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Evil Willow posted:drat I love stories with a happy ending! My love language is constant passive aggressive lashing out.
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Tiocfaidh Yar Ma posted:Terribly sorry to 'do a Kramer' as you USAtanians say. Certainly. While looking for content, I found his web site where he talked about posting a couple of the notable fakes and his thought process in designing them. Here is an anchor link to my original post with a link to his site. He shows up shortly after with the username "theshitpostdiaries" and posts a handful of times before moving on to greener pastures if you are interested.
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 13:27 |
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Wow I'm most surprised that I was actually pretty bang on with the 6 month estimate. Thanks for that
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 13:29 |
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We finally have a post from the other party's perspective from one of the most common AITA stories. "We expect unconditional babysitting from our family members. One person said never to ask, but I won't drop it and I drove over without warning and for some reason found pushback trying to shove my baby through the door. The emergency was a work meeting, which everyone has every day". quote:AITA for telling my BIL it's cringe to continue saying he's child free whenever I ask him to watch my son?
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 15:30 |
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Barudak posted:See this is why I built a tulou, so everyone I was friends with could live in a collective house for the simple agreement they all agree to me as head of the clan and that in times of war I can muster their children for defense. What shape are you making it in? I dunno if I trust the defensive capabilities of a square one....
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Invisible Clergy posted:There is no such term. The closest you can get (in terms of how upset a white person will be to hear it) is "racist." And once more, obviously, it describes actual actions, not false stereotypes. did we forget the y****e discussion already
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Barudak posted:See this is why I built a tulou, so everyone I was friends with could live in a collective house for the simple agreement they all agree to me as head of the clan and that in times of war I can muster their children for defense. I learned about toulous from your post, that's a pretty interesting concept and execution.
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 17:16 |
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Scags McDouglas posted:AITA for telling my BIL it's cringe to continue saying he's child free whenever I ask him to watch my son? it is a bit of lovely move to show up to someone's doorstep needing a babysitter, but it's a 4 year old just turn on netflix kids and remember to feed them before midnight. also lol asking reddit's opinion on this they were the ones to come up with childfree in the first place
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 17:43 |
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AITA for keeping my daughter in the housequote:I (34F) live with my husband (37M) my daughter (15F) and son (11M), My daughter and son are from a previous marriage. There was no malice in the divorce between my ex and I so we allowed the kids to decide who they would live with, right now me primarily and dad on the weekends. Now about a week ago my husband and I sat the both of them down and announced that I am pregnant and they will be having a little brother or sister. My son was over the moon wanting to feel my stomach, (even though there was nothing to feel) just overall happy.
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 17:43 |
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Scags McDouglas posted:We finally have a post from the other party's perspective from one of the most common AITA stories. People that feel entitled to other people's time and energy are the worst. What is it with these people and not being able to take no for an answer? If he had taken that kid in he would suddenly find himself babysitting for every "meeting" his entitled brother in law had.
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Tiberius Christ posted:it is a bit of lovely move to show up to someone's doorstep needing a babysitter, but it's a 4 year old just turn on netflix kids and remember to feed them before midnight. also lol asking reddit's opinion on this they were the ones to come up with childfree in the first place Bit of a lovely move? Especially when the person has explained in advance that they aren't interested in babysitting? How can anyone be so entitled that they would expect a reaction other than being laughed at and a door slammed in their face? If it's a legitimate emergency where someone may be at risk if the BIL doesn't take in the kid on a whim, maybe there's a discussion here. But for a work meeting, and not even an unscheduled meeting at that (presumably OP would have included that detail if it made him look better)? Go gently caress yourself, figure out your own childcare.
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The friend fourplex is crazy making. Either roll your landlord monies into a new house or apartment for yourself or accept free babysitting for the most difficult part of parenting and let living with a screaming baby sort itself out naturally.
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# ? Feb 5, 2022 18:11 |
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Xun posted:What shape are you making it in? I dunno if I trust the defensive capabilities of a square one.... As if it would be square. What self respecting 老大 would be caught in a square one, probably some northerner. I have a relative who effectively built one in their hometown in a decently bustling area for family and his personal friends and their families. It is an absolute maze of rural chinese concrete construction and everytime he's like do you want to inherit it I have to ponder if growing a long beard and getting good with a guandao is still feasible in my lifetime.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for keeping my daughter in the house This person is absolutely garbage and I hope her daughter can leave. In the comments, she's claiming total innocence (she never had a problem with her daughter not being very emotive and how was she to know her daugther didn't like the name if her daughter said nothing?)
