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Oh, the comments are just goldquote:I mean like she prays 5 times a day with her mat, and wears her hijab and face veil literally all the time. She only takes off the face veil in her room. It’s overkill imo, but she can do what she wants I guess lol quote:It doesn’t bother me too much since I’ve gotten used to it at this point. My parents aren’t racist, they just are uncomfortable with foreigners and don’t like Islamic ideologies. I don’t understand why she couldn’t just compromise and not talk in Arabic for like 3 days though, it’s not a big deal
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 21:57 |
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OP shouldn't speak english (or their original language) with their parents imo, it's insulting and makes me uncomfortable
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:14 |
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Foo Diddley posted:no, no, OP isn't racist at all Oh my god
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:18 |
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quote:How about you stop speaking English? OP posted:Lol, let’s be reasonable, ok? That’s a false equivalence Edit: quote:You realize that her family might not speak English right? So she's supposed to not communicate with her family cause you and your parents are close minded AH? You're like the poster child for why people think Americans in general are ignorant uneducated AH. OP posted:She can text them for like 3 days, I don’t see the big deal. I wish she would just try to be considerate of my perspective too. Absurd Alhazred fucked around with this message at 22:42 on Jun 30, 2022 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Oh, the comments are just gold I want to sit this kid down and have them explain to me what they think racism is. I figure it'd either be a lost cause or a lightbulb moment.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:22 |
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AITA for pissing my wife off on our wedding day?quote:I got married to my wife and partner of 6 years last Saturday. We met each other in freshman year of college and I was your average frat boy. After a while of being together she was getting bothered with some of my frat behaviors with my friends and she sat me down and talked about things that make her uncomfortable and are a deal breaker for her. Because I loved her and I didn't want to risk my relationship with her I decided it would be for the best to establish some boundaries with my friends in other not to being my partner in awkward positions in the future.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:22 |
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Bruceski posted:I want to sit this kid down and have them explain to me what they think racism is. I figure it'd either be a lost cause or a lightbulb moment. Oh, "Lost Cause" will lighten OP right up, I'm sure.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:23 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for pissing my wife off on our wedding day? Completely flabbergasted how people like this end up in years long relationships, let alone get married.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:29 |
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I told my friends my wife didn't want strippers but they got strippers so I told them to lie about it and they agreed because they care about me and respect my relationship. Dude absolutely sucks.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:30 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for pissing my wife off on our wedding day? i turned one of the most important days of our lives into a drunken bash with my frat buddies, and also probably hosed a stripper at the bachelor party. my frat buddies say this is fine, though, so i can't really figure out if i'm an rear end in a top hat or not
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:32 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Oh, "Lost Cause" will lighten OP right up, I'm sure. lol
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:32 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for pissing my wife off on our wedding day? Huh, weird how he only describes the wedding in terms of him and his boys having a drunken blast. quote:Because the wedding is a party. We were not supposed to be glued to each other all night long. I had the right to hang with my friends as she had the right to hang with hers
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:33 |
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Pleads posted:I told my friends my wife didn't want strippers but they got strippers so I told them to lie about it and they agreed because they care about me and respect my relationship. The strippers business is such a weird thing to tell us about, as far as we know his wife hasn't heard about it (yet) so it doesn't relate to their current conflict?
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:34 |
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months from now, OP and the boys crashing the baby shower to do jager shots and puke in the new crib the party never ends amirite
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:35 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:The strippers business is such a weird thing to tell us about, as far as we know his wife hasn't heard about it (yet) so it doesn't relate to their current conflict?
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pentyne posted:Huh, weird how he only describes the wedding in terms of him and his boys having a drunken blast. I feel like this guy doesn't understand what a wedding is. I guess its just saying "I do" in front of a bunch of people then getting the gently caress away from each other to hang out with the people that actually matter?
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:52 |
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I mean the wedding is about the most important person in your life so he seems to be doing it correctly
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 22:56 |
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The guys obviously a professional, though. I might just be old, but there's no way I could get shitfaced drunk the night before, then put on a wedding and get shitfaced drunk again the next night.
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hosed up posting this the first time, lol anyway CW: humiliation and disrespect for NO REASON AT ALL AITA for telling my nephew to make amends with his estranged sister? quote:My sister died when her 2 children were very young. Her husband raised the children as a single dad until he died 3 years ago.
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Foo Diddley posted:hosed up posting this the first time, lol quote:She goes to church with me, and Bryan and his wife haven't stepped foot into a church in a long time. Why is this at all relevant
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:27 |
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I'm guessing she thinks this makes Brenda a good person, while she's evidently incapable of just asking why an apparently increasing number of people in her orbit hates her loving guts.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:29 |
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OP also gets a quip in about Bryan's wife being "too good to come" to a family event that she'd have to travel a ways to be at, but Brenda gets a free pass because she's "out of town" at the time
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:32 |
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boofhead posted:OP also gets a quip in about Bryan's wife being "too good to come" to a family event that she'd have to travel a ways to be at, but Brenda gets a free pass because she's "out of town" at the time yeah i can't imagine why bryan moved 13 hours away from these people and won't come "back home". doesn't he care about how bad he's making OP look?
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:38 |
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AITA for temporarily staying with my mom while recieving treatement despite my husband's disapproval?quote:I (F31) started having health decline since the end of past year. I recently got diagnosed with a medical condition that require delicate care and treatment. The issue is, as a sahw I spend most of my day at home by myself while my husband work long hours. In order for me to get treatment I need someone to stay withe me. Not just that but I handle most household chores and won't be able to continue to do that, in fact, I will need someone to take care of me. "Honey, why are you calling? I still get 11 months of peace and quiet!"
