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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my mom's husband in public? That was a good one, too bad I can't find the comments thread. I assume the OP is male since people are pissing off his stepcreature by mentioning how much he looks like real Dad.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my mom's husband in public? Wanna give this kid a high-five.
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DemoneeHo posted:Help! My Niece Loves Showing Off Her New Boobs. I Need Her to Stay Away From My Husband. A "sex addicted" 60 year old man sounds like both an embarrassment and a nightmare, but the lack of information about his behavior is suspiciously absent.
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# ? Jun 15, 2022 00:44 |
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ponzicar posted:A "sex addicted" 60 year old man sounds like both an embarrassment and a nightmare, but the lack of information about his behavior is suspiciously absent. He's either literally the big bad wolf from Red Hot Riding Hood, or else he watched a porn once and she found out. No middle ground.
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Breetai posted:He's either literally the big bad wolf from Red Hot Riding Hood, or else he watched a porn once and she found out. No middle ground. There is the distant, sad chance that he has a naked lady fetish.
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Andrast posted:Who the gently caress are these relatives that are apparently fine with coming to hang out with a total stranger to them anyway A while back. But it is a very Indian thing, (and I have subsequently found out that this is true in other cultures too), that if you have "relatives" that live within an hour of wherever you are going to visit, instead of paying for a hotel, you will stay with them. Of course, in my and everyone I know's experience, before you do this you ring up and say "Hi BrigadierSensible, I am your cousin's wife's brother. We will be visiting X city next month for a week, and you live in Y city about 45 minutes away. Would it be OK if we came and stayed with you?" And depending on the closeness of the relative, (in my example it's not very close), you can get out of it with a polite excuse. i.e. "I'm sorry, but I will be very busy with work that week." etc. And generally the person doing the asking will understand. Of course all this depends on the politeness/seriousness of the excuse and the closeness of the relative. In the case of the OP's story, the excuse of "I'm sorry, but I will be out of town for most of your trip, and my wife who doesn't know you that well isn't comfortable with having to host people she doesn't know." is perfectly reasonable, and only arseholes would be offended. The bigger issue is that the husband repeatedly springs these kinds of things on her, (visitors, work trips), without telling when he has known for months. He also knows she doesn't like being told at the last minute. So either he is really that clueless/absent minded that he always forgets, (in which case he needs to do some work to try to remember to tell his wife). Or he is a passive aggressive coward so scared of confrontation that he will only bring it up when he can immediately run away and not deal with the fall out. Or he is a selfish prick who cares not for his wife's feelings at all, and just expects her to deal with his poo poo. Good on her for taking a stand, and pissing off to a hotel to be comfortable. Coz the husband will be the one who cops the flack for being a bad host, (considering she doesn't know these people), and it will either get him to buck his ideas up, or at least gain a reputation as a bad house to stay at, thus lessening the stream of unknown relatives coming to stay.
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Uncle Enzo posted:There is the distant, sad chance that he has a naked lady fetish. gtfo with that poo poo, the deviantart thread is thataway for sickos like you
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DemoneeHo posted:Help! My Niece Loves Showing Off Her New Boobs. I Need Her to Stay Away From My Husband. Shouldn't it be more concerning that the husband might potentially show any sort of interest to a close relative of his? Boobs scary, yes, but this is his niece he's potentially oggling. If your man has no qualms about incest, you should be making for the door.
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Uncle Enzo posted:There is the distant, sad chance that he has a naked lady fetish. hell, same
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AITA For telling my husband I'm not ready for his family to meet our new sonquote:My husband (33M) and I (32F) just welcomed our second child 2-months ago. We also have a 3-year old daughter. This pregnancy was a lot more difficult for me than my first. I had complications and had to take an early maternity leave from work because my doctor recommended bedrest. Thankfully, everything with the delivery went fine and our son is healthy and happy.
