:An attorney friend of mine did a zoom hearing and the judge turned off his background by accident and everyone saw he was sitting in his bed Oh no, shock horror, now people he works with know he sleeps. If there's one good thing to come out of covid, it'll be everyone admitting they don't care about stuff like that. teen witch posted:In what world would I ever tread onto that potato country, instead of staying in my potato country. Plus I’m transferring in KEF. Depending on he country, it is often illegal to record minors in any context even like this, so that would probably backfire on OP. Glad it worked out for them.
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this is the absolute funniest Zoom fail ive ever seen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yH3Y_4wc0Ng the little snort when one of the other participants notices and is trying desperately not to die laughing in front of the judge
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AITA for giving my younger daughter money for getting A's but not my older daughter?quote:I have 2 daughters, Ava (16) and Emma (14). I made a deal with them that I'd give them $20 per A they get by the end of the semester. I told Ava I was only paying for real classes, not electives. She assumed I told Emma the same. Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 04:43 on Dec 29, 2021 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:[b]AITA for giving my younger daughter money for getting A's but not my older daughter? quote:I should at least give her $60 from the money she made from competitions, pageants, movies, plays, and tv shows. This is one of those exploding red flags that showers everyone in tinier red flags
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best case scenario mom is saving the money for her for when she turns 18 worst case scenario, stemlord *and* pageant mom
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Chloe Jessica posted:best case scenario mom is saving the money for her for when she turns 18 Lol best case stemlord and pageant mom Worst case mom steals her identity and/or frames her for murder
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Invisible Clergy posted:[b]AITA for giving my younger daughter money for getting A's but not my older daughter? Estranged Parent class of 2024
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Invisible Clergy posted:[b]AITA for giving my younger daughter money for getting A's but not my older daughter? Tell me you’ve never participated in the performing arts, without saying you’ve never participated in the performing arts. Also fuuuuuuuuucking gently caress you for keeping her performance money, that’s essentially income
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I don't understand the "stemlord" thing. The reason OP states for them not being "real classes" is that Ava already knows those subjects, not that the subjects themselves are unworthy. None of Emma's classes are STEM either. OP's still an rear end in a top hat and also an idiot.
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for giving my younger daughter money for getting A's but not my older daughter? OP says in the comments that she "controls" the daughter's money that she earned, and gives her an "allowance" out of it. EDIT to add, apparently there is over $1,000,000 in the account........................ Evil Willow fucked around with this message at 04:27 on Dec 29, 2021 |
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Evil Willow posted:OP says in the comments that she "controls" the daughter's money that she earned, and gives her an "allowance" out of it. EDIT to add, apparently there is over $1,000,000 in the account........................ I don't know that person's location, but I hope they're in california, usa, for the kid's sake. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California_Child_Actor%27s_Bill quote:The California Child Actor's Bill (also known as Coogan Act or Coogan Bill) is a law applicable to child performers, designed to safeguard a portion of their earnings for when they reach the age of majority, and protect them from exploitation and abuse.[1] I assume there's similar laws in other states, or at the federal level. I hope.
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Chloe Jessica posted:best case scenario mom is saving the money for her for when she turns 18 Do you seriously think there is a chance Mama June isn't spending all this money on herself? sephiRoth IRA posted:Lol best case stemlord and pageant mom She's single white femaling her the second she wants to take a break from acting. The Maroon Hawk posted:Tell me you’ve never participated in the performing arts, without saying you’ve never participated in the performing arts. That is income. Jackie Coogan sued his abusive parents and got the California Child Actor Law passed to prevent children from being exploited in this one very specific way 83 loving years ago but of course like any good law made to protect vulnerable people it is not enforced and is still being broken today. Peaceful Anarchy posted:I don't understand the "stemlord" thing. The reason OP states for them not being "real classes" is that Ava already knows those subjects, not that the subjects themselves are unworthy. None of Emma's classes are STEM either. "Stemlord" is a colloquial term for the kind of xkcd fan who smugly denounces the humanities and talks about their inferiority to science, technology, engineering, and math. Who cares if OP's daughter is good at classes? Those weren't the circumstances OP said she'd magnanimously return a few crumbs of the millions of dollars she's stealing from her child under. Being a stemlord isn't about actually valuing stem, it's about being a smug "I loving love science" type douche against the humanities Evil Willow posted:OP says in the comments that she "controls" the daughter's money that she earned, and gives her an "allowance" out of it. EDIT to add, apparently there is over $1,000,000 in the account........................ If this one's true, I hope her daughter sues the poo poo out of her the second she's able to escape.
