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Involuntary Sparkle posted:The comments on this are something else. This person can get yeeted into an acid vat the size of the sun Nah, she's right about that. There's dating a divorced person with kids, and then there's moving into a family household where he's still married in every sense but the legal one and she's just a side piece, one that's very, very off to the side. (Bonus: personal experience tells me that these people never actually do the divorce paperwork) They should just break up, and I don't wish the fellow well with finding another lady who's ok with being nothing more than a houseguest.
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Advent calendar last has a TEAM of people in on this?? Bananas AITA for refusing to give a child a present? quote:Curious if I was in the wrong and overly judgemental.
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big dyke energy posted:Wait, she's just sending the videos to the advent calendar company?? Not like, a youtube video? She's a psychopath he needs to sever. She is absolutely deranged in a way no one was prepared for
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AITA for not counting raisinsquote:Ok so I make my (30f) husband’s (30m) breakfast and lunch every night so he can bring it to work the next day. He goes to the gym a lot, and is trying to be more health conscious. We have always had an issue with me making his breakfast. He literally only eats plain oats with raisins..sometimes I’ll spice it up with some cinnamon so it’s not dog food.
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Barudak posted:Im really struggling how these people are divorced when they have a joint home they live in, have full shared custody of the kids, and have hospital visitation rights. My cousin did something similar. He even has a real estate business with his ex wife that they started after they divorced. While they keep separate accounts they are also pretty enmeshed financially. My dad says they are “divorced to each other.” My cousin says the reason is that it means he gets to see his kids everyday. I Guess they also have an agreement not to bring dates or SOs home, so he also likes the idea there won’t be random dudes in and out that could harm his children. (Spoiler for DV situation) This is probably a good idea for him because one of his ex wife’s complaints about him to my wife when they would drink together is that when she would get pissed off and hit him he would never hit her back, and that was both infuriating and a huge turnoff for her.He sees it as something he is doing for 12 years until the younger kid is 18 and then they will sell the house and he can be free. Since he doesn’t want any more kids anyways. I don’t know if I would do the same or not. I generally think if you get divorced you should move on, but at the same time my wife is not nearly as much of a train wreck as his ex and I would not be worried about her bringing creeps around if we split up. A duplex seems like the way to go if you want to see your kids every day. My cousin lives in a converted grill hut in the back yard of the home he’s paying half the mortgage for.
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Kitfox88 posted:AITA for not counting raisins Any raisin he couldn't just leave the extras?
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Can’t deviate from his seafood diet
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therobit posted:My cousin lives in a converted grill hut in the back yard of the home he’s paying half the mortgage for. cool, cool
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Serephina posted:Nah, she's right about that. There's dating a divorced person with kids, and then there's moving into a family household where he's still married in every sense but the legal one and she's just a side piece, one that's very, very off to the side. (Bonus: personal experience tells me that these people never actually do the divorce paperwork) Yeh this guy is basically still married. This is tough bc yes it's all about making things easier on the kids, but if he's still keeping the family unit he had with his ex there's literally no space for anything new, so new gf might as well not exist. Unless she's ok with just joining the fold and becoming a sisterwife/babysitter.
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Vim Fuego posted:Any raisin he couldn't just leave the extras? That would require him to count the raisins himself. Can't have that.
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StrangersInTheNight posted:Yeh this guy is basically still married. This is tough bc yes it's all about making things easier on the kids, but if he's still keeping the family unit he had with his ex there's literally no space for anything new, so new gf might as well not exist. Unless she's ok with just joining the fold and becoming a sisterwife/babysitter. I guess I think it’s good and normal that he should place the well-being of his children over dating. If it’s stable and working for the family, maybe it’s OK.
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It's absolutely good he is prioritizing them, and honestly it's best for the kids, it's just also reasonable for her not to want to be part of that. It's two people who seem to have wildly different ideas of what their future should look like together, hitting an impasse. I mean she's a jerk, but even for the nicest person, the only space there is to become an additional partner. Edit: we just had a bunch people posting about how they have relationships with people who they cohabitate with in different bedrooms or even have their own different houses nearby, so at what point is him sharing a home with his ex become just not having left her? Because he scooted out of the bedroom and they don't bang anymore, then they're not together? C'mon. He's in a nonsexual relationship with his ex. They share space, talk daily, raise children, and run a household together. I wouldn't be surprised if their money is still all mingled together. You essentially have to find someone ok with polyamory to make this work with more people. Obviously, tho, OP shouldn't have assumed that he will abandon his current family to just go off and make their own family, that's gross as gently caress. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 12:38 on Dec 21, 2022 |
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Kitfox88 posted:AITA for not counting raisins if it was me, motherfucker would be getting exactly 13 or 11 raisins every time
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Foo Diddley posted:if it was me, motherfucker would be getting exactly 13 or 11 raisins every time The only reasonable thing to do is cut a raisin in half to give him 11.5 raisins.
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AITA for mocking a homophobic guy at work, and maybe taking it too far?quote:I work in a male dominated workplace, and I'm a lesbian. I'm a pretty fuckin obvious lesbian too, like not to be a stereotype but I work a trade job, have buzzed hair, lift, fish and camp, and like working on cars. My nails are short as hell and I wear my keys and multitools on a belt carabiner. And I'm out at work, like it's no secret.
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Solkanar512 posted:I'm just surprised to find that people actually do this poo poo. I always thought it was just a dumb sitcom trope. A lot of people do things precisely because they're dumb sitcom tropes.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:A lot of people do things precisely because they're dumb sitcom tropes. Its almost like sitcoms and romcoms have given people some really drat dumb ideas about what is acceptable behavior in relationships 
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Mx. posted:Advent calendar last has a TEAM of people in on this?? Bananas Take 10 years from the older kids age, and this is maybe OK. If the mum had told OP about it beforehand. But expecting OP to nip out and buy a completely new gift for a teenager so they don't get jealous of their younger sibling on their birthday is insane.