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the holy poopacy posted:did we forget the y****e discussion already Yaddle?
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for keeping my daughter in the house Barring a conservative, old judge in a rural area, this lady is gonna get her poo poo absolutely wrecked in court.
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Brawnfire posted:Yaddle? Shhhh!!! We don't speak of... What happened.
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:The friend fourplex is crazy making. Either roll your landlord monies into a new house or apartment for yourself or accept free babysitting for the most difficult part of parenting and let living with a screaming baby sort itself out naturally. Nobody really wants a ton of people in their house when they have a newborn.
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:The friend fourplex is crazy making. Either roll your landlord monies into a new house or apartment for yourself or accept free babysitting for the most difficult part of parenting and let living with a screaming baby sort itself out naturally. lol what she has every right to ask them to leave. Giving 4 months is plenty of time. I’m guessing it’s more the $250 monthly rent than anything else. Any sane person would already plan to move out if there’s going to be a baby around
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I know we had this post before but not all of the updates. This guy's version of reality is really sureal. Me [35 M] with my wife [29F] of five years, wants a divorce after I requested a paternity test. quote:I met my wife through a mutual friend. We were friends for a year or so before we both became single and decided we were compatible enough to date. We were together 2 years before we got married. quote:I got to sit down with my wife during my visit with my daughter while she was napping. quote:I realize now that I'm not exactly someone you want to sympathize with, and I'm sorry. I do love Marissa and want to be a better husband and father. I accused my wife of cheating at every corner, snooped through her computer, went on tinder before splitting up and dates after, she wants to reconcile but I deserve my privacy and don't want to give her access to my phone. Guys why is she being unreasonable and not getting back together with me? (Yes everyone should have privacy but the hypocrisy is amazing.)
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Barudak posted:I have a relative who effectively built one in their hometown in a decently bustling area for family and his personal friends and their families. It is an absolute maze of rural chinese concrete construction and everytime he's like do you want to inherit it I have to ponder if growing a long beard and getting good with a guandao is still feasible in my lifetime. I’m now picturing an East Asian version of that up house
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Hughlander posted:I know we had this post before but not all of the updates. This guy's version of reality is really sureal. That dude is a dumbass and there’s definitely more to the story. He forgot he got on tinder and went on several dates? I wonder what the real story is in these cases where people paint themselves in the best possible light and still look like assholes
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Tiberius Christ posted:it is a bit of lovely move to show up to someone's doorstep needing a babysitter, but it's a 4 year old just turn on netflix kids and remember to feed them before midnight. also lol asking reddit's opinion on this they were the ones to come up with childfree in the first place You sound like someone who's never seen a four year old in a non-childproofed environment. That's easily old enough to break stuff for no reason and jam things into sockets.
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Shirec posted:This person is absolutely garbage and I hope her daughter can leave. In the comments, she's claiming total innocence (she never had a problem with her daughter not being very emotive and how was she to know her daugther didn't like the name if her daughter said nothing?) My strange daughter, the only emotionally closed off sullen teenager in the entire world.
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Invisible Clergy posted:Certainly. While looking for content, I found his web site where he talked about posting a couple of the notable fakes and his thought process in designing them. Here is an anchor link to my original post with a link to his site. He shows up shortly after with the username "theshitpostdiaries" and posts a handful of times before moving on to greener pastures if you are interested. Thanks for sending me on a hilarious rabbit hole. I just lurk but lots of confirmation. Some really funny replies.
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BigSexy posted:That dude is a dumbass and there’s definitely more to the story. He forgot he got on tinder and went on several dates? I wonder what the real story is in these cases where people paint themselves in the best possible light and still look like assholes Another Rational Man blowing up his entire life because he has a Feeling. None of these dudes ever think to just cheek-swab the baby on the dl and get some peace of mind secretly.
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Pondex posted:Another Rational Man blowing up his entire life because he has a Feeling. I have a feeling that wouldn't support their end goal, which not only includes checking paternity but also treating their wife like a piece of poo poo to "put them in their place" or some other narcissistic/redpill/pua kind of thing.
