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olylifter posted:WIBTA for putting my elderly mother in a nursing facility against her wishes? This screams of "My mother has a lot of money and I want it, but she wants to spend it making her retirement not poo poo and I can't have that"
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JackSplater posted:This screams of "My mother has a lot of money and I want it, but she wants to spend it making her retirement not poo poo and I can't have that" Wait till he finds out how expensive the old folks home is.
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Blue Moonlight posted:Are you trying to tear this thread apart? Ok fine do shed piss? It's not like I can stop anyone. Build a piss shed with a sink inside for maximum shed sink pissery.
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JackSplater posted:This screams of "My mother has a lot of money and I want it, but she wants to spend it making her retirement not poo poo and I can't have that" therobit posted:Wait till he finds out how expensive the old folks home is. From the comments he has no need or interest in her money and he's got this thing all fully costed out because he talks about how home-help style setups are too expensive. Dude is one cold motherfucker
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 05:57 |
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WIBTA if I used part of my paternity leave to visit my family?quote:My wife and I have been arguing about this for weeks and she suggested I post here.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 06:06 |
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Ending engagement over sexual historyquote:Im 28M, about to end an engagement with 29F, over her sexual history. I'm in the process of getting my affairs in order legally & financially before I do. I feel terrible because she has just designed her dream ring (and it has cost me an absolute fortune, lol). I've known this about her for a while and thought I could get over it. I thought for sure he was hoy to say she was his first and only but dude is in double digits of partners himself. It’s good he’s leaving he because she’ll be better off.
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AITA for asking my wife not to text me stickers of a cartoon guy sending kisses?quote:This sounds ridiculous, I know. So here we go: and another thing: im not mad about the sticker of a cartoon man sending a kiss. please dont put in the newspaper that i got mad about the sticker of a cartoon man sending a kiss.
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AceClown posted:WIBTA if I used part of my paternity leave to visit my family? You know I read this and can't loving imagine giving a 14 week infant into a daycare. Like ever. I stayed home a full year to help my wife. I didn't even read the pertinent part of the story.
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AceClown posted:From the comments he has no need or interest in her money quote:home-help style setups are too expensive.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 06:15 |
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Ooh, probably Line stickers. You can get tons of those.
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therobit posted:Ending engagement over sexual history lotta incel code words in such a short post, hopefully he does dump her because she'll be better off. LMAO: "I'm in the process of getting my affairs in order legally & financially before I do"
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I did it at eight weeks. Thanks, capitalism!
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Foo Diddley posted:okay, who's ready to get mad? OP edited to add that the brother has autism. Either way, you don't do that with other people's books. Pookah posted:My brother-in-law highlights any lines he finds interesting - not just in textbooks, literally any kind of book. At one of the libraries where I work I'm in charge of sorting donated books into four categories: put into library collection; send to friends group to sell; take to Goodwill; dump into recycling. I don't care what people do with their own books but holy crap do I hate going through books that I'm just going to have to take to Goodwill on my own time or dump into recycling (the library pays for recycling pickup). People donate some good stuff, but they also donate a lot of literal garbage. This week I went through like three boxes of books that someone had lovingly kept next to their valuable collection of dust and spiderwebs. And what really got me were the books with loads of highlighting. How the hell is that supposed to be useful? It's insanely distracting. Does it help people remember? Does it make it easier to find relevant passages? I remember Marie Kondo talking about trying to write out inspiring sections from books she had been keeping and giving up because it just wasn't worthwhile. Anyway, thanks for reading this rant, and remember to support your local library.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 06:21 |
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How importance is a woman’s scent to guys dating?Seeking Advicequote:I received some weird feedback on my appearance and hobbies and as a 40 year old woman I’m worried. I'm not sure a bottle of perfume is the solution to this particular conundrum.
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Jack-Off Lantern posted:You know I read this and can't loving imagine giving a 14 week infant into a daycare. Yeah in non Nordic countries you usually got to go back to work pretty quickly if you don't want to be homeless.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:I did it at eight weeks. Thanks, capitalism! My cousin had to have the baby induced on a weekend and be back at work Monday morning because the post grad program she was in had no provisions for any kind of leave.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 06:39 |
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I was back at work the day after my first son was born in 2000 because I was working an $8/hour tech support job and had no benefits of any kind.
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Agaragon posted:I used to lend out my books to a coworker but that ended when she got arrested, and plead guilty to, involuntary manslaughter. Fentanyl overdose, she just left the guy out on her porch overnight where he died. There was a hospital a quarter of a mile away. You could see part of it from her house.
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AceClown posted:WIBTA if I used part of my paternity leave to visit my family? Holy poo poo how would you not want to maximize time spent with your brand new infant? My spouse got pregnant in February, and I spent the next 9 months maximizing paid time off so I could spend every possible moment of the first part of my child's life at home with my child and partner. I think I was able to do like two months, stringing it all together. Between being there for post-partum support and having bonding time with my new child, it was the best decision I ever made. I try not to be so "look how cool I am" in this thread but super gently caress that guy, treating available bonding time with his infant as free days to go on vacation.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 07:13 |
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AceClown posted:WIBTA if I used part of my paternity leave to visit my family? My husband managed to get approximately 3 months of paternity leave when I had our son in Nov. Three months PAID at that (though not all at 100%). And not gonna lie - I have no idea how I would be able to be a parent without him. Even though at this age you kind of have to actively work to screw up parenting (feed em, change em, bathe em, and let em sleep is all pretty easy), I know I would not be able to do this even remotely without him. I have no idea how men who outright say they want to be parents and love their children are willing to push all the work onto their wives. I would not have even had this kid if I thought my husband wouldn't contribute 50/50.
