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How to make your daughter strip more (comes with free your daughter never speaking to you again): AITA for refusing to help my daughter with her car payment because she is a stripper? quote:I 47m have a 22 year old daughter. She’s in college and lives on campus. I agreed to help her make car payments, since she was in school.
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Line up ladies, looks like another hot commodity's coming on the market! My (25F) boyfriend (26M) cannot keep a job for more than a month and I'm considering leaving quote:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 6 years and he has been unable to keep a job for more than a month. This is just so frustrating...I got him his first job and left after a month because it was not related to his career. He got a new job and has been working for about a month and he has just told me he is quitting because it's very exhausting (this job is related to his field and he used to describe it as his dream job). I'm tired of waiting for him. I want to move in with him and start having a family but this is just impossible since he cannot provide any kind of financial stability for our potential household. I'm considering leaving but I just don't know how to end things without hurting his feelings. He says he wants to work as a freelance but I feel like I cannot wait any longer. I've waited for 6 years and counting. I love him and he is a good guy ...idk what to do. As far as I can tell yes, it's only been those 2 jobs in the past 6 years.
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Olewithmilk posted:This one is so infuriating. I love how the lady introduces herself at the end of the haircut, and then she explains that she expects to pay nothing for it. If you knew you weren't doing anything dodgy, why not give that information up front?
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Runcible Cat posted:Line up ladies, looks like another hot commodity's coming on the market! You hurt his feelings, its that simple. I hate how women (and femme enbys) have been conditioned to put the feelings of men of paramount importance. Then again, when they get their feelings hurt, they tend to murder us, so I guess it makes sense from a survival standpoint. Just tell him it was your dream relationship, but turned out to be exhausting, so you want to quit.
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Dienes posted:Just tell him it was your dream relationship, but turned out to be exhausting, so you want to quit.
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AITA for resenting my wife's job?quote:Ever since I was young, all my father wanted me to do was engineering. He basically trained me for this from a very young age. I was told I would be an engineer, that I would go to MIT, and I did tons of math and science competitions from a young age. I started doing advanced maths in early high school. Comment: quote:INFO: does your wife literally remind you of your failure to achieve, or is it just her mere existence and job occupation that reminds you of it? Response: quote:The latter, but she seems really smug and self righteous like oh look at me im so much better than you, but thats only when my father is around Popsci but, https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20200121-why-promoted-women-are-more-likely-to-divorce I don’t think he’s getting therapy
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Runcible Cat posted:Line up ladies, looks like another hot commodity's coming on the market! Yuuuup quote:You're right. He's only held 2 jobs during our 6 year relationship. I waited because he wanted to focus on his education but he got his degree 2 years ago and still hasn't been able to keep a job. At least it sounds like she hasn't been wasting her money supporting him, only wasting time, emotions, mental health etc quote:Yes he suffers from depression. I feel like he cannot control his emotions whenever he faces a challenge. He always gives up whenever there's a minor issue or inconvenience. His parents support him and his dad still gives him money every month to cover up his expenses. We pay 50/50 when we go out on dates and when we go on a trip as well. Looks like this is her too: My boyfriend cheated on me, I cheated back and regret it. quote:My (25F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me during the pandemic, he slept with another girl and told me he was leaving me because she was smarter, prettier, shorter than me. He dumped me and would usually tell me how good she was in bed and that sex with me had always been awful. He would take her out on dates which he would never do with me etc. She dumped him shortly after so we got back together. I really loved him and didn't want to lose him so I decided to get back with him. He never asked me to forgive him...I just was there waiting for him to come back to me. Things went kinda well but I just didn't feel the same with him but I wasn't sure I wanted to end the relationship. A friend of mine recommended a few dating sites where I started to talk to a few guys. I flirted with them a sent nudes to one of them. I felt bad for doing that and regretted instantly. I have never kissed, gone on dates or slept with anyone else but my boyfriend. Involuntary Sparkle fucked around with this message at 14:35 on Mar 6, 2023 |
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ReelBigLizard posted:Jersey Zoo (on the real island of Jersey, not that upstart "New" Jersey) is a nice place. It's not the biggest, it doesn't have all the big name animals, it's just a nice little park where they do some real conservation work and fund it by letting you see and interact with the animals that can handle human attention. This is cool as hell and you're cool as hell!