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Motronic posted:I have a feeling that wouldn't support their end goal, which not only includes checking paternity but also treating their wife like a piece of poo poo to "put them in their place" or some other narcissistic/redpill/pua kind of thing. some of them are just insecure but this guy 100% hates women and can't stand the idea of treating his wife as an equal
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the holy poopacy posted:some of them are just insecure but this guy 100% hates women and can't stand the idea of treating his wife as an equal I am baffled that he thinks he can just ... get forgiven with no work on his part? Reading his tone, he comes across as not even a little contrite. Very "everyone is at fault here" because she won't forgive and move on.
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ccubed posted:Thanks for sending me on a hilarious rabbit hole. I just lurk but lots of confirmation. Some really funny replies. You're welcome. Pondex posted:Another Rational Man blowing up his entire life because he has a Feeling. I love it when these redpill mra pieces of poo poo self-destruct like this. It's so funny. I'm sure some of those men do that, but guys like that would have 0 reason to post about it on reddit, so like happy polycules, we don't hear about them. Sampling bias.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for keeping my daughter in the house I’ll never be able to meet someone whose name is some variation of Sophia again without thinking “Sophiopath” to myself. Thanks, thread.
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AITA for ruining my work colleagues wedding and getting them arrested?quote:The title sounds bad, but hear me out.
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# ? Feb 6, 2022 00:04 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for ruining my work colleagues wedding and getting them arrested? Let this be true, please please please.
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quote:I need to add the police in our country is ruthless and any theft is considered a criminal matter for the police to deal with Unlike your country where cops are totes OK with theft?
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nashona posted:Unlike your country where cops are totes OK with theft? "It's a civil matter."
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nashona posted:Unlike your country where cops are totes OK with theft? Sounds like a civil matter to me.
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AITA for going to meet my in-laws, who my husband has never introduced me to, with his sister?quote:I married my husband after dating for a short time. He never introduced me to his family, even though he’s close to them and visits them multiple times a year. Whenever I asked him why, he would always tell me it wasn’t the right time yet and he would take me to see them one day. I have a feeling this is going to turn out very much like the pregnant wife who's in-laws/husband was convinced she'd die in childbirth... We'll just never hear from her again and know the worse has happened.
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nashona posted:Unlike your country where cops are totes OK with theft? That's all countries: cops protect private property (a wendy's) not personal property (your family heirlooms) which is one of many reasons we do not need them. WIBTA if I report my neighbors for weed? quote:UPDATE: I want to thank everyone who commented and gave good advice (i.e. letting me know I would be the rear end in a top hat but telling me other alternative ways to solve the issue), instead of just telling me I suck and should go die. I just want to clarify that I believe the criminalization of drugs is stupid, and that I only don’t want to be constantly smelling weed all the time and wasn’t sure what to do since I haven’t ever had reasonable neighbors. What I’m planning to do now is save up for an air purifier to see if that will help, and then if it doesn’t I’m going to talk to my neighbors about ways to lessen the smell seepage. If all else fails, I will be reporting then to management, however, because it is against the rules to smoke in our complex. Invisible Clergy fucked around with this message at 00:46 on Feb 6, 2022 |
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Wouldn't report a neighbour for smoking weed at any costs, but the house attached to ours was a grow op at one point and the stench was wild. House ops here tend to break into electrics to get power so I considered at least putting in a call to the building inspectors in case they burned the unit down. Eventually decided to wait until they had harvested and moved on, but somebody else must have made the call because it got raided a few weeks later and a pair of very glum looking chaps in a BMW sat at the end of our road watching the coppers cart away bag after bag of plants and grow kit. Apparently the family renting there had let "a mate from work" sub-let their upstairs and he'd smashed all the walls through to make it into one big grow room. They knew nothing about any of this, or about the strange blokes wandering in at all times of night with bags of fertiliser, obviously. My only takeaway was that it was amazing how much my electric jumped after they left because we actually had to use the heating for a change. Also that everybody involved (coppers and growers) had to put in a shitload of pointless time and effort that could just be avoided by legalising and legislating it.
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My roommate (and friend) smells awful and I don’t know how to bring it up with her.quote:We’re friends and we live together. She’s kind of one of those naturalist women who doesn’t shave her pits or legs or anything. But she has a fairly professional job where it’s unacceptable to have body odor. Every morning when she comes out of her room, she smells absolutely terrible to the point that I need to hold my breath. There’s also a smell coming from her room, similar to her body smell. I don’t care if her room is messy, but I care that it smells out into the hallway when her door is open. She has plenty of time to shower (she’s home from work at like 3:30pm). She’s very nice and we have a zero drama relationship. So this is a super awkward topic. And I really don’t know what to do about it. Any suggestions?
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