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You left out the best one "He isnt immautre like some of the people here think, he is hardened person and like I said he removes people from his life without second thought. I dont know why is he like this but its who he is. He probably went through a lot in the past but he never talked about it with me. I never pushed the issue. If he has a problem he will close himself off. He never speaks about it, he sorts it out himself. He isnt a loner, he just doesnt talk much and sticks to himself most of the time. That is why he comes as cold and distant person. He is really difficult to read." He's not an immature loner, he just never talks about his feelings, shuts down completely when he feels slighted and has no real friends. But in a mature way.
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yeah sorry i got sick of reading it
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 08:40 |
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That very much reads like a power fantasy.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 09:07 |
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From r/relationships, a bit of a weird one:quote:I 28M sent my girlfriend 27F flowers anonymously. At face value, things don't look so good for OP. On the other hand, if he wasn't already suspicious that she had something else going on, then it seems like he was just "testing" her with flowers and showing up immediately afterward and waiting for her to say something. Not a good look, especially letting her sweat it for days without a simple, "Hey, did you get the flowers I sent? It says they were delivered Saturday." But her reaction was weird enough that maybe he was right to wait to see if she ever mentioned them. I've also gotten mystery flowers from out of the blue, repeatedly, and it freaked me out because I wasn't dating anyone at the time and had no idea who was buying me bouquets of red roses. No card, no name or number left at the florist. Eventually a dude I had a class with confessed and it totally skeeved me out. I didn't know him at all, yet he'd found my address and bombarded me with gifts before even an introduction. Many redditors in the comments saying the same thing, that they've gotten repeated anonymous flowers from stalkers, and that florists won't do anonymous deliveries anymore for that reason. It can feel very threatening.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 10:42 |
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Sagebrush is right that the guy is the weirdo creep who's the rear end in a top hat here, which makes it funnier that he's probably the author's Coldsteel the Boyfriend self-idealized OC. cw in the spoiler of this one for encouraging suicide: Several people in my life [29F] [32M] [33F] still refuse to forgive me [30M] for things I said during a mental breakdown three years ago. What do I do? quote:During the panda I basically spiraled out of control, and latent behavioral issues I had bubbled to the surface. I had a full on mental breakdown and burned bridges with close friends in the most fiery way possible. OP throwing himself a dramatic pity party over not being welcomed back with open arms is not doing much to persuade me that he's someone I'd want in my life.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 10:48 |
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Troublemaker posted:From r/relationships, a bit of a weird one: She could have easily thought he'd be suspicious if he saw them. Quite the cunning little trap he laid for both she and himself.
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Tarezax posted:I have to assume theft of prosthetics is pretty rare because they're so tailored to a single person and probably aren't worth much as scrap even. Might not have needed any kind of time frame to connect the dots Have we considered that the brother might be Rocket Raccoon?
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 11:31 |
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Lottery of Babylon posted:Several people in my life [29F] [32M] [33F] still refuse to forgive me [30M] for things I said during a mental breakdown three years ago. What do I do? what's their username?
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 12:11 |
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Making yourself the center of attention for people's reaction to previous attempts to make yourself the center of attention is pretty textbook HPD.
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Hughlander posted:My wife (36F) wants to divorce me (35M) to marry her ex (40M) I’m sorry but what? How does a woman choosing to go back to an ex in another country cause someone to come to a trafficked conclusion? Also: can someone please explain why Midjourney is an automatic jump to “oh he’s totally making AI porn, too?” Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my husband to apologize for invading our daughter's privacy after he saw something he didn't like on her phone and took it away? Wait until this concerned father finds out what kind of books get vvv yeah I think we need some new ground rules on RPF in the 2024 thread iteration SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL fucked around with this message at 13:44 on Jan 5, 2024 |
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:Also: can someone please explain why Midjourney is an automatic jump to “oh he’s totally making AI porn, too?” Goons really love to write fanfic about how things are actually worse than they already are
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:vvv yeah I think we need some new ground rules on RPF in the 2024 thread iteration RPF?
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 13:46 |
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:I’m sorry but what? How does a woman choosing to go back to an ex in another country cause someone to come to a trafficked conclusion? People see losers on Twitter posting AI porn women all the time and assume that's the main purpose of any AI image generation. The purpose of most AI image generation is simple theft, however.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 13:55 |
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Rwandan Patriotic Front?
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 14:15 |
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Real Post Format
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Lt. Danger posted:Real Post Format Is this like Rich Text Format or are we saying we need to verify the post is real before posting because that's not possible
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Andrast posted:Goons really love to write fanfic about how things are actually worse than they already are Oh so you are saying we should kill all goons? Is that considered normal now???!
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Seth Pecksniff posted:Is this like Rich Text Format or are we saying we need to verify the post is real before posting because that's not possible I assumed it was a joke suggestion. Like if I said Rate Parrots Forever.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 14:42 |
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Okay, now I need to see this Parrot Rating system.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 14:42 |
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^^^ okay this is way better Sorry, “Real Person Fiction,” it’s a long-time category including on AO3. Usually it’s a self-insert and some pop sensation falling in love, or two hockey players, or actors or something. When it’s extent it’s uncomfortable at best, but by definition it’s nothing new. Dante’s Inferno is a great example.
