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i've been told the thing i do with the people i date where I get something and we trade halves of our food is off putting.
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Ominous Jazz posted:i've been told the thing i do with the people i date where I get something and we trade halves of our food is off putting. well do you trade it before or after eating it
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Apr 16, 2024 13:53
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Ominous Jazz posted:i've been told the thing i do with the people i date where I get something and we trade halves of our food is off putting. I find this conceptually off putting because as a general rule if I go somewhere where you order single plates then I want the thing I order, not half of it and half of something someone else wanted. What you're doing is tapas only worse.
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Apr 16, 2024 13:58
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Fil5000 posted:I find this conceptually off putting because as a general rule if I go somewhere where you order single plates then I want the thing I order, not half of it and half of something someone else wanted. What you're doing is tapas only worse. but then you can have two things
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Apr 16, 2024 14:06
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Ominous Jazz posted:but then you can have two things If I wanted two things, Id open up the
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Apr 16, 2024 14:08
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i probably should have figured out i was bisexual earlier
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Apr 16, 2024 14:10
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Yeah what the hell, I don't want two things. I want the entire thing I ordered.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:11
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Mx. posted:Fiancée F23 wants to call off wedding because because I 26M would save my 3YO niece before her dogs in a hypothetical fire… how can I explain to her my reasoning? It's good when the "this person is a loving loon" moments happen before marriage, kids, and such, as it makes the inevitable breakup much easier.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:13
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Watching this thread learn in real time that things that work for some people don't work for all people, inspiring
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Apr 16, 2024 14:13
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Rat Patrol posted:Watching this thread learn in real time that things that work for some people don't work for all people, inspiring No, the thread is learning that some people have perverse and WRONG opinions on dining out.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:17
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Fil5000 posted:I find this conceptually off putting because as a general rule if I go somewhere where you order single plates then I want the thing I order, not half of it and half of something someone else wanted. What you're doing is tapas only worse. ... Then don't do the splitting thing? I've dated a couple people where we would do this and it was always because we wanted to try both things and talked about it while ordering. Some people have a hard boundary around their food and how it makes them feel when someone eats off their plate, but the idea that this is offputting to other people is just kind of nosy and "mind your own business" territory if the people involved are enjoying themselves.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:18
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AITA for being conflicted about lending my boyfriend a huge sum of money?quote:As stated in the title, I'm a bit conflicted about lending my boyfriend a huge sum of money. what... makes you think he's trustworthy
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Apr 16, 2024 14:18
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Rat Patrol posted:Watching this thread learn in real time that things that work for some people don't work for all people, inspiring No! I am the protagonist of life, my way is the only correct way!
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Apr 16, 2024 14:23
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house of the dad posted:... Then don't do the splitting thing? I've dated a couple people where we would do this and it was always because we wanted to try both things and talked about it while ordering. Some people have a hard boundary around their food and how it makes them feel when someone eats off their plate, but the idea that this is offputting to other people is just kind of nosy and "mind your own business" territory if the people involved are enjoying themselves. I'll level with you, house of the dad. I was being hyperbolic because I thought it would be funny. The truth is I couldn't give a poo poo if ominous jazz splits his food.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:25
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and i will and you'll watch and support me
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Apr 16, 2024 14:29
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Ominous Jazz posted:and i will and you'll watch and support me 
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Apr 16, 2024 14:35
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Mx. posted:[b]AITA for being pissed off our kitchen flooded? If only there had been sinks for IDK a hundred years (possibly more, I'm not a sinkologist) that made flooding the kitchen like this impossible. (Yeah yeah I know it's communism to mandate such things.)
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Apr 16, 2024 14:36
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BOOTY-ADE posted:Couple just casually eating a burrito from each end like Lady & the Tramp I had the visual of a couple just going fuckin hungry hungry hippos on a whole kebab anyway, content to make up for my lovely age gap one from last night AITA for using my family’s Montana ranch for a corporate retreat without asking? quote:Throwaway because I'm scared someone will find my reddit.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:41
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Mx. posted:Fiancée F23 wants to call off wedding because because I 26M would save my 3YO niece before her dogs in a hypothetical fire… how can I explain to her my reasoning? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SY7kx-ir6Ag
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Apr 16, 2024 14:41
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Fil5000 posted:I find this conceptually off putting because as a general rule if I go somewhere where you order single plates then I want the thing I order, not half of it and half of something someone else wanted. What you're doing is tapas only worse. Bad tapas > no tapas 
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Apr 16, 2024 14:41
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WIBTA if I tell my wife she has to be honest with me?quote:
20 years of gaslighting and abuse OP you should divorce her!
