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OP isn't even given any 'well I told some jokes and for some reason nobody laughed' or 'I was completely calm as I explained to the girlfriend's dad why his race was a problem' vibes in his story
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pentyne posted:Kind of curious what that means. The kinds of people who can afford to buy multiple houses and work in Manhattan aren't likely to be typical 'blue-collar' workers that are stereotyped as embarrassments. Yeah that tripped me up too. It's totally the way a rich family would dismiss the poorer ones but Daddy Two-House doesn't sound like he's struggling. If it's race you'd think they wouldn't be moving into the house either. Strange one all around.
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Every time I start the class I kick the door open and lead in with "sup fuckwits?" It's the most inclusive greeting so far for the reasons below: If they're a fuckwit, job done. If they think they're not a fuckwit, but don't say anything? Well, you'd have to be some sort of fuckwit to just let someone insult you like that. If they get upset and complain, who would complain about their teacher trying to use an inclusive greeting? That's right A complete fuckwit
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Jun 29, 2022 21:06
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If the house is in rural or suburban PA (which many colleges are) the in laws are probably blue collar conservative and see the OP's family as rich snobs. But if their plan was to leech off the rich kid it doesn't seem like it's going to work out so great for them!
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pentyne posted:Kind of curious what that means. The kinds of people who can afford to buy multiple houses and work in Manhattan aren't likely to be typical 'blue-collar' workers that are stereotyped as embarrassments. My guess is politics and the OP are MAGA chuds or Qultists. I guess it could be the other way around, but I feel, perhaps wrongly, that a liberal family is more likely to ban a republican from their home versus the other way around? Canuckistan fucked around with this message at 21:10 on Jun 29, 2022 |
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Jun 29, 2022 21:07
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Canuckistan posted:My guess is politics and the OP are MAGA chuds or Qultists. Well that would make it much less funny, so I chose not to believe it
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Jun 29, 2022 21:09
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If you want to feel for the other side, OP is the landlord and thus should be put in a vat. Or assume his wife or his daughter said something racist/homophobic/anti-MAGA or otherwise divisive and while the land not now being part of their family is a bit of a surprise, to not invite someone that has enough money to own two properties to their own son's wedding seems odd.
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Electric Wrigglies posted:If you want to feel for the other side, OP is the landlord and thus should be put in a vat. I wouldn't call OP a landlord. He charged no rent and he put the house up for sale as soon as it wasn't needed anymore (lol). That's pretty much the opposite of a parasitic landlord.
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Jun 29, 2022 21:14
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Dazerbeams posted:Hasn’t this thread established dude as an all inclusive term? Go ask a straight man how many dudes he's had sex with.
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Jun 29, 2022 21:16
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AITA for not stopping my husband from yodeling every time my MIL asks me about having a baby?quote:I (27F) am married to my husband (28M) who we'll call Keith. We've been married 3 years now. My MIL, who we'll call Beth, and I have never had the best relationship and at times we've gone low contact because of it. She has never wished me a happy birthday, or gotten me any kind of present that wasn't an attachment of my husbands, she refused to come to any big events for me (like I got my Master's last year and she said it wasn't a big enough deal to drive an hour to celebrate), and things of that nature. I've grown to just have thick skin but also my husband normally handles everything for me. He very much is my bodyguard around her and stops her every time she tries to say anything. But it has never stopped her much anyway.
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Jun 29, 2022 21:17
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pentyne posted:sup OG that’s an entirely inappropriate way to refer to the professor of your course I will need to speak with you after class. So disrespectful
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Jun 29, 2022 21:19
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Nae posted:That's cute and I'm glad for them, but I absolutely cannot hear the word 'folks' without a loop of Obama saying 'We tortured some folks' playing in my head Oh yeah, we did, but not in, like, a bigoted way.
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Jun 29, 2022 21:22
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for not stopping my husband from yodeling every time my MIL asks me about having a baby? NTA That is amazing and I need to learn how to do that.
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for not stopping my husband from yodeling every time my MIL asks me about having a baby? 
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Azuth0667 posted:NTA That is amazing and I need to learn how to do that. Anyone can yodel, as long as you have faith
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for not stopping my husband from yodeling every time my MIL asks me about having a baby? "I was just wondering: you guys have been married for 4 years, when are you going to be responsible and have some chil-" "YODELLLLLLLLLLEYYYYHEEEEHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO"
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Jun 29, 2022 21:39
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Solenna posted:Go ask a straight man how many dudes he's had sex with. Men who have sex with men is a whole thing involving a lot of self-identifying heterosexual guys.
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AITA for insisting my boyfriend swap his plate of pizza with mine, after he cut our portions unevenly?quote:This is a running theme within our relationship and I'm furious about it now. i think i'd be pretty pissed the first time i had to do "divide and choose" with a grown-rear end adult who claimed to care about me. it would not get to the point of being a "running theme"
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Jun 29, 2022 21:46
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Canuckistan posted:My guess is politics and the OP are MAGA chuds or Qultists. Yeah most plausible explanation is he's one of the chuds who can keep it in his pants when it suits him (if it was about race or being a dirty single-digit-property-owning peasant wouldn't they have figured it out long ago and ditched the son?), but that just raises the question of if they know to not go heiling Hitler in mixed company what the hell happened at the barbecue???
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Jun 29, 2022 22:04
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Why don’t they rearrange the cheese before cooking it??? What the gently caress.
