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Breetai posted:Fffffine. Have a story of a complete weenie: Absolute weenie. What he thought were women whining about things they wanted him to buy them may have actually been them saying,” hey, Valentine’s Day is coming up. It would be awfully nice if you got me [specific gift because he is unable to think of anything to get on his own or even notice that she would like to exchange gifts].” Rescue Toaster posted:It sounds like she wasn't happy with her current machine, and since she mentioned buying multiple sewing machines for the same price, she wasn't looking for anything fancy. Most likely her machine is wearing out or having problems, which he could easily be oblivious to. So now she has a sewing machine she's still not happy with and a $1000 machine she didn't necessarily want. As an EXTRA gift something like that might be appreciated, but not if her primary needs aren't met. (And my suggestion to someone looking for an extra machine gift for a sewing person would be a serger, not a cricut). I’m guessing this is EXACTLY what she wanted, since he thinks it is the same thing as what she currently is using that works fine. My ex-FIL bought ex-MIL an overlock machine as a gift, but neither of them actually had any clue how to use it. It turned out to also not work when I tried to use it, which made sense for the price he paid. He just grabbed it as a random thing because he loves bringing her random gifts. This was not his response to her asking him to buy her anything. Sergers are rad. Bored fucked around with this message at 04:03 on Dec 20, 2022 |
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Haschel Cedricson posted:It's more like "You are number one, but asking me to give up number two is inherently something a number one wouldn't do so the act of asking that will get you demoted."
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AITA for telling my girlfriend that we’re done if she doesn’t want another kid in the future? quote:background: I’m 28 with no kids. My girlfriend is 26 and has an 8 year old son from her previous relationship. She was with the guy since they were kids but when she got pregnant, he dropped the ball. She had it pretty hard during the early years and it was a huge struggle for her to balance work, school and her son. She made it work and is now in law school. (The kid’s dad made a change about three years back when his own father died and has since been helping.) We’ve been together for a year and two months and I really do love her. update: quote:Well, it’s been about three weeks since my post and my breakup. And it took almost that full time to let it sink in what I’ve really done. I self wallowed for some time and attempted to guilt trip her and get my siblings to talk to her for me. What a mistake that was. She called and ripped me a new one worse than you guys did. She told me that she was thrilled we’re not together and that I’m manipulative and “disgusting.” God I wish he'd keep posting, I could listen to him getting dunked on all night long.
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There are plenty of relationships in which a partner plays second fiddle to some other, over riding priority, but it only works if that partner never tries to usurp that number one.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend that we’re done if she doesn’t want another kid in the future? He wants kids, she doesn't want anymore, so they broke up. Seems like everything worked out.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend that we’re done if she doesn’t want another kid in the future? quote:I’m hurt because I made the empty threat and she very easily went through with it. Strong Pete energy with that woman, good for her.
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There is an extremely heartbreaking post about an abused baby on the front page of BestOfRedditUpdates right now and I wish I had just gone to sleep before reading it (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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quote:However when we first got together she did mention that she doesn’t see herself having other kids because it was incredibly hard...We were too early for me to complain about it or try to change her mind. It wasn’t bought up again for some time. This is the bit that jumped out at me most. Why was this not immediately a deal-breaker for you? That's such a conflict of goals/values between the two of you that seems so basically irreconcilable. (He answered it later, but there are so many of these stories where I find myself asking this question in bewilderment)
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PizzaProwler posted:This is the bit that jumped out at me most. Why was this not immediately a deal-breaker for you? That's such a conflict of goals/values between the two of you that seems so basically irreconcilable. Normalize talking about having kids on first dates so you know up front.
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the holy poopacy posted:It's really telling that they believe that the main contribution they make is filling a chair in the office. This is genuinely what capitalist work culture is actually about. Pretty much the logical endgame is Japan where you spent 12 hours a day in the office pretending to work, and then more hours going out getting drunk with your boss, and then maybe get home in time for a few hours sleep.