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Involuntary Sparkle posted:Honolulu, fyi. lol. Dream better.
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ReelBigLizard posted:Jersey Zoo (on the real island of Jersey, not that upstart "New" Jersey) is a nice place. It's not the biggest, it doesn't have all the big name animals, it's just a nice little park where they do some real conservation work and fund it by letting you see and interact with the animals that can handle human attention. Is it the one founded by Gerald Durrell? Can't count the times I reread his books as a kid/tween. Really wanted to visit that zoo too, but managed to forget about it by it.
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a podcast for cats posted:Is it the one founded by Gerald Durrell? Can't count the times I reread his books as a kid/tween. Really wanted to visit that zoo too, but managed to forget about it by it. Good news! I looked it up and it turns out Jersey Zoo still exists, so you can still go!
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teen witch posted:My (33f) Boyfriend (36m) having identity crisis? smh, not even wanting to start a rapping career at 36.
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teen witch posted:AITA for resenting my wife's job? Haha I went to that school and also majored in Aero Eng, I wonder if I know this dork’s wife. Also a very good engineering school so baffling that not getting into MIT was a deal breaker. If I were him I would go back to school and then use the power of nepotism (my own wife) to get into the industry. Or I guess I could just piss and moan about it and make my wife feel like poo poo until she divorces me.
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Runcible Cat posted:How to make your daughter strip more (comes with free your daughter never speaking to you again): Does this guy think that she is going to do less striping now that she needs to raise even more money for her car payments?
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Carolyn Hax really dropped the ball yesterday.quote:Dear Carolyn: My husband has two children who were 18 and 25 when we married. I met him after his divorce. His children now have children and the mothers told the children I was not a real grandmother because I was a step. quote:Not Real: It is unacceptable that he expects you to “try harder” without doing so himself. Say this to him explicitly. Then, literally or figuratively, book your spa day. He can think over his options while he goes solo to see his kids. It's bad enough when stepmothers of children living at home insist on an emotional bond; it's simply silly to demand it from adults.
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space uncle posted:Haha I went to that school and also majored in Aero Eng, I wonder if I know this dork’s wife. Also a very good engineering school so baffling that not getting into MIT was a deal breaker. Dude could also realize his dad's love is conditional on him being an engineer and he needs to stop giving a poo poo about his dad. Might even help him with his wife who probably has a great job and income. Although who are we kidding? He will absolutely choose option 2 of hating his wife until she leaves him. Extta comedy option would be if she left him for his dad.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Poster married her husband when one child was an adult living in her (guessing) own household, and the other was about to leave home. It was already too late to be a stepmother. She's the husband's wife, and shouldn't demand any emotional connection either with the children or the grandchildren. If she doesn't demand it, she could eventually become the children's grandbonus, or at least somebody who they enjoy spending time with. At no point did she demand an emotional connection, its her husband that says she should. Carolyn is agreeing with both you and her in saying don't bother and leave it up to the husband if its so important to him.
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Yes, there's probably going to be some connection forming from grandkids just from proximity to them visiting their grandpa if they visit, but it's not unreasonable to go 'that's grandpa's wife, not your grandma'.
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Fatty posted:Its probably woo/quack science but there's some belief that the specific frequency of a cats purr promotes healing. I'm 1500 posts behind, but I've seen one study linked by someone in the martial arts thread where there did seem to be a decrease in healing time. I don't recall the specifics (like the vibration mechanism, the range of injuries, or the study size), but the goon who linked it noted that they tried a variety of frequencies, and the body seemed to respond to them roughly equally, over no vibration.
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Were the cats performing these martial arts?