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Apr 16, 2024 14:43
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Mx. posted:well do you trade it before or after eating it Just mama birding half of each bite to your partner.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:46
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and then she put her hair up in a ponytail but didnt
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Apr 16, 2024 14:46
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Mx. posted:AITA for being conflicted about lending my boyfriend a huge sum of money? He could very well be trustworthy but it sounds like none of them (except for her, to a point) know you shouldn’t shovel money you can’t afford to lose into a failing business. What happens when she owns half the house or whatever and the business fails anyhow? Her only recourse to get paid is to force them to sell their home if that’s even an option when you’re a partial owner in their country. It’s technically a secured loan but not really. The second option after she refused that is completely unsecured and an absolutely terrible idea.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:47
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quote:Then she realized what was happening and didn't say anything else. I know this sounds like a slam dunk. She realized what was happening was me be about to be extremely normal. I froze. Butter Activities fucked around with this message at 14:51 on Apr 16, 2024 |
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Apr 16, 2024 14:48
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:WIBTA if I tell my wife she has to be honest with me? he's actually married to Inspector Clouseau, who was trying to tell him about the time a sinister guy delivered a message
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Apr 16, 2024 14:49
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:WIBTA if I tell my wife she has to be honest with me? I guess OP is reading it as her acting guilty because she felt like she was cheating by getting a massage or something? If that was actually the case then maybe OP would not be the rear end in a top hat but that seems like a weird conclusion to jump to based on what is actually described in the post. Either way this seems like a problem that could have been averted if OP had simply asked her to explain rather than immediately getting angry mystes fucked around with this message at 15:00 on Apr 16, 2024 |
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Apr 16, 2024 14:52
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Also I clicked his account and his other post was about a banal conversation with his GF. Figured it was an obviously faked account but I’m pretty sure it’s real, he posts in swinger/poly related subreddits. Wonder what his favorite way to eat cheese is.
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Apr 16, 2024 14:59
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the holy poopacy posted:he's actually married to Inspector Clouseau, who was trying to tell him about the time a sinister guy delivered a message I froze when I read this
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:AITAH for wanting to divorce my wife because she got a reduction?
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Apr 16, 2024 15:12
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mystes posted:It sounds like OP's wife had some sort of traumatic experience with a massage (that probably involved some form of sexual assault or something) and didn't want more massages after that, and she finally felt ready to talk about what happened and OP is mad at her for "lying" this is how I read it too and it's why so many folks don't reveal abuse. because so often the not wanting to discuss it right out the gate becomes accusations of lying, or someone actually ends up getting butthurt that you 'kept something' from them and makes it about them and how your not telling them about your assault is a reflection on the trust level in your relationship (which they've just successfully torpedoed) this guy is a grade-A jackass misusing therapy language and I wish him a very 'I hope your car gets viciously keyed' day
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:It sounds like none of them (except for her, to a point) know you shouldn’t shovel money you can’t afford to lose into a failing business. It's almost as if the bank won't lend her the money because they don't believe she will be able to pay it back! The nerve!
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Apr 16, 2024 15:13
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What kind of café is it?
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Apr 16, 2024 15:28
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Dog heelys cafe
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Apr 16, 2024 15:30
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brunch tomb
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Dog heelys cafe
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StrangersInTheNight posted:this is how I read it too and it's why so many folks don't reveal abuse. because so often the not wanting to discuss it right out the gate becomes accusations of lying, or someone actually ends up getting butthurt that you 'kept something' from them and makes it about them and how your not telling them about your assault is a reflection on the trust level in your relationship (which they've just successfully torpedoed) This one is especially egregious because his logic is that she was lying about not being interested in a massage... because she already had had one and therefore had to be interested in massages, which could only mean she was up to something shady by pretending she didn't want a massage!
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Apr 16, 2024 15:40
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Love being asked to throw my inheritance into a burning pit of money by my partner and his mother.
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Apr 16, 2024 15:43
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:He could very well be trustworthy but it sounds like none of them (except for her, to a point) know you shouldn’t shovel money you can’t afford to lose into a failing business. $30k offering to repay $300/month would take over 8 years, just for the principal, even if you don’t consider interest, never miss a payment, etc. That’s a crazy long period to “loan” money; longer than a car loan.
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keep punching joe posted:Love being asked to throw my inheritance into a burning pit of money by my partner and his mother. What, everyone knows restaurants get along just fine after their first little debt hurdle, it'll be chugging along and OP will get all their money back in no time over the next decade!
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