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Haschel Cedricson posted:It's more like "You are number one, but asking me to give up number two is inherently something a number one wouldn't do so the act of asking that will get you demoted." Riker would never ask Picard to quit pooping.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:This is genuinely what capitalist work culture is actually about. Pretty much the logical endgame is Japan where you spent 12 hours a day in the office pretending to work, and then more hours going out getting drunk with your boss, and then maybe get home in time for a few hours sleep. Literally hell.
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AITA for ducking when my sister's friend used me as an armrest, causing her to fall?quote:I'm a teenage girl. My sister's friend is 1y older than me. We'll call her Stacy, because that's her name. "be the bigger person, frodo"
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Sorry 'bout the TIFU story, I'll avoid those from now on. Shawl Bros is still one of my all-time favourite stories though! AITA for not allowing my boyfriend to come with me on a trip since he was about to ask his parents to pay for all expenses? quote:My (20F) friends from uni and I have been planning to go on a trip next March since the beginning of this year. Since 2 of my friends are bringing their partners along with them, I’ve asked my boyfriend (19M) if he wanted to come under the condition that he earned the money himself to cover his expenses, including plane tickets and accommodations, which had come around to be around CAD$5,000. AITA for not washing my sheets? quote:For context, I have an apartment that my family gifted me 2 years ago. I currently live with my Mom and brother and stay there 5-6 nights a week. OP posted:I stay at home because my brother also lives there and it's much more comfortable. I'm able to save on food because my mom cooks breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The whole apartment thing was way too early, TBH. OP posted:I'm 29. r/relationships: I am asian. I do not sweat. Evil Willow fucked around with this message at 09:14 on Dec 20, 2022 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for ducking when my sister's friend used me as an armrest, causing her to fall? lmao she won so hard, why would she apologize? "if you don't say sorry then your sisters annoying friend won't come over anymore" sounds pretty good to me
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PiratePrentice posted:lmao she won so hard, why would she apologize? "Be a bigger person? If I were a bigger person, we wouldn't be having this conversation."
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for not washing my sheets? I'm Asian and during the summer months, I can sweat like a motherfucker when it's muggy as balls. Wash your loving sheets, mate.
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Akratic Method posted:Riker would never ask Picard to quit pooping. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=20QBhZZRJDU
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for not washing my sheets? how do you type out "so my Mom came over to wash my sheets, vacuum, and wash my floors" and not immediately feel like the most pathetic goddamn baby on earth. seriously, how do you post that to reddit and still think "yes, i am a man and an adult" afterward. how do you admit, out loud, in real life, to your adult girlfriend, that your mom has to do this poo poo for you what the gently caress is wrong with this goddamn infant
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Ya'll want to read the most boomer of boomers in the entire universe? https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zqhk2c/neglectful_moron_alienates_his_daughter_by_trying/ I put the smiley in there to avoid the off site linking bullshit that Reddit gets in bunch about. I would copy and paste but it's long as all gently caress and is more of a long read than a simple AITA thanks to all the updates. My favourite bit is this: quote:I asked her if she would be coming back for Thanksgiving. She said no, she'd be spending it with Dan's family because I have never shown an interest in Thanksgiving, and this was the first she was hearing about any Thanksgiving day plans of mine. I mean...she's right, I'm not really a holiday guy, but I could have bought a turkey and sides from a restaurant if it meant that much to her. The whole thing is frankly amazing and well worth reading it all
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Oh wow that’s a formatting nightmare so I’m going to copy paste and y’all can figure it out, I have a flight to catch Neglectful moron alienates his daughter by trying to play dad quote:ONGOING
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Now I want a hug from my daughter.
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AITA for not making my children be quiet while my wife had a headache?quote:Been with my wife for 2 years; I have two children from a previous relationship who are 5 and 8.
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That guy in the super long story is like an Ultra Boomer. The Boomer to End All Boomers. Jesus.