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atomicdream posted:AITA for mocking a homophobic guy at work, and maybe taking it too far? I mean, this is a cool story and all that but there's barely even a question here. I say that as someone who is avoiding working a regular job like the plague because of poo poo like this.
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lady just wanted to talk about sending a homophobe to the burn ward online
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SirSamVimes posted:lady just wanted to talk about sending a homophobe to the burn ward online And Im here for it
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From r/legaladvice: Assaulted At McDonald’s By A Manager quote:I was assaulted by a McDonalds manager the other night while in the drive through. They got mine and my friends order wrong several times. The worker said his manager was in a bad mood and wasn't allowing them to remake the quarter pounder with cheese no mustard for us. We asked to speak with the manager and the employee said we wouldn't want to because he's in a bad mood. We asked to speak with him and he came out super aggressively and yelling at us demanding the burger back. I put the burger on the windowsill of the McDonald's in front of the manager and he picked it up and tossed it at my feet in my car and told me to hand it back to him with respect. I then tossed it into the McDonald's behind him. He proceeded to pick it up, open the box, grab the burger and wind up baseball style and throw it at me. He threw a burger right at me in my car through the window. He then proceeded to tell me to go to hell and a few other things. I started video taping it and I’ve tried reaching out to McDonald’s through the app and in twitter but no luck so far. Any ideas on what I can do about this and how to follow up?
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AITA for smoking in the bathroom during a parent-teacher conference?quote:I recently had the most embarrassing experience of my life and I'm not sure if I'm the rear end in a top hat here or not. Let me give the rundown. quote:Genuinely feel like I'm living in an alternate reality here. In my experience at school kids smoked cigarettes in the bathroom all the time and was not treated like a big deal. I can remember an instance where a teacher walked in and just told us to put it out, he did not even report it. Someone commented that smoke detectors have improved but I haven't been in school so I didn't know this. quote:Believe me a fine was issued but it's yet to be paid. There will be a response from me. I trust that if u were there you would not have this opinion. quote:Sad that you would make assumptions like this. I am an excellent father in every way, shape and form. If more fathers were like me we would be living in a better world quote:First of all, I don't appreciate your condescending and judgmental tone. Just because I have a child in school does not mean I am automatically an expert in technology. quote:My choices were one thing, but the disproportionate response of the principal and firemen escalated things to become distressing and traumatic for my family. Legal options are being explored. quote:I am not embarrassed and I am certainly not throwing a tantrum. I amsimply stating my opinion and you have no right to judge me or tell me what I deserve. You have no idea what I have been through or what my circumstances are, so don't act like you know everything. And just because society has changed its views on smoking in school bathrooms doesn't mean I have to blindly follow along. I am an adult and I can make my own decisions. So don't try to lecture me like a child. Iam not the one being delusional here, it is clearly you. And the pièce de résistance quote:I am an adult and do not need to be lectured by a group of anonymous internet strangers. I will not apologize to the school or anyone else.It is not my responsibility to deal with the consequences of my actions.I will do whatever I please and it is none of your concern. I am not a teenager, I am a grown man and I am more intelligent than all of you combined. Don't tell me what to do or how to behave. I will do what I want and you can all mind your own business. E: please be fake, I would die if I was this guys kid
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teen witch posted:AITA for smoking in the bathroom during a parent-teacher conference? Seeing redditors getting bent out of shape over being judged for things they themselves wrote up and asked to be judged for is my favorite thing in life 
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teen witch posted:AITA for smoking in the bathroom during a parent-teacher conference? r/relationships: It is not my responsibility to deal with the consequences of my actions
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Eridine posted:r/relationships: It is not my responsibility to deal with the consequences of my actions
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Captain Hygiene posted:Seeing redditors getting bent out of shape over being judged for things they themselves wrote up and asked to be judged for is my favorite thing in life It's always so fun, they so clearly expected validation and didn't get it so now it's time to pout. "Hey Reddit was I the shithead here?" "Yea kinda actually." "Well, first of all, how dare you?"
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teen witch posted:please be fake, I would die if I was this guys kid if it's not fake his wife and kid should get to kill him themselves
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DemoneeHo posted:It might not be normal. But is it wrong? good loving god your spoiler. knocked my rear end so hard i may as well not even bother with a benadryl tonight
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Piell posted:AITA for making my parents choose between me and my ex/former friend?
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"I am not an addict" Yes you are, bucko.
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teen witch posted:AITA for smoking in the bathroom during a parent-teacher conference? r/relationships: It is not my responsibility to deal with the consequences of my actions
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big dyke energy posted:Wait, she's just sending the videos to the advent calendar company?? Not like, a youtube video? She's a psychopath he needs to sever. I checked the comments and no she is not being asked to do this or receiving any kind of incentive or reimbursement for doing it. She really did just decide one day 'we need to sit down and meticulously review advent calendars for the sake of nobody in particular'. Odds are the folks at the company aren't watching or even aware she's creating these videos 
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Kite Pride Worldwide posted:I checked the comments and no she is not being asked to do this or receiving any kind of incentive or reimbursement for doing it. She really did just decide one day 'we need to sit down and meticulously review advent calendars for the sake of nobody in particular'. Odds are the folks at the company aren't watching or even aware she's creating these videos So is she doing it to compare X brand advent calendar to Y brand? Or just the one brand? Does she say stuff like "I would have preferred a milk chocolate on the 17th instead of the toffee I received." or is it just "today was yummy/yucky. The cardboard door opened a little better than yesterday."? So many questions, and all of them as pointless and baffling as whatever the gently caress she thinks she is doing.
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