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Seth Pecksniff posted:Is this like Rich Text Format or are we saying we need to verify the post is real before posting because that's not possible all posts are real posts. I would be very concerned if I was hallucinating imaginary posts
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FMguru posted:Long, but worth reading if only for your increasing astonishment at OP's obliviousness and her choosing at every step to dig the hole she is in even deeper.
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:I’m sorry but what? How does a woman choosing to go back to an ex in another country cause someone to come to a trafficked conclusion? I don't think she's going to be trafficked necessarily, but the situation she's jumping in has a dynamic that's hosed from the start. If I was the op's friend I'd advise him to get as much as he wants out of the divorce and just stand back because I guarantee things aren't gonna go the way his wife wants DrManiac fucked around with this message at 15:08 on Jan 5, 2024 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Okay, now I need to see this Parrot Rating system. All parrots have the same rating, which is Too Loud
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Lottery of Babylon posted:Sagebrush is right that the guy is the weirdo creep who's the rear end in a top hat here, which makes it funnier that he's probably the author's Coldsteel the Boyfriend self-idealized OC. This person is the rear end in a top hat for continually calling COVID years "the panda".
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p-p-p-panda
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:Dante’s Inferno is a great example. But “my mother sold me to One Direction” is the greatest of them all
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ilmucche posted:what's their username? Literally I was thinking, "which one of you is this?" as I read it. And the answer is yes, you will have to accept that you will always be seen as a lovely person by these people because you were an immensely lovely person to them. People who think a simple apology resets anything drive me nuts.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:02 |
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Apologies are not inherently useless. If you are genuinely sorry, then it isn't meaningless to apologize. But as I've said time and time again, it doesn't make what you said and did un-happen. You can ask for forgiveness but you are not owed it and must accept the possibility you will not receive it.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:10 |
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Hopefully he's bringing this up in therapy for them to tell him the same thing. It's unfortunate that some people like this or in recovery reach a moment where they need to accept that fact or then they turn anyone that doesn't forgive and forget into the actual villain.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:12 |
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youknowthatoneguy posted:This person is the rear end in a top hat for continually calling COVID years "the panda". One of those things where they don't use the word for dumb reddit rule reasons and/or so they don't attract the cookers constantly searching any covid-related terms to descend upon the replies spewing hateful conspiracy nonsense about everything.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:44 |
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You can still hate it for sounding dumb
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:47 |
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at one point AITA actually had a rule saying that you couldn't mention the single largest current event in the entire world, so some posters got in the habit of calling it the panda or the panini or whatever stupid bullshit
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oof man idk why but the one where the guy's wife wants to go off and be her ex's second wife seems extra brutal to me
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Apologies are not inherently useless. If you are genuinely sorry, then it isn't meaningless to apologize. There's a level of forgiveness that means "I'm not holding a grudge and I'll stop telling people you're an rear end in a top hat every time your name comes up," but which still doesn't mean you want someone back in your life.
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Magic Hate Ball posted:Wife (36F) ruined my (38M) staycation and I'm trying not to lose it. This seems to happen to every one of my weeks off, too - wife works with her dad and she's pretty much free to do anything when he's on a business trip or playing golf, which almost always seems to coincide with my time off. Unlike this guy's wife however, she loves me and doesn't smother me on purpose. Vacations and bathroom visits are the only time in my life I get to myself, so when you're looking forward to that all month only to find the main reason you took a vacation at all is null and void, it's like a cold bucket of water being dumped on your head lol Ultimately though I try and take responsibility for my own mental health and try to be proactive about finding opportunities for solitude.
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# ? Jan 5, 2024 16:59 |
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AKA Pseudonym posted:She could have easily thought he'd be suspicious if he saw them. Quite the cunning little trap he laid for both she and himself. If her first assumption was that the flowers were from someone other than her boyfriend, there's already something shady going on. If she thinks her boyfriend would be suspicious of her for receiving flowers, there's also already something shady going on. If you get surprise flowers from your significant other and you think it's anything other than a nice romantic gesture, you should probably break up.
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kdrudy posted:Literally I was thinking, "which one of you is this?" as I read it. Even worse, it re-traumatizes the person who was injured and only serves to lessen the lovely feelings of the person apologizing. You were an rear end in a top hat. You got better, but you still were an rear end in a top hat and no amount of apologizing will make up for it. The next time you think about doing terrible things, you should remember how lovely you feel and how much those people you hurt still don't like you.
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tbf, the friend's parents who were cops deserved all the abuse they could get.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:One of those things where they don't use the word for dumb reddit rule reasons and/or so they don't attract the cookers constantly searching any covid-related terms to descend upon the replies spewing hateful conspiracy nonsense about everything. The Event https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aWSN5kaQ1oM
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