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Evil Willow posted:EDIT to add, apparently there is over $1,000,000 in the account........................ Lol no fuckin way value-brand cereal posted:I assume there's similar laws in other states, or at the federal level. I hope. lmao
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Invisible Clergy posted:Depending on he country, it is often illegal to record minors in any context even like this, so that would probably backfire on OP. Glad it worked out for them. Please specify which countries where video/photo recording people in public and/or in a place with no expectation of privacy.......like uninvited people outside of you home.....is illegal. For anyone. You can't exclude minors in this context because that's insane to the point where it make any sort of recording de jure illegal.
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AITA for demanding my mom reimburse me for the Christmas gifts MIL returned?quote:My MIL is a strange woman. She is pretty mean and she seems incapable of doing most normal things, such as taking on a matriarch role, being a grandmother, inviting her new DIL into the family, etc.
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AITA for kicking out my husband's daughterquote:My husband, Oliver (38M), and I (35F), have been married for 3 months. We've been in a relationship for four years. I am currently pregnant with my first child, but my husband has four children from his previous relationship: Brooke, 5f, Luke, 13f, Nate, 16m, and Jess, 17f. The younger half is fine, but Nate and Jess have been the bain of my existence since we started dating. They are only 10 months apart in age, so they are very close. They always compare me to their mother, and anytime I try to discipline them, they call me a backstabbing bitch. To put things in context, their mother and I were friends until Oliver and I fell in love.I moved away, and I didn't contact Oliver until they were divorced months later. But Jess (who was/is my goddaughter) is still convinced we had an affair.
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Invisible Clergy posted:"Stemlord" is a colloquial term for the kind of xkcd fan who smugly denounces the humanities and talks about their inferiority to science, technology, engineering, and math. Who cares if OP's daughter is good at classes? Those weren't the circumstances OP said she'd magnanimously return a few crumbs of the millions of dollars she's stealing from her child under. Being a stemlord isn't about actually valuing stem, it's about being a smug "I loving love science" type douche against the humanities
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Mx. posted:AITA for kicking out my husband's daughter quote:To put things in context, their mother and I were friends until Oliver and I fell in love.I moved away, and I didn't contact Oliver until they were divorced months later. But Jess (who was/is my goddaughter) is still convinced we had an affair. So you both fell in love, you mysteriously moved away and he just happened to get divorced months later
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Mx. posted:AITA for kicking out my husband's daughter No it makes sense, the baby needs a whole room to itself and also gently caress that young woman's sense of support and stability just as she's finishing highschool, right?
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Yeah and that's not what's going on in the post. OP isn't "a smug "I loving love science" type douche against the humanities" when they're happy paying for a cooking elective. They're just a "you're already good at that so it doesn't count" cheapskate. Hey hey let's just all agree that mom deserves the guillotine
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Seth Pecksniff posted:
Its not an affair, it was just the groundwork and zoning permits
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:The official Twitter of Jorts and Jean! Extremely disappointed the profile pic is not a sweet potato.
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Mx. posted:How do I handle MIL (70F) who wants to see my child (her grandchild) while ignoring my (33F) existance? The start of the slippery slope where giving in even once means it won't stop. "Just this once" turns into "You did it once and it was no big deal" to "Just do it again to appease her. This is the last time I promise." The siren call of doormats everywhere. Evil Willow posted:AITA for demanding my mom reimburse me for the Christmas gifts MIL returned? I wonder why this dude who was followed around CVS being accosted by a group of women was angry? It must be because he has anger issues! He cussed at them for god's sake! The hypocrisy in this one is so thick you can physically see it. limp_cheese fucked around with this message at 05:31 on Dec 29, 2021 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for calling my wife a cheapskate for giving our kids used Christmas gifts? https://twitter.com/dril/status/7038537211?s=21
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for demanding my mom reimburse me for the Christmas gifts MIL returned? In what slice of humanity is this a normal thing? Where does this actually happen? Who does/normalizes this kind of thing? I'm not only talking about just randomly video calling someone........
