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hubris.height posted:love the future
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# ? Feb 5, 2024 21:41 |
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# ? May 24, 2024 16:11 |
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Counting down the days (payments) until we're done with daycare in May.
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# ? Feb 5, 2024 21:52 |
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My favorite daycare thing is where they post what they ate and how much of it they ate. Then I make what he likes for dinner and it doesn't get eaten.
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# ? Feb 5, 2024 22:12 |
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Our daycare has a live cam so my wife checks in a bunch during the day... daughter gets along fine and we're glad to see her forced to relate to other kids (she's the youngest so it's more like learning how to get out of other peoples' way) and overall it seems to be positive. She picks up on language and physical stuff like dancing from other kids. It's good.Vox Nihili posted:Dropped our kid off at daycare for the first time. Little guy can't even talk yet, it feels awful. I remember at the end of my parental leave thinking, "How can anyone possibly tolerate being away from their child all day!?" Now we despair every time there is a snow day or other closure that means we have to fill her whole day.
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# ? Feb 5, 2024 22:49 |
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Survived two plane flights with zero tantrums (but one poop and one puke on the plane, both of which are preferable to a tantrum)
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 01:19 |
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Went back to work (WFH, so not really) today Uhhhh, I didn't feel as guilty as I assumed I would
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 01:51 |
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Chad Sexington posted:I remember at the end of my parental leave thinking, "How can anyone possibly tolerate being away from their child all day!?" Now we despair every time there is a snow day or other closure that means we have to fill her whole day. We never did daycare but have been doing preschool since age 2 and driving away on the first day felt like I was doing something horrible that would get me thrown in prison
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 01:53 |
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Daycare owns, and the socialization is great. It only took like two weeks from the kid crying when we dropped her off to crying when we picked her up because she was interested in what she was doing.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 02:33 |
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What's the going tooth fairy rate these days?
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 02:49 |
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sliding scale based on how epic the removal was fell out at dinner? dollar knocked out skateboarding? that's five
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 02:51 |
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:What's the going tooth fairy rate these days? start small because there's gonna be a temptation to overdo it for the first tooth and then they'll expect that for all of them
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 03:47 |
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six year old daughter is old enough to have violent meltdown rage when something doesn’t go her way, not old enough to have a developed prefrontal cortex to have any kind of control over said rage she is now lecturing her stuffed wiener dog toy that he can’t be growling and biting all the time and has to learn to use his big dog brain
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 04:10 |
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my 2 year old put a blanket on me, brought me one of her cups ("milk") and read me stories this morning kids rule
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 05:26 |
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Vox Nihili posted:Dropped our kid off at daycare for the first time. Little guy can't even talk yet, it feels awful. Vox Nihili posted:Because it's a modern operation the daycare sends us photos of the kid looking absolutely miserable every 15 minutes or so just to make sure we know In the end he seemed to recover pretty well and didn't spend the entire day crying or anything, although he was certainly overjoyed to finally see us at 5. Hopefully by the end of the week it will just seem normal to him.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 05:56 |
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thanks for the double-tap, kid
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:17 |
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It was a bit funny ...
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:19 |
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Those kids love giving Daddy pig endless poo poo over his big round tummy
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:27 |
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my kid lifts up my shirt and says BELLY edit: it's not even that big.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:29 |
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lol owned
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:32 |
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Woke Mind Virus posted:my kid lifts up my shirt and says BELLY
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:32 |
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Woke Mind Virus posted:my kid lifts up my shirt and says BELLY My kid's favoritest thing in the world is bellies, always has been. We'll be out in public somewhere and she'll go BELLY! and lift up one of our shirts to bury her face in it
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:37 |
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my kid was never in daycare before kindergarten and was pretty much isolated from other kids her age with a few exceptions from 2020-2022 for obvious reasons and i was worried about her socialization based on all these parents freaking out about it guess what she's been in full day kindergarten for a half year and she's been completely fine and was on the same level as every other kid in about a week
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:39 |
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peppa pig is banned in my home for body negativity
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:39 |
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Reliving the "Peppa Pig causing American kids to develop posh British accents" experience in my house with Jojo and Gran Gran.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:42 |
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I can't believe how I went from all about career/academic life to quiet quitting and doing the bare minimum at work so I can just be with family. Never envisioned that poo poo when I was younger but maybe it helps that my 5 yo is so much fun to hang out with. I've been climbing with with him since he was 3 yo and last week, he climbed a total of 1100 ft (4 days at the climbing gym) including his first v1 (no rope climb). My body cant even keep up with him any more and is so sore, but he can keeps going without need any recovery period. I cannot imagine what he will be like in a few years. Defined more in shape than his potato faced dad (his new description for me).
