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07:32 - finding myself - some italian strange edit
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 15:50 |
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# ? Jun 8, 2024 09:38 |
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lol “finding yourself” goes at least as far back as leaving your wife on the day your child is baptized to go across the country and become an Artist, in 1976. Ask me how I know. The hippies were a mistake.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 15:57 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I would absolutely pull 'when you get to be my age on him' if I had a twin who was twenty minutes younger than me. I know its from a little far back, but I do have a twin that's 20 minutes younger than me and I pull it on him all the time. It's great!
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 15:58 |
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selec posted:lol “finding yourself” goes at least as far back as leaving your wife on the day your child is baptized to go across the country and become an Artist, in 1976. Ask me how I know. The hippies were a mistake. I feel like this is a reference to someone or something famous, but I'm missing the reference.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:04 |
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AITAH for wanting to divorce my wife because she got a reduction?quote:
Babe your disgusting b-cups, scars, and desire to control your own body are giving me the ick and violating my boundaries of you not being a hot piece of rear end. You are creating an abusive gaslighting dynamic that violates my autonomy.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:07 |
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Nevermind
Chin Strap fucked around with this message at 16:19 on Apr 15, 2024 |
# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:15 |
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he is way too caught up on the 'you let other people affect our relationship' thing, it's clear it wasn't just random dudes but a way she felt about her body in general but the buried lede is that she got a major surgery that costs money, like 5-10k, and wasn't covered by insurance, and will set them back on their life goals (like buying a house) without discussing it with him StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 16:21 on Apr 15, 2024 |
# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:16 |
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I want a divorce because you keep forcing me to be a huge piece of poo poo, and it’s making me look bad. I can’t live with this abuse any longer
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:17 |
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Also lol at the constant “my b-cup wife looks like a flat-chested boy!!!!” poo poo, what a fuckin weirdo
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:21 |
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He has no idea how much he's telling on himself with "She's doing this for strangers" when she's doing it for herself. If anything she's doing it so strangers don't bother her.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:23 |
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I was confused what you were talking about then I looked up what OP has been posting and welp. Nevermind. Any high ground he had, he's cededquote:Spoke to the lawyer today so I won't have to be a part of the Itty bitty titty committee for to much longer lol.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:26 |
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StrangersInTheNight posted:he is way too caught up on the 'you let other people affect our relationship' thing, it's clear it wasn't just random dudes but a way she felt about her body in general Normally yeah but if this was my husband I would not tell him poo poo. It’s covered in the first post, that she did but waited until it was close because she knew he would freak out. Can’t violate his boundaries Butter Activities fucked around with this message at 16:31 on Apr 15, 2024 |
# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:27 |
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I do NOT consent to create joinder with your booblets, I am an rear end in a top hat Upon The Land and the gold fringe on your scars clearly signifies that admiraltatas rules don't apply
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:40 |
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a total rear end in a top hat posted:The constant pushing of my boundaries during sex. I haaaaaate it when someone uses the language of therapy (for lack of a single word/better term) to twist a story into being all about them. The way he presents his story comes off like he cares a lot more about her tits than the communication aspects of their marriage. His feelings are valid mind you, but he’s still an rear end and divorce is the kindest thing he can do.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:45 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:
Yes, all those children with B cups. What???!! What world does this weirdo live in? Can I blame anime for this? I'm gonna blame anime for this.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:48 |
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I dunno about you guys but if my wife got expensive, uncovered, elective surgery without talking to me about it first I'd be pretty pissed Unfortunately the OP is a dick, so any legitimate grievance he has is null and void I guess
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 16:48 |
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Kurieg posted:AITA for refusing to pay for my girlfriend's plane ticket after she decided to stay longer on her trip without me? She's going to find an Italian plumber who can lay some pipe for her.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:01 |
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Tijuana-A-Go-Go posted:I dunno about you guys but if my wife got expensive, uncovered, elective surgery without talking to me about it first I'd be pretty pissed If it was about the expense, sure. But it isn't. It's about how her having a body she's comfortable wearing doesn't make his wiener hard.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:15 |
Bonster posted:If it was about the expense, sure. But it isn't. It's about how her having a body she's comfortable wearing doesn't make his wiener hard. Edit: I'm dumb and read this as "If it was expensive, sure. But it isn't." Sorry, sleep-deprived. Lager fucked around with this message at 17:32 on Apr 15, 2024 |
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:21 |
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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:His feelings are valid mind you, but he’s still an rear end and divorce is the kindest thing he can do. I agree with you but there's some irony in calling the big sad booby enjoyed valid. Edit: I think he should be forced to shave his head and be exiled from his state
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:25 |
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the holy poopacy posted:"babe give me several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation starting right this second" mystes posted:Her "extending" the trip without him is no different from her taking another, separate trip without him. Why is it his responsibility to pay for that when it's something she's arranging on her own without his involvement? In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. It's his responsibility because he got her over there in the first place with a promise that he'd pay for the return trip. If he just said 'take it or leave it' on the original ticket then I'd have no problem, but what he wrote implies to me that he said 'oh, you thought of a different plan? fine I'm canceling your way home entirely' which is him backing out of a promise. quote:If I take a cruise but then get off at a random island part way through to "find myself" for a couple weeks is it the job of the cruise country to pay for me to get home some other way? It's more like if I go on a business trip where they'll pay for me to fly and stay out somewhere Monday-Friday, and I decide to move the plane flight back to Sunday to stay longer, or a week to use up some of my vacation. I'd be paying for wherever I stay and whatever I do, but they'll still pay for the ticket as long as I don't make it cost more or pay whatever extra cost there is in moving the ticket later. Or maybe it's like if I go on a cruise, I talk about doing another week of cruise, and the cruise company says 'lolno' and strands me on an island rather than