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Coffee Sludge posted:Having received a bottle of ketchup one christmas from my grandparents, yes it sucks and obviously you don't ever end up forgetting that you got a condiment (or other consumable) for a present. One year, my grandma gave my sister (age 10ish) a box of Milkbones dog treats "because you love your dog." My sister was visibly upset but tried to hide it.
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Motronic posted:In what slice of humanity is this a normal thing? Where does this actually happen? Who does/normalizes this kind of thing? None of the ages are mentioned, but if you imagine them as late teens/early 20s on one side and late 30s/early 40s on the other, in an area so small that there's only the one CVS, it makes a little more sense.
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Motronic posted:Please specify which countries where video/photo recording people in public and/or in a place with no expectation of privacy.......like uninvited people outside of you home.....is illegal. For anyone. You can't exclude minors in this context because that's insane to the point where it make any sort of recording de jure illegal. I duct tape children to my body when robbing banks, so they have to delete the security footage, and I get off scot free.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for demanding my mom reimburse me for the Christmas gifts MIL returned? The comments on this one are an absolute cluster. Silly Newbie posted:None of the ages are mentioned, but if you imagine them as late teens/early 20s on one side and late 30s/early 40s on the other, in an area so small that there's only the one CVS, it makes a little more sense. I get big vibes of small town arrested development where everyone never really got over high school.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for demanding my mom reimburse me for the Christmas gifts MIL returned? quote:he rudely turned down one of her friends for sex and now the whole friend group harasses him
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Don’t you just keep the baby in a sock drawer for the first few months anyway?
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Don’t you just keep the baby in a sock drawer for the first few months anyway? Basically, yeah. My son is three, and he spent the first three or six months (I don't know exactly, newborns create their own localized fever dream) of evenings in a bascinet at the foot of our bed. We're talking about people who have a four bedroom apartment in New York with kids in serious private schools, though, so their grasp on reality may be tenuous.
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my middle brother had to have a special bassinet filled with i think sunlamps because his liver wasn't fully formed when he was born (someone with more knowledge about neonatal jaundice will probably correct me shortly about them being sunlamps)
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Invisible Clergy posted:That is income. Jackie Coogan sued his abusive parents and got the California Child Actor Law passed to prevent children from being exploited in this one very specific way 83 loving years ago but of course like any good law made to protect vulnerable people it is not enforced and is still being broken today. Yep, those stories about child actors like Macaulay Culkin and Corey Feldman 'divorcing' their parents happened because their parents were squandering all of their money.
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The_Franz posted:Yep, those stories about child actors like Macaulay Culkin and Corey Feldman 'divorcing' their parents happened because their parents were squandering all of their money. Yeah, emancipation. Unfortunately very common out of necessity for child actors/models/entertainers/etc who tend to be pushed into it by parasite parents. AITA for wanting my gym partner to stop constantly saying "yeehaw" and "yahooey" and other whoops at the gym together? quote:I've struggling with this for almost a dozen years. AITA for making my wife take extra care about food hygiene? quote:As a kid, I was obsessed with the cleanliness of anything I'd consume. For example, when my grandma would bring me a glass of juice, she would usually carry the glass by holding it very high up (right over where my mouth would be placed as I drink) and I'd constantly complain about it. I also hated food in general, as I'd be spending my focus on whether there's something nasty in what I eat rather than enjoying the meal. When I got older, I realized I might have some mild OCD but I never went to have it diagnosed, as I could still function kinda normally, apart from the food problem, as well as getting various ticks throughout my life. The real meat here is the comments: quote:It's interesting you're so concerned in cleanliness considering the other topics on your Reddit profile, my man. Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 16:29 on Dec 29, 2021 |
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AITA for wanting my gym partner to stop constantly saying "yeehaw" and "yahooey" and other whoops at the gym together? not even really subtext
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for making my wife take extra care about food hygiene? "Don't dirty food other people might be going to eat" is food hygiene 101 and I'm pretty sure it covers all of OP's bases. I have no loving clue what his beef is with the grandma juice technique, though.
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