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 20:54 |
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RBC posted:my kid was never in daycare before kindergarten and was pretty much isolated from other kids her age with a few exceptions from 2020-2022 for obvious reasons and i was worried about her socialization based on all these parents freaking out about it These people who said their kids developed x problem due to the pandemic are telling on themselves. I had some kooky grandma tell me randomly in a coffee shop her grandson had speech problems due to the lockdown while my kids speak three languages. Whose fault is that lady? My little guy got his report card for pre-school and he’s very well socialized per the school, learning English and his 3rd language well, and doing great overall. The only comment was he prefers construction toys to coloring with crayons…duh?? He loves construction vehicles and drawing but prefer the former, he’s 3.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:07 |
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Speech problems could also be due to developmental issues, and might not be anyone's fault in particular
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:09 |
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I haven't momshamed or dadshamed anybody yet. But, when I do, I am confident my kids will be worthy of me being smug.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:12 |
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my daughter went on at length about what a hairy man I am while on the plane yesterday much hairier than her or mommy and so forth
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:24 |
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on sunday i cooked a big pot of food for the whole family, my son wanted nothing to do with it (its chicken and rice! very inoffensive meal imo) and yesterday i was telling him that it hurts my feelings when he won't even try my food and he said "just cook something better that i like daddy". owned.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:31 |
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loquacius posted:my daughter went on at length about what a hairy man I am while on the plane yesterday I've been meaning to tell you
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:43 |
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Glumwheels posted:These people who said their kids developed x problem due to the pandemic are telling on themselves. we asked the kindergarten teacher about socialization and she was like... yeah kids this age don't really socialize. they play next to one another. they're not gossiping about timmy not being potty trained yet. guess who is though
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:45 |
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RBC posted:my kid was never in daycare before kindergarten and was pretty much isolated from other kids her age with a few exceptions from 2020-2022 for obvious reasons and i was worried about her socialization based on all these parents freaking out about it have this similar story and it was a huge relief that she seemed to adapt so well to all those new people after years of just seeing family and kids at parks
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:51 |
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but her bestie (???) has been making problems, like cutting her hair in class the first week of school, and trying to push her yesterday, and no one played with her at recess poor girl had a rough go of it but today was a new day
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 21:53 |
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just_a_person posted:I can't believe how I went from all about career/academic life to quiet quitting and doing the bare minimum at work so I can just be with family. Never envisioned that poo poo when I was younger but maybe it helps that my 5 yo is so much fun to hang out with. Yeah my workplace is wildly dysfunctional, leadership folks doing every wrong thing, blocking people from moving up or doing anything good. It sucks but... it's so much easier to disengage and just be a parent. Timing kind of worked out well and I'm glad for it.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 22:07 |
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Glumwheels posted:These people who said their kids developed x problem due to the pandemic are telling on themselves. If one’s kids had real disabilities it was nearly impossible to get services during the pandemic. The pandemic basically delayed getting a neurophysiological diagnosis and a good IEP for my son by several years. It’s not really over, even now. Parents of kids with actual disabilities basically got abandoned by our systems. SPS is a good example of really really hosed up on that front during the pandemic.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 22:10 |
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Son of Thunderbeast posted:Those kids love giving Daddy pig endless poo poo over his big round tummy We had a bathtime a couple weeks back where the kids kept yelling "Dad, dad, dad..." while I was downstairs. I grandly came upstairs and demanded "who summons me?" The 7yo was like "ooh, the god of big bellies!" Ouch.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 22:36 |
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KirbyKhan posted:Reliving the "Peppa Pig causing American kids to develop posh British accents" experience in my house with Jojo and Gran Gran. My youngest still has it, and she stopped watching Peppa years ago. I don't think it will ever go away.
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 22:51 |
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Peppa's fine, it's the paw patrol you need to watch out for
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# ? Feb 6, 2024 22:53 |
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paw patrol is also fine
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