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Safety Dance posted:My wife kept her name, I kept mine, and somehow everything works out. Same, though my wife has flirted with the idea of taking my last name once she retires as she's long ago gotten tired of always having people mispronounce hers and ask her to spell it out.
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madeintaipei posted:22 letters, two spaces, plus one hyphen. I write real tiny and make two lines out of it when I can. Doesn't always work on electronic forms. There might be space to type it out, but printed it'll bleed over into the next space(s). Van Rijn-De Costanzi or something like that? That's a hell of a last name. Captain_Maclaine posted:Same, though my wife has flirted with the idea of taking my last name once she retires as she's long ago gotten tired of always having people mispronounce hers and ask her to spell it out. Mine's the hard to pronounce and spell name, and she already has professional works published under her name, so it didn't make sense to change.
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# ? Jun 29, 2023 22:16 |
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Safety Dance posted:Van Rijn-De Costanzi or something like that? That's a hell of a last name. Oh no, my whole legal name is 23 characters long with two spaces. My parents got married in three different countries. The country they met in, ROC, where I was conceived (hence, the username), the country my father is from, and finally the country my mother is from and which I am a foreign-born citizen of. Why does that matter? Because my mother and her first husband never bothered to get divorced until shortly before my parent's third time marrying, in the US. So, my last name is hyphenated between my mother's last name at the time and my father's family name. It made doing paperwork easier going forward, according to the American Institute of Taiwan. To make things even more fun, my mother changed her last name to something completely unrelated to our family, and my child has changed her first name and modified her last name to one half of my hyphenated last name. We tote around folders full of old and new identifying paperwork to do anything legal. It's such a loving waste of time.
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# ? Jun 29, 2023 22:54 |
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madeintaipei posted:22 letters, two spaces, plus one hyphen. I write real tiny and make two lines out of it when I can. Doesn't always work on electronic forms. There might be space to type it out, but printed it'll bleed over into the next space(s). Next wife
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 00:26 |
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Safety Dance posted:
Doubley untrustworthy.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 00:46 |
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I'm prejudiced, but hyphenated names are an abomination. Not only does mine lend itself much too easily to unflattering nicknames, it's a pain to spell it out over the phone and occasionally have to explain to people what a hyphen is, nobody has any idea how it's spelled just from hearing it, and the crown jewel of this completely avoidable dumb component of my life was Penguin making me pick half because they didn't like how it looked on book covers and I had to pick the half that I hate because the other half is too common. Don't give your kids hyphenated names!
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 02:15 |
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Hyphenated name just means Hispanic to me.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 02:21 |
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madeintaipei posted:Oh no, my whole legal name is 23 characters long with two spaces. My mother kept her last name when my parents got married. Then they flipped a coin* for each kid. My older and younger sisters both have my dad’s name, and I have my mom’s. Ask me about having to convince, cajole and occasionally coerce people into believing that he’s not my step-dad. The idea that I have a different last name from my dad who is still happily married to my mom is somehow beyond the understanding of 90% of people, or at least anyone who needs that info on a form. The best was we look a lot alike (big bearded guys with long curly red-blond hair) and we taught at the same school for a while in different departments. My students thought it was some god drat X-Files poo poo that I kept meeting with a dude who looks like me 30 years older in hippy clothes and it took them forever to just ask. *the same coin, they still have it
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 03:13 |
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My wife and I are both lefty feminist types, but she took my last name because she preferred it to her maiden name. Not much to the story past that, she just liked it better and I didn't mind.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 04:34 |
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My wife planned on taking my name socially and continuing to use hers professionally. Then she just never got around to changing it and just kept her name for everything.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 04:59 |
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i’m gay and we just kept our respective last names idk
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 07:25 |
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Captain Monkey posted:My wife and I are both lefty feminist types, but she took my last name because she preferred it to her maiden name. Same deal with the added caveat both of our mothers kept their maiden names after being married to our fathers. That being said my last name is 4 letters and her maiden name is 12.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 16:46 |
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Three different couples I know changed both of their last names to a completely new last name they both liked (for one couple it was a mash-up of their previous last names, for the other two it was just picking a work they liked). One of those couples is getting divorced now, so I'm kinda curious if either or both of them chooses to change it back. (Though I'd guess not, since they have a kid who has that last name.)