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Silly Newbie posted:Holy poo poo how would you not want to maximize time spent with your brand new infant? You’re pretty loving cool though keep it up!
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champagne posting posted:You’re pretty loving cool though keep it up! Thank you . Little man is 4 now, and I still try hard to min/max the ratio of "time spend with my family when they're awake" vs "time spent working or sleeping". Time is going to come when my kid has a life to live and friends to hang out with and poo poo to do. I'll have time to work and do other stuff when that comes, so I have priotrities now.
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therobit posted:Ending engagement over sexual history quote:This is complex and women won't understand because whats important to them is not whats important to us.
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edgeman83 posted:The comments on that one are basically what you would expect, with this one being my favorite: quote:his woman incel screed 100%
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edgeman83 posted:The comments on that one are basically what you would expect, with this one being my favorite: From that: 28 is a concerning number. Promiscuity is not what any man wants in his woman. Especially not a guy whos worked his rear end off and dedicated his life to quality over quantity. Lol this dude telling on himself when he can't connect "person who has been with several people choosing me and thinking I'm the best person to be with" to "quality over quantity". Like, my dude, if someone slept with, or dated, or whatever 1000 people and decided that you, out of all of them, were the person worth being with for the rest of forever, that's not a bad thing.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 07:50 |
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It's especially impressive that, unless he found out just now that his fiancée had 28 partners before him, he had no problem at all dating this woman long enough to get engaged, but now it's suddenly too many. Odds that he's convinced he can find an 18 year old virgin now because he's financially secure?
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Silly Newbie posted:From that: If you only gently caress people with landlines who can be reached during working hours it doesn't matter how many you gently caress you'll have a biased sample.
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Just food for thought about how much patriarchy harms men, too. Betcha this guy is going to end up kicking himself down the road, when he realizes that what he shared with this woman was beautiful, until he hosed it up with judgment and cynicism. seriously: cock carousel? WTF? how can you bring yourself to judge another person for liking sex too much? someone you are supposed to be enjoying sex with? especially when you haven't exactly taken a vow of chastity yourself. so where's the authority to back up this judgment? he's throwing a lifelong companion away out of some twisted madonna/whore dichotomization. thats my charitable read, anyway. uncharitably, trash taking itself out, cchhhhhckck goes the neck under the guillotine blade, etc.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 09:20 |
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Whenever parental leave comes up I always get shocked, I can’t imagine leaving our 6 month old daughter to someone else to care for right now. Doing it when she was an infant, even more impossible. Once my wife has been home with her 1 year I plan to do the same, just like with our boys. Admittedly we do have to stretch our paid parental leave out a bit thin, but both our jobs have a thing where they pay the gap between 80%-of-salary paid parental leave and our regular salary for 6 months. Also by being frugal we can handle 2 years of parental leave and still have some weeks left over for extended holidays during the first couple of summers.
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# ? Jan 6, 2023 09:34 |
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Failed Imagineer posted:Yeah it's pretty stupid to have such strong gender preferences. Probably 50% of the post-Zoomer generation are gonna be genderfluid dickgirls and whatnot anyway, so you might as well throw out your rulebook for "how to raise a big strong man" Yeah but the generation after them is probably going to lean hard into gender roles as the surest way to piss off their parents.
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dude's gonna watch Chasing Amy and be like, you get me Kevin Smith. You. Get. Me.
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AceClown posted:WIBTA if I used part of my paternity leave to visit my family? Motherfucker, your baby is your family.
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Americans now have a fairly explicit preference for girls over boys, so like its hard for me to be too worked up over a dude excited for having a son who doesn't seem to be doing anything else wrong. Maybe the son is genderfluid. Who knows, let the guy adjust to that later and for now be a little over excited. Please of course let me know if hes like an old coworker who said she would kill herself if her baby was a boy instead of a girl.
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Someone torpedoing their own relationship and forbidding their husband from attending the baby shower and delivery because he was more excited to have a boy instead of a girl is not something I thought anyone would be totally on board for, I have to say.
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the final joke in all of this is that I bet his son is gonna end up being useless and the older daughter is going to be the competent one arranging his funeral
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PiratePrentice posted:Someone torpedoing their own relationship and forbidding their husband from attending the baby shower and delivery because he was more excited to have a boy instead of a girl is not something I thought anyone would be totally on board for, I have to say. You can dislike one thing without endorsing the other thing, hth
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Wishing harm on the child is low.
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Barudak posted:Americans now have a fairly explicit preference for girls over boys What
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Barudak posted:Americans now have a fairly explicit preference for girls over boys ??
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Sex Farm posted:What ?? ????
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