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monkeytennis posted:Why don’t they rearrange the cheese before cooking it??? What the gently caress. 'cuz then you can't put your gf in her place by giving her the half without cheese also lol, this guy's a real catch: OP posted:I feel this. I do think he's considerate with some things, but he also does things like buy way under our agreed present budget for gifts so we agree $100, I spend $100 and he spends $60 without any explanation.
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Jun 29, 2022 22:09
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Canuckistan posted:My guess is politics and the OP are MAGA chuds or Qultists. I'll throw in my two cents here and say the in-laws are part of a religious cult, like some weird evangelicals or something. It's annoying how the OP just left a bunch of details out and doesn't seem to be commenting though.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Bad news I'm sorry for not knowing about the estranged parents ban. Please accept a six-month-old AITA with an obvious answer and no update. AITA for not giving back child support $$? quote:My exH is $20k in arrears for my daughter (11) but has another daughter (18) from a previous relationship. Her mom had asked him for extra money for something specific & so he paid “extra” toward child support a few days ago for her, but since it was over the amount ordered, it apparently defaulted to my daughter. Now they want the money back. AITA for saying it’s not my problem? I feel sort of guilty but he’s always sending her daughter extra money & I never ask for anything. They are ordered about the same amount per month, but I almost never get anything since he’s dodged it every way he can until very recently because of a warrant against him. Thanks in advance. And this one was deleted but the title is good enough on its own: AITA for needing some space over a fart?
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Foo Diddley posted:'cuz then you can't put your gf in her place by giving her the half without cheese Man I know it's too easy to make sweeping judgments on these short writeups, but once again: people know they don't have to just chug along indefinitely in a relationship like this, right? ...right?
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AITA for getting mad at my dad for bringing his girlfriend to my graduation?quote:Info: My(22F) dad(52m) has a girlfriend “Tara”(29F) who he recently started dating, and to put it simply I don’t like her. To paint a picture, she can be described as a stereotypical blonde bimbo that’s had plastic surgeries. Their relationship makes me uncomfortable mostly because she’s only a couple years older than me.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for getting mad at my dad for bringing his girlfriend to my graduation? quote:During this conversation, I tell him that I do not want Tara to come. quote:Later, after the ceremony and my other family leaves I pull my dad aside and go off about how he had no business bringing Tara when I specifically asked him not to. He said that he figured I wouldn’t have an issue with it since there was an extra ticket.
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there's only one way to greet a class https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3elVe9Mlh8
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trickybiscuits posted:I'm sorry for not knowing about the estranged parents ban. Please accept a six-month-old AITA with an obvious answer and no update. Yikes quote:It won’t affect my life one way or another except if I gave the money back, he would owe my daughter less because as far as the courts are concerned, he already paid me that money & it cannot be reversed.
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trickybiscuits posted:And this one was deleted but the title is good enough on its own: AITA for needing some space over a fart? Important info: your fart or theirs?
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AITA for not allowing my (f36) daughter (f18) to go study abroadquote:I recently found out that my daughter, Nina, is planning on going to college in another country, on another continent. I was floored. I haven’t heard about her trying or applying and she was even accepted in local college. I figure this doesn't break the "estranged parents" rule because we're more at a pre-estrangement period. Just lo loving l.
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“If you move out of this house I’ll kick you out of this house!” 
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DeeplyConcerned posted:*sigh* Yeah I've been in the acid vat business for 43 years. made right here in the USA, all by hand. but I'm thinking of closing up shop. I just can't compete with the cheap, factory-assembled Chinese vats anymore. I'm four pages back, but I giggled like a fuckin idiot at this
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Jun 29, 2022 23:20
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Solkanar512 posted:AITA for not allowing my (f36) daughter (f18) to go study abroad Who the gently caress's Andy?!
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Who the gently caress's Andy?! Scratch that, it’s probably supposed to be ‘and’ but given the rest of the way she types… Seth Pecksniff posted:Does no one else find it alarming that she apparently has access to her daughter's email? That kid is 100% running to the hills as soon as she can for really good reasons. DreamingofRoses fucked around with this message at 23:29 on Jun 29, 2022 |
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Does no one else find it alarming that she apparently has access to her daughter's email? Think there's a reason she's moving to a completely different continent buddy
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Jun 29, 2022 23:28
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Solkanar512 posted:AITA for not allowing my (f36) daughter (f18) to go study abroad I feel like this has a lot of missing backstory
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Solkanar512 posted:AITA for not allowing my (f36) daughter (f18) to go study abroad Welp that's it lady, your time is up. If she had any sense she would spend that time buttering up her kid in the hope that she might make the list to receive a wedding invite or birth announcement. As it stands she'd better get ready to talk about the daughter she used to have
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I feel like "audacity" is another one of those telling words, like "disrespect". Unless they're talking about the audio editing software, but I've yet to see that come up in an r/relationships post. Good on the daughter for putting in the work to put an ocean between her and her insane parent, though. e: Also how the hell do you type kic' instead of kick??
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She's probably signing up to be a globetrotting secret agent considering she was able to hide all of this from a mother who doesn't seem to have the meanest sense of boundaries or respect for privacy.
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Solkanar512 posted:AITA for not allowing my (f36) daughter (f18) to go study abroad I can't believe that little backstabber, teaching herself Andy!
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