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:38 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for temporarily staying with my mom while recieving treatement despite my husband's disapproval? So does he just want her to not get treatment and die cause holy poo poo as someone whose wife was diagnosed with colon cancer a month after our youngest was born I want to do horrible things to this man... Also holy gently caress his mom. I am proud to say my mother would actually murder me if I pulled that poo poo with my wife.
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:42 |
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Foo Diddley posted:
quote:He also claims that Brenda stole his inheritance. Brenda can be spirited and emotional sometimes, and she says things she doesn't mean, but she's a good person with a big heart. quote:I stayed out of the inheritance situation because it's none of my business. Perhaps she stole it, perhaps not. Who am I to say? She's a kind and loving person either way
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# ? Jun 30, 2022 23:44 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for temporarily staying with my mom while recieving treatement despite my husband's disapproval? Commenters at least seem to be fairly unanimous on "Divorce his rear end".
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for telling my wife she wasn’t trying hard enough? The wife’s post apparently on justNoMIL. MIL contacted me after months of NC. quote:Long post, please bare with me and thank you to anyone reading.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:AITA for asking my roomate to stop speaking Arabic? Whilst it is clear that OP and OP's parents are super racist and islamophobic, from the tone of the post I would argue that they would be just as "offended" if the roommate was speaking Norwegian, or Korean, or Xhosa, or god forbid Spanish on the phone to their relatives/friends. Either way gently caress them and their racist arses.
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# ? Jul 1, 2022 00:31 |
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BrigadierSensible posted:Whilst it is clear that OP and OP's parents are super racist and islamophobic, from the tone of the post I would argue that they would be just as "offended" if the roommate was speaking Norwegian, or Korean, or Xhosa, or god forbid Spanish on the phone to their relatives/friends. Hurr Durr, This is AMERICA speak our official language ENGLISH !
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BrigadierSensible posted:Whilst it is clear that OP and OP's parents are super racist and islamophobic, from the tone of the post I would argue that they would be just as "offended" if the roommate was speaking Norwegian, or Korean, or Xhosa, or god forbid Spanish on the phone to their relatives/friends. No, I'm pretty sure with the focus on the roommate's daring to Muslim around rudely, it's clear it's Islamophobia. Especially once you add the clarification comments.
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How do I get my husband to stop going 'Goblin Mode' during sex?quote:TLDR; My husband says 'Goblin Mode activated' when we start to have sex, growls and acts like a caveman, and then says 'Goblin Mode off' when we stop, and then pretends not to remember afterward. I love my son, but he's gone too far and I don't know where to start quote:So for some background information, my son is 5 years old, starting kindergarten next year, and was a nice, normal, and pretty smart kid. But yesterday, he said he was going 'Goblin Mode' and hid in his room all day. At first I thought is was just a silly kid thing and when I asked online, I heard it meant it meant 'not being civilized' or something, so I just figured he was playing a game. However, he would not even come out for dinner and just growled in his room when asked to come out, and just stayed in his room all night. Today he finally opened his door and walked out all hunched over (I suppose like a goblin). I went up to him to ask if he wanted breakfast, but then he screamed as loud as he could, and ran as fast as he could, grabbed a chair, and smashed the TV in our living room. He kept running around for two hours straight smashing and destroying our entire house and rubbing his feces on his wall. By the time he stopped, literally everything was destroyed, and somehow, every wall had his feces on it. When he stopped, he said 'Goblin Mode deactivated' and just fell on the floor asleep. What the hell just happened? Up until that point, he was a really nice and smart and overall normal kid. I love him so much but I think he needs help. What should I do?
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BrigadierSensible posted:Whilst it is clear that OP and OP's parents are super racist and islamophobic, from the tone of the post I would argue that they would be just as "offended" if the roommate was speaking Norwegian, or Korean, or Xhosa, or god forbid Spanish on the phone to their relatives/friends. Why would you argue this? Who's asking you to argue this? The devil? Don't listen to the devil, nobody likes that advocating poo poo.
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quote:Last night, the day after our son went away, we decided to have sex to relieve our stress. However, my husband said 'Goblin Mode activated', starting growling, and went wild having sex with me. Admittedly, it was some of the best and most experimental sex I've ever had, but I'm worried that something might be going on with my husband. Any advice? lmao
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:I love my son, but he's gone too far and I don't know where to start y'all couldn't restrain a 5 year old? just had to sit there helplessly while he broke everything and smeared poo poo on the wreckage?
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# ? Jul 1, 2022 01:00 |
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What a strange way to find that you married into the Fey Folk.
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# ? Jul 1, 2022 01:02 |
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Reposting this classic from earlier in the thread: I like to creep around my home and act like a goblin quote:I don’t know why but I just enjoy doing this. Maybe it’s my way of dealing with stress or something but I just do it about once every week. Generally I’ll carry around a sack and creep around in a sort of crouch-walking position making goblin noises, then I’ll walk around my house and pick up various different “trinkets” and put them in my bag while saying stuff like “I’ll be having that” and laughing maniacally in my goblin voice (“trinkets” can include anything from poo poo I find on the ground to cutlery or other utensils). The other day I was talking with my neighbours and they mentioned hearing weird noises like what I wrote about and I was just internally screaming the entire conversation. I’m 99% sure they don’t know it’s me but god that 1% chance is seriously weighing on my mind.
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# ? Jul 1, 2022 01:03 |
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The Bramble posted:Reposting this classic from earlier in the thread: Ah, "my goblin voice", sure. Please do not elaborate.
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Yeah sorry, your husband is a goblin and your son is half-goblin
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