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PetraCore posted:Yes, there's probably going to be some connection forming from grandkids just from proximity to them visiting their grandpa if they visit, but it's not unreasonable to go 'that's grandpa's wife, not your grandma'. One of my grandpas remarried some years after his wife died, and that's pretty much how things played out. Everyone became pretty close in a friendly way, but differently than with my actual grandma. Most of the younger folks ended up calling the newer wife "grandma [name]" because they didn't want to just use her name only, but nobody wanted to supplant the former one either.
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Runcible Cat posted:How to make your daughter strip more (comes with free your daughter never speaking to you again): That young man is fine, of course. See, women shouldn't strip, but men are fine watching women strip.
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Boys will be boys
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I appreciate zoo talk. If you like aircraft, there's the Strategic Air Command museum And corn
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Drive across I-80 and enjoy the engineering marvel that is the straightest stretch of interstate in the US!
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AITA for getting angry & kicking everyone out of my party because someone brought food I was allergic to?quote:I recently hosted a party where I made it clear to everyone attending that I'm severely allergic to fish. So if you're going to bring food, don't bring fish. Well, my warning seemed to have fallen on deaf ears as one of the guests brought & cooked fish in my kitchen. who the gently caress brings fish to a party
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Rare wedding story where someone goes out of their way to NOT announce their pregnancy AITA for not mentioning that my wife and I are expecting at my brother's wedding? quote:My older brother got married last weekend. It was a huge wedding and they had guests from all over the world. Not like every guest was from out of town but our family is far flung and there were guests from Denmark, Uruguay, and Australia. e: j/k, mom's deal is she missed out on a chance for the entire extended family to dote on her and congratulate her on becoming a grandparent, and she's pissed.. FMguru fucked around with this message at 20:32 on Mar 6, 2023 |
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The Golden Spike Tower at the Bailey Yards is awesome if you like spending hours watching trains. If you don't like trains, then god help you because there's nothing else interesting within a hundred miles of North Platte.
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FMguru posted:Rare wedding story where someone goes out of their way to NOT announce their pregnancy mom noticed that OP's wife wasn't drinking and didn't think to derail the wedding right there, and now she'll regret missing that opportunity forever
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My friend invited me to this party, but I also have been planning to cook this fish! Decisions, decisions…. Unless?!
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Holy poo poo. AITA for telling a morbid joke about my son? quote:Asking here because I don't feel comfortable discussing this with family or friends right now.
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for getting angry & kicking everyone out of my party because someone brought food I was allergic to? Who doesn’t like the guy who lightly fries some fish fillets at a party That’s the go-to move, smdh
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AITA for saying I really enjoyed an adult only resort to my brother in front of my niece and nephew? quote:I (30f) went on my honeymoon recently. My brother was really interested in the resort I went to, how I planned out my flights, the transfer to the resort and stuff so I was telling him about it. We were sitting in his living room, my niece was playing with her toys and my nephew was playing with his switch near us.
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Tobermory posted:Holy poo poo. well you see, i cope with grief by displaying a complete and utter lack of empathy as i rub other people's noses in it my love language is cruelty
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Captain Hygiene posted:Drive across I-80 and enjoy the engineering marvel that is the straightest stretch of interstate in the US! Don't east/west interstates have to correct every so often?
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Tobermory posted:AITA for telling a morbid joke about my son? Ya think? Maybe try out your dark comedy bits away from the other people who were also massively affected, dummy.
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for getting angry & kicking everyone out of my party because someone brought food I was allergic to? I could maybe see stopping by the grocery and grabbing a premade shrimp cocktail. Or maybe chips and salsa where the dip has some fish in it? But just showing up with some salmon or something is just wtf.
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rotinaj posted:Who doesn’t like the guy who lightly fries some fish fillets at a party Would you like some lightly fried fish fillets, yourself?
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i mean even at food-based parties like barbecues and pot lucks, i ain't never seen anyone roll up with a slab of raw fish this dude is the same guy who microwaves tuna in the break room every day, huh
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Nocheez posted:Don't east/west interstates have to correct every so often? Yes. I'm looking at the map of I-80 and it's jogging all over the place, particularly in Nebraska.
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