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 17:38 |
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bunnyofdoom posted:Same deal with the added caveat both of our mothers kept their maiden names after being married to our fathers. Yeah mine is easily pronounced/recognizable in the US and hers was.. well, Finnish.
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Captain Monkey posted:Yeah mine is easily pronounced/recognizable in the US and hers was.. well, Finnish. I can imagine spelling out any word with "ää" over the phone is a pain.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 17:59 |
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Hotel Kilo Kilo...
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 18:01 |
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Guavanaut posted:Hotel Kilo Kilo... But real talk, how do you communicate umlauts and such phonetically? Alpha-umlaut? Is "Eszett" enough for the ß?
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Warmachine posted:But real talk, how do you communicate umlauts and such phonetically? Alpha-umlaut? Is "Eszett" enough for the ß? Do you, even? E accent aigu is not confusable, and situations with the NATO alphabet like air traffic control uses NATO-alphabet-consistent abbreviations and is almost always in jargony english even if it’s a japanese plane over Thailand Also what’s the freep take if my wife has my name but I’m openly bi, traditional masculinity or communist effeminacy
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 18:41 |
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Edgar Allen Ho posted:Do you, even? E accent aigu is not confusable, and situations with the NATO alphabet like air traffic control uses NATO-alphabet-consistent abbreviations and is almost always in jargony english even if it’s a japanese plane over Thailand I mean, no, because I never have to phonetically spell out anything with accent markings/characters not included in the NATO phonetic. That's why I asked if there's a standardized way to do that or is it just a make up your own best impression if you're in the unfortunate situation of needing to spell out something to someone on the worst quality phone you can imagine.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 18:46 |
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I would assume you add more phonetics for extra letters if needs be, if you're talking to someone who understands them.
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 18:49 |
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Another case of goons discovering foreign languages
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# ? Jun 30, 2023 23:02 |
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OwlFancier posted:I would assume you add more phonetics for extra letters if needs be, if you're talking to someone who understands them. I think the answer, as with anything, is "it depends." I'll try to speak to the limits of my knowledge here. In Germany (and probably other countries that use diaereses), if you're restricted to the basic 26 letter alphabet, you add an 'e' to the end. ä becomes ae, ö becomes oe, etc. In Norway and Sweden, if you need å, it becomes aa. Å is a separate letter at the end of their alphabet, so if your last name is, e.g. Ås, it's unclear if "Aas" comes at the beginning of an alphabetized list or at the end of the list. ø can become oe or just o. Again, it is its own letter that comes after Z, so unclear where you'll be alphabetized. β is just "ss". The UN has an extensive list of places with unique identifiers that only use the basic 26 letter alphabet. They're called LOCODEs. Here's Sweden's: https://service.unece.org/trade/locode/se.htm. Unfortunately I couldn't find my favorite example of two almost identical places: Håbo Municipality and Habo Municipality (It does have Braas and Braås, with two separate locodes, but it gives the same lat/lon for both). Likewise, if Habo and Håbo had airports (neither do), the IATA and the ICAO would give them different identifies to prevent confusion. Read Falsehoods Programmers Believe About Names, it's enlightening and it makes you want to just go "gently caress it" and assign everything a unique identifier.
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Danknificent posted:I'm prejudiced, but hyphenated names are an abomination. Not only does mine lend itself much too easily to unflattering nicknames, it's a pain to spell it out over the phone and occasionally have to explain to people what a hyphen is, nobody has any idea how it's spelled just from hearing it, and the crown jewel of this completely avoidable dumb component of my life was Penguin making me pick half because they didn't like how it looked on book covers and I had to pick the half that I hate because the other half is too common. Why did you have to pick half? You couldn’t mix and match?