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that man wants to own a child
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teen witch posted:AITA for not making my children be quiet while my wife had a headache? "Go into the bedroom and sleep through the day" sounds a lot more like she's getting migranes than having the occasional headache. Especially if painkillers aren't doing anything. And it's not that big an ask to have the kids tone it down and play quietly, or somewhere further from her room if they need to do something noisy, if she's been hit by a migraine. Rubellavator posted:that man wants to own a child He wants to hit rewind and live the greatest hits and go back to a time when she idolized him. And he's not coping well with the knowledge that this chance for that is gone, and his behaviour has destroyed any chance at her even politely tolerating his presence.
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I'm gonna avoid the rest because and just focus on this dude's apparent belief that law school consists of 24/7 high-powered courtroom drama and job interviews so you MUST ALWAYS DRESS YOUR BEST.
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Cthulu Carl posted:I'm gonna avoid the rest because and just focus on this dude's apparent belief that law school consists of 24/7 high-powered courtroom drama and job interviews so you MUST ALWAYS DRESS YOUR BEST. a fatal combination of knowing what's best and being very very dumb
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Me 58 M with my 49 F wife of 20 years. She revealed (unfounded) doubts about my characterquote:I get that we should self-validate, not rely on others to provide a reflected sense of self. But when your spouse fundamentally doesn't get you? Both husband and wife here sound incredibly tedious. But there's also something missing here. Deep philosophical discussions about politics don't devolve into "define evil" and "you would go along with Hitler, admit it" unless the two sides are at such contrasting viewpoints that they're incompatible.
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tinytort posted:"Go into the bedroom and sleep through the day" sounds a lot more like she's getting migranes than having the occasional headache. Especially if painkillers aren't doing anything. And it's not that big an ask to have the kids tone it down and play quietly, or somewhere further from her room if they need to do something noisy, if she's been hit by a migraine. I think the point was that he didn’t see her text for an hour because he was busy with something else. That part isn’t his fault. This situation is easily solvable now that he has a baseline for how much noise is too much, NTA.
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This is also a very telling bit from uber boomer quote:"I've never thrown anyone's phone at the wall I've only done it once when she was in high school and painting her nails with polish and the smell made me sick but she woudn't go in her room to do it so I took the bottle and threw it out the front door but that was only one time and she didn't seem all that fazed by it. quote:she didn't seem all that fazed by it. my dude, she has been so done with your poo poo for so long now you're incredibly lucky she's just low contact and hasn't wiped every trace of your existence from her life, fuuuuck
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DoubleNegative posted:Me 58 M with my 49 F wife of 20 years. She revealed (unfounded) doubts about my character "Basically Sealioning or Gish Galloping, but done in good faith."
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DoubleNegative posted:Me 58 M with my 49 F wife of 20 years. She revealed (unfounded) doubts about my character I hate both of these people
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Very calmly explaining to my wife about how the lesser races should be purged for the good of humankind, and I’m getting a lot of emotional pushback and personal insults thrown my way. How do I salvage this marriage?
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DoubleNegative posted:Me 58 M with my 49 F wife of 20 years. She revealed (unfounded) doubts about my character the vast majority of this user's posts are on cuckoldry subreddits, there's a story there
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Mister Olympus posted:the vast majority of this user's posts are on cuckoldry subreddits, there's a story there i don't know if i want to hear this story
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AITA for making my parents choose between me and my ex/former friend?quote:I was best friends with Jen from preschool through 9th grade. Her home life was was pretty rough and she practically lived at my house. My parents called her the daughter they never had.
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Foo Diddley posted:i don't know if i want to hear this story Here's the story/Of a lovely lady/Who was banging with three very lovely guys/
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Piell posted:AITA for making my parents choose between me and my ex/former friend? "I can't forgive her for what she did" which was what, exactly? Use your own words and be precise. I want to know if putting it plainly makes him realize what a whiny incel prick he's being.
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PiratePrentice posted:What is he even trying to defend? Even if prostitution in Thailand was legal and ethical in every way he still cheated on his wife and got caught.
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