letting me take the return leg of the cruise we had already agreed on. The 'removing the return ticket when she talked about staying longer' (which is only implied in the original) is the piece that's controlling to me. Pantaloon Pontiff fucked around with this message at 17:35 on Apr 15, 2024 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:AITAH for wanting to divorce my wife because she got a reduction? It's good that she's finding out that this is the situation (husband married and values her primarily for her pre-op looks) before she has kids or gets old, two things that are known to generally change your body permanently. I hope she finds someone who actually loves her next time. Based on comments the husband is making elsewhere on Reddit, he ties up a lot of his self worth and identity in having sexual access to a large breasted woman. I suspect the actual woman is mostly irrelevant to this core need of his, so divorce will be best for both of them. Hilarious that along the way though they are talking past each other as wife thinks her husband married her because he loved her as a person, whereas husband views wife through a lens of at least partial ownership and has no respect for her personhood whatsoever. Oops. Next time I hope husband makes his fetish and its role as the bedrock of his idea of marriage prior to actually marrying someone, but we all know he won't (or whatever woman he gets to marry him will think he doesn't like, MEAN IT mean it, though, that would be crazy and marry him anyway... and the cycle continues) Rainbow Unicorn fucked around with this message at 17:36 on Apr 15, 2024 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. You're arguing the equivalent of taking a date to a restaurant and they decide to order half the menu because you said you'd pay. There's a thing called "reasonable expectation" EDIT: Oh, you can go ahead and go home, I'm just going to stay here at the bar for a few hours. Oh, and keep your tab open, thanks.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:35 |
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She told him on the last day and apparently did not even know when she would be returning, so I don’t see how he could have rescheduled her ticket even if he was somehow obligated to eat the “token fee” and could find a flight at the same price. She absolutely made her bed on that one.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:39 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. Take the L
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:40 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. Hell yeah dude
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:40 |
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why dont' you "find yourself" out of this thread
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:42 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:It's his responsibility because he got her over there in the first place with a promise that he'd pay for the return trip. If he just said 'take it or leave it' on the original ticket then I'd have no problem, but what he wrote implies to me that he said 'oh, you thought of a different plan? fine I'm canceling your way home entirely' which is him backing out of a promise. yeah i get that. it'd be hard to do n the last day, but it wouldn't be unreasonable to do. the relationship is COOKED though that's done forever.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:45 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. quote:I said I wouldn’t be paying for her new return ticket whenever she decides to come back. Now, she's upset, calling me unsupportive and selfish, and some of our friends are saying I'm being an a-hole because I left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:48 |
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Leave Pantaloon Pontiff alone!!!!!!!
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:In what's posted (I didn't track the story down so there may be something different in comments on the original) there's no mention of her wanting 'several thousand dollars for a solo European vacation' or for him to pay anything more than he's already paid. She's just moving the date on a plane ticket back, which AFAIK doesn't is usually just a token fee for rescheduling, not a new ticket cost (if this is actually a 'thousands of dollars' change then never mind my original take). Also my read of "left her stranded in a foreign country without financial help" is that he canceled the existing ticket when she talked about changing the plan, not just that he refused to pay for a new ticket. The post is written in a way that doesn't clearly answer the question whether it was impossible to change the ticket or whether it would have been possible but he still cancelled it to be vindictive, so depending on the situation your take could be correct.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:48 |
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You offered to take me on a date, but I'd actually like to go on a date with someone else. Can you simply move the dinner reservation to another date, still pay, and of course not show up? It's just moving the date so it won't cost you any more than you already planned to spend, stop being so controlling.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:51 |
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let's all chip in and buy her a ticket so she can hook up with all the italian men she wants edit: Baronjutter posted:You offered to take me on a date, but I'd actually like to go on a date with someone else. Can you simply move the dinner reservation to another date, still pay, and of course not show up? It's just moving the date so it won't cost you any more than you already planned to spend, stop being so controlling. you're really stretching the metaphor here and being dumb
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:51 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:AITAH for wanting to divorce my wife because she got a reduction? The OP's word choices here made me laugh: quote:Not only is that take reductive as hell, but it's also flat out incorrect.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:53 |
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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I'm glad that this thread has alerted me that Pink Floyd's The Wall was an alt-right album. Side 4 is basically about the alt-right. AITA for separating my dad from his loved ones over a cancer scare? quote:I (F28) am currently planning my son's first birthday party, which is set to take place next month. I am quite excited for this milestone, but when I phoned my dad (M 55) to ask if my suggested date for the party would suit him, he asked if we could have an in-person discussion. Just an innocent little oopsie-whoopsie.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:53 |
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Any attempt to influence another person's behavior is control and must be avoided at all costs.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:54 |
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Baronjutter posted:You offered to take me on a date, but I'd actually like to go on a date with someone else. Can you simply move the dinner reservation to another date, still pay, and of course not show up? It's just moving the date so it won't cost you any more than you already planned to spend, stop being so controlling. You're on a date with me. The pickings have been lush. And yet before this evening is over, you might give me the brush???? YTA
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:55 |
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I need to know how big the tits/dicks in this situation are before I can make any decisions about whose boundaries are violated.
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# ? Apr 15, 2024 17:55 |
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Hispanic! At The Disco posted:The OP's word choices here made me laugh: I legit did a double take at that line.
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Bonster posted:If it was about the expense, sure. But it isn't. It's about how her having a body she's comfortable wearing doesn't make his wiener hard. Do you not think sexual compatibility is important? I'm sure she knew how much he loved her big jugs and didn't like scars and she should have known reducing her big boobs and getting scars would impact their sexual compatibility. The dude comes off as a dick but he shouldn't be shamed for not being aroused by someone anymore? She did what she had to do for herself and good for her, I hope they both find people they're more compatible with.
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