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# ? Jul 1, 2023 00:52 |
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Washington DC on edge as bombs and Molotov cocktail explode outside Nike store, Truist ATM and Safeway grocery with suspect on the loose The revolution is here, it is good, it is Communist, it is a false flag. quote:To: Eleutheria5 quote:To: Eleutheria5 quote:To: Eleutheria5 quote:To: mabarker1 quote:To: Steely Tom quote:To: Reverend Wright quote:To: Eleutheria5; Steely Tom quote:To: Eleutheria5 quote:To: Eleutheria5
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Musk keeps flailing about running twitter but freepers think it's the best it's ever been. Twitter chaos leaves door open for Meta's rival app quote:To: CatOwner quote:To: Ge0ffrey quote:To: MinorityRepublican quote:To: MinorityRepublican
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# ? Jul 4, 2023 17:40 |
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lol at these ancient freepers who do not use twitter or even have an account but are convinced it is the best it has ever been because iron man runs it now.
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# ? Jul 4, 2023 17:44 |
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They're on a sinking ship celebrating that the cruise security got on the lifeboats and now they can smoke in the kid's pool
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# ? Jul 4, 2023 17:45 |
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quote:Textbook fascism, so-called free industry being total tools of the state.
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# ? Jul 4, 2023 17:54 |
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Judge Rules Proud Boys Must Pay $1 Million To Church For Burning BLM Flag Your daily reminder that liberals are the real racists quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Morgana Civil War is Coming! ...Maybe! quote:To: Morgana Aw gently caress they got Seattle too? I guess the MLB All Star game is now cancelled. quote:To: Darksheare A lot of Freepers are in full mode over burning the American Flag even though the issue is they destroyed the church's property not what was on the flag. quote:To: GMThrust; All Some Freepers are actually pushing back, though. quote:To: Morgana quote:To: falcon99 quote:To: All something something real racists quote:To: Steve_Seattle quote:To: Morgana Hi Ann! quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Yardstick quote:To: Morgana quote:To: cableguymn
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# ? Jul 8, 2023 05:54 |
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quote:To: Morgana Jesus gently caress freep
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# ? Jul 8, 2023 09:59 |
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I think you'll find that this dog was no angel Shocking moment Ohio cop shoots dead three-year-old golden retriever called Dixie after she ran towards him during callout for five unleashed dogs running amok in the neighborhood quote:To: Morgana quote:To: HamiltonJay quote:To: Magnum44 quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Morgana quote:To: Magnum44 quote:To: Morgana
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# ? Jul 9, 2023 04:56 |
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kik2dagroin posted:I think you'll find that this dog was no angel There are almost certainly leash laws that apply. If dogs don't want to get shot, they should follow the law. I bet if we looked at that dog's past, he wouldn't be such a "good boy"
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# ? Jul 9, 2023 21:13 |
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Not All Dogs Are Good Boys i hear he ate some skittles off the counter once too
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# ? Jul 9, 2023 21:28 |
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There are some shockingly uncharacteristicly good and correct takes on policing coming out of freep here... is this a fever dream??
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# ? Jul 10, 2023 13:47 |
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Zipperelli. posted:There are some strikingly uncharacteristicly good and correct takes on policing coming out of freep here... is this a fever dream?? Those will get dropped as soon as it’s convenient for them.
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Zipperelli. posted:There are some shockingly uncharacteristicly good and correct takes on policing coming out of freep here... is this a fever dream?? They find it easier to humanise a dog than a black person, so it's not that out of form.
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# ? Jul 10, 2023 13:56 |
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Zipperelli. posted:There are some shockingly uncharacteristicly good and correct takes on policing coming out of freep here... is this a fever dream?? Cops and weed are the two topics that freep consistently generates some good takes on. (Bad ones too.)
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# ? Jul 10, 2023 14:12 |
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remembering gettin tear gassed and punched back in the day, yeah it's kind of important to remember that while freep sometimes has good takes on US cops (menace to society, should not be trusted with even a baton), as soon as the violence gets turned on Bad People instead of heckin pupperinos, they'll be full Javert mode and wondering why a full Normandy landing worth of kit hasn't been dedicated to ending shoplifting forever
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Zipperelli. posted:There are some shockingly uncharacteristically good and correct takes on policing coming out of freep here... is this a fever dream?? I'm gonna go full here and say that even Hitler liked dogs
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Mercury_Storm posted:I'm gonna go full here and say that even Hitler liked dogs Sort of? He was a very passionate dog owner for sure, but I don’t think anyone would call him a good caretaker of them. Dude pretty regularly beat the everloving poo poo out of his pups.
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