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DemoneeHo posted:Help! My Niece Loves Showing Off Her New Boobs. I Need Her to Stay Away From My Husband. “Sorry dear, you can’t come to your party. You know why.” Blue Moonlight fucked around with this message at 02:00 on Jun 15, 2022 |
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DemoneeHo posted:Help! My Niece Loves Showing Off Her New Boobs. I Need Her to Stay Away From My Husband. How old is the niece? Does he even notice? If he notices, does he care? Did his wife go nuts on him and diagnose him as a sex addict because he wanted to do unspeakable things to her like touch her boobs or have her get on top? Or was he having unprotected sex multiple times a day with sex workers he paid in used heroin syringes? Does the niece flirt with him? This whole script just has plot holes the size of Texas. Need more information!
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I know exactly how I feel about this one, fortunately: GIVE ME YOUR BABIES! Naw, sister promised them to her kid and is now facing the horror of not being able to give away other people's things.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA For telling my husband I'm not ready for his family to meet our new son OP is getting her rear end reamed in the comments.
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quantumwell posted:OP is getting her rear end reamed in the comments. quote:He says he felt marginalized in both his roles as husband and father the entire time she was here. I will admit that my mom can be very protective and almost over-caring, if that makes sense. She has a strong motherly instinct and I can kind of see how it would rub my husband the wrong way.
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the comments are a galaxy sized oofcommentor posted:I bet if your mother asked to come back, you’d be ok with that OP posted:Probably not. My husband would probably leave and never come back lol.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA For telling my husband I'm not ready for his family to meet our new son quote:I just want some time with my nuclear family before having anyone else come visit. This apparently includes her mother, but not his mother. And she's wondering how this isn't going over well.
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AITA for wanting my bestie's partner to explain why I'm making him uncomfortable to my face?quote:I want to preface by saying that my sense of humor is quite...boyish, I guess. I have an older brother, I used to take taekwondo lessons so I have a lot of male friends and their sense of humor just kind of rubbed off on me. I do like a good dirty joke and sexual innuendos here & there. It's important for explaining my side of story. My bestie found herself a boyfriend. She introduced us to each other, he's a nice guy and we hit it off immediately. I want to have a good relationship with my besties partners & I make sure to do so by joking around with them in a way I know best - memes. I have noticed that my bestie's boy isn't reciprocating but I haven't thought much about it, until it was brought up by my bestie. She sat my down and asked me to tone it down with sexual jokes/memes, as it's making her and her boyfriend uncomfortable. You see, I know men, I'm hanging out around them my whole life and I know they appreciate a good dirty joke as much as I do. I also know my bestie - this is her first boyfriend for a long time, she has some insecurities, so it was kind of obvious for me that my jokes/memes were making HER uncomfortable. So I told her that I prefer to hear it from her boyfriend, if I really make him so uncomfortable by sending him a meme about handj*bs from time to time and he's more than welcome to meet me and tell this to my face. She told me that I'm unreasonable, because he's not my friend and he's not required to say anything to my face if he's uncomfortable with doing so and I'm an rear end in a top hat for even suggesting it & not accepting "their" boundaries. joking around in the way i know best - memes (that make everyone around me uncomfortable)
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I Have No Bounds, and I Must Meme
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Just sending my bestie’s boyfriends memes about handjobs, as all men do.
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believe me, i know men, and when they laugh awkwardly at first and then stop communicating with you entirely, that's how you know your handjob jokes all landed
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“For you it’s a handjob but for me it’s a handavocation” I hit send and let out a deep breath, imagining the deep belly laughs and chortles my best friend’s boyfriend is assuredly letting out, despite the fact that his girlfriend feels deeply uncomfortable.
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This chick seems really hung up on whether the guy hates her jokes, but I don't get why that matters here? If your best friend wants you to stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes, then you stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes.
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deety posted:This chick seems really hung up on whether the guy hates her jokes, but I don't get why that matters here? If your best friend wants you to stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes, then you stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes. She spent so much time training with meathead guys that she
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deety posted:This chick seems really hung up on whether the guy hates her jokes, but I don't get why that matters here? If your best friend wants you to stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes, then you stop DMing her boyfriend handjob memes. No but you are she has no filter it’s not her fault.
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quantumwell posted:OP is getting her rear end reamed in the comments. Know who else is getting reamed in the comments about giving birth and her mom being around? AITA For picking my mom to be in the delivery room while I give birth and not my husband quote:I am currently 8 1/2 months pregnant with my first child. It has not been an easy pregnancy and I have been on bedrest for the past month. Since we live in the US and our insurance is crap, I had to take a leave of absence from work without pay. My husband has had to take on extra time at work to compensate for my lost income, so he's barely home and when he is he's exhausted. My mom has been staying with us since I went on bedrest because I need so much help with pretty much everything. She was an ER nurse before she retired and has been a godsend. I know we couldn't have made it work without her help.
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Some people would rather be right than have any friends. My bestie no longer speaks to me but at least I know men.
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Hughlander posted:Know who else is getting reamed in the comments about giving birth and her mom being around? Better luck with your next husband, lady
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DemoneeHo posted:Help! My Niece Loves Showing Off Her New Boobs. I Need Her to Stay Away From My Husband. This line is extremely telling. Unless the husband is so sex addicted he's tried to shtup own sister, neice is from OP's side of the family and the daughter of OP's sister who she also thinks is a horrible slut because she dresse(s/d) inappropriately. OP has jealousy issues with her sister that she's now projecting onto her niece. Either sex addict husband once made a move on the sister which OP blamed on her sister's slutty ways, or OP is mad that her niece took over her sister's role as "the hot one" just as her sister aged out of the role.
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Also you will notice that the 60+ year old husband has no agency in this story. He is a filthy dirty sex addict, shamed by his wife and therefore a lesser man. Yet he is also the hapless victim of the slutty dressing niece with her fake boobs, from whom he needs to be protected.
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BrigadierSensible posted:Also you will notice that the 60+ year old husband has no agency in this story. He is a filthy dirty sex addict, shamed by his wife and therefore a lesser man. Yet he is also the hapless victim of the slutty dressing niece with her fake boobs, from whom he needs to be protected. 1. He admitted the he was powerless over his addictive sexual behavior. 2. He came to believe that a Power greater than himself could restore him to sanity. 3. He made a decision to turn his will and his life over to the care of his Wife.
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# ? Jun 15, 2022 06:47 |
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There are 3 types of men that are described as “sex addicts.” The first and most common is a conservative Christian man who got caught looking at porn while at work or by his wife. The second and less common is a man that constantly cheats but talks a really good game and convinces his wife he’s an addict so she doesn’t leave him. The third is Bill Clinton.
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Hughlander posted:AITA For picking my mom to be in the delivery room while I give birth and not my husband
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Hughlander posted:Know who else is getting reamed in the comments about giving birth and her mom being around? I mean, her mom is pretty much TA too for even considering this. Maybe that's where she gets it from.
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I wanna know where all these millennials are getting boomer parents to come take care of the post-birthing needs. And all of them married the same type of dude? (Stepping up working more to pay for the family?)
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AITA for telling my daughter she has to find somewhere else to live?quote:My older daughter moved back from her college dorm at the end of the semester. She has a 16 year old younger sister. They have always had a strained relationship, and I admit I have done a poor job of mediating their conflicts. Wonder why that last bit...
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AITA For telling a coworker to stop bringing cakes to the office?quote:I have a coworker who's a hobby baker and often brings their finished products into the office to share with everyone.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA For telling a coworker to stop bringing cakes to the office? This person sounds like a loving nightmare to work with.
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This thread and it's posters have convinced me that Pick was in fact right and engineers are in fact irredeemably evil people.
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Jack Trades posted:This thread and it's posters have convinced me that Pick was in fact right and engineers are in fact irredeemably evil people. That was